crackkhaus:
He who pays the piper dictates the tune...

so you believe it finances of 50:50 is adopted men will still not misbehave?even in homes where ladies are the breadwinners,men nisbehave

Martinez39s:
When you are tired, you will stop taking medicine over my illness, and you will start ignoring me. My life is no nairalander's business.

both a single mother life is your business?a simp life is your business?i am glad you deny you are what you are...go in peace,if you can afford one.

Martinez39s:
Yen yen yen yen. Anyway, when you are done, you will stop taking medicine over my illness, and you will start ignoring me.

says the bloke that sleeps and wakes on women threads and gets triggered when he sees a mention of single moms...go read your books boy

funmisticqueen2:
This is not how a man sets standards.

The standard a man should have is that he should be so self sufficient that he doesn't need a woman to be, that he can take care of her and his entire family with enough to en
sure a legacy. I am not saying a woman should not be self sufficient. Of course she should have something going for herself. But for the man to start eyeing a woman's pocket and asking her to contribute financially is a big red flag for any woman with sense. It shows lack of maturity. It shows low effort. It is better to be single than to marry a low effort man.


Remember ladies are wisening up, it's online men like you that take the bashing too far but are too scared to approach ladies in real life.

A lot of ladies now realize that why get the pig, when all you need is a little milk from the sausage. Ladies are choosing to be single and lonely than to marry little boys deceiving themselves and the world that they are men.

You are in no position to define what should be a man or woman standard. How do you feel when men define standards for ladies(virgin,flat tummy,good cook,etc)?
The issue I have always had with you is that you can't live and let others live. Things are changing,some ladies are bread winners. Whatever value a man/woman set isn't your business.

You set yourself as an adjudicator of what is good standard and value in both men and women.you don't have that power,funmi,you are responsible for yourself and those who share the same thought with you.

You have no idea of my financial state so shut the fu¢k up.
Don't impose your medieval roles on men...you can't eat your cake all and have it. Men will move mountains and be sole providers for ladies that submit to them,you ladies want independence and yet till have us as sole providers. Its 50:50 finance to run my home if we are both the head(equals) in the home,but if I am head I will be 120% responsible.

No one is eyeing a girl's pocket. We want a girl our class,our level. It seems to you that any man who wants a comfortable girl is broke or wants to eat her money? No!many want to marry from the same social class like themselves. No One is eyeing her pocket.
So after hustling all my life and making it,if I ask a lady what she has to bring to the table that both of us will eat from I am a low effort man? If I have a billion,she will still contribute unless off course she acknowledges me as the head of the home.

You know nothing about me ,what I earn,the currency I earn,my relationship status etc so shut the F up.

Amatarasha:

King of Arthur of England or dat of ajengunle?

You are back?welcome...

Martinez39s:
I hope you didnt create a new account just to respond to me. If you did, it's a waste of time because I don't care what you think. Don't take medicine over my illness. It's best you start ignoring me because I ain't gonna change.

you checked my profile to see the time I created? You had no rebuttal so you had to use the "I don't Care..." Mantra those who are speechless use.
Accept it ,bow your head in shame you were wrong for shamelessly derailing this thread.your hand was caught in a cookie jar,modify your post or keep shut. What is the pride for?

Sorry bro,I can't create a moniker for you,you are a sore loser. Your presence on this forum is a testament to your abysmal life.
Like Capslocked once told you,its high time you engage in a sober reflection because you are detoriating by the day.


You changing is certain,where you not once a die-hard Christian apologist? Then you changed to an atheist,and then redpiller,and then misogynist,who knows what next? All in a space of less than five years. You have no bearing or plan for your life,you just go wherever the wind tosses you and claim "logical".
What happened to the sane Martinez we once praised as a saviour of men?
No one is asking you to be a mangina or Arrow but a redpiller with dignity and respect.
You are not doing me a disfavor by not changing,you are doing yourself.
You are just so loquacious...

This ain't an attack on you,no hard feelings bro

CAPSLOCKED:
MANY MEN DO NOT FORGIVE CHEATING, BUT THEY GO AROUND CHEATING AND EVEN CONVINCING WOMEN TO CHEAT ON THEIR PARTNERS WITH THEM. BUT WHEN IT HAPPENS TO THEM? OH NO, ALL HELL BREAKS LOOSE.

society use shame and threat to put women in misery,they applaud men and always give men applaud for what they will crucify a lady for.
Its a sad reality. But the odds are not always against them,they can utilize gold digging as compensation. Or better still ignore what the society says about them

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funmisticqueen2:
you sound that a freeloader and a liability. What a disgrace!!

What is your problem with a man setting standard for himself?at least they are pro-woman monikers that advice ladies to stay clear off broke guys like shugavee,lavylily,chocolate..
So what is your issue with a man wanting the best for himself?
Any standard a man set you start calling him names like narcissits,beggars etc
Please you can be a pro-woman without being anti-man,just leave men alone..

AstroG:
Guys,never ever in your life toll the road of marrying a Single mother f ur not responsible for the pregnancy.


A Word is Enough For the Wise

Dude what is problem?are you mentally stable?are you aware you derailed this thread?kindly read before commenting.

Martinez39s:
Why did your sister open her legs without protection? What was she expecting instead of a pregnancy? Granite? The boy deserves some blame just as your sister. Na she do herself. They send person go school, e come dey climb diçks without protection.

Beside, there is no way to be sure your story is complete and devoid of any bias and misrepresentation. Your sister is not a victim; she is not a hero. She is just carrying the cross she created for herself.

Hey bro,why does the mention of SM gets you triggered?do they haunt you?
Will heaven fall if you don't stay clear off this thread? The title is to share success story,no one is talking about marrying them or if they are good,the point of this thread is to encourage them to still pursue their education and don't quit their dreams. Your input was not necessary,you are derailing this thread. Like you promised Capslocked,open a thread talking of the demerits of SM or start a say no to single mothers movement but don't come spoil this thread . This has become trolling.
This is so petty,you missed the entire point of this story because you have a passion for pulling those ladies down and heaping blame. My joy is that both mum and baby are safe and that she made a second class honours,you had to pour your negative vibes.

The thread is for women strictly,have some dignity please.
Please don't bother replying Martinez,I have classified you as someone who is "disturbed".,you are very brilliant,but you are investing your brains in gender bigotry.

Not matter how you hide your misogyny it is crystal clear you are one,I know you sugarcoat it with seemingly "speaking the truth" or "saying things as it is" but I wonder how one will invest his time and effort and data into all this gender stuffs,the negative one for that manner,seek help before whatever malady/absurd passion that is bothering you destroy you,you have a bright future indeed,all this distractions are doing you no good,even though you believe so.


You are still young,so I guess all this will end soon.