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EssienFM:
..... If u help with a lawyer u will meet me...... Y will i lie abt My kids....... If u have any u knw what i am going thru

EssienFM:
... I guess some are myopic.... I am just using My friend acct on nairaland... I am 35 "yrs old female

JustHere2Observ:
This feminist ideas are contradicting. To me feminism is the right of a woman to choose who she wants to be and how she wants the society to perceive her.
If you want to be a prostitute, fine...its your choice
If you want to be career woman, great, if you want to be a house wife, your choice.
It just means a woman does not have to be what the society expects her to be, to me, its just being true to yourself.
That's my own two kobo. But another woman enforcing her view and perception on another woman is not feminism but what the society is already doing.

EfemenaXY:
I'm no expert on male abuse. Why am I being mentioned here?

fem29:
I'm sorry but I think you guys are being silly. Are you in the process of building a house?.Do you have land?. Do you want to be a tenant forever?. In this harsh economy you are just talking about spend spend spend. Look it is better for you to use your early years to work and build so that you do not struggle when you are old.

Tell ya wifey:- honey any extra monies I have, I am using to build OUR house. If you are already saving towards
That, add the 20k that you were contemplating giving your wife to the funds. Also please cut right down on giving family money and let her know that. Thank God you have a good job but as far as I am concerned you are not yet established till you stop paying rent.

Juzzybabe:
"permission to abort" Aba,no na. Secondly,I only seek advice. Since its faceless, I think its best talking to a large Number of people and weighing their opinions not like I can't take decisions of my own,but things like marriage needs absolute care and cautions. Thirdly, I have been waiting for a change since,nothing seems to be getting better. He has told my family am not his wife. my dear,I can't say it all. well,I have a good and well paid job,my daughter is growing up well and I make sure I provide all she needs. Am a woman and am human,I have feelings. The last thing I want to do is sleep with another man knowing am still entangled with another. So as to not sin,I better quit the fruitless one at hand and move on. I have tried!

bellong:
Who needs a white Elephant? The Oracle is using all the white Elephant available worldwide. However, I can appease the oracle for a price to release one...

modath:
Don't mind the blind bartemous..

Baawo ni eeyan mi pataki?

bravitudenatura:
My birthday is close. June celebrants rock!

edwife:
Instead of you to start by wishing us Happy Bday, you are here yabbing us. Kimoni one white elephant for us and £500 transferred to me,i will give the others later.

byvan03:
Lol,date science 101 no dey our course outline . You are Geminian too?

taryour:
Kim Kim, how you dey and all yours? Eku 10 years oo.

banmee:
You still haven't learnt anything about women. A woman will only hook up with you permanently if you can provide comfort or have the potential of providing it. The only time a woman wouldn't care about it that much is when she is in her "growing up stage". Like when she is in college and partying. Once she graduates, all bets are off and her hunting begins. They don't like to admit it but that is the freaking truth. There is nothing bad about it though. It's just how women are built. I am married and totally in love with an amazing woman. We've been together for almost two decades but i don't kid myself by thinking that if i did not show potential when we were courting she would have married me. We all have our roles to play. I am supposed to provide; so i provide. Understand this fact and you will have any woman you want. Don't believe me? #Oshiomole. #OBJ. #Donald Trump.

byvan03:
Happy birthday to Taryour and greatgod2012. June chics rock .

modath:
The not ONLY part passed you by?

Acidosis:
Another equality movement.

Men are moved by sight. No amount of equality ideology can control er.ection.

thorpido:
It's obvious you spend nights in his house.What do you do at those times?Play ludo?
For you to still be asking what you should do shows you left something in his bedroom.

pickabeau1:
Don't do it

Make sure you have a job before you quit or have a plan - school, certification etc


Most women change when the man is not earning anything

What does she do.. your post just emphasizes Americana

ronald4lif:
I knew Mrs Idibia was playing to the gallery yesterday by her futile attempt to rubbish Pero when she would have done same or even worse were she in her shoes. She always like to give the impression that she loves all 2face kids as much as she does hers when we know that's impractical.

Women are too protective and egomaniacal to love others kids as much as theirs. Annie should buzz off with her pharisaical and sanctimonious social media charade aimed to mislead credulous individuals who can't see beyond the surface.

naniawini:
Kenonze and KinginVahala what's the meaning of dis nw? Why r u guys derailing my thread?

Cc Lalasticlala pls kindly sanitize ds thread 4 me! Thank you

jaybee3:

Toks2008:
The dictionary meaning of cause is "a reason for an action or condition"

modath:
Is he not the nostradamus of your time anymore?

Really? Including your Hero?

Toks2008:
How long will you continue to be a troll?

Look at the pages of this thread and you will se intelligent comments from guys like you..dont you think you are a shameful person who gallivants from thread to thread using stwpid words without making any sense.

Intelligent people dont go about trolling but they contribute meaningfully so i think you are the one who needs serious deliverance from mental decadence and i really wish you well.

Ladies i repeat are the cause of domestic violence 100% because of the points i raised and for the sake of your level of IQ i will reiterate it for you once more to tell the sisters you claim you have so they can learn.

1.Negligence: When a lady agrees to marry a boyfriend that beats her or has signs of violent acts.

2.Aggravation: Talking down on a man in an abusive way or outrightly insulting a man to the point of the man losing it.

3.Baseless tolerance: When a lady who is neither abusive or troublesome finds her hubby hitting her and rather than report to the police or walk away from the marriage, she remains in the marriage until the man kills her.

I believe that this summary will help your supposedly low intelligent quotient to assimilate the intelligent article i have up there.

I deliberately ignored mizzochocinco cos i really can't help her regarding her reasoning faculty cos my write ups are only for intelligent people and that is why you need to read carefully to understand.

I will stop here.

tearoses:
o n ranju abi
What havent you not read here or seen in real life
There are so many different ways that people run their marriages
Work, dont work, provide all, dont do housework, do housework, stay home mum, stay home dad, his chair and cup, contact ex girlfriend, provide all, build house in my name, build house behind her/his back, next of kin brother, LD marriage, short distance marriage, lock phone, unlock phone. . . . .Ive heard so much.

Some things will break some homes and some things are norm for others. what is normal for you may be abnormal for others and vise versa.

Everyone should work by their own watches, so long as they are both happy and their chosen model works for them.

tearoses:
People should choose what's best for their model of family
There are all sorts of marriages/dynamics that drive marriages/households
There is no right or wrong

so back to my opening statement, there is no right or wrong, so long as you are taking the best decision that best suits you and not what others expect of you.