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We can't totally rule out the fact that words like these have contributed to the recent upsurge of crime rates in our society.

Being broke isn't a crime, folks. Stop the ridiculing.

Ayoolajumoke:
Yes sir

How are you?

@op, admitting it's a problem is half way to the solution.

You can help yourself by being knowledgeable in any topic of interest to you and hang around people that share this interest. For example, I might be an introvert but I can go on discussing football for hours.

spoilt kids..

While millions of people live on a dollar per day, these overpaid schmucks whose combined weekly salaries is enough to feed a small country are beefing each other over penalty taking duty.

A totally unfair World.

lovebless:
this pathetic, because am facing same challenge, she don't know how to say sorry. back to dating period, I took all blame just to carry on because I love her and fear of losing her, I patched it through.
we are married now 5 years has gone by, it getting worse day by day.
she so Good at pointing out my mistakes and expect me to say sorry, which at times I reluctantly do. the worst of it all is, tell her she wronged you, she won't give a dammed instead she would be mocking you, even when I showed her in my attitude that am not happy with her, then she will tell you like I care. this hurts me bitterly even considering divorce because she can never change. I blamed my self for my wick ness during the courtship now she is the jagaban of the house even lord over her body.
this matter is serious, she sees me as toothless dog, if she even do it romantically I will understand is love all end on bed but her case is authoritative with so much gut and audacity, it so disgusting.

Sorry to hear about your predicament, bro. I totally know how it feels cos I've been there.

In my case I ran without looking back. No time man.

ashatoda:
simple as ABC. quit the marriage. a woman that claims her man as never done anything for her will never be satisfied. she is a source of embarrassment to the husband she is out to ridicule him before friends and family they manufacture lies and heinous stories about the man. she will always make comparison with other men and try to tell him he is a failure. how do I know I have been there

I can relate, man.

pocohantas:
I don't love rapist apologist and supporters of evil.
So sorry...

I'm neither of those, but I bet it's hopeless convincing you otherwise, so let us both have a lovely evening and a great, fruitful week ahead

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pocohantas:
It's nice that someone else sees through your innate stupidity. Other men saw nothing wrong in that comment, only you...an insecure man, rapist apologist and supporter of every evil, sees man hating in every comment.

May your healing come soon.

I love you too, Poco

pocohantas:
That one is a very foolish guy. When you call out men bullshit, he calls you a man hater. A very foolish guy is that kevindein.

Hahaha

This pocowhatever wants my attention that's why she mentioned me when she quoted someone else. Basically love it when moroooonic men haters like you detest me.

Lovely

I, for one, see a manipulative and troublesome woman from a mile away and I do myself a huge favor by avoiding them.

Can't deal man

EgunMogaji:
I'm glad that you had this education.

While I'm not naive to think that some Men are not truly bad but it is my opinion that a lot of this DV stuff is propagated by women.

Your neighbor is lucky. Were this to happen in the US here is what's going to happen to your neighbor

1) He'll be arrested immediately, no waiver, he'll go to jail

2) He'll be charged with domestic violence and face a felony charge, State Vs Neighbor

3) He'll need to come up with bail (here bail is not free, not at all)

4) In some locales, his pictures will be on the jail website and in local newspaper

5) He may loose his job

6) He may get a restraining order filed against him to stay away from his house, his kids, his kids schools and anywhere where his wife may known to visit

7) The wife cannot withdraw the charge, his case is with the state as its a criminal case

Many men never recover from this

9[b]) Many men go on and kill the wive then themselves.

10) Many men go nutbats and kill the woman, her friends, her coworkers, actually travel to other cities to continue to kill her family. Why? Because he knows his life/career is practically finished with a DV charge on his record.[/b]

11) I won't bother listing the collateral damage in erm sof loosing hi sjob, losing his house, loosing part of his future income.

So I've been where you got today, the part of not just taking the silly my husband beat me story. It takes two to tango.

If your neighbor is smart he'll pack out of that house today and leave the she devil aloen for another man to deal with. But he must take care of any kids that exists in the marriage, no question about that.

I personally don't take bullshit from women. I'm on my 3rd marraige because of this no willing to deal with women trouble. There are lots of issues and trouble out there in the world and no one needs his own wife to be another source of that issue. So I bounce immediately.

I don't even know how your neighbor can face the other people in your building now.

Horrible, @ the emboldened.

So in a bit to empower and protect women they end up putting the lives of the women, her family and the society in general in jeopardy.

The most dangerous man is one who has nothing to lose.

“Collapsing any Nation does not require use of Atomic bombs or the use of Long range missiles. But it requires lowering the quality of Education and allowing cheating in the exams by the students”[b][/b]

Not for me

Buhari has got my vote because of what he did to the bitter-loud mouthed-chest beating-hypocritical-hateful-lying-*insert appropriate adjective* IPOO members.

@Honestwife, It's a man's world.

PaperLace:
You don't like her living alone _but you like her living unhappy for years? Please, allow her separate from your dad. Advise her to chat safely, no sending of nudes involved.

Elderly men like her are preferable, widowers and divorcees. Ignore silly comments thrown at your mum here, you alone understand the situation. Her happiness should be your priority.



Swallow 12inches nails if my comment pains you. Lots and lots of it. All adulterous men will finally lose their good wives. No two ways about it.

Good wife, lol. Don't make me laugh

No good wife would send her nude pics to several strange men. She was never a good wife. If at 50+ she is sending nude pics to men then I can just imagine what she did at a younger age.

PaperLace:
1. Your dad is/has been a chronic, irresponsible, unrepentant and insensitive cheat.
2.He has subjected the innocent woman to all sorts of emotional and physical abuse, even from third parties (his side chicks).
2b. All for no fault of hers.
3. He is currently with one of his side chicks.
4. Their sex life is dead.
5. Mummy is beautiful and fit _halleluyah somebody!!!
6. Mummy is independent and strong.
7. Mummy wanted to leave the marriage, you told her not to.
8. Now, mummy is moving on with her life (albeit wrongly) and you're not happy.


What kind of son are you bikonu? You don't want her to leave the marriage, you don't want her to move on. What do you want? Disrespecting her vows is NO-NO, so _ allow her leave. She should have one steady partner and not multiple (safe sex and safe chatting is important), that's the only thing you should be advising her on.

Did it ever occur to you, that just like so many married women, with community horsebands, your mum was waiting for her kids to grow within a complete family system(as society demands) before divorcing? You still decided to stop her.

This is why it's good for women to be independent and remain physically appealing. All that "who will want you after 3kids" threat, na for women wey no know wassup.

Soldier come, soldier go _barracks go remain.
This na open marriage Season1.

For you it's all about getting back at men. You don't care if it means a 50+ year old woman sending her nude pic to strangers on the internet and that that can actually come back and haunt her in the future. If it remotely sounds like some sort of vengeance against men you are perfectly okay with it. Bitter men hater.

And then all the daft moorooons that liked your post.

A woman in her fifties sending nude pic to not just one but three men. Disgusting to say the least.

Ewwwww

PierreDeFermat:
pedophile.
don't worry you will also have blue eyes in your 80's . some old people usually have grey or light blue eyes

I had wanted to ignore you but it's imperative I let you know what a fuccckktard you are. Yeah, you are a fuccckktard.

This girl is gonna grow up to become a very beautiful woman. Hopefully she gets a good education.

frosbel2:
The Nigerian army is ruthlessly incompetent, savage, illiterate and poorly trained. This is how Boko Haram problem started many years ago. Initially it was an almost insignificant and unnoticeable group, till the Nigerian soldiers started to do what they are best at, wholesale massacre of both Boko Haram members, innocent onlookers, women and children.

If Buhari does not start using his brain if it is still working, there may well be an insurrection in the army and complete chaos in the country.

It looks like a joke now, but killing unarmed protesters is not tolerated or even considered here in the west , it is a sign of the most prominent form of retardation. Only in backward Africa do idiotic retards celebrate the death of other tribes.

Nigerian and indeed Africa have a very very long way to achieve civilization.

Yorubas, other Igbos , Hausa cheering on this massacre need to go and get a proper education and a life.

Story.

Where was all this epistle when Kanu and his clowns dedicated a whole radio station to preach hate, urging his jobless urchins to kill other Nigerians? I didn't see you condemn the killing of Hausas by the pigdiots.

You hypocrites only remember Africa is backward when you are at the receiving end of violence. But it's all cool if you dish it out.

Oh no. Not in j-Town. The town has been experiencing peace for more than 5 years in a row now, the last thing it needs is another crisis.

It shan't be well with Kanu, IPOBs and their supporters

Rossikki:
Useless, cheating, corrupt FIFA. Can they ever change?

Worthless ranking worthy of the dust bin.

Yep. True
Nigeria is easily the best team in Africa and among the the top 20 teams in the world at the moment.

Cook your fuuckking foods your lazy feminists

rydow:
That's the Point. White media will never for no reason highlight the white looters.

But the Black Naija Nairalander keeps tailing a Black looted around. If you can't protect your brother then there is no point been Black.

Go and get a white paint like Bobirisiki

Well said, @the emboldened

We've got too many self-haters in Nigeria or nairaland. Always quick to bash their country or race. Very nauseating bunch.

Up Plateau Utd

J-Town for life

Up Plateau Utd. Up J-Town

@Alcatraz005, being a resident of Lagos significantly reduce (not totally eliminate, mind you) your chances of getting a decent lady who isn't overly materialistic. ladies in that city are a totally different breed compared to their counterparts in other states.

Is this a first?

South Africa-Sengal World Cup qualifier match to be replayed.
Fifa has ordered that a World Cup qualifier between South Africa and Senegal be replayed after the referee awarded a penalty for a non-existent handball and was banned for life for match manipulation.

Fifa says the game, which South Africa won 2-1 in November last year, will be replayed this November. It says it made the decision to order a replay after the Court of Arbitration for Sport upheld the life ban for the referee in question, Joseph Lamptey of Ghana.
Read more:

https://www.theguardian.com/football/2017/sep/06/south-africa-senegal-world-cup-qualifier-replayed

pocohantas:
I prefer to live with animals than a lot of creatures with third legs. At least when you see a wild animal, you know it's a wild one and take cover or blow its fukcing brains out. Too much sex starved & perverted men around, one ends up wary of even the good ones.

They should be caught and killed.
The penalty for rapists and child molesters should be death.

Since our judiciary isn't doing enough to punish them, I think it's time the target victims in various age groups are given proper sensitization. Pepper stray, self-defence and every other measure is welcome.

By the way, where are the women hate themselves crew?
I can see how much men love women with the everyday rape news.

You no dey tire? Every thread seem to be an opportunity for you to show your subtle hatred for men. Condemn the perpetrators and move the fuuucck on

HajimeSaito:
The 120 cut off mark was introduced by your Brother Ishaq to boost the number of mudslime graduates in nigeria. It is along the lines of the 0% cut off mark for admission of northerners into unity schools.

Loooll

And only southern institutions accept it. Seeing that northerners aren't really keen on moving down south for educational reasons it seems it's southerners that stand to benefit from the same mediocre policy they criticise.

LMAO @0 cut off mark for unity schools. I give it to you guys down south. You are fantastic liars LMAO