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missjo:
Lol,you some of you are so serious.
My papa bear has told me some of those things while we were in a playful moment. Sometimes,not even when i am in a good mood but the way he says it jokingly makes me tease him with something similar in return.

I take exception to his mother jokes and his ex jokes tho, those ones are a NO GO, don't even tell me none of them playfully

if that is you on you dp you have one of the nicest shapes ones gf/wifey should have keep it up

n for guy screaming where is your boobs? if you are not pleased go and hang yourselves

meetmeonline:
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You did very best move, you have a million in one pair of balls!...When you hammer, please do not be humble, wave the cash on her face and propose to her even if you want to, but jilt her!...Don't mind Africa Magic people, no swear ever works from a mugu than followed a bait.

He could even play her a bit like you said date her again, let her sense of entitlement grow higher, give her all the fake love you can give, promise her marriage even give her fake engagement ring then when you are ready to marry that lady you value remind her what she did, then jilt her and ensure she never crosses your part again, if she wan die make she die na she kill herself nor be you

seriously I hate when one is in a relationship n ones girl doesn't appreciate ones effort funny enough those girls are leaches and don't have anything going on for them but they would be ready to call a guy broke

MrBrownJay1:
So many insecure people in this world...why pretending?! Be fully honest with your woman, ALL THE TIME...



If your family doesn't like her then there is nothing wrong with it....they must have a genuine reason and that's OK...you cannot force others to like your wifey, but you certainly shouldn't pretend they love her either. Tell her exactly why they feel this way, and most importantly, how their views won't change ONE BIT how you feel about her.


So that she can get more fat?
So that you can lie to her that she doesn't look fat in her dresses?!?!
Be honest with your woman ALL THE TIME, so that she can do something about it. If she is indeed getting fat then never lie to her about it because guess what? She probably already know about it herself.



If her best is not good enough then you should encourage her to try harder or do better... and certainly not celebrate her for her mediocre action.
This is your other half and you shouldn't be afraid to be FULLY HONEST with her, without being afraid to hurt her feelings. She knows that you only want the best for your family.



If you can't be FULLY HONEST with this woman about any of your past that can affect her in anyway whatsoever, then you have NO business being married to this woman.



How can a football match be more important that your woman?! Get real now... but as much as a football match can never be more important than your woman/Family...if wifey wants you to go shopping with her while there is the champions league final or important WC matches, then I am sorry but shopping will have to wait.

there are some secrets you keep to yourself as long as there is no other way she would get to know, there are some secret you divulge that would put the relationship on the edge of split but not like being married to her and having another secret family dat one? you have killed yourself already it's better you talk than she finds out and know the kind of nincompoop she is married to, if she hears from someone else na gobe

all other things I agree

DankemzI:
This people are funny.
As a true son of Akwa Ibom
I stand with IPod and Igbos our brothers.
Just like our elderly stateman Chief Edwin Clark warned, if Igbos are denied the presidency there will be problem "the baboons and dogs will be soaked with blood".
After Igbos finish their two terms, the south south will complete GEJ's 2nd term that the south west betrayed!

We the SESS are brothers.
We fund the Nigerian economy
No amount of sabotage by Yoruba and Arewa will bring bad blood between us now and forever

I think this is a really good move also they should get more involved in politics and stop shying away from presidential aspirations las las things go fall in place, one other thing I think it is better to also caution those whose statements would dissuade people from supporting this move for instance someone like this guy up here and persons who shared and liked his post

you can't spit venom and not expect people to see you as deadly

I support this ℅ greediness and selfishness aside plus if they could have major parties to reason with them and pick candidates from east and the support of those group and their people is guaranteed by 2023 the sense of belonging would be restored


besides I think PDP nor try at all their sidelining too much d people sef nor dey worry

Chiefochiefo:
Who said we don't have billionaires in the south east and west, but all they do is to build hotels and sponsor elections

always looking for a short time investment or business opportunities with lower dividend/profit and when they see someone putting his financial resources together invest in long term business for higher profit they start shouting MONOPOLY hm hm monopoly ko chess ni

maasoap:
There was one thread last week about the border closure and we ended up discussing Dangote and cement, some dudes were accusing him being monopolistic in nature. I challenged them if Dangote prevent any other rich or wealthy Nigeria from investing in manufacturing sector, they couldn't say anything.
I told them about his failed tomato paste company that had shut operation twice in the past due to absence of raw tomatoes to feed the company. That was to show them that not all Dangote businesses venturing succeed, the man is just relentless. I didn't even know that he had already taken this step to ensure continous supply of tomato fruit from the farmers. You know what one idiot said, he called me one of his employees. Lol

don't mind them always looking for someone to blame for their inaction, had it been they said competition I would have agreed but monopoly no I dont

In as much as Buhari is a fk president he would be remembered and continuously commended for this policy, this is the only policy that is of great benefit to the entire nation as a whole

left for me the border should be permanently closed till we are 95% self sufficient how I wish I am already the man I want to be omo see chance to begin dominate economy for life but it is quite unfortunate that some still don't see anything good about the policy later one business man would come out to say there is monopoly chance dey ground now to also take part u dey look

I listened to him being interviewed on channels what Ali Ndume the man who sponsored the bill said was Nigerians are pleased with the bill and they are not complaining only the telecoms are complaining I just dey shake head for where I sit down

Funny enough there is no public outcry it is like people don't know what the effect would be na until the bill enter third reading, finally passed and message wey network providers dey charge 4 naira enter 16 naira before we begin condemn the bill by that time e don late

you see when you take it upon yourself to raise your child well there would be no worry of him loosing his culture and heritage better pikin

scroll down

You would see some children are poorly raised and as a result dump and ditched where they are from, their culture, their people and even their parent if they don't move correctly who should we blame their parent

Even if your family, country, state or parent did you wrong or because you were raised in foreign land that doesn't mean you should turn yourself to akata who has lost his identity and who would bare children that would bare children that would one day say I am African decent my fore fore father is a Nigerian that is an insult to such person in his grave, the hilarious part is when your children's children start claiming Jamaica or minority of blacks who fore fathers were slaves mad ooo

for the sake of fairness, progress and unity power should shift to SE 2023 but if it does not shift nothing would still happen

Due to the nature of our politicians who value what they would gain over unity the conflict in APC would be settled and power would shift to SW while Vice north just to reciprocate the favour SW did for Buhari but if it doesn't work that way and the north pitch their tent with SE in 2023 so that the north could continue ruling and SE would take over afterwards that would open another chapter of political tussle in this country and it would be a case of who can out smart who plus enough election rigging and violence believe me it would be interesting

in case you have not realised yet peoples opinion on social media could influence who and who the next president would be, from where and which party unfortunately when it comes to politics people up there shut peoples opinion out and go any length to make sure their greed prevail meaning when it comes to politics our opinion don't matter to those leaders in APC n it doesn't count nothing would stop them from using political power to their favour

Odogu9195:
You missed out the part where jealousy and wickedness won’t allow us. Nigeria is a country where everyone is working really hard to make sure nothing works for anyone but themselves. Not just Nigeria, but Africa as a whole. A black man lacks the will to rule! It’s facts. One time a police man seized a bike mans bike due to 50 naira. Bike man was literally crying and begging he doesn’t have money, Oga even removed and emptied his cloths yet police man refused, and for what 50 naira?? It’s that the fault of the government as we all tend to blame the government for everything! NO THIS IS A TYPICAL BLACK MAN WITHOUT ANY FORM OF AUTHORITY ASIDE FROM CARRYING A GUN AND BEEN PART OF A FAILED SYSTEM CALLED THE NIGERIAN POLICE FOR, being really WICKED and unreasonable to his fellow Nigerian. Please TELL ME, how can we grow as a country with looking out for each other??

it is the fault of government, if the govt is serious for a police to ask for ten naira illegally he or she would think thrice, the members of the police force know they could do anything and get away with it thus they continue

rinzaugustine:
Exactly.Government role should only be administrative and regulatory and aimed at creating enabling environment for businesses to thrive.Provide security and pay workers salaries.Thats all

are all these things you mentioned put in place ask ur self

Femijohn198:
the issue of power will not help Nigeria,look at China @70 years everywhere fill with development and technology.look @ Nigeria at 59 years,no good development,no light,unemployment,kidnapping.And we are here talking about power 2023.i pity for these nation called Nigeria.

The rate of kidnapping this days ehn and the outrageous amount they demand would made one drop school and take apprenticeship in the act of kidnapping seriously it is worse than before and cheaper to be one these days

no security anywhere for naija

Jimmyson:
I stand with Area on this. Southwestern Nigeria can never be smarter than Northern Nigeria politically.

They are smart when it comes to politics but greeeeed greeeed has outshined their smartness and as u can see the northern leaders are using that weakness which is also the core of their belief to taunt everyone, I wish the southerners would try and put their difference aside so that one privileged illiterate won't capitalize on that and hit our heads together

etrouble:
Tinubu kee you there.

do you mean Tinubuiscariot that is ready to sell his people for a basket of kolanut at the federal level?

I was thinking of something different entirely not Tinubu's greed

RTSC2:
Stop talking about tinubu.
His region are the last to ask for the presidency in 2023.

You should be more concerned about the South east.

I am from Tinubu's region and I strongly believe it's unfair for power to shift to SW or North in 2023, in the south those who are really entitled to have a shot at the presidential seat should be South easterners for fairness sake, it id unbelievable that CNG elders or whatever they call themselves are trying to play on the intelligence of the easterners, I wonder if it will kill them to put their greed aside and say the next president should be a easterner and vice northerner or easterner president and west for vice just for fairness and for the sake of unity, I also find it hilarious that it seems Tinubu's thirst, greed and dream for power at the federal level is gradually shaky and about to fall to pieces

I really hope these our political elite would put their greed aside restructure or apply the outcome of confab so we can all enjoy this country and stop complaining of being ill treatments

This is hilarious n unbelievable wondering what Tinubu and co are thinking right now

AlphLukau:
Without Brazilian Hairs ... she achieved those things .... One mumu go use her school fees , do runz join am to buy one Fake over hyped Brazilian hair and use it to carry 10 Carry overs back home.

cc; lalasticlala

weeeeeeeeeerey kikikikiki dem plenty

Godsonjoe:
point of correction... they are not disgracing themselves, rather they are disgracing Nizooeria... what they are demanding for is freedom from nizooeria

I yaff hear u

just downloaded n disappointed I did

if na freestyle u wan do do commot for wahala
if na better music u wan do do am am complete am proper

shey na person wey na talk say e better pass zlatan b dis let me ask are u okay?

I just deleted it after I listened to it one Mr p and rude boy try pass this one watin him dey sing

truth be told the only complete standard song is has is... u guys know it

make na stop to dey disgrace na sef na

Mensah007:
I can't afford to go nd see her in a hotel currently.

Then stay in your Lagos explains things to her on video call or any form of call if she insist you know what to do next majority of the here have given you all the best advice you need

she doesn't have a job g
for u neither an accommodation and you can't even afford a hotel room oga stay ur lane no look for trouble wey nor dey find you

if you guys are destined together she would end up with u don't force it

Kaycee54321:
Na Wetin make I suggest make he go reason the babe wella. Lag get opportunities as a hustler pass Abj. The guy dey sound like person wey no get liver sha...He dey complain for nairaland untop good girl, if he come jam Karishika, I wonder Wetin he go do

sniper loading....

Kaycee54321:
I dey tell you

He see Lady wey dey motivate am, he dey complain.

but if he go abj no get connection, no know anybody no know how he go run him life there I am sorry nahin be hin be him last name

the worse scenario he gets there try to hustle is way out over some time the girl gets a well paying job and a guy who is showering her with love las las she dumps him then he comes back to lag to pick up the pieces of his life or keep struggling over there then story ends

what he has been trying to avoid still happens
the girl still wins he loses

Kaycee54321:
O Boy. Go Abj for some days. After una finish praise and worship, sit her down and explain stuff to her. That Lady na wife material. Make una plan una way logically and decide the best thing to do for yourselves... Give her ur reasons and listen to her own too


Good girls no dey oh. If you enter slay mama hand, my brother you go swallow red pill tire.

kikikikiki if e enter their hand na iPhone 11 + he go use that him money wey him dey save buy las las

Peterosky:
Op after going through all the comments above, I would have reasonably concluded that you have had enough advice to make you take charge of the situation at hand. But for emphasis sake, I will also add my little voice.
l am not going to doubt the fact that your girl loves you and want the best for you and her.But first, she is doing it the wrong way by placing an ultimatum on the matter, this simply means that the future is bleak if you eventually marry her as she will be the final say in the house. If you ask me, at this point I will simply break up with her. Secondly,any decision taken under duress has 90% possibility of counting against you in the future. Again, I don't see Abuja having job opportunities like Lagos except by serious connection and God's devine grace. And for her to say she will never come Lagos no matter what, hhhhmmm.You are dating a commander-in-chief .
In conclusion, that girl is not a wife material. So forget her and focus on your life.

did she say she would not come to abj no matter what I didn't pay attention to dat part

my guy move on and figure out your life if it would take time it should don't take a decision that would waste your time n life, if she is meant for you she would reason with u

Kaycee54321:
When last did you Bleep make Love to her? She's missing your sugar cane

She Loves you and believe me, girls willing to invest in a guy are rare these days... Most dey find already made

Go to Abj and do the needful, spend some days with her and make her see reason... Then do what's best for your PERSONAL development.

That woman Loves you.

seriously she is a really good person unlike some of our sisters we are not related to they can't be trusted

Guest007:
In life there's only so much you could do... If its impossible for you to join her then you can't join her. You have tried your hardest but you Must prioritise your future above any relationship. You have to do service, you need accommodation...

The only option I see is you forsaking your future for this relationship and that doesn't sound healthy or right.

I think you should call her bluff and let her know that you have tried and you have no options. If she wants to end the relationship over this then you will have to live with that.

I'm thinking she doesn't believe that you are trying so she's putting pressure on you to make you move. But, she needs to understand that you have tried and that the ball is in her court now.

If she truly loves you, trust me, she will come back, and if she doesn't then she had a better option and opportunity for herself and there's not much you could do about that.

true, what would be would be my guy don't rush ur sef because of the fact that u love her if she wants to break up let the words come out of her mouth but before then make yourself clear n let her know she doesn't have to go to that length of giving you a deadline plus you need some time to figure out things for yourself at your own pace

if she can't wait brother don't use ur own to hold her back or rush your life because of love so u won't leave for abj after sometime come back disappointed to start over again in lag

besides like a guy asked when last did u f...k her she is surely missing you take some time out to pay her a visit find cheap hotel at most 4k a night two days is OK then back to lag to continue ur life who knows she might change her mind when you explain things to her over there plus it would be better if you explain things to her face to face rather than explaining over a phone call

Hemanwel:
OP, pls, this advice I want to give you, save it tightly in your left palms: when you want to make important, destiny-changing decisions, don't rush into making them. Don't allow "girlfriend(s)" to influence you in such decisions.

You're sounding like someone who needs to make a hasty decision that will favour or impress his girlfriend. Because you might lose her?? At 24-25 years of age, you should be planning your own future, not with a girl. Las las, She's going to leave you cos you may not be ready when she is going to be ready to settle down.

Gbam

J111333:
It seems the girl has plans for you in Abuja but you're dull. All she needs is a bold step from you but she ain't seeing it.
Mr. Man, go to Abuja and sleep in a motor park if necessary.

kikikikikiki me sef I am confused I don't know what advice I could give

I think he should calm her down and let her know he has to finish his nysc then afterwards abj

or better still listen to what that guy above me just said