burner44:

I dont know what is wrong with your head

Religiously speaking, a girlfriend is not your wife nor property.
She is still open to receive other proposals from outside.

Both you or your friend don't own her as far as I am concerned.
If yiu really want her in you life do. every4as soon as possible to marry her.
And moreover, since this relationship thing has been trending and endorsed by many for some years what value has it added to. our. marital. life's these days except for mistrust, infidelity, adultery and all other form of vices unlike our parents of old who had "arranged marriages" but were better in raising good and strong families.

Alanzazani:
A friend of my shared his story with me.

He got married in October 2018, had a baby in July 2019. His wife had a fibroid in her uterus hence a ceasarian operation was carried out.

A few days ago they went for a scan to see what the fibroid looks like. To his amazement he was told his wife is 10 weeks pregnant.

The young man is devastated. He is struggling to take care of his baby and his family. Only to be shocked with this news of a 10-week-old pregnancy.

He is contemplating aborting the pregnancy. He doesn't know if 8 months is enough time for his wife's body to have healed. I strongly advised him against this. His wife is unwilling to abort the baby. Mature advice need. FP please

Let him not harm that innocent child.
It was a result of his action and that of his wife.

It maybe bad today, but tomorrow will be good.

Struggling to feed your family is not a curse, but shows you are doing the right thing .
Never be desperate, more people have faced worst situations but never gave in but we're resolute till the fruits they planted started beating fruits.

Let him keep doing his best ,and this is time his friends "indeed" (if they truly are) should be the friends to him as he is in need.

JayReeMai:
This story was Lifted from quora

People should learn to cite their sources.

SpecialAdviser:


I understand your argument. But you can still ask what's Igbos with drug since they keep getting most drug pushers to be Igbos. You as well say what's Yorubas with ritualism since most ritual cases are found around Yoruba land.

So what's Islam with violence since they keep finding majority violent religious folks among Islam. Clear to you now?

You are still not saying anything.

Islām as a religion doesn't condone violence or taking people's life at will simply because the don't tow your line of thinking.

Associating evil actions with Islam is a good analogy to what I just described above using those.

Islām is a way of life and that way of life does not support violence(contextually) except in organised setting.

There is nothing violent in Islām sir.
it's your perception that Islām is.

I have been living on this earth for more than three decades and striving to practice my religion and I know many of such people like myself whobhabe never held a Christian byvthe scruff of their neck simply because they don't practice Islām.
I even have cousins who aren't musllms but no one, none has been attacked while coming from a Muslim background.

I don't know what's your grudge

Ijaya123:
This would serve as a deterrent to others. Where there’s no law, there’s no sin.

I know some people here would not like this because they have high tolerance for indiscipline and general bad behaviour which I suspect it’s as a result of their terrible upbringing.

When we cultivate the habit of taking responsibility for our action and possible consequences (which should also be enforced), we will have a better society.



You do not have the faintest idea about who I am yet you've assumed and gone ahead to describe what I would do in two different situations. Are you for real? Well I've got news for you, assumption is life's lowest level of knowledge.



Assumption is life's lowest level of knowledge. Nothing to discuss about there.

You've actually said nothing boss.

Everything has a measure of appropriateness.

You don't kill a flea with a sledgehammer.

I still insist that the act of destroying the phone is inappropriate.

SpecialAdviser:
What's this with Islam always associated with blood? Is it the religion or its adherents?

it's better you say something reasonable than blurt out rubbish.
Does the action of a few represent all?

For example, if some Ibo boys are into drug pushing does it mean all Ibo boys are drug pushers? or, could it mean the ibo race supports drug pushing?

Another example, if some white people are racist does it mean every white person is a racist?

Another final example,if some young ladies are into runs (social prostitution) does it mean all young ladies are into prostitution?

See,one thing I have always learnt in life is never generalise all issues because when the same standard is set for you, you will have nowhere to hide from the same trap you think others have fallen into just to claim a high moral when you are actually standing on a quicksand.

Be guided.

Esseite:
Some one just came out of Governorship with near zero track record and some idiots are pushing him for senate..

8 + 8 = 16years of ineptitude..

why do people become blind by party affiliation? Why?!
Is it because Dickson isn't APC?
This is why I hate this so called supporterhsip it breeds nothing but open lying.
Even Dickson's enemies knows that he tried.

MasterKernel:



First of all, you didn't see the fact that your child contravened a portion of the school rules, why didn't you keep your Child at home?

Secondly, you will kill for what?... You're highly insane.

Do you know, no school rules should be outside the ambit of the education laws?
Believe me, if this case us taken up. in court the school or teacher will pay dearly for it.
If current education rules prohibit the use of canes what about destroying personal properties?

NobleAngell:
All schools have rules.

Even at that, rules are not in and exclusive of themselves now. There is what we call appropriateness in action. This is way way over board.

Ijaya123:
This would serve as a deterrent to others. Where there’s no law, there’s no sin.

I know some people here would not like this because they have high tolerance for indiscipline and general bad behaviour which I suspect it’s as a result of their terrible upbringing

oga, as much as I dislike undiscipline punitive measures should be commensurate with any violation.
There's no man or woman with a modicum of rationality that will applaud this sort of high handedness.
With is wrong with seizing the phone instead of destroying it?
This is why God keep punishing us because we support all sort of injustice in our society.
Little wonder,people like you support the burning alive of a thief who stole something less than five thousand naira,but will readily show sympathy to a public office holder who stole billions of naira with his pen.


This kind of action can never be justified anywhere under the sun.

Glorifiednwafor:


Shut up your stinking mouth do you deserve to have the least blood for a friend?? I don't blame you i blame Lord Luggard that Jonsingly joined people that hardly bath with us in the name of one Nigeria. Tozo!

What are you claiming now?
The same loud mouth attitude as if you are the alpha and omega of development.

If you were so "creative" as you claim, how come your states are not even close to what you name as top states in Nigeria?

Why didn't you remain in your place and "develop" it if you claim you are so "creative."
Your lies have clearly farmed you out.

keep lying to yourself.

Deepfeel:
I hope the Yoruba's will stop eating and selling humans parts ?

Your hatred for every tribe is making more foolish than you look.

I am not Yoruba, but I think most Ibos are the most intolerant sets of humans you will ever meet and they claim to be wise, but they are very foolish.

I hardly befriend Ibos not because I don't like some of them or they don't have good ones, but because the bad and irredeemably stupid ones like you will influence them to start thinking negatively about other tribes.

This has always being your problem.

Ngwamankillyou:
here we go the yoruba race will pay tough price for supporting this dead man called foolhari

compound idiots like you should not be sharing oxygen with us in this space. .
You reasoning is no different from that of an ant.

Nowenuse:


Looking at the lives of Hausa fulani people today, mention one good thing which is a product of Danfodio's legacy.

I dare you.

They still feed you with their livestock and other farm produce which their southern counter parts can't produce.
The reforms Uthmān Dan Fodio brought are so. Numerous on a religious level and social level I can begin to estimate.

Before the correct information about Islām in the north women couldn't inherit, they were seen as mere chattels of pleasure and slaves were treated far less than dogs, but his grand redemption through the teaching if Islām changed all these then, but today many of his teaching gotten from Islām are not being followed through by mistake northerners except the memorization of the Qur'an with acting on the message.

It was Muslim scientist that helped shaped and gave the skeletal frame work of what we call science today. Is it in maths, chemistry, medicine and engineering?
I can name muslim scientist that gave science the foundation which other scientists are now building on till this date.

What were Christian during time of Galelio and Newton?
Burning them atbtge stakes blaming these scientist for heresies.

Please, when you try to bad mouth anything from Islām look well enough befirenyiu start snouting your mouth like a pig at what we do.

Nowenuse:


Stop telling stupid lies. The British never forced christianity on Africans. It was Western missionaries from America, Canada & Europe that came to evangelize Africans who accepted christianity on their own freewill.

If for anything, the British colonialists even promoted and supported Islam in Northern Nigeria using the indirect rule system of government.

Yorubas were not conquered by Uthmān Dan Fodio but became Muslims through trading with the Malian merchants .
These lies you keep spreading will end one day and you wil walk home with your tail between your legs

Bialegend:

Shekau is even better than usman dan fodio to be sincere. When you talk about a real terrorists, you should think of usman danfodio that destroyed a whole ethnic group called hausa.

How did he destroy a whole ethnic group liar!

These are the lies you keep peddling for every zombie who has zero tolerance for facts to feed on and becomes fatteened by it ,not knowing they are swallowing loads and baggage of shits from shitheads like you.

Nowenuse:


Thank you very much. I vehemently agree with this.
Hausas & Northern minorities muslims deserve no pity or sympathy cos they don't even want it. ... If they are comfortable and happy with the fulanis in their midst, no problem.

Only the Hausa Christians of Katsina, Zaria & Kano deserve any sympathy, but even they themselves have never come out to speak.

it's either Hausa Christians or Hausa Muslims.
That his is line of thinking without any shame that he is clearly lying through his teeth.

StaffofOrayan:
Oh I see, where is the prosperity and fairness dan fodio promised the dummies he conquered? I have tried finding it but all I see is poverty, disease and perpetual slavery,
Yes he really beat the Hausa's bad, infact so bad their children are shoemakers, mei suya, mei shayi, they have killed their way into being the spiritual head of muslims, another set of dummies who don't research.

Dan fodio is a typical fulani man, like Buhari, they would kill and maim to get to power, (using useful dummies like yourself) once they get power all they do is install themselves like a virus on a computer and destroy what they met, I call it the 'emir Trojan'

Nothing to celebrate, but of course Hitler is a bigass hero to some skinheads

It was so bad that there offspring despite being the lowest of lows still rank highest when it comes to wealth and power.
If there were so dull and full of shit like you drunkenly keep insinuating how come they keep dominating you in almost every sphere in Nigeria?
Does it not show whom the really dummies are ?

No doubt, his people are poor ,but they can beat the hell out of you dumb arrogant arse till you smell like a skunk.

StaffofOrayan:
You are the clown here
And it's obvious you don't read, if you did you would have better understanding and discernment. He was the devil and his serpent seed is still plaguing the contraption called Nigeria.
I don't even know where to start lecturing you from, do you know the empires of the Negros before the Fulanis arrived? Every idiot that was unfortunate enough to invite them soon loses his throne and way of life.
Do you know who sold negros during the slave trade?
A lot of you are starved of knowledge.

I guess this is another instance of 'Abacha never stole'?

So before your fore fathers were selling their sons for a pieces of mirror to their slave masters Uthmān dan Fodio was busy negotiating the deal for a bad Nigeria innit?
And before you do ,read history well and tell us how it relates to what Nigeria is currently facing.
When you don't have anything reasonable to say you start talking like a toddler learning new words.

Just read what you have written and see how insensible it looks.

Jimi24:


You are completely wrong my friend. You are romanticizing. Dan Fodio was not a moving, romantic figure. He was an idealistic. An Islamic purist. He built a caliphate not by design or deliberate self aggrandizenent but out of idealism and ideology.
I fund that most Nigerian are shallow and materialistic so they find it difficult to understand idealistic motivations.
If Dan Fodio had been more self motivated he wont have inspired Hausas to overthrow their kings and get please get it right that the Jihad was by mostly Hausas not Fulani

You people are just born liars with no iota of objectivity in all you say.
You look at things from a misty prism and a very shallow perspective and you think you can deal justice to the topic?

I don't blame you folks though,everything to you is you-chop-i-chop approach.

Bialegend:

Just shut up your mouth and keep quiet. Who are you to tell a whole people what is good and what is not good for them? I say, who are you? Evil fulani, you think you have any right to decide for any other group except your own group? Your evil ancestor, came all the way from futa jalon, met a group called the Hausa and all of a sudden start to bring religious reforms to them and a devilish reform at that one. And you have the guts to come in here to call it a better deal. How do you know it's a better deal for them? Did they ask you to reform their own way of worshiping their Allah? Why did you have to do it by force?

Did you read how they lead their lives before the coming of Uthmān Dan Fodio reforming their way of life.
And I still insist it was a better deal they would have done anything to bargain for even till this day.

You folks always claiming superior knowledge of everything when it comes to the north, whereas you are nothing more than a rabble rouser with no known knowledge whatsoever you keep insisting on knowing hot airs and foolishly keep peddling half truths and no truths for your ignorant zombies who are always willing to like your quotes at a go.

Shaykh Uthmān Dan Fodio (may Allāh have mercy on him) was indeed an enigma in West Africa that even you fore fathers will do anything to re enact his sweeping reforms he carried out in the northern sub region till date.

And his religious teachings and legacies are still there for all to see and still remain unmatched by the greatest of your fore fathers.

Busch:

Yo pls I’d like to know are you religious. Cause you seem too smart to be.

because to you religious people are stupid?

I think the smartest people and eloquent people to ever live were religious people.
They can convince you with every mannerisms that is there for the taking.

Nowenuse:


Thousands and thousands of ethnic groups and civilizations have been destroyed and supplanted. Hausa is just one of them.
The 2-4 million Hausa Christians who live in rural areas of Katsina, Zaria & Kano at least cannot be destroyed cos they never contacted that evil virus of deception spread through Islam.

They are the only hope of the preservation of whatever existed of a once large and prosperous African race (Hausas).
Dozens of indigenous tribes in Bauchi & Yobe have also been destroyed but I wonder why nobody talks about them.

As if there was anything like Christianity in the north before the colonial masters came bulldozing their way through.

Most clearly lack the objectivity to deal with the topic at hand.

Bialegend:

Who told your jihadists danfodio to propose religious reforms for hausa people? Where did he get permission for that?

The problem I have with folks like you is anytime you see religion in any line or sentence it's as if you hair stands on end.
Bringing religious reform was a better deal for the people then than allowing some oligarchs to control them like slaves when they are not.

The question is, do you even know the details of some if these reforms?
And the bad thing is, some of you are just arguing for the hatred of it not because you are objective enough to see the facts on ground.

itsme01:



in that case king Solomon and king David are on this team and league, same as king Cesar, Queen Victoria, Alafin of Oyo, Awujale , Lagelu of Ibadan and his warriors, Kosoko of Eko

Atleast Dan Fodio and his men mostly commited palace coup, and avoided full blown war the above listed people fought war for the spoils and gains of war killing and maiming whoever was on their way, some even claim their God had promised other peoples ancestorial land to them

Hypocrisy is calling one terrorist and the other Colonialist or Prophet of God

..

Do you mind the idiot!

MetaPhysical:
Usman dan fodio and Shekau are in same league.

Those who wage a pretentious war of holiness to kidnap, rape and and pilfer.

If not for my patience I would have said something bad to you, bit I won't.
How can any objective thinker in his right sense equate a criminal like Shekau to Uthmān Dan Fodio?
Who does that?!

medTechworld:
i see nothing wrong here.... maybe the lady in question turned down his proposal...

No be only proposal.

When people reason as if akamu is in their brain.

well, it's your opinion though.

Captainrambo2:
Bush lecturer.



His education is a waste just like ishaq akintola, something tells me that lecturer is a member of APC

May common sense not elude us.

So someone putting on clothes that reveals her cleavage is not inappropriate innit?

I would like you tell your sister or wife to put on cleavage revealing clothes and when men starts whistling at her just hail them or even tell her to show more of her chest.
How about that?

darthv:
Pdp all the way

Because it favours them innit?

DennisEche:
My hrt is with the Chibok people and all the Northern Christians, The Islamic fundamentalist are working to establish a caliphate which we all know except the zombies who either knows or claiming ignorance. The senile useless dullard is a terrorist and a sympathizer

Which caliphate?
How they even Islamic fundamentalist?
Please, stop attaching criminals to Islām.

These devils have killed more Muslims than Christians could ever count.

edoairways:
So is now a crime to ask for a review?
Modified I saw your quotes, I hope the supreme court would do the same for IMO state.

Why not help them to review it.

mrZENographer:


Lol. He's talking about medical errors, you are accusing him of Christianising Islam. Unrelated

The eye-opening part is that most people that were certified dead and came back to live said they saw Jesus Christ. And that he is the only salvation. The one that saves from Hellfire.

This experience changed their life and belief forever.

Like I said, don't Christianise Islām for us.
Whether a man lives till his fifties or hundreds or die at infancy it makes no difference to us as far it is established that the person has been certified dead using all medical methods
available.