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Fvckyouall:
and you are a serial child abuser, God let me the day a big mugu like you ever lay hands on my kid in the name of discipline I would make sure you die that day. African mentality ki you would be locked up in jail that's where your kind belongs

You are just an idiot idiot, if your kid misbehave I would discipline him or her and if you go beyond your bound you would be disciplined alongside your child.

Tcwork:
Nigeria is actually a product of its people. Would you blame our foundation for the incredible number of yahoo boys, cultist and corrupt youths on our streets?
Your opinion on trump is very personal. About 48% of Americans voted for him. Probably you know something they don't know but that is up to you. And that is a topic for another day.
Now let me ask you and please be honest with your answer. In what ways are nigerian trained kids better than UK trained kids? Again how to we prove that the centuries of flogging has shaped africa for the better? You added that flogging a child wouldn't prevent him from stealing in the future so why flog him in the first place.
Also don't you think we can do better than our primitive ancestors? Evolution has made us much more intelligent than them. How can we still depend on their methods men centuries over? Africa really has to much work to do.

yahoo boys, cultist, corrupt youths on the streets are product of a faulty Nigeria and her foundation.

I would say better, even better than US kids.

Fvckyouall:
you keep mistaking loving your kid with child abuse, it's poverty stricken scum like you average Africans who beat their children as a means to vent out their anger against society, that's you guys form of therapy, I can't wait until when we get proper child protection laws so scum like you can be locked up

you are very very very stupid and a idiot for continuously insulting me, you are a product of poor home training.

Who says you can't discipline a child the African way with love but going to the extent of kicking, mutilating etc are not discipline those are pure wickedness and lack of control over ones anger.

So stop being stupid.

Fvckyouall:
Shut up, there are ways to discipline a child without treating them like animals. you are not ok the thiefs and cultists we have in Nigeria did their parents not beat them up? talking to a child would do better than ever hitting a child, my parents never hit me yet, they only talked to me if I did wrong and I never did wrong cause I never wanted to disappoint them. You and your useless African mentality of child abuse deserve to be thrown in the sewers

I resisted speaking to you in a rude way but you went ahead to try and shut me up.

Is like asking if the gangsters, criminals, rapists, trumps, racists, murderers we have in USA and UK were beaten or not when they started misbehaving? Considering their tough laws.


Different parents have their parenting styles that work for them.

Tcwork:
So you believe that all our corrupt leaders in nigeria were not disciplined by their parents?
Or all the gangster, murderers and rapist we have were never flogged by their daddy's? Is that your point?
Now let's see the difference
The UK is one of the least corrupt nations on earth, it has great educational system, it's crime level is way below ours and it continues to product global innovators and leaders. We have flogged or kids for 100 of years how did it help us get better?
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting a different result.
Maybe if we change the way we train our kids, we could affect the next generation.

we have a faulty foundation and not a faulty model of raising children in Nigeria (Africa in general), the foundation on which the country (Nigeria) was built is faulty, the constitution which uphold the country is faulty now imagine pouring pure water in a dirty container what would you get?

There is no reasonable numbers of upright people you could possibly ship from other so called less corrupt nation into this our nation and everything would change and become sane, two things would happen is either they join them or go back.

Those people who are corrupt and tuning this country upside down could have been upright from the start but because they find themselves in a situation whereby they are surrounded by crooks who were not booted into shape when they were young they had to fall in and do all they do just to conform.

Some of those our so called leaders in Nigeria were raised without conscience... Whether you flog or not a child who would steal and loot the treasury one day would surely do it... Parenting style can't change that... It only depends on how strong will such person/child after absorbing any training that is available to him.

Do you think if those leaders you said they are less corrupt in other countries find themselves in Nigeria they won't steal?... Their constitution or law is the thing holding them back but still they steal but they don't do it blindly like it's being done here.

Example Trump... I can bet that he was raised without being flogged and he was raised with abundance of money does that stop him from being a dick head?

Child character modification is different from discipline. Best case scenario you discipline and instill uprightness in them... Two different things but they go hands in hands

Either you use the rod and modify their character at the same time or you don't beat and also modify it when needed.

Fvckyouall:
Really no one here is seeing that what this guy did is inhumane, Africans are really dull

Pele o, Gini the genius.... He disciplined his child and you are calling everyone dull... If that child turned a gangstarr, murder, bungler, rapist tomorrow you would be among those hoping he rots in jail... That is the real definition of dull, not doing what you are suppose to do at the right time is something way worse than dull.

Mindlog:
The son was temporarily put in foster care. It is not Nigeria where that is always the argument in defense of an abusive parent/spouse even in the face of what the Nigerian law considers as an abuse.

the kick is the only thing that looks abusive there, the rest accusations are nothing but mare exaggeration to make the accusations weighty, just imagine if such child is not corrected the hard way probably he would end up a rapist or worse and the people would tongue lash the man, they would be the first to troll the boy who would have ended up a criminal.

Send him back to Nigeria to complete his highschool under the supervision of one of his aunties or uncles that loves you and won't take nonsense from him.

Everyone has their own ways of raising the a child.... Some flog while some don't.... Different approach for different folks.

Fedrams:
Can Nigeria be united, the northern has polluted the mind of there kids against the southern people and religion, why are they avoiding kids or people from other regions. Why that hatred. The same kids from the same village extend the hatred the have for other religions and tribe to there own just because he stayed wt such ppl.

religion intolerance over there (according to this write up) is a culture.

EmekaA125:
The childless woman though engaged in crime was kind-hearted and good. Many women can't stay without maltreating their househelps. I pray God opens her barren womb and gives her a child of her own.

it's like an obsession for some married woman... If my enemy was their parent I would trace the woman and share paternity with her.... What's the essence of owning and bearing children you can't take care of, guarantee a future for them... now they have to adjust to extreme poverty and intolerant ways of some people against other religion.

EmekaA125:
Exactly my point. See how good looking they are. Their parents are poor in the North.

I was expecting to see physically abused children, dressed in rags but I was amazed and terrified at the same time.

JosEast:
https://dailytrust.com/our-peers-avoiding-us-kano-kids-rescued-from-south

as awkward as it may sound, it seems like the children had a better and a promising life with their foster parents in the south than where they originally came from.

But kidnapping people's children and adopting them or using them for domestic job is a crime, horrible and punishable.

RedPanthar:
E be like say one Bobo Don carry Zzor go. This one we nor dey too see her break light

Zzor has been taken finally.... At least she go turn better wife cone Nairaland tell us how she used to be a feminist.

FIVE only no more no less

3 boys and two girls although I would have opt for only boys but there won't be balance and raising a girl child no be beans, man gats invest his time in discipline etc more but their mother would come through so no fear.

WriterX:


farda lawd

you dey shout Dada lawd na even waist e talk self lol

When I look into your eyes Alli see is your waist

Davido.. Dolce and Gabanna

Sheuns:
Can Nairaland just move further. Get an app? I spend more time on nairaland compared to any other social media platform.

Only if Seun is smart enough like he used to be but it must not be managed by some useless moderators o cis Nairaland is a case study.

LegendVibes:
A former presidential aspirant Adamu Garba has stepped down as chief executive officer of Crowwe an instant messaging platform, Igbere TV reports.

Mr Garba has been aggressively pushing for new users on the platform since US President Donald Trump was banned from Twitter over inciteful statements and WhatsApp’s latest privacy policy.

In a statement posted to Twitter on Thursday, Garba said he was stepping down to allow one without political leaning to take charge of the daily operations of the company.

The statement reads:

https://twitter.com/adamugarba/status/1349615498275782656?s=20

Garba said the original goal behind Crowwe was to build an open, free and stable African social media platform where Africans can fully participate in global technology revolutions.

He added: “

https://twitter.com/adamugarba/status/1349618673271582720?s=20

His resignation follows growing calls by social media users for the platform to be boycotted.

Garba’s critics say his disapproval of the #EndSARS protests against police brutality is their basis for the platform to be boycotted.

They also claim Crowwe has controversial privacy policy, but Garba has denied the allegation.

If you like step down, also be ready to change of your company join. Bad owner bad app.

CheedyJ:
Na so you sef take send wizkid nudes that year too Na so what goes around comes around but I smell lies sha...

kikikiki.... But why did they do such thing so bad?

Awon Judas

Szkpytqgdcvx925:
bastard. are u not same set of people chasing fulani from south. what happened to ur tolerance.

You better keep your oozing mouth shut!!!

Would you rather stand by and watch strangers from another country come into your home land, ransack your home attempt to kill you, your family, go to your farm eat all your crops and kill whoever stops them or chase them out to the pit of hell where they crawled out from?

Where are the parts of your brain that are still active, well I shouldn't be surprised I might be talking to a Fulani murderer who has slain hundred unjustly and sees nothing wrong in it.

wale377:
Recently, a young Nigerian rapper known as Hyzah has caught the attention of American superstar Drake. His freestyle caught the attention of lots of celebrities and lots of influencers page. Check his freestyle

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xCw6Ss-GxCw



https://www.instagram.com/p/CJ3JHLyMiwi/

a singer and a rapper what more can you ask for as a record label or sponsor

Janesouthall:
Still wondering what make guys to bleach... As in shey na low esteem or na watin..

e wan fresh by force

Dreadlock69:
Keep later later change him destination inside pot

the funny thing is that he won't be able to eat it las las cos of the bond he would have with the hen...

He go be like say you wan kill human being

deantimes:
Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/todaypoliticsng.com/endsars-promoters-must-be-prosecuted-keyamo/amp/

that festus mouth go dry join him brain, useless bongarloo

JudgeKronos:
Bros, Abraham give his house help belle, come give Serah belle on top.
seems like your end time started a long time ago

tey tey.

I see nothing wrong for a man to marry twin, if their wahala won't kill him... Go ahead

sirjamesjnr:
Yes, She won't have time for me. She doesn't have time for herself either . But trust me she always takes out her precious nap and food time, just to talk to me .

I visit her workplace she wouldn't have time to say hi also I have to sleep three nights in different hotels to be able to see her. I got angry one day and ask her, how will she take care of my kids when we marry.

When she is with me, I never want that moment to end. Our romantic life has had to suffer a lot of time because of duty calls. I have to get myself busier so I don't get emotional. she is honest and blunt, doesn’t beat around the bush. Sometimes I have to win her with a strong argument and points.

She is independent and can make life-death decisions, so I don’t feel bad if she doesn’t consult me and make some decisions highhandedly. I trust her, she good decision-maker the majority of times. For us, It’s accountability and responsibility that counts. I won't settle for less and she won't either. No room for excuses or self-pity.

She has to be nice to her patients and fellow male colleagues. I don’t mistake this for flirting. Her male colleagues are there with her than I am, so I am more comfortable and carefree because I trusted her. we do know our boundaries. Most of the time she will be discussing how much she misses me with them. I have the self-confidence that helps me though sometimes I get a bit jealous.

She is Superwoman without the cap all the time. So I have to decide whether to expect even more from her or be Super Man myself and share her burden a bit more.. understand her a bit more..love her a bit more.

As a doctor, she is extremely sensitive but also blunt. She knows when I need a hug and when an earful. Most of the time, she sees me as a case, desperately trying to diagnose my actions, detect my mood, I have to explain every action, etc.

She is great, very polite, courteous, intelligent, and fun and I love her effortlessly. The hard part is living with the job, the workload, the schedule, she never off duty, even when she is off duty, no time for long conversations. I already know I am committed to her and I must be committed to her job too. I need to be supportive of her, emotionally mature and have a life of my own. It has been a long ride but our relationship is thrilling. Will I choose another if given an opportunity? Only if I stop been me.

Learn from me, if you can't compromise in some area never date a high valued woman. With slay mamas wannabe, You have no issue, all you need is your time and money and you are the boss.

She is the one, trust A1, loyalty A1, loving and caring A1 but before you start having children you just have to create a time that works because the presence of both parent matters, if children can't get enough of the time and attention they need... Ha! Wahala.... At a point she has and you have to be there to be there as much as they need so they won't go astray. I am just saying, that is the major challenge though.

Marine54:

www.nairaland.com/attachments/12968675_13668565016081600060330754701552662600949206o_jpegc194f6867deda417bd85beb3f3f2914f
Source: https://m.facebook.com/AhmedmusaMON/photos/a.902605793255170/1608159999366409/?type=3&source=48

Just imagine these sets of hypocrite northern Muslims o.. Amebo 0.02

Driedfish:
Meow meow.

this Dried fish seller would just be disturbing someone with homeless cats.

That is by the way. Most Nigeria soldiers are kuku useless only few have sense. I sprayed chemicals on my plants in order to prevent pests, rodents etc some idiots came with their cows to feed and destroy my property and the cows died now you are arresting the victim.

I think those military men need psychological examination, if there is anyone who should lodge complains it should be the farmer whose crops were eaten by rodents (those cows are rodents)

JudgeKronos:
You condem Ahmed Musa for posting a picture of his wife pecking him on Facebook, but you leave your own wife for house carry ashawo enter government lodge..

That is the highest level of fuckery

They know the culprit but they a pretending... Na Trumpet... Why they acting like Apc and Buhari

BeautyNoBrain:
If I am going to be honest with you,in my own humble opinion without being sentimental of course, without offending anyone who thinks differently from my own point of view,but also by looking into this matter in distinctive perspective, I would like to say I have nothing to say

you need a hard knock on that you coconut head