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FamilyRe: Ronke Shonde's Alleged Killer Husband, Lekan Shonde, Tells His Part Of The Story by Kimoni: 9:31pm On May 09, 2016
raumdeuter:
The police should arrest the sister and they would provide her

If he really said all those, then I have strong reason to believe he is terminally mad. Lagos boy ko Enugu girl ni
@Damiso - Guess this is the word I was looking for
FamilyRe: Ronke Shonde's Alleged Killer Husband, Lekan Shonde, Tells His Part Of The Story by Kimoni: 3:06pm On May 09, 2016
damiso:
I really hope he is found.

Who is even the sister in law that is harbouring a fugitive and giving him phone to speak to Punch huh huh
He has been arrested!
FamilyRe: Ronke Shonde's Alleged Killer Husband, Lekan Shonde, Tells His Part Of The Story by Kimoni: 12:18pm On May 09, 2016
Mamatee07:
You heard her talking to her lover on the phone according to you. You were so wounded then you went ahead to buy food for her and yourself to eat shocked

This man is a bastard liar. Ask him what happened to his first wife Sola huh She left him because he was beating her angry

This is a case of domestic abuse gone wrong. All of you beating your spouses one day they will just die on you and the same for you putting up with abuse.

Listen to the unrepentant bastard angry

Nigerian Police this animal is boasting that he can hide in Lagos for 30 years angry evil demon
shocked shocked shocked shocked
FamilyRe: Ronke Shonde's Alleged Killer Husband, Lekan Shonde, Tells His Part Of The Story by Kimoni: 12:17pm On May 09, 2016
damiso:
There is no doubt that he is mad anyway. Even apart from that statement, the whole response is just irritating. Like how is she going to defend herself against all his stupid accusations when she is dead?

He pushed her and left her therehuh

Coward oshi, he cant even face the consequences of his actions and went into hiding.

Till now I cant get the image of those poor innocent babies trying to wake their mother up out of my head cry cry cry cry I guess it hit me more cos they are exactly my children's ages. embarassed
He will be caught in no time, that's certain and maybe that's why I can't relate to that last statement he was said to have made.

I don't have words for him and not sparing any thoughts on him either, the whole thing looks like premeditated murder plus he's a serial abuser, so I didn't even bother wasting my emotions on him as soon as I read that part.

He will face the law, he should ask Akolade how life feels like now.
FamilyRe: Ronke Shonde's Alleged Killer Husband, Lekan Shonde, Tells His Part Of The Story by Kimoni: 11:32am On May 09, 2016
damiso:
Lagos Boy shocked angry angry angry angry
Like what the huh?
Animal in Human Skin.
I just can't believe he said that. I m suspecting someone just added that last jara to finish him off. How can someone who is about to be burnt use petrol to rub his body? Huhhhuh Is he that mad huh
FamilyRe: Walking Away- Domestic Abuse by Kimoni: 4:57pm On May 08, 2016
Mindfulness:
I am the last person to tell a woman to stay and endure violence in the name of 'till death do us part'. I don't believe that marriage is supposed to be endured, it is supposed to be joy and fun for the most part. I have never been in a violent relationship and I never will but I am the last person to judge a mother who has to decide whether she will endure violence or expose her kids to the danger of the streets, hunger and diseases.

So kindly suggest constructive solutions instead of telling these women that they will end up in hell.
These women do not need judgment. They need love and support. If you see one, kindly offer her shelter or start volunteering for a NGO that supports women who suffered domestic violence.
FamilyRe: SOS: 23 Years Old Lady In Distress. Hear Her Story. by Kimoni: 3:54pm On May 07, 2016
@ Tearoses is the Yeye Oba of Ibadan wink kiss - she might be able to offer some advice or help.

Like Gboliwe said, can't she get a small stool to start making people's hair?
That would depend on what are skills are though. They are not all gifted equally.
FamilyRe: Bukola Ogundolie-Olowookere, Staff Of Ecobank Missing (Photo) by Kimoni: 1:21pm On May 07, 2016
martyns303:
People take things way too serious. Someone even threatened to have taken my pics. Am sure she will be found ok, people don't just fall off the grid like that.
Yeah right! What a time to crack jokes undecided
FamilyRe: SOS: 23 Years Old Lady In Distress. Hear Her Story. by Kimoni: 1:18pm On May 07, 2016
Slivovitz - You are close to her and the environment she is in. Pls put heads together with her and itemize what she desires, how she hopes to achieve them and where exactly she needs people to come in. She cannot think of keeping the baby right now because she has neither a job nor home to take him to.

Pls be ready to substiante your claims when asked to do so.
FamilyRe: Bukola Ogundolie-Olowookere, Staff Of Ecobank Missing (Photo) by Kimoni: 1:08pm On May 07, 2016
martyns303:
U will be hearing from my lawyers soon.

She's a banker innit?
She was dropped off at Ajao estate by GTB
She needs to increase her cabal (bankers know what that means)
She has gone to work for it.

Conclusion: don't worry, she will be coming home in a bit
Hope you realise the weight of your statement/allegations and and you can corroborate with evidence? This ain't no joke brother!
FamilyRe: Gay Couple Wins Custody Battle Over Surrogate Mother, Jubilation In Hell. by Kimoni: 1:02pm On May 07, 2016
Ishilove:
Lemme give you an assignment. Should you choose to accept it, you will look at the size of your fingers. It is a well known fact that a man's fingers is proportionate to his jabulani. If you fingers are short and stubby, or long and meaty, then...

Why do you think Donald Trump is always upset whenever his fingers are a made an object of ridicule? His fingers are short, stubby and thin grin

But I digress. Joseph, I have seen your fingers on your profile. O boy, 'em fingers are SMALL grin grin grin
shocked shocked shocked Ishioooooooo

Naijababe - is this true lipsrsealed
FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Kimoni: 7:22pm On May 05, 2016
FamilyRe: Gay Couple Wins Custody Battle Over Surrogate Mother, Jubilation In Hell. by Kimoni: 7:21pm On May 05, 2016
RoyalPriesthuud:
I said it before. When western politicians are all salvaging the morally right on the alter of political correctness, they take more steps closer to the falling apart of the society. If you are gay/lesbian, I see no reason why you should want a child. They should not be allowed to adopt too. Sooner than I expect, bestials and peadophiles will start campaigning for equal rights too. Nans3nse!
Lord have mercy!
FamilyRe: Please How Can I Handle This by Kimoni: 7:12pm On May 05, 2016
Dyt:
But the op should forgive her
Definitely, divorce or unforgiveness shouldn't be anywhere near his thoughts.
FamilyRe: Amazing Pictures Of A Couple Expecting Their First Baby by Kimoni: 5:20pm On May 05, 2016
Awwwww lovely.
FamilyRe: Please How Can I Handle This by Kimoni: 5:18pm On May 05, 2016
Dyt:
So there's someone like idaya
When people around me think I am an alien

I rwm one of the lies that made me break up
He lied to me he was his cousin
Only for me to find out they are just mere friends

Funny right?
When I don't lie to you, why should you?

I am quick to believe so the slightest lie just takes me off

Rem a friend I met too
Told me he lives somewhere the rich lives only to find out he doesn't stay there?
What was that for?

Tell me who you are and I accept you
Or you lie I find out and I take a walk
angry angry angry
Fantastic! I guess it takes a heart like yours to understand the OP.
FamilyRe: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by Kimoni: 4:09pm On May 04, 2016
Nosu:
yes, Men change after wedding as well as the women, that is the reality.

You can't tell me that you are still the same person you were when you were in secondary school/university, some things must have certainly changed.

The truth remains that people don't like change and they resist it because they don't want to face reality.

After wedding the man and the woman suddenly take up different roles and more responsibilities than they were before the wedding.

After wedding, the man;


1. He becomes more logical( calculative): He is now more logical, He will not buy at impulse like he used to do before wedding. He now asked why(most of the time) before he attends to your requests.

2. The man becomes more quiet : as a result of number 1 and also because the wife can not manage or handle some information

3. He is more authoritative (controlling): You can't blame him, he is the head and if things go wrong due to his negligence even his wife will call him a fool

4. The calls reduces and the attention might also reduces: they are more concern about providing for the physical need of the family etc

someone should please help me with a list for the women folks. however, I know that the change for women is more obvious when they are pregnant.
Exactly! nothing abnormal in all the changes the OP highlighted. Guess part of the problem is also "expectations in marriage". People need to manage their expectation and face realities. Chicken republic may not be everyday again naa cheesy
FamilyRe: Do All Men Change In Marriage? by Kimoni: 3:48pm On May 04, 2016
crackhaus:
Na so...

It's your friend's hubby that changed, as well as some other friends of yours who complained the same way.
Your own husband that did not change in/after marriage is not enough to tell you that not all men change abi, you still had to ask the question.

Oya clap for yourself... gringrin
grin grin grin grin grin Crackhaus ijogbon

OP, even if you say your husband has changed and it's for reasons like pressure of putting food on the table as you highlighted, nothing to be ashamed of in that pls.
It's expected that some dynamics will change as a man's family increases and expenses grow, it's also expected that some things will change about the woman as her body goes through the rigors of multiple pregnancies and childbirths. Moods will change, bodies will change. Many women will swear their children have taught them to be more patient. These are just examples and there are many more...these changes are expected and every family will experience it in some way. It's how both parties handle it that makes the difference.
FamilyRe: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 11:05pm On May 02, 2016
raumdeuter:
Google Tiwa Savage plus Jamal and check if you see anywhere her hair was covered while carrying the baby

So the painting face and covering of hair was just to paint a picture that she is this heartbroken woman when they had already separated 2 months earlier and she had already filed for divorce
lol...Pampers would dictate how she would look in their adverts even if it's shot at home. You know she only started exposing her baby after she got the pampers contract cuz it was imperative she did so.
FamilyRe: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 10:58pm On May 02, 2016
naijababe:
Leave story abeg! Tiwa can't win, if she was dressed to the nines, the same people will tell us she didn't even look like someone whose marriage had fallen apart and her husband was about to commit suicide. We will read more comments of how she is a doro cheerful giver. SMH!
Hahaha I fully agree. Dayo would have analyzed her make up and tell us the name and colour of the different eyeshadows and lipstick she was using. He would show us pictures of how Mide Martins looked when she announced her marital issues to the public.

Hahaha Dayo!!!
FamilyRe: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 10:52pm On May 02, 2016
naijababe:
My guy collect money and no render shishi, babe had to perform for free! And topping that he was skimming off money and will still collect 40% of whatever he rendered. All of a sudden, the victim becomes the accused because she took appropriate steps to forestall being a victim in the future shocked shocked shocked

Like it is time to park ni.
As in ehnn, Lord knows the babe tried to make it work but...he just had a different orientation about their union. They were not on the same page at all.
FamilyRe: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 10:49pm On May 02, 2016
raumdeuter:
Do women cover their weaves around their children? thats a new one. I never knew because most women I see dont. Actually I have seen several pictures of Tiwa holding her baby and she never covered her hair in any of those pictures

Kimoni I dont know where this interview was done notice how she dressed. Not like the Nollywoon newly converted born again sister


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WoaRUS_I2jU
Women should cover their weaves around their babies...this interview was in the salon.
That partcular interview was done at her home, a day after her husband tried to commit suicide and she was about to announce the death of her marriage just after 2 years. What face will she be painting?
FamilyRe: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 10:42pm On May 02, 2016
NashvilleTN:
She wasn't going to die with her mistakes for sure. She had already filed for divorce. She had filed for divorce before that maniac went on twitter or was it Instagram. How was she protecting tbillz. That interview was not protecting anything for sure, and firing him was not protecting him either. They are both players and I guess its time for both of them to move on.
After the guy's rant, she had two things to protect. Tbillz/her marriage and her career. She had to choose one. If she kept quiet about his own evil side, everyone would believe him and her career would be ruined. Folks were already bashing her on her social media pages after his rants. If it had continued, Tiwa Savage would be history by now but she would have protected him and the marriage.

But if she spilled like she did already, she would and has probably ruined the guy, and her marriage is as a good as over but her career/endorsemets are intact cuz she chose to save her career by spilling.

It was a difficult situation but she had to choose one chose. People are now more objective in their criticisms of her. It wasn't an easy decision for her considering she is not Toyin Aimakhu.

She explained why she fired the guy, his attitude would have killed their relationship even if she didn't fire him. It was just a time bomb that was waiting to explode and she felt if she seperated business and marriage, it could save their union. She didn't envisage it would take the guy this much time to find another hit. Not everyone is Don Jazzy or Olamide. But how would she have known?
FamilyRe: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 10:03pm On May 02, 2016
I don't understand how guys have somehow manage to conclude Tiwa was looking for public sympathy. Is it not the same Tiwa that did everything within her power to avoid her story leaking to the press? And tbillz probably knew this, hence the reason he wanted to destroy her and her image by leaking the issues to the public before finishing himself off. And he nearly did!

So what was she supposed to do? She was between the devil and the deep blue sea. As much as she had her marriage Tbillz to protect, she also had her musical career on the line, and this was crumbling right before her eyes. If she hadn't told the public all she said, would her career still be redeemable by now? She admitted she made mistakes by going into the relationship in the first place, but what was she now supposed to do? Die in her mistakes? Give up her dreams because of one mistake?

How did the world even know that Tbillz was the one that helped Tiwa's career? Wasn't it Tiwa herself that kept on gushing about this feat to the public? Yet, they had been having problems all this time. What else would a babe have done?

Dayo, about the interview - which woman puts on make up at home? Which woman leaves her weaves open around the house moreso when she has a baby? This is exactly how I expect Tiwa to be dressed at home. Or is she supposed to engage her make-up artist before that kind of interview?
FamilyRe: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 9:42pm On May 02, 2016
raumdeuter:
That means you have seen someone who played that card previously. The guy sef don wise up he is now saying he \is going to Naija to chase contracts. If the wife likes she can cry blood he wont bulge for what his eyes saw in these last 1yr
grin grin grin grin what has his eyes saw? Women play this old trick everyday, not necesarily the same situation but using the same old tricks to get what we want. Emotional blackmail maybe. I may agree with TV here when he says a man should do what's best for the family and not just act to please the woman.

How much is Kaffy worth? Minus the cameras most people on this forum might even be richer than Kaffyand I dont know what the husband does. Blindly I can guess the man is probably richer than her because thats the general pattern with many females
Maybe not as rich as Tiwa cuz of Tiwa's endorsements but she's also not doing badly for herself as a mega star. The hubby is one of P-Square dancers or back up singer...not sure but she is way higher than him in social status and earnings.
Pls read the birthday message and let me have your thoughts.
FamilyRe: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 9:30pm On May 02, 2016
oyb:
well, he who is down fears no fall. i guess for tbillz it was a case of if there is no more milk for me , i will kill the cow [the brand]

so tiwa strikes back and quickly, in a way that will ensure she controls public sympathy.

if public sympathy turns against her, those endorsements will die. she has taken full control of the narrative.

www.nairaland.com/attachments/3669724_cheqqqywwaamut1_jpegbdc1108f54e6182856f516b8218f288d

looks like she has won the first round
She's winning all the rounds. Wanna bet?

Did you see Freeze make a U-turn after listening to Tiwa and all she had to say? She probably said just 1/100th of all she had to say.
FamilyRe: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 9:29pm On May 02, 2016
raumdeuter:
Na only JJC guys go believe that. Over 85% of women analyze men critically before they marry thats why over 90% of women marry up. If it was random we would have like a 50-50 spread of marrying up and marrying down at inception of the marriage.

It's only men who stupidlyy fall in love . Women as someone once said here are constantly negotiation upwards. They start dating the village wrestler, dump him for the man who has a shop in town, next dump him for the richer guy who has a bigger shop in Lagos and finally dumps him for the rich guy who just flew in from Europe

If Tiwa just met Teebillz today when she is a millionaire and he is broke, they would never marry max dem go sleep together
Did Kaffy marry up?
FamilyRe: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 9:27pm On May 02, 2016
raumdeuter:
What do you think the guy in question should have done?
He should have taken up the offer. The family will turn out fine. She wanted to have her way at all cost, and she did exactly what she needed to do. That's the power of a woman and that's why I laughed. What she did is very familiar cool

Meanwhile Dayo, did you see Kaffy's husband birthday message to her? What do you think? He is deeply in love with her and vice versa?
FamilyRe: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 9:13pm On May 02, 2016
raumdeuter:
Finally This is someone who understands where I am coming from 100%

If this were to be US Teebillz would be popping champas right now because he just hammered and he would be free to every carry more babes with Tiwa paying for it. Its the same thing that happens when we have celebrity divorce cases where the low life wife is cleaning the husband out and NL women would tell us thats the benefit of living in a civilized society

1. Teebillz is a useless guy and everyone knows it I would never advise my sister nor my daughter to even wave to someone like that. But Tiwa chose to marry him because he fits into the brand. Do you think Tiwa would have married a guy who drives a 2011 Honda and worked with ECOBANK who doesnt have time to turn up at parties and doesnt have an instagram account? Teebillz fits her idea of the bad boy celebrity to complete the Nigerian Beyonce narrative

Its like Khloe and Kourtney Kardashian marrying baggage filled guys like Lamar Odom and Kanye West. When she married a "normal" guy like Kris Humphreys you know what happened, Or Alicia keys and Swizz Beats

Just like DBanj wont just marry a normal fine girl who works as customer service with Glo.

The brand Tiwa Savage was built together, We have women who meet a rich man and claim half of a rich guys wealth even though they werent there when he was building it but now a guy whom Tiwa herself admitted sourced his personal fund to launch her first video.

If the story had been a lady sacrificed her school fees to sponsor Olamide into limelight and later Olamide claims she is lazy, stealing his money etc Everyone would condemn the guy for dumping the person who lifted him up
Tiwa would have married whoever she fell in love with that tickles her fancy. Women don't analyse men deeply like you guys do before marriage and that is probably our greatest weakness. The Kardasians are different, everything about them is business, even the air they breathe would be sold if possible.

But I get the commercial angle you guys are coming from, and I guess it's valid but on a second thought, he was duly paid for all his efforts, so isn't this new angle pure sentiments?
FamilyRe: Boys Night Out Discussions by Kimoni: 8:59pm On May 02, 2016
raumdeuter:
You dont know with women especially when they wanted things done their way.
They have 3 kids oldest 10, The wife told him then his 10yr old son was starting to misbehave getting poor grades in school and reports he was fighting getting suspended

It was serious gbege before the guy decided to come back also because she claimed she was stressed with 3 kids, he hired a live in Nanny after a while she said Nanny wouldnt do because the kids werent listening to nanny and "I didnt have the kids with Nanny". I dont want my son to become another American statistics of black boys

All the blackmail and family meeting where they gave the guy an ultimatum. And she was like we would manage whatever we have. Money isnt as important as the life of your kids.

If na you dey in this position and your wife gave you this kain preaching wetin you for do?
cheesy grin grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Ayade Pays May Salary On First Day Of The Month by Kimoni: 12:02pm On May 02, 2016
Na trap oo

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