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Twizzy30:
He's yet to pay Lagos state indigenes bursary, since last year

u go talk say na pension we pop man or ur monsi never collect dey vex u abeg talk true d man try

Akeredolu?!!!!!!!!! where are u, come and see what your mate has achieved, what have u achieved so far?!, worse governor of the century soo visionless (if there is any word like DAT) and brainless

Akeredolu?!!!!!!!!! where are u, come and see what your mate has achieved, what have u achieved so far?!, worse governor of the century soo visionless (if there is any word like DAT) if and brainless

Buffalo2:
They do same in Unilorin

as a unilorite I would love to witness it someday, I think its always on a low key, unilorin theater n art is the best those guys can act sing n make one happy, always show casing any where plus they are humorous when doing these things u go just dey laff

I love this, this is how it should be as a theatre and art student this shouldn't b a biggie this is what u signed for, show casing ur talent without feeling shy or anything, this is our culture and if u where expecting them to dress in suite n tie n probably hold a bible u played ur self

apart from the eye lash, low waist etc the dress code is not affordable na to use school fee buy cooperate dress nahin remain, so not cool, proper jean and shirt is OK for guys total rubbish

op e gbadun sir, I wonder what type research he carried out to conclude those who a passed a comment or two are Christians n they really practice Christianity, the op's narrow view about Christians won't let me say whether it's is right or wrong, chop ur topic

matters like this usually ends up in regrets from the mothers side, mark this date, the elder wives with already grown up would have less to worry about when the time comes, I don't know why girls don't think ahead before they act, dey think say na like so e go dey sweet go I laff, spread ur legs n have more children money dey n oba still dey fire dey go

she should be arrested for defrauding the public and little success and asked to pay back, there are two sides to stories

as for me I don spoil from small no one told me I just knew at a point though I wonder how women v.... could expand for the passage of a baby but with the help of books and YouTube I understood the process

CiciReally:
@XhosaNostra Pls dear read carefully before judging or calling me bitter and tagging me dramatic, coming from a fellow woman, is it okey that he got me in this situation then backed out? To come back wen the storm is over, what sort of man or father is he? What will it cost him to stand by me till is time to confirm his doubt, I hav no issue if he doesn’t even pay the bills but that support mean the world, am new to this no friends or family around but him.

we are not perfect, his friends and family might be responsible for his change in attitude, just do the necessary things you need to do like parental test etc n if he doesn't change u know what to do already

She shouldn't have used the word help the only person who needs the help most is the poor little girl and her family but truth be told whether the intention was of just course or not as long as it did not cause any damage to the family reputation, she deserves some cut as a token of gratitude, success family should ask themselves this question

what if God didn't use her as a medium to uplift them??

They shouldn't be ungrateful to her but instead to God

Offpoint1:
Heard his dad was rich and influential, so that one contributed too.

98% of successful people will never tell you the secret behind their success, that's why I quit reading books and watch porns more.

and do u know he had to borrow money from his uncle for start up, start thinking straight

the married women iyanyan had s*xed right now would be like "ayemi temi bami" their own is about to done if iyanyan refuse to keep quiet

but I think that guy who nurtured the idea of Taxifi that ubi stole should start speaking up cos this is is own time to expose Ubi except if he has been sorted

ariketalks:
Get (basic) education whether via private or public institution. If you are lucky to gain admission into a public school, good for you. If you prefer private school and can afford the tuition, by all means, go there.
At the end of the day, Nigerian degrees are still not accepted anywhere outside the shores of Nigeria.
So.....

if private could achieve such height then it's worth it but its obvious, private schools equal spending much for less. upon all the stories above for the fact that u graduated from private school doesn't guarantee job security so what's the stress, for me I would pick fed universities over any private school

Cocoyamdcomedia:
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I have don that now .. I sent her this .I like you but I am not sure if u've actually noticed that part of me and she said "OKAY"
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What should I do next.
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Please no insults o I am just a novice

for me that is not a good sign but proceed let's c

bro just ask her directly on what's up are response would determine if she is interested in u too.. just ask example after some level of conversation that would have already kept her in a lighter mood, just tell her ... Chinelo... I like you but I am not sure if u've actually noticed that part of me, wait for her response, if her response is positive just tell her I would like to date u the answer u would get is either positive or negative even without saying yes or no but don't get ur hopes high before u do cos girls do behave like ogbanje sometimes... if u could do a good job on what's app physical would be easy trust me

PrimadonnaO:


One thing really amuses me...and it is that, in spite of all the wailings and misogynistic tendencies these boys display on Nairaland, they still can't stay away from women. They run after women like the air they breathe... and worse still, most of them who wail on here the most end up with the real reformed or still-active oloshos...because they are incapable of attracting and keeping better women.

Y'all keep going from thread to thread bashing women and making silly generic statements. It speaks volumes about who you really are... and sadly it almost changes nothing.

choi !! sister we offend u before

JasonScoolari:
Be truthful to yourself and everyone viewing this thread, who's more useless between the great Ooni and your dad?

the reply u gave him is epic, on my side no reason to pass a comment on his stupidity ori e pe

[quote author=JasonScoolari post=76709178]Be truthful to yourself and everyone viewing this thread, who's more useless between th

I think there is no specific age, it depends on the child n moreover abilities to b independent varies but I think after or before graduating from uni, poly etc depends on child coping ability n orientation

she is trying to sell her book plus no one put u behind bars ur big trashy mouth did

Valleys:
@op you don't need first class or to be the best in that your class for you to be relevant in the industry. Just go and register for ICAN and pursue it with your 2/1 then you are good to go. Don't be deceived with first class in accounting.

OGA IF U HAVE BRAIN FOLLOW THIS ADVICE, CHASE GP WITH SENSE

firstly its so sadden that one must agree to be a Muslim before comment

secondly, I see no big deal in it, is like saying before u could have an affair with a lady u must marry her first even if one is dying health wise n thus force one self to marry, if dat is what nikar.. is about then ko worth e

MacLovington:
Some women and even men here want him to be a mug. They want equal say but not equal responsibility.
Later when things do not work out the same people will blame OP of not being in control of his home.
The culture we live in or under puts a lot of responsibility on man to handle the household. A woman averse to that can try out an Afghan, an Indian, a Saudi, a German, etc.

worse set of people a woman could marry, raise ur voice n get beaten blue black or worse.

sometimes, the man doesn't have to b the matured one the woman has to, let him shout cos he is angry n when he is back to his normal sense, talk sense into the man as calmly n nice as u could n see if he would not change. same thing goes for men. two kings can't live in a palace

henrykene:
With all due respect, i must admit to have learned to shout at a lady the hardest way ok.

One of the major reason she's behaving like that is because you hurt her with your shouting attitude.

Stop shouting at her in any case, but try to talk it over and see reasons with her as your partner instead.

Drop your ego for outsider, and grab the greatest respect she has been holding for you till you become a man.

The best thing to do whenever she starts shouting is to keep calm, at the end you let her know that she messed up and bring p solution ASAP if you have one.

Being a man is not by shouting but by being a calm person that knows his value or worth.

If you guys are still together up til now, you're still lucky, ao what you've got to do now is simply quit shouting at her at all. If she tries controlling you just let her know in peace that she ain't.

If she still cannot keep her cool, eventually she might try to move on, and don't go and beg her to re-union.

some women (same as men) are more complicated than u think bro

Kenshinmunac:
Okay bro thanks

but if after all that she does not change, or she changed for a while n started over the best thing to do is leave her n go look for other lady else where, marriage does not change who she is but could make who she is worse than before bro be careful

Kenshinmunac:
Good evening everyone, I have an issue, I just met this girl recently. At first she seemed very calm quite and reserved until I got to find out that she is this very impatient type of person that gets angry easily and talks back at one, if I ever try to raise my voice at her when she does something I don't like she will be like "are you shouting at me I don't understand, you are raising your voice?"

I am now even scared to talk to her and correct her because she will talk back at me and it will lead to argument because I hate my gf talking back at me, and she is so fucking proud and won't calm down and I too am the type that get angry easily, I can't seem to cope with this her character guys I'm thinking of ending the relationship, but it's hard cause I got attached to her already

She has refused to be controlled and like to do what ever pleases her. She basically wants to make the rules in this relationship and I don't want to let her so I don't seem like a weak man. We have broken up and made up twice now because of this anger issue we can't seem to tolerate each other and I don't want or give her the chance to make the rules

I'm afraid if I get married to her tomorrow the union will end up in disaster as it will be filled with quarreling and fighting except one of us come down for each other and I don't want to be her foot mat since I'm the man in the relationship I feel she should come down for me since I will be the one to take care of her, provide and shelter her. I deserve that fucking respect she has no right to talk back at me over the slightest of things just because I express my displeasure over things she does wrong.

Please guys, advice me I'm fucking heart broken right now. I still love her and we broke up again this evening and this time with a whole lot of word exchange guys.

I'm just confused. I hate moving from relationships to relationships. I'm so fragile emotionally. It fucking devastates me

this is ur opportunity to detach yourself from her n find someone else but if u still want the relationship be d hard one detach ur feelings a bit until she proves herself n earn back your love let her crave n change for real don't go back looking for her or calling her if she loves u she will succumb, I am experiencing same thing at the moment n d advice I gave seems to work

what I realized as a guy is that we guys tends to develop cold feet when approaching the girl we feelings for or think is out of our league like the other lady said except if you such guy doesn't see anything special about u or if such guy is one of those guys who changes girls like wrapper cos a lot is on queue only then confidence is guaranteed

my dad kind of liberal he advised me to date one girl at a time and don't impregnate but my sweet mom, that woman chai, the day I brought a girl to the house not knowing she would be around I had to out smart her and escape the girl via alternative stair case na God help the girl dat day if she had caught her na rag she go wear go house she is not cool with the idea

joepentwo:
They welcome her very well after she left mum told me she looks more like HIV patient, she even warned me to be careful with slim girls.

ur mama na savage