fhranciz:
Wetin concern this woman for this matter .

Ioannes:


ayam not understanding you ma, can you pls enlighten us a lil bit.

Some of the kids will bear his surname, while some will bear your surname?

So you bear a different surname to your husband's?

edwife:
This Bournemouth is a useless team.

bebe2:


Our pple are becoming d****r by the minute. Are they happy she died?

How about "a painful exit"?

Weird family

Amelian:
I can never have a housshelp as am living alone. My friends have sweet talked me to have one but am like no way.. I can't live at home alone with a stranger. It's kind of awkward . I can't even wrap my head round it. Yes! Am that paranoid with strangers staying with me.. No matter how angelic they look.
Even when I get married, she will simply come and go in the afternoon, on specific days of the week.

The bride virtually killed herself with I have too much money to own house help.

May her soul rest in peace.. Amen

EfemenaXY:


Ladies, am I the only one going crazy here??

How can one little person be soooooo demanding?? I'm starting to think I shouldn't have taken time off work when madam is on holidays too, Christmas or no Christmas.

edwife:


Of who? I can't even see you people on the table, i beg which number are you again?

edwife:


www.nairaland.com/attachments/3818063_enjoy3_gif0e70ba53fb645e159a80d09382688169

zaynie:



No pap till baby can sit or is 6months old.
Keep feeding with formular.

raumdeuter:
Looks like the strong woman Tiwa Savage is back to collecting her cassava from teebillz

https://www.nairaland.com/3509562/tiwa-savage-tee-billz-step

oyetpel:
After several treatment and money spent, this shit killed my dad last year. The wound killed him, Diabetes is like cancer, once someone is experiencing this kind of wound, na to dey countdown for the person.

. Hope your mom get better.

cococandy:

Right?

But you're conspicuously silent when the man is cheating on his wife. No one hears you people's condemnation and cursing like you're doing on this thread.

Yet it's not about your gender bias? Tell that to the birds.

ajoskele:
Bros, you do not tell me who I owe an apology.

Could you find time to scroll up and understand what led to this??
FYI, I apologized to her already.

ajoskele:
Are you alright?
So you are shocked Funjosh mentioned me?
Do I know you? Do you know me?

TV01:
Holá Kim,

Assuming one makes or agrees to the choice, there is no wrong person, only a wrong understanding and approach. Once certain needs and expectations are met, RL will set in, and even flourish.

Maybe risky to say for sure at this point - but certainly current - I mentioned "arranged marriages" in my initial post here, but is it noteworthy that even some of the Chibok girls are seemingly content to remain in forced unions ?

Timbuktou, well said jare...should have checked for you first. Crackhaus how far? "Where you been" as TVjnr often says. Come, some of your harem have been acting up like they seriously need your attention. Don't know how you do it dude, but glad you are back .


TV

naijababe:


Thus saith the lord, ayam Dangote in-law

D5000y:
That's it. Sometimes one wonders if it's always the will of God or man.

raumdeuter:


So if he is never broke or always around, What are your own financial responsibilities to your own family? Or you are telling us you have none?

So what is your own investment into a family, husband and kids you call yours?


Yet people wonder why men treat women like that as inferior to them? If you cant spend your own money on your own family then what is your contribution to the house

raumdeuter:
Bukatyne



This is coming from one oyinbo, the same people we copy the idea of love from.

On the other thread you said if both parties buy into the idea of romantic love. But one thing you need to know is that the romantic love is also predicated on some factors.

There is a reason I have romantic love for A and not for B. There is a reason timbuktou has it for kimoni and not for mindfulness.
There is usually a tangible reason why people "love" each other lets not delude ourselves that its "just magic and I cant explain it"

It might be because of the pretty face, the well packaged backside, the hair, the voice, the riches etc and lets assume the girl too has other things she likes about him that brought about the love maybe height, strength brilliance, the money, the power, the connection etc

After shackling together you might not be as enthralled as you were initially about that thing thaat drew you together either he/she lost it or you think there's more to life than that thing

Thats why all the Brad Pitt Angelina fiery flaming love has disappeared and whats now left is disgust and some "What did I ever see in him/her"

Mimzyy:
I have a phobia for lengthy posts Summary please!

PaperLace:


I agree with you too.
When I see people say marriages fail these days because people don't marry for love, I wonder when it was that most people married for love.

There are other factors that keep it going.
As much as I love my husband, over the years he did things I looked at his big head and wondered what I was doing with him .
'but then, there are things that gat me coming back...oh, including the money o .

raumdeuter:
5minsmadness

What you call love itself is predicated on some factors, If you find those factors gone, then the love is probably gone too. E.g the person you love currently if you found out she used to be a man or is plotting to kill you

Also love isn't enough, there are many things like common goals, common background, similar ambition, mutual-respect etc