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OK2NVME: [s]All of u critisizing shuld shut dah hell up!

Chics get married 4 several reasons these days and its not all about luv.

I pray u never get put in that impossible position [/s]

angelhair: I wish you guys would get off her back. @op, I understand because I have bn in ur shoes. When I was married, my husband started d beating during our honeymoon! I was doing laundry a few months into d marriage and I saw a condom in his pocket. It wasn't for me because I was pregnant then. I hated him. I cursed him and I wanted to get back with my ex.
You guys can never understand what she is going thru to make her think that. My dear op it does get better. Hang in there my love and tell it all to God. He really understands what you are going thru and he will make things well with you. Take care luv!

xynerise: ^killz will just die. Idowu will give him scissors kick sexx style.

**Scissors kick style? O boy, i need to upgrade my vocab! **

Ehn hen, Xynerise, you say?

deandavid: idowu nd killer, why una dy attacker each oda like dis, abi killer u dy like d gal? If u like her, let her knw, i sure say she b coded babe, so go do u well, dnt b scared ask her out ok.

Chairman, e be like say you jus dey come. . .

khukhi: This is the first time I am posting on the site so please excuse my writing. I have heard that peeps here often react like Junkies coming off drugs so please do everyone a favor and shut up if you have no positive input to submit.

. . .And you are a psychotic discombobulated idi[i]o[/i]t for seeking advice from junkies. . . Nonsense!

When you are ready to bend down, you'll see Aba!

Idowuogbo: 200km

Shift>>>>
I asked you how far, you dey angry knack? You dey reply 200km. . . Na on top okada you dey reply ni?

owo2390: Evil is an insult.

You will be cheat with your ex is an unfounded accusation.

I said sympathy not empathy. And in my first post i told her to tell her husband and work it out.

Pls sir relax. It's not an accusation. Can you define "accusation?"
Bullshit is bullshit and does not look like chicken sh[i]i[/i]t! When treating bullshit, you use a shovel, and not a spade. In treating chicken sh[i]i[/i]t, you use a broom and packer. . . This is BULLSHIT! If you agree what she did was wrong, advice her accordingly without sounding "pettish".
If this woman was your wife, and you mistakenly stumbled upon this thread, what will you do?

Smh @ Evil is an insult!

xynerise: your green yansh.

It's black sir. . .

xynerise: ask idowu. Na agbero dey "angry knack"

Na true. . . Na true. . .

ID, how far?

owo2390: I'm not in support of her action; her actions are obviously unethical. However, i'm against the incessant raining of insults on her, she's clearly misguided and asked for help, people should be trying to help her and not condemn her to flogging or whatever. This is 2012 not the 1800s.

I don't want this to turn into some big arguments, there are too many of those on nairaland already. I think she deserves some sympathy because she was brave enough to ask for help on such a sensitive issue on a public forum in a pretty conservative country as Nigeria.

xynerise: easy bro

You dey laugh? You sure say no be skydeep use another ID post this thing?

xynerise: that is what u get from the secretary to the Agberos association.

LMAO! Bro, do you "Angry Knack" (God bless Idowu)

queensmith: We are doing so because we pity the poor man that married the OP who is obviously still in limbo with her feelings, she is selfish and confused, she had no right to drag another man into her foolishness. She should have dealt with her problems before jumping into marriage. Its downright wrong what she has done, the insulting is even not enough, she should be flogged mercilessly! marriage is not a joke!

It's only people that don't "really" value marriage and what it entails that'll not understand what is really going on here. . . This aint no boyfriend/girlfriend relationship! Since we can't flog her physically, we'll flog her lyrically. . .

ceejay80s: Na women lawyer dey sweetpass especially from back,when u start to hammer her ,she go dey SHOUT "ur honour"!! But when she tire for u, u must rest ur case!! I mean ur properties

slimyem: and what does my number have to do with this?
Btw...my lines are dead!

Dead lines? Damn. . .

Intelligent reports reaching me says you are in need of bananas from kenya. . .

Idowuogbo: Y u waiting, u fit dey plan d angle on how u go knack am if her papa no gree.

I hope d popsie gree sha,cus i dont want u getting all angry on d punny.

U no wen u angry-knack u fit born quintuplets if care is not taken.

Certified Crazy. . . Stamped and Sealed.

Agybabe: It is quite a shame for people to decide to leave nl after the past goodies. I see this as back-stabbing, betray and ungratefulness. Is it the font, colour, design or the info you get here that matters? Just like the children of isreal in the wilderness who cant remember the good favours and victories in the past which the Lord helped them to attain, they didnt pray themselves out but complain. Everything worketh together for the good of them that loves nairaland. Instead of threatening to leave, why not leave. Just leave and give those coming fresh air and those staying breathing space. Rome wasnt built in a day. Seun was the brainbox behind the former nl which made it a world in this world, so allow him work things out in this new one instead of giving him tough time. Support him and bring new ideas instead of killing his own idea. Those shouting and ranting should deal with it and save their eyes, sights, visions and get out. The only thing that is constant is change. Haba, the guy is trying his best, supporting will help, instead of hurling insults. Now put yourself in his shoes, if it were you, how will you feel to be criticized, insulted and your ideas to be made to look like stupidity? As many that will leave, should do that for life, dont come back when all gets rosy again. He needs time to fix things up, he has gotten your complaints and i am quite sure, he is working on them. Those who will remain will remain and new users will swim in, leaving will make no impact since those who wanna replace you are making consultations from dibias, etc *just exaggerating*. Stop criticizing and help build a greater and better a nairaland. Come rain, sun, old age, even death, nl is where i feel belonged. Stop complaining or get out or remain or be useful or be supportive with new ideas. Let him be. Who is actually gonna loose? The bitter truth is, many will miss nairaland when they leave. If you complain about the designs, you are just like a man who claims to love i.e. The beauty he sees entice him more than the inner beauty, which means- fake love on point. I get sick to see critics. Even some of those criticizing cant bring out an idea. Omg! All will be well with time. Please dont hate a man's initiative, but try to encourage and build it up for the best.
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I dont know maybe it didnt work. But this new nl should have been okay before doing away with the former so as to avoid critics. Smh. *Jesus wept*

God. . . You are. . .

Ejaisky: Luckgames and kills, i asked for help nt insults. I wouldn't cheat on my husband.

Define "Help".
Define "cheating".
And finally describe the kind of help you really need. . .

While you are at it, i want you to realize that there is something like "Emotional Cheating". **Thinking of another man while your husband is lying beside you. . .** I'm guessing you think of your ex while your husband is making love to you right? (Cant deny. )

Conclusively, where the fcck did i insult you? I can't even find discombobulated in my post. . . I'm waiting for your definitions before i diagrammatically reveal to you how you are in fact cheating on your husband already. . . #Waiting!

deeplow: I didn't know somebody open mouth yab me.make me shut.ok sir,I go shut am buh remember say no matter ow extended as d case maybe,one person dey ur family wey fat o.in dat case,u don yab dat person too.sorry ehn,choiceless dude,[size=16pt]like say if dem carry fat toto con nao,u no go do.na so ur body go dey shake like person wey drench for rain.[/size]btw,spelling error for ur name,na king(self-services) be d correct spelling.thank u very much

Adduljermaine: I think [size=20pt]this guy is smoking fake benson[/size]

LMYO. . .

kelz88: What an insecure little man.

Heck: women are necessary evil
but woman lawyer is an impossible evil.

Forget love. No average mortal is capable of that selfless sacrifice called love. Marriage is about understanding NOT LOVE.

valacious: I am dating a female lawyer now, so i can tell u a few things about them. One, they find it hard to separate their 'legal' life from their love life, u will definitely see that character in their attitude. Secondly, u must need to stand ur ground on some issues without shifting, as they are very domineering, and love to be in control, finally and most importantly u need to work hard my friend in terms of income, make sure u are independent of ur own, by that u remain in charge, that doesnt mean they'll leave u when things are rough, they hate divorce, so u have a joker card in your , Besides all these, believe me they can be loving, most especially if she's God-fearing.

Wise words honestly spoken. . .

Kahwayy: Simple,tell him to bring her to East Africa and feed her bananas

You mean bananas. . . . . the . . . .?


****Dialing Slimyem's number****

nasty45: Sorry guys,pls help me out.IS THIS THE NAIRALAND I KNOW?I THINK AM LOST SOMEWHERE.ABI NAIJA CYBER HACTIVIST DON COME HACK DS SITE?

freecocoa: Come all these people writing in colored fonts,what part of that it hurts the eyes don't y'all get?seun wants to blind us and y'all are helping him,mscheew.

Nna eh Seun i hope you are reading this,I'm not happy at all,see how I'm sitting here with nothing to do,on the real NL I'll be having fun by now engaged in one serious debate or fight,imagine I've not commented on any fav section since yesterday apart from the HBD message i left for a friend,the only topics i've endured posting on are the ones about this new NL,this is not good o,NL is now a bore added to the everyday stress one encounters,please do something fast i beg you.