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And Ronaldo almost only contributes goals to his team these days. If he's the 16th best at that then he's being bang average to say the least. But some still live in the illusion that he's one of the world's best.

Such a media creation.

franchasng:
UK only tighten visa policy for broke, struggling migrants.

Politicians and business moguls enter London everyday and the Mugu Boyfriend is usually a big shot who UK immigration can never refuse a visa unless UK want to crash London economy to ashes

This post is literally (referring to the geographical location that is Britain) and metaphorically (a female, who is open for business only with the well to do) correct.

Underrated comment

Horror themed*

corpershun:
For a man you talk to much.

Do well to grant her, her wishes...you will be the one to lose in the long run. Many ladies nowadays especially slay queens want to be like Tiwa and Tonto. You think she cares about you, her friends will even give her a surprise divorce shower.

So many people have given you advice on how to tame her and bring her back to her senses but you keep talking about putting her away.

How sure are you that the next wife won’t be worse cos I know you will still make same mistake. Go take a look at majority that divorce, their second marriages also crash.

I think you are the one suffering from midlife crises...Be a Man, talk less and Act More.

At the age you married you had explored and seen it all but she married really young and maybe has the mindset that once she’s done with childbirth she will go back to slaying.

It’s your duty as the BrideGroom to groom your Bride into a Wife. But you failed! You left her as a Bride.

Grow some balls, you are 43!!!

I really enjoy how you guys spin things around here. Impressive how you managed to make the op look like the bad guy in all this and how you turned a blind eye to the part where he said she's flirty.

But, yeah, let's dwell on the less important things like Op "talks too much for a man". Whatever that means.

All deserving

iLegendd:
Your story can actually be turned to a book to warn the youth. If you write your entire story down, I'll pay you to own the right. Your spelling and grammar is sound.

Op is a bright lad. He's just psychologically and emotionally unstable, I hate to say that. I mean he'd come up with a number of threads where he sounded regretful about his actions only to fail to heed to the sound advice that were given to him.

He needs professional help.

Cc ChildofDoom.

olabrinks:
Not strictly because they can’t find a man who won’t sleep with them for free, it’s simply a choice. Mind you, it’s a rare circumstance and most women who search will have many men offering to sleep with them with no qualms regardless of age, shape, colour or background. Finding love is the problem.

Ah, so women are the gatekeepers of sex while men are the gatekeepers of commitment (love). Pretty fair if you ask me.

BTW, women paying men for sex isn't as rare as you seem to think.

olabrinks:
They are looking for love not sex. That’s the difference.

No, there are women that pay men (gigolos) to have sex with them not necessarily love them. You find them in major cities (Lagos, Abuja) here in Nigeria.

olabrinks:
If a woman wants to collect from outside, she doesn’t have to look like Beyoncé. A woman offering sex will have 50 men in line waiting to get the opportunity, fat, slim, curvy, or shapeless Men on the other hand must have something attached to them for just one woman to sleep with him.

Really?

Why then do women (mostly those that have lost their beauty and youth) pay men to have sex with them? Why do women in the west still fall for love scams?

ULSHERLAN:
Atleast we now know the limit.

55times is the limit/day.

cheers

Fair play to you. You are a half glass full kinda guy. I respect a man who learns a lesson or two in the gloomiest of situations.

Martinez39:
That's what happens when men become weak; put women on the pedestal; reward women just for being women; and make women their equals in intellect, virtue and morality. Let them rot. Haven't you seen men willing to throw other men under the bus just for female validation and attention? Ever wondered why MGTOW started over there?

Another theory is that the good times in the west, the prosperity they have enjoyed (and are still enjoying) gave rise to these weak men.

Martinez39:
In the US, if a female teacher has sex with a male minor, the minor will pay child support when they come of age. These male victims are usually working more jobs to cover up the cost in addition to the student loan on their neck.

In the US, even when it is proven that you are a victim of paternity fraud, you are still made responsible for the child. They cover this injustice and gynocentric privilege with "we have to do what's best for the child".

In the US divorce court, if your wife says you are an abusive husband and you sexually molested your child, she will be automatically believed and she will get custody of the kids and, if she wants, a restraining order against the father. These fathers will then have to go to anger management classes(an institution filled with annoying feminists. ).

In the US, women get way lower jail time compared to men for the same crime.

In the US, if you can't pay child support or alimony because you don't have the means to, you will go to prison. Lmao. How will that solve anything? In many divorces, the woman gets to keep the man's home even if it means the man being homeless. Need I remind you that the man will have to pay for his wife's legal fees? Lmao.

Can you imagine giving half your net worth(50-60%), your properties, alimony(30-50% of your salary) and child support to a woman just like that? Mind you, they don't determine what money is enough or sufficient for the woman. They just fix an amount and percentage.

Prenuptial agreements are prenuptial agreements until the court decides that it's not.

Socially, society is tilted against men.

I could keep on going on and on but no time Mr. Landlord. Any stupid moniker trying to shove bullish!t and lies down my throat is not worthy of a response.

I genuinely can't seem to wrap my head around how those men decided to create a system that basically screws them.

Martinez39:
Our politicians are patriarchal unlike the beta simps in the US. Trump, the great white hope, is one of the few alphas in the US. Good day.

Just about the only thing we got right; ensuring women in this part aren't overly empowered. Women can't handle power, they will abuse it: see "madam" vs house girl/boy relationship in Nigeria for reference.

Women lack empathy, they only feign it.

Regiomontanus:
In the US, look at what their men are facing because they couldn't put their women in their place. Divorce laws, Alimony laws, too much money than necessary in child support, believing women without evidence and convicting men of rape, women serve lower times in jail, and other gynocentric laws and privileges, feminism, #metoo etc.

Do you know that in divorce courts in the US, you wife has automatic custody of the kids? Women are believed without evidence during divorce proceedings if they claim you are an abusive father and husband and you sexually molested your kid? As I have said, the greatest mistake men made was thinking that women are their equals in intellect, morality and virtues. Many men are still making that mistake hence they are surprised when their "perfect" wife and girlfriends misbehaves during hard times. For this same reason, many men are deeply surprised when that girl, girlfriend or female friend accuses them of rape.

In the US, when they compared women's vote to men's votes, they found out that if women's vote determined the results, the US will be in trouble. Most women want the welfare state (the very thing that has destroyed black Americans), socialism, abortion (even killing a baby at 9 months. Talk about nurturing), open borders, reparations etc.

It is also known in the US that an all female company will collapse. Show me one all female top company headed by women from CEO to staff that is standing. If men can't be strong, they will suffer.

Not an ounce of sympathy for those simps over there in the US and the west in general. Motherfukkers handed their balls to their women and now even dogs and cats have more rights than them. They should live with it.

MrJoshBaba:
Messi is a victim of his standard. So, no treble, no party for Messi...yeah, that's the reality

You can say that again. Anyone not named Messi with the stat below would easily win every individual award available.

"Messi's final 18-19 stats
He won the European Golden Shoe for the sixth time in his career, scoring 36 goals in La Liga.

In all competitions, the 31-year-old scored 51 goals in in 49 matches, and also contributed 19 assists'

PR7 shouldn't be on the list

She looks like Sheeva of mortal kombat

naturalwaves:
See backup .
What a sissy!The moment you posted, I know you follow her and I was not surprised .

Simps can't be saved. Gender traitors I call them.

Great show.

How I wish Zain African challenge can make a come back.

HealingHeart:
OK, but the point of the original post is that young men who keep failing with women are often advised that they can turn the tables by becoming 'alpha males'. If a woman doesn't find a man's face, height or physique to meet her standard, becoming an alpha male won't help him.

Or you can become really successful and end up with young beauties, no matter your physical deficiencies. Ned, Oshiomole, etc all ended up with stunning women (OK, Regina not so much ) they definitely would never had a chance with simply because the made a success out of their lives.

HealingHeart:
You can only make money. You can't change your looks.

Some hit the gene Jack pot. They've got the looks, they are talented and make tons of money off this talent, leadership also comes natural to them.

My point is one can be very good looking and still be an alpha. The two are not mutually exclusive.

You can be both...

Look up Sergio Ramos for reference

olawooro:
Now it is strange thing. If this had happened in Nigeria, your lot would have been cursing black race.

Shior.

The self hate is real on here.

A good number of guys these days are just red pilled (seeing through the lies and manipulations of women) not necessarily alpha males. Alpha males are usually just a tiny fraction of any male population. The remaining are usually betas and omegas, which is not necessarily a bad thing as far as I'm concerned, as long as you are red pilled.

WTF LMAO

Totally speechless.

Safitu:
Hustle and make money so you will not be using graphs and pictures to argue on top of the obvious. I’m out.

Graphs and pictures, just simple, fun illustration of facts and data (things you tend not to deal with. It's been all about how you feel, your emotions, all day).

Here's another picture:

Safitu:
Beauty comes, women take advantage of it and live good. They invest and make something out of it.
Men will stay broke from young adulthood to old age. Thinking they have all the time in the world and still dying broke after everything. Only 20% make it. Goodluck arguing, the poor shall remain poor talking . Whilst the rich shall climb higher by taking action.

Nah, they don't. Most make the wrong choices, turn down good guys because they aren't millionaires at 25, fuckkkk around with thugs and lowlifes and before you know viola, they hit the wall. Bitterness follows.

Be that as it may, even a broke dude will eventually be better than you, give it time. LMAO

FROGMAN101:
Haha. Ding dong!

Men hit it but much much later in life.
Bros, don't let anyone pressure you or broke shame you. The wall hit them all.

FROGMAN101:
Fountainofdumbass I was referring to how women didn’t participate in the FACE APP challenge cause they are afraid of getting old. Women know they have just now. They are afraid of the wall.

Men don’t give a damn about the “inevitable”... Men don’t dread the “inevitable”.

That’s what I meant, fountainofdumbass.

The wall. The great equalizer.

Safitu:
You’re using a graph to make you feel better. Better go and look around you. Ask yourself how many 45 year old men are being chased by women? At 45 can you easily go and toast any woman without issues?
A 26 and 46 year old man, who are the women most likely to drool over Please go and sit down, you are delusional.

Safitu, I just went through this post of yours again and I saw the emboldened.

Fair enough a 26 year old is a much more appealing specimen than a 45 year old but you, Safitu, have made it a point of duty, with almost every comment of yours, to have everyone on this forum believe that money is a huge decisive factor for women when it comes to choosing a mate.

Now, if we are being honest with ourselves, we will agree that on average, 45 year olds are financially better off than men in their 20s. I mean here in Nigeria, men in their mid twenties are just about starting life; they are usually new entrants in companies if they are lucky or job seekers. Men in their 40s on the other hand are CEO's, high ranking civil servants etc. Of course there are outliers; some younger men doing very well while some older men are still struggling.

The graph I posted earlier is a perfect representation of the average SMVs of both genders. I know you want to WIN every argument but it's actually difficult to argue against facts.

Safitu:
You’re using a graph to make you feel better. Better go and look around you. Ask yourself how many 45 year old men are being chased by women? At 45 can you easily go and toast any woman without issues? A 26 and 46 year old man, who are the women most likely to drool over ? Please go and sit down, you are delusional.

This is your opinion. Mine is just to post facts based on research. I expect you to counter that with another fact, not throw around words all over the place.

You really are the deluded one here.

tensazangetsu20:
A man's sexual marketplace value only peaks at 35 to 45 if you have built enough wealth for yourself. If you are still poor and broke you rank low on the sexual marketplace.

Very true. Hence the advice, men should invest in themselves at their younger age.