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Literature / She Stood All Long Ii by Kindoo: 1:04pm On Apr 13, 2017
Hmmm! Sorrow filled Ajike's mind, she had been the only one taking care of her children since her husband died. And now, Aina her only daughter was pregnant for a teenager like her. Ajike had promised the four of them a good life as much as she could try. All the support promised by friends and family when her husband died, was no where to be found. She did all she could, working on her husband's farm as no one strove with her to take her husband property. If any did, the god of his house will strike such.
Ajike did not give his children farm work alone, she gave them opportunity to choose a vocation. So they work in the morning on the farm and learnt their vocation in the evening. What Aina did added to her load but she determined not to allow her dreams over her children to fail. With the support of the mother and other siblings Aina was learning as well as following her mother to the farm. When the pregnancy was advanced, she had little strength to do hard works.
     Joy oh Joy! Aina put to bed. The mother rejoice and all friends. As soon as Aina was healthy to work, her mother ensured that she sent her back to where she had being leading hair styling. She put in all she could to learning all she could from her boss. When the baby became one year, the mother took the baby form Aina in other  for her to learn well, and she did not fail her mother. So also her siblings, they put in their best and made their mother feel good. One after the other, the children graduated from their workshop and the mother strove to settle them. She did all in good fate to make her dream come to pass. It wasn't easy.
    During these period, Ajike was not at the flying top, she patched buba, she combined two different wrappers, others mocked her. She would not go out to social gatherings, she did not have the reigning cloth to wear. Her mind was stone fixed, her children had to have a place in life. She sweat in cold, her back bent working. They tried to stop her but she moved on, she desire not to raise her back up, if she does, she may be tempted to to keep her back up.
    Glory! a mother, the bone of her children's spirit. Victory, all of them got settled. The one most grateful, is Aina. Many of her  mates who had such experience, were neglect by their parents and they became sorry for their lives. She had a life boast of. Akanji, who was responsible for the pregnancy had also gained his stand and made it known to Aina's mother that she was going marry her.
Hummm, the mother sighed, relieved. Her challenge was taken off. She had been worried about her daughter getting married. She became happy about her life.
Her seeds began to fruit, her children began prosper, her cloth began to change, her status began to change. The ones who had not stood for their children, their sun began to go down, as Ajike's own was rising. She stood all the hard days and her ending was soft.

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Literature / No Sacrifice, No Atonement: Lazy Man by Kindoo: 2:04pm On Apr 03, 2017
Hunger kills the belly Body starved of clothes This life unbearable People desert And if they will give It is in disgust kindness
Awofa, what sacrifice, what atonement. Life should be much more beautiful
Awofa said I need not consult the gods, I know what is wrong with you
You are lazy, too lazy to work To feed To cloth The only sacrifice is to offer laziness Quit lying down when others are standing to work Quit giving comment when others are working Be diligent with your work Then the belly will be filled The body will be covered Life becomes happiness                   OMÓJUWÚRÀ
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Webmasters / Re: Top Tips For Beginning Bloggers by Kindoo: 8:06am On Mar 31, 2017
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Literature / No Sacrifice, No Atonement. by Kindoo: 8:51am On Mar 29, 2017
Ko ko' Aduke knocked
To the power room, with a force so serious 'Awofa, consult the gods I need a way out'
Awofas 'What is the matter?'
'The things I see, koyemi o, challenge here, challenge there. I am ready to give all
I am ready to role tanks of oil
Give the largest calf.
I will go far and near
To get them.

Awofas hit opele on opon ifa
'The sacrifice, the atonement'
The gods 'Let her bridle her tongue'

The gods said, no sacrifice, no atonement.
Aduke 'The burden press me, the yoke break me. There must be a sacrifice.
' Lo ko ara re ni ijanu. You talk too much, keep your secrets. All lizard lie stomach down, who knows the one that aches.
You talk to known and stranger about you, you boast your pride, grieve your pain. That is where those arrows came from.

'Just my friends, and a few others. It good to be open minded, melo laye'

'Go and learn to caution what you reveal to others about you. To play or joke with others is not bad, to reveal your secret to all is foolishness. If you take caution, you shall break no more'

                       OMÓJUWÚRÀ
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Literature/Writing Ads / Re: Calling On AUTHORS To Join The Payfeeng Platform by Kindoo: 8:48am On Mar 29, 2017
Wish you could give detail
do you sell for authors, cut your share and pay them at the end of the month or do authors sell for themselves, having direct bargain with buyers?
Your ad is too scanty.
Literature/Writing Ads / Re: Calling On AUTHORS To Join The Payfeeng Platform by Kindoo: 8:47am On Mar 29, 2017
Wish you could give detail
do you sell for authors, cut your share and pay them at the end of the month or do authors sell for themselves.
you ad is too scanty.
Literature/Writing Ads / Re: Sell Your Novels (ebook Pdf ) To A Ready Nigeria Audience. by Kindoo: 1:41pm On Mar 27, 2017
Wow! Tell me more how it works. is it like kindle?
Literature/Writing Ads / Watch-out by Kindoo: 11:30am On Mar 25, 2017
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Literature/Writing Ads / Grape Eaters by Kindoo: 11:06am On Mar 25, 2017
The fathers A heart so wicked Desperately wicked! They cut the young glory from rising Destroy those they pleased Made suffer the orphan Deprive the widow Led the blind to pit Give the dumb to mockery Hammer nail on the deaf hear Pursue lame to run Torment the poor The lived in joy of this wickedness It gladdens their hearts They drink to it. Who  can catch us The gods are far off The men won't dare And so they planted a vine yard And of it Their ending no one can pray for It does not end their
The children The wind of cry Then and now The land suddenly dry. No food, no water Hunger, death Other time, the rain fall The plants yields Hope giving blessed harvest But the locust came, devour all Burden on the shoulder Yoke on the neck That land is sick The people are diseased They never rest of trouble Their teeth ache
Oh what have we done The gods have forsaken us, Hummm! But your father ate the grape Your teeth must ache Though they sleep, there works live on. No one truly dies The soul live on So also the work that make them while here. The spirit of the founding fathers tormenting the land. Mercy may turn thing if the children in themselves will turn
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Literature/Writing Ads / Re: Guest Writers Wanted by Kindoo: 11:04am On Mar 25, 2017
what the name of your blog. How does your request work.

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Crime / Re: Real Body Of Dr. Oji Allwell Recovered By Police In Lagos (Graphic Video, Pics) by Kindoo: 10:08am On Mar 23, 2017
What could make a man (doctor) kill himself? Hummm! LORD save us.
Politics / Re: Fayose Eating N100 Wrapped Rice By The Roadside (Photos) by Kindoo: 8:20am On Mar 23, 2017
Much of tricks that win the weak heart. I prefer intelligent show, brightening Ekiti not the Ijapa-Yanrinbo play. In 21century still doing this, yet the people are hungry, no pay. No brilliant executions that can make life better.

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Education / Re: I Wrote UTME 7 Times – LASU Best Graduating Student by Kindoo: 7:57am On Mar 23, 2017
Two points here,
1. Know what you want, and get it, challenges not withstanding.
2. Never ever give up on your dreams and vision because of your present challenge. Giving up deprive you of your glorious future.

Keep moving, no matter what.

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Business / Re: Dollar Drops Below N400/$ For First Time In Seven Months by Kindoo: 7:49am On Mar 23, 2017
Keeping hope alive. ko sohun to le ti kin ro. With the right steps in place, we will have the breakthrough desired.

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Family / Re: Shocked Mum Finally Breastfeeds Her Baby Boy, After Initial Refusal by Kindoo: 11:02am On Mar 22, 2017
This is mysterious. God you are great but I pray thee, save me the trauma.
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Family / Build Your Child Also by Kindoo: 10:56am On Mar 22, 2017
Mum and dad, it is good how you purse your career, your business to conglomerates. I ask, are you building your child the same way.
A child left to himself is a child misform.
'Build you child, build your homes' that book speaks. A child left unbuilt is a future left uncare, it bounced back harder.
All your attention is on the container coming, the doctorate degree, the board meeting. Always out, never in to spend good moment with the children talk less of watching how they form.
It is good to work, but not at the detriment of of your children. Build them as well. You are working for them, that you claim but they are not feeling that have you. You seems so close yet so far. Build your child. Don't allow the children form any shape, help them to form that life you will ever be happy at latter.
Career mums, build your children, omonìgbèyìn. Business fathers, let you children feel the impact of you.
After you have gotten what you are pursuing, if your children bring you joy, you will be bitter, omolayó. When you build your children, they will bring you joy at the end, if you do not, they bring you the night tears.
Build your child
Build your child
Build your child
Teach them the way to go, they will not depart from it.
A child  not build is a suicide mission. It will destabilize all that you have built. Omo táà Kó, ló màa gbé ilé táa kó ta.

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Literature / Friends Exchange by Kindoo: 10:48am On Mar 22, 2017
FRIEND EXCHANGE I

Awe,
       How are you Temilade? Hope you doing good? It's been two months and it as if decades had pass. I miss you die. I have been alone if I may claim. Joke and Tolu are never a substitution, kenu madi le ni guguru won. Your brother delivered your message to me, I kept the letter as if it were more than, paper and ink. It is more, I enjoyed every bit of it and it was as if you were there, sharing the city life with me. I will be there someday.
       Lade, you must have put on weight and look more beautiful with those food you told me you eat. I don't belief in those, I like my eba and iyan. I was in the farm last week with my brothers to eat pounded yam. I was not interested in my going, until the moment I heard that was coming up, I jumped at it. It was fun as usual, oh you missed.  Oga Dada's trap caught ikun,  then we were lucky to smash the head of the rodent living in our hut. The two crowned the meal. I did the soup cooking and my brothers pounded the yam. I took mine from the mortal to avoid not eating as I wanted. They almost fought on it while I sat eating my food, jejely. You know, every morsel count. I wish you were there. Do you have such enjoyment in the city?
    Well to leave the pounded yam, many things had happened in the village. Arike is getting married. Guess the husband. Ayo the son of agbede. The two lovers are getting married at last, sebi you know their stories. Through the thick and thin. Hahaha. They have a good ending. Lade, you should not betray my brother, you know he loves you, I watch on him as you told me and he had been faithful. Keep yourself for him to avoid the shame of the end. You know city is a land of divers culture, don't forget that if you do not keep tight, you will be a disgrace to your family.
      You remembered the incident of Amoke, I wept for her as the people of her husband's house, disgraced her and brought empty gourds to her father's house. She suffered psychologically until she was sent to another village. Please my friend, let us zeal our friendship with this love, you will be my sister in law and a friend.
My brother is an hardworking young man, with much more faithfulness. He is loyal and can be caring. You are lucky with him. My Akin is doing fine. His family is talking about marriage but I have to finish that project I told you. He always ask of you and I told him, where you are.
       Lade, I know it, you will be a good wife to my brother, you have being a friend in court. You stood by me through those hard times, thank you. Been close to my brother, I told him some of the things, we have been through together and he made up his mind. The time of Ayoka's case, you were the only one that believed me. All evidence seems to prove against me that I stole the money. All others deserted me but you stood, with moral support. Let me tell you now, the thief was caught last Monday. It was Ayoka herself, she was the one who stole the money and use the opportunity of my presence in their house to say, I was the one. She did same thing last Monday with Aduke but the trick failed. The secret was made open. It was then she confessed all. It was a burden lifted from me. I thank you again for staying by me. I did not know why you did not doubt me, your act stood as a comfort to me whenever I thought of doing something wrong. It was a label that hurt too deep but thanks to God, I am vindicated.
    I will be glad to see you, you should be coming for the yam festival or won't your work allow you? It is one thing I do not want to miss. It is ever interesting, it enables us to have a happy time, at the same time, see our people who had left the village for a long time.
     The last one was made bad for me, Toke claimed that I was among those who were fighting. I could hear your shout of innocence, 'She is not there, she  is not part of them' but they would not believe until you witness for me at the palace. If not, I would have suffered hell. My father had made up his my mind to give me the punishment I will leave to remember, this, he told me latter. Thank you.
   This one I know surely will be great, the king is really puting things in place for a large event. My plan is to be among the dancing group who will grace the occasion in our age grade. I want you to join me if you can so we can beat them to it again, as we always do. If you will do, you have to join early to learn a few new steps. It will be great.
          Many news, many gist but I keep the rest till you come. Bye me city things, most especially the wears. I want to look like the queen of England, how can a woman head a nation so powerful.  Write me when you are coming, so I can prepare so many things for you.
Greet your uncle for me. Take good care of yourself.
                          Your friend,
                           AlenD

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Crime / Re: 23-year-old Man Sentenced To Death By Hanging For Stealing Phone by Kindoo: 1:12pm On Mar 21, 2017
Poverty and wicked mind. Any way, temper justice with mercy.
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Family / Re: Lady Celebrates As Court Dissolves Her Marriage (Photos) by Kindoo: 12:56pm On Mar 21, 2017
Some men are not just bearable, they treat women like nothing. If that is true, she must have pass through hell.


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Literature / Masoyi Na by Kindoo: 4:37pm On Mar 19, 2017
Narubuta wanga wasika zuwa gareka Na hadu da mittane da ban da ban Amma ba wan da yeke kamar ka Dan ka kawo mun murna Wadansu sun zo, amma sun chucheni Amma soyayan ka mai gaskiya ne Ka che kana sona kuma ka gwada mu Ka aje zuchiyan ka ma ni ke clai Soyayan ka ya ban kwanchen hankali Kai zinari ne da zuchiya na ke bi da kunlun Ban so sa ke ka Na gode  dan kana son na
(Hausa interpretation of  'Tu mai Rove' by OMÓJUWÚRÀ) INTERPRETED BY ANIKI RICHARD SAMUEL.
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Literature / I Need Igbo Interpreter by Kindoo: 4:26pm On Mar 19, 2017
I need an Igbo person, who can translate English to Igbo, to help me translate two of my short poems.
Note, I need the person to help, because I have no money, to pay for now. If you are willing. Reply on this page with your contact.
Thank you too much.

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Literature / Agbojulogun Ii by Kindoo: 9:32am On Mar 17, 2017
'ComiD, ComiD' His friend hail.
'Give him a bowl of palm wine' ComiD said to moth SeriD.
That was his way, spending the money he hath not worked for and he care less about how it comes. His father does not steal, so he had rest of mind. ComiD was one of the young men in the village who had the privileged of a rich father. His father was one of the decision maker in the village by the virtue of his wealth. He had just two wives and he sustained them well. His wife's were the envy of other in the village. They added colours to occasions with the beautiful clothes they wore. They were friends to the noble lines. They enjoy the blessing their husband's wealth bestow on them. Moth ComiD was the first wife, she had five children and ComiD was the third child and the only son. The husband had married another wife because of her inadequacy to give birth to more sons. Moth ComiD was hard working, who supported her husband from the scratch. And the husband did not take her for granted.
    ComiD was not like that, he felt as the first son, he was the direct inheritor of his father's property, so he buried his hand
and left the hay while the sun was shining.
One of his friends advised, 'why don't you learn a vocation, tide do turn'. That was the beginning of their malice, 'Which tide is turning. You poor ones always think evil' He followed his mari-mashop friends, who hailed him for some coins.
     The tide indeed turned. His father died unannounced. You know the way of death, it comes silently, calmly and quietly. His father was buried amidst tears. Oh! May his soul rest in peace.
  His wives were still mourning their husband when Fath SeriD came. He was the younger brother to Fath AliD, he was known by all as a mean man, he did not reject the name as continue in his way. He came into ComiD family to do his worse. He, with the support of some family members, took over the property of Fath ComiD. He did not hesitate to do just anything to destroy whosoever want to stop him. Those who needed their lives stood away. The ones who dared, went behind their brothers.
    ComiD raised his lazy head but his mother quickly called him to her feathers.

Moth ComiD
You should not die as your father did. You are my only son.

ComiD
Let me show this man that I am the true son of my father. He can't take all that way.

Only God knew what he was fighting for. For his life that seemed leaving him or for his mother and step mother. It was sure and obvious, he needed those thing to survive.
   When he could not get them, reality was dawning on him. Every thing so sure surplus before were wanting now. ComiD did not need the hailing now, he needed his stomach filled. Gradually, it began to tell on his life and he began regret the decision he made not to build himself for the future.  It dawn on him clearly, he thought those that had been his friends will help him but they did not, rather they moved away from him. That was how his suffering began. Nobody was ready to help him, they knew his story. Those who felt for him pitied him for what his uncle did to him, not what he was suffering as at that time.
  He thought twice about his life. Should he continue that way, his life will be a mockery. He began to do the little his hand could carry. That was how he came saved.

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Celebrities / Re: Where Is 9ice? by Kindoo: 9:29am On Mar 17, 2017
Will check out.
Since he ventured into politics, to me, he had taken a step backward. Music is his, he got fame, wealth singing, that is enough pointer, to show, he can rise as high as KSA and far higher. if he stick to his path.
Let someone tell him please.
Health / You Can Lose Weight By Drinking Water by Kindoo: 9:25am On Mar 17, 2017
Water is very essential to the body. Adequate
water in the body does a whole lot of good. One
of such is weight loss.
Drinking water, water loaded fruits and
vegetables can help you lose weight.
Let see how,
-Drinking water before meal give less appetite for
food, your stomach is filled with water, so you
consume less calories leading to weight loss.
Drink a glass of water 30 minutes before meal.
-Take water instead of drinking high calorie drink
or beverages like milk, soda. This will aid weight
loss because the intake of calories is cut down.
-Drinking water increases the rate at which fat
burns in the body. It also promote breakdown
and removal of fat cells.
-Drinking water mobilise stored up fat into
energy. Fat is not stored up in the body.
-'Drinking more water help your body to stop
retaining water, leading to loss of extra pounds '
-Drinking ice cold water can help you lose
weight. Your body work harder to warm the
water up, therefore burning more calories.
Adequate water.
Drink according to recommendation, at least, 8
glasses of water everyday.
How do you know you have adequate water in
the body.
When you visit the toilet, check the colour of
your urine - if it is clear or light-yellow in colour,
you are well hydrated. If it is darker your urine,
you need to drink water. Drink enough to stay
healthy. It may not be easy to drink adequate
water but you can, time yourself, set alarm, put
your mind on it. If you can maintain this for three
days, you will be able to continue as a lifestyle.

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Celebrities / Where Is 9ice? by Kindoo: 5:37pm On Mar 16, 2017
It being long I heard 9ice's voice. it is unique, where is he?
Literature / Agbojulogun by Kindoo: 8:14am On Mar 15, 2017
AGBÓJÚLÓGÚN
(One who put his future on inheritance)

AliD can be likened to Saul the king, in appearance, he was the tallest in his father's large house and he is few inches the tallest in village. Dark as charcoal, glowing with pride. White teeth as ajé, he was the desire of the maidens. A prince you will call him, if you were a stranger in MexD. He had the fame and the charisma. AliD, AliD, AliD. All these attractive and desirable, he ride on his fathers wealth. Fath AliD was a sojourner in MexD but it is almost a home for him now. He rose to wealth in the village. AliD, believed in his father's property and does nothing to improve his life.

Fath AliD
This is the same thing you always repeat, the future will take care of itself, but you never work it real. You create a future and not wait for it. Learn vocation, no. Work on farm, no. All you do is play around while other are busy building their future.

AliD
I insist baba, the future will take care of itself. At least, I have you.

Life goes on. AliD played and flex away with his father's wealth in mind. Five years after, a land dispute came up between MexD and LoDD. It was a tough one.There was nothing left undone to quench it fire. The solution finally came. The boundary must be marked. Epa! Greater part of Fath AliD farm was on the part that belong to LoDD. They wasted the ones they could and left the others with a warning, no one should come for any of those possessions.
Fath AliD had a great lost. His wealth was cut down once without warning. What was left can only sustain his feeding not wealth. Ojú AliD yán. AliD could not believe it but he hope in the remaining. His brothers and sisters, who had listened to his father's advise were his father's consolation.
   When savings began to dwindle, Fath AliD, began to feel the impact of what had been done. His spirit went down with it. He could not bear the status change, from wealthy to average. It had adverse effect on his health. It was treated as normal but he refuse to heal. With time on the ailment bed, they began to sell his remaining property to take care of him. Until the property's was all sold of and little was borrowed, he did not die. Ódi gbére!
     AliD hope was gone, it was  like a dream cleared away from the eyes of the dreamer. All properties, all lots, all inheritance, gone. Gone and could not be regain. Destroyed, sold to save a life.
     He began to suffer for it. His portion was gone. The praisers were gone. No one had pity on him. He wasted his opportunities. He began to work as  a labourer to sustain his stomach. It was difficulty, sometimes, he wished the world will come to an end. His siblings were younger to him, they gave to him when the have but it was meagre. His beauty went inside, he became thin-tall. He learnt his lesson in a hard way but èpa ò bóró mó, he could not leave his siblings kind of life except if he will work for it. A very hard work.

OMÓJUWÚRÀ (2017)

You that you are relying on your father's property, you are wasting your life. Should anything change, your hope go with it. Take to the opportunities you have now and make the most you them building your life. A life built is a future secure not a inheritances wait for.

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Celebrities / Re: Foston Utomi Batters Wife (Patoranking's Boss) Graphic Photos by Kindoo: 7:43am On Mar 15, 2017
Only immature men control their homes with punches, no matter what, learn to refrain.

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Literature / This Oyinbo Self by Kindoo: 11:29am On Mar 13, 2017
Oyinbo What are you? When will your learning end? The things you have done for me Is great Oh! Oyinbo
You have made the teacher beat me My name always appear on the vernacular list When teacher ask for explanation I create the joke scene 'I spoke to her, say, I want to, want to... fun mi niwe e' Two strokes, three strokes Is that good?
You have made me dumb When I speak Laughter reign Hahahaha Hahahahaha Hahahahahaha What I do? I ask No one say, except a best friend You do not speak correct grammar 'Is that, I does not speak the right granma' Yes, you do not
So I was careful to speak Just smiling Those who do not know me say 'The boy is quiet' Those who do know me Tease me to speak I just bear all things Or at most say 'Leave me o, you are looking for trouble o, I will report to uncle o' You shut in again Is that good?
You have made me lose chances Questions I should  have answer Oyinbo, you were not there Expression I should have made Oyinbo, you were not there The ones I should have spoken to Oyinbo, you were not there Making me lose many Is that good?
I got angry I gave myself to the study of English I got you, Didn't I?
I spoke with boldness now I became my self Sparkling and playing
But I noticed I occasionally throw the unconscious bomb 'Booom' Sometimes I correct myself Other I don't even know I learn when I could But you are wide o I still some times dash in the 'boom' The sound goes oyinbo
Well, learning never end I will continue to learn your rules Until I contend with a white master and win. Oyinbo.
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Celebrities / Tonto Dikeh: Just Another Victim by Kindoo: 11:16am On Mar 13, 2017
Domestic abuse, verbally or practically with punches, slap, belt...on women, is one thing too much in our society this days. We only heard of Dike and other celebrities because of their state of fame. They are few in a millions of women who suffer hell in the hands of their husbands in Nigeria and across the world. Those who cannot bear it run for their lives, those who stood to endure; some lose their lives, some are dead in themselves, others had developed strange diseases. To the men, who abuse their wives, I say to you, you are not man enough .A man, man enough does not control his homes by slaps or punches, he simply does with love and self discipline. Well, I call on our mothers in Israel, who have family ministry to do more, orientating the men that, beating a woman makes them more of a weakling. I do not blame much of those people, the fault is sometimes from the beginning. You must be prepared, well prepared before you go into marriage.
Let us look at some points,

Before you go into marriage
-The power of identification.
Because many of us are so far away from self, we permit just anybody to make a mockery of our woman pride. If you are close to yourself and you know who you are, you will surely know the type of man that suit your life. Making a choice is no pride, it is simply knowing what you want and going for it. The hype, the level we claim, sometimes make us far from the reality of who we are, this freely lead us into the hands of men who do not have honour for us. Know yourself  and go for the kind of man that will do your life good. He may not be as rich as you are, if you will humble yourself in love, you will have the peace and love you need.
      Those of you, who marry men because of wealth or fame, you make mistake of your lives. Some of those guy have wrong mindset about women, this make them a very wring choice for you. You matter, do not allow society or 'class' to push you wrong, a simple choice of a good and gentleman is not too much, you deserve happiness.

-Courtship
If he escape your self test, he should not escape courtship test. Court for real, not this sunrise in the midnight courtship people go about doing. Still being yourself, get to truly know the man and who he is. This Mr. Biggs courtship, no go work, the deceit courtship, no go work. Even if he gives you heaven and earth, do not forget he matters. Instead of first taking the gifts that will that will block your tongue, tell him to reveal himself to you, show you, his true self. He should be your top, the main person you need. Examine, does he fit or not? That you are a woman should not cripple your sense of choice, just 'be temperate in all things' He is the one you give your head to crown it, he should not be a crown of thorns. Before the I do, the opening of skirt, the zipping of trousers, know him. Does his way go with yours? Can he in himself make you happy without those attachments? His attitudes, will they aid your life or mar it? If he gives himself to you, he will not hide himself, both his weaknesses and strengths. If he show you these and you sure you can go on, go with him. If not, take the big turning. He may not be good for you but be the best for another. Make a firm life decision.
     The courtship of material gift to entice women to marry him, result in hot marriage. Use the time of courtship well, it is for  both of you to know each other well.

-Never forget your vision and dreams.
If the man you are dating does not believe  in women rising to fame, he will kill your vision if you give him the chance. That is what I guess is the problem with the some men marrying our celebrities, they have inner fear they cannot confess, 'Will she ride me, she famous, she is rich, she can be independent, if I don't clamp her, she may want to take ride me' So, they let their fear control their hand, trying to bring her to subjection before she rides them. Love is enough, to keep her submissive. A successful woman need a good man most. She needs people of substance in her life that will be wetting her garden as she wet other people's garden. If she knows you truly love her, she will never want to lose you. Love her and stop intimidating her because of your fear.
    If a man is not in support of your vision, don't claim love. He will kill it. So many women's destiny had been buried by the kind of men they marry, the men who had no room for woman success. If you marry one like this, you are in it, every time you try to rise, he will want to force you down.

-Did he value women.
Try to get your man's orientation about women, you will find out, if he values women or not. If he does not, there is tendency that, that will reflect in his way of behaving. No matter what you are, he does not have value for you due to his experience or background (men that come from where female children are not regarded as children) And so, he can treat you any how. His sense of value for women is very low, so he can treat you very low.

-The home he comes from.
Forget about class or title, some men have poor family orientation and they did nothing about it. They did not think of getting a better life, they go with the dreg and feed their own wives with it. If you must marry anybody, try to get to his family house and see how the parents live. See the relationship between his parents, try to get the father and know who he is. See what they think of female children in his house. If it is a home where they see female as inferior, expect such, except if he had change by exposure. If not, he will not give you a chance to speak, any attempt to proof you have something to offer will earn you a slap. Even if he is good, and his family member are bad, it is a no, no.

     Know your man one on one. All these also apply to men, many of them are crying in silence, their woman is just too simple, she bring them hurt in their soul. Hmmm, many wished they could turn back the hand of the clock, well, too late. The ones just coming take caution, yes caution and pray well. Bad spouse is hell on earth. He or she can destroy anything you carry or think of doing.

After marriage(Eph.5:22-33)
Marriage is ordain by God to better the life of Hunan not to mar it. He saw a need in Adam and he met it by Eve. The purpose of God for marriage has being abuse today, that the coming generation seems to dread the idea of marriage. They have seen either of their parents suffer in the hand of the other, they have heard the star they admire molested, they heard and seen the story of friends and foes and it is all discouraging to them. This which do scare they younger one, is bad! Well, the Bible is my standard, I will take clues from it to you.

HUSBANDS (1Pet. 3:7, Eph.5:25)
It is written 'Husbands love your wives even as Christ love the church and he gave himself for it' 'So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself'
   Husbands love your wives, deeply and truly as Christ love the church and gave the greatest gift, his life. What a love! To know the character of love, check 1Cor13:4-8. If you love your wife as this, there are so many things you are doing that you will not be doing. Your wife will be a treasure to you and you will ever value her. You will prefer to forgive her when she offends you, (she well surely do) instead of battering her.
   See this 'Ye husbands, dwell with them (wives) according to knowledge, giving honour unto wives as unto weaker vessels...1Pet3:7'
True love is sufficient to keep a home, if you will chose to love your wife. I have heard a man said, 'men don't love'. I laugh! If a man does not love a woman, he will never know her worth talk less of regarding her besides such a man is missing. Whosoever have not feel love, has not feel his true self. No love, no life.

WIVES (Eph.5:22)
It is written 'Wives submit yourselves to your husbands, as unto the Lord'
Wives submit yourself to your husbands no matter how rich, famous, educated you are. Submit in love as Sarah did unto Abraham. Submit to them in love, do not try to ride them. When you do, you try to kill the men in them and they react, slapping your head to neck.
See this, 1Pet.3:3-6. Let nothing make you a terror to your husbands, he will slap you if he does not love you or have self control. Submit to your husbands in love. You have accepted and chosen him, control your mouth, caution your self, don't be rude, do the right things at the right time. Even is you are more influential, still love him and submit to him.

Note: The submittion of a woman is not foolishness, it is  for order sake, let no one abuse it. Two people cannot head a home. A good man is enough. So husbands, honour your wife, reason with her, when you see a blessed woman as worthless, she grieves and become unhappy, sometimes, showing bad attitude.

Couples, intending couples, young men and women get it right.
Couples love each other. Husbands love your wives, do not abuse the place God as given you as the saviour of your home. Don't treat them as people of no value. Wives submit to your husbands in love. There will be offence, chose to settle all in love not blow or slaps. Beware of third party, be it anybody.
   Intending couples be truthful to each other. Sort out things in love and your marriage be stress free. Understand each other and live in love, other things will fall in place.
   Young men and women, get to know yourself and make the right choice right from the start. Marriage has either positive effect of on ones life, so choose well. Some people who were looked down upon, rose to light by the virtue of marrying a successful man. Some great potential also fell by marrying the wrong ones. Make a choice. To be made or mar. It doesn't matter whether you a man or woman, once you get it wrong, your life might go that way forever.

For all, pray to God to keep your home, give you wisdom of a good husband or wife, pray that he direct you in your marital choice.

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Literature / Teen Pregnancy by Kindoo: 11:38am On Mar 10, 2017
ComiD
Oh sorry! May God comfort you.

AliD
Sorry! For what?

ComiD
I heard your mother crying, yesterday's evening.

AliD
Oh! It was a joy-cry.

ComiD
Joy-cry?

AliD
Yes, my younger sister gave birth to her first grandchild.

ComiD
Oh! No wonder it was harsh.

AliD
It was not harsh, it was only high.

ComiD
She knew, she had added to her burden. What a joy?

AliD
Not a burden, a bundle of joy.

ComiD
Indeed! You watched her moved with those thin leg boys at the wrong time, you refuse to caution her. Now you have a bundle of joy?

AliD
Whatever! I am now an uncle.

ComiD
Congrats o, uncle AliD. This days, any can become an uncle. Teen uncles.

SeriD
When a teen girl gives birth and the mother joy-cry in that manner, something is wrong. She joyed in pains but there would have been cautions.

ComiD
Abi o

SeriD
The mother was always absent from home, pursuing business sales. Claiming 'It is what you will eat that I am looking for'
Whenever she is around, she do see the calibres, her daughter walked with, she bothered less. Even when neighbours warned about the child not sleeping at home sometimes. She roars, 'Leave my child alone o, leave her'

ComiD
That is the result, the bundle of joy. Hurrah!

AliD
Why are you so bothered?  It my family affair.

SeriD
Family affair uncle.

ComiD
Hahahahahahah

SeriD
The bundle of joy has come to stop your sister's education. She might not be able to go further so that she can take care of the baby.

ComiD
Oh! The future bleaks.

SeriD
Or do you think your mother can combine her load, already sufficient with hers.

ComiD
May be the father will help.

SeriD
Who is the fahter?

AliD
FriD.

SeriD
FriD just finished his secondary school. Teen father. AleD will have to carry her load.

ComiD
What a potential tending to waste, if she cannot further. She becomes a drop out because of no caution. The future  she desired, cannot be gotten like this.

SeriD
She is one out of many. Many of them cut their dreams and let off what they can be because of unwanted pregnancy

ComiD
Parents should caution and guide their children against having unwanted pregnancy.

SeriD
Sex education
Know yours daughters friend
Rebuke her, when you notice she has bad attitude with the opposite sex or keep strange moves
Spend time with your children, loneliness can make them seek friendship with just any person.

ComiD
True, true talk.

SeriD
Secure your daughters future. She is your treasure.

ComiD
Yes, yes, your treasure. How will it be, AliD?

AliD
What?

ComiD
The christening.

AliD
Because of situation beyond control. The christening will be done in the parlour. But as friend, I will surprise you.

ComiD
Really?

AliD
It is my memorable day. My first nephew. Till then sha.

OMÓJUWÚRÀ.

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Family / Re: Wuraepistle by Kindoo: 10:30am On Mar 09, 2017
SON AND PARENTS EXCHANGE II

My son,
         Oh dear son, it is with great joy, that I write this letter to you. Your mother is also with me.
       Son, I did not know the worth of all that I did until I red your letter to your mother and me. Your letter made my day. It gives me fulfilment. It makes me feel successful.
    I appreciate what you did son, it is of more value than you thought.
    I pray for you son,
May your joy be full
May God keep you and your family
May your children bring you joy.
Your days shall be long.
May you never suffer set back.
May God honour you and  grant your heart desires.
     Your mother is well pleased with your letter. She smiled and smiled. She said to me
'This is one good thing in recent times'. She is also pleased to prepare your usual meal. Tell us when you will be coming, I will like to surprise my crowns.
   We shall be expecting you.
                                With all joy,
                                 Fath ComiD

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Family / Wuraepistle by Kindoo: 10:27am On Mar 09, 2017
SON AND PARENTS EXCHANGE I

Dear Mum and Dad,
       How are you dad and mum? How has your week been? I am very sure it has being beautiful. I got the gift you sent to Ini and keji, over the weekend. You never cease to amaze me, anyway, thank you very much. My wife and I really appreciate your gift.
   I write to appreciate you for all you effort over me. You have been wonderful all the year long.
     As I was lying on my bed to sleep yesterday, some thoughts came roaming my mind and I let them take me to the past. It was a memoir journey. I could see that I am not where I am today by me, it was through your labour of love and the blessing of Jehovah.
     Now, I can say, I am a big boy. I have a good wife, two lovely kids, one house here, another there, nice and convenient cars, thriving company and other blessings. All this did not just come on me. There was a time, your house was where I dwell, your car was the one I ride in, the money you have, was the one I spent.
       Mum, I saw my wife do the drumless dance for my little son then, that suggested to me that you have done the same. You danced to pet the crying me even in the night. I wonder how loud, my cry would be then. Smiles. You cleared the mess when I had hands by they were not strong enough. Your back better suit me than the bed. Still growing, you are still there for me. Your joint labour with dad is a blessing to my life.
     Dad, It is now I know the thing you do then, when you go out as early and come back at night. You went to find our daily bread. You went to strive for our feeding, our clothing, our going to school; the best you gave us. You came back smiling, even when the day was stress filled. If we had slept, you surely checked on us.
    I saw you one night but you thought I was asleep. You were tired, worn out but you still came to check on us and bid good night while we were asleep. I do just that now for my kids, it is one thing I cannot but copy  from you, among many other little thing that you did then that counted much. You have taught me many lesson by your actions so also mother.
      Dad and mum, I thank you for standing firm in ensuring that I did that which was right. It was as if yours was to much. The rebuke you made, help shaped my life. Peers were ready to induct me into whatever they feel well. I was also ready to follow, the reigning path but your rebuke, stopped me.
     I remember that night, the night I went out with my friends, they dropped me at 1:30am, you both were waiting for me in the parlour and as I came in I knew I had done something wrong. You waited till the morning to rebuking that bad attitude. It stopped me from such and that made me more committed to my family now, I have them to protect. It also saved me from all that would have befall me as it had befall some of my friends then.
     Your counsel dad and mum are treasures. They come to my mind time to time and guide my ways. They are not to be done away with.
     You are a great help, God had sent to my life. You have use good part of your life to build my life. Even now that I am grown, you still stand as mother and father, you did not relent in your love and care. That showed in your piece of this and that, that you sent time to time.
     You did not show this love to me, you showed to my wife and your crowns, my children as you called them. All these help make me. They make me happy and feel I have people of substance in my life.
    I am grateful to you both. Thank you mum, thank you dad. Thank you for your love, thank you for your care, thank you for everything you have done for me. I am grateful to you. May God continue to keep you for me. May your days be filled with joy of heaven. Thank you always.
We plan to see you soon. Mum, make ready our usual meal. When we are coming, I will notify you.
Love you two always.
                            Your son,
                              ComiD

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