Jamariwolff:
I am 21, 22 in few days and I inherited 500 million, I want to work small while enjoying life. So I picked France (bonjour tout le monde) please advise.
I am supposed To be in 3rd year in sch but dropped

I was gisting over a group platform with colleagues... Some mentioned they download an app called Tinder to ease out...gist and chat online people this lockdown season...Abuja's Lockdown was increased by 2 more week.
'' Nnne try the App'' but set your profile to match ur audience''
So I created a profile 2 day ago... I picked a random sim. Added a phone no. Set location to 2km/1 mile...so I could met one or 2 decent friends around my hood for Evening Jogging around my estate.

So I meet one guy...who after reading my profile... The following conservative took place.
I promised him, am gonna send screenshots on Abuja Twitter...so next time he doesn't insult a lady for no Reason...I have meet very friendly people on tinder...but this one poured his bile of bitterness on me...pls people help me judge...kindly DONT QUOTE... so I might be kind to take down.
Screenshot shortly. I



Here was my Description on my Tinder profile

'' God fearing Pals... I don't believe in premarital Sex!
5''7 ...Love Basketball
Chelsea Fan Best season with 'Antonio Conte' Political View- Republican /Pro- Trump.
No Party grinders pls. ''

The Screenshot are our Conversation
'' uncensored''


Why will a Guy be this Bitter in Life?... Why the Venom? Is it the Lockdown? Economy issues? or underlying issues bikonu...why will a Guy be so bitter like this Uncle?

Omar09:


Why not loud being chaste. And of course I'm talking about you. I'm talking about women, the sisterhood. I think having sex is good, I mean all the women decides to be chaste, how will we have sex, but all I'm advocating for is safe sex. And I also preach to men I know about safe sex for their own good. But one thing is to preach, you can never enforce it.

Omar09:


First, she didn't run, she wanted to leave and you asked her to leave. Second, your decision is not wrong. In fact you did the right thing for you and your son. Third, that girl is not matured anyway, and she matures, she will come back to you, please move on and don't accept her back.

emmaodet:


Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
There is fire on the mountain oooooooooo
Igi gogoro ma gun mi loju, ati okere lati wo.
An immediate plan should be laid for a forecasted or perceived problem before it gets to us.
I shudder at what is coming and tumbling down towards we men in relationship.

CAPSLOCKED:


LOL, THIS NEVER HAPPENS. NOT EVEN IN MOVIES.

CAPSLOCKED:


I'LL EXPECT HIM TO GIVE ME 90K MINIMUM, SO THAT I CAN BUY MORE WIGS AND BAGS TO SLAY AWAY ON INSTAGRAM.

Omar09:


Hey I don't hate them, what really irks me about them, and I mean those who could have avoided the stigma is the come out as HEROES when in fact, they were utter stupid and just bearing the consequences.

Omar09:


With all due respect sir, I wish to point out where you failed, and where we failed as humans. This thread shouldn't be one where we are subtly encouraging young women to have unprotected sex all in the name of love that won't yield anything. We should teach our females or rather feminism should teach our younger women to always insist on using condoms it's not costly. It's for their own safety. What if she died in the process, what would it called, life, luck, for those who don't believe in God, and what for those who believe in God?

Call a spade a spade bro. They wanna have sex, I don't mind but they should do it with a condom and save themselves the pity and victim playing.

How could a girl in a university have a relationship with one who is in a university who has no plans yet and gets pregnant for him, what was she expecting, a pat on the back with note of weldone?

Boys out there, have a plan, get comfortable and to the point where you can take care of two or three people around you comfortably before thinking of going into a relationship and that way you will have a purpose as to why you are in that relationship and be ready to take care of anything that comes out of it. It's that simple!

Omar09:


Let's be honest here, if your sister had shut her pants or at least used protection, there wouldn't be any baby. But hey we tend to overlook one mistake because it was committed by one gender. So lady, your point should be to teach other younger women who are in school to focus on their education and not humping on dick to the other. And if decided to do so, one should bear the consequences, cause your sister knew if she got pregnant, it will be just her to go through the pregnancy phase whether or not the guy was with her. BTW have you stopped to ask yourself, “what if my sister had died?” all for what, love that couldn't see her through the pregnancy? Love that denied her? And here she is hero of the stůpid women who got children out of wedlock that a simple condom of N100 would have spares them the misery. Tell your sister that I omar09 said she failed as a woman!


This thread should be dedicated to women who got married had kids and got abandoned by their husband and father and not some stůpid kids experimenting.

Nansense!

MiztaFabuloz:
Just imagine what am eating this afternoon because of corona issue. No better food anywhere and we are not sure when everything will become normal again.

This suffer is becoming unbearable.

Omar09:


According to the females here, sex is not mutual when things are not going their way.

robosky02:



Thank you dear



The truth is some single mother's have overcome their supposed failure and gone ahead to be beat in life

pansophist:


Feminists only look at the benefit without considering the unintended consequences. For a man wey Sabi, feminism is the best thing that happened to men. With men realizing their sexual fantasies without commitment, shaming women to pay for a date as an equal partner, Adele giving her ex-husband millions from divorce, not having to engage in marriage slavery just to cater to a woman's endless needs, to name a few, isn't feminism good?

pcguru1:
At OP reason 1 and 2 doesn't make sense and could have been omitted, there are few feminist in Nigeria, reason being is that feminist in Nigeria want the equality without the responsibility that comes with equality.

I sincerely doubt a typical Nigerian lady can handle feminist it takes a strong lady to handle one. Wanting feminism means no dowry, no ladies first, 50-50 spilt of bills during date,Marriages no partial treatment, it means you want to be treated the equally the same way a guy is treated which is mostly being ignored.

WalkerMichael:


Lol bro, women get choco but I feel and understand why they're doing this to him. Men no fit resort to this kind thing. Hold on tight davash

CAPSLOCKED:



WHY ARE YOU SOUNDING LIKE THESE SECONDARIANS?
LEAVING YOUR ACCOUNT NUMBER ON A GIVEAWAY THREAD IS NOT BEGGING. DOESN'T MEAN HE'S POOR, AND HASN'T GIVEN TIMES 5 OF 5K TO OTHERS IN THIS LOCKDOWN.
NA WAH FOR YOU O, WHY NOT WATCH FROM THE SIDES INSTEAD OF GROSSLY MISYARNING?
ABI THEM HACK YOUR ACCOUNT?

Davash222:

Lol.. Is that all
Can all these reduce your body count? Over used evening newspaper!!

Martinez39s:
Where are the so called innate maternal instinct and innate female nurturing nature that bluepill agents have been talking about? The very same falsehoods that has led people to wrongly believe mothers always care and love more than fathers. Don't let anybody deceive you, males are the kinder, more ethical, and more compassionate gender.

Ladylite:



Hypocrite, you have smashed her finish then you are now bored.

Quietly:
Davash222 take it easy,they are fully ready to disgrace u,but u be my man,just hide under my moniker hahahaha

Paxie55:
If you are using fake marriage or fake love to get some one to sleep with You, Then, it's established that you have low self esteem and you can't attract a girl cos you lack the confidence and personality.
Thereby, resorting to using lies to get her to sleep with you and that actually makes you a RAPIST.

Paxie55:

Just agree that y'all are born rapist and uncontrollable rabbid dogs.
Going by the shameless comments you guys are making on this thread. Truly, women are in trouble especially in a country like ours.

frankkydee:
Don't take women serious because they don't care about your feelings. They only care about themselves, quote me and I will tell you how cruel they can be.

Seun should put a limit on the number of threads about women that should be opened per day






Note: am not being heart broken or seeking attention but reality will always set in at the long run.

CAPSLOCKED:


THAT'S NOT GENDER BIGOTRY. THAT'S THE HONEST TRUTH. ESPECIALLY THE 100 MEN PART. UP TO 70 WILL SUCCUMB.
CHEAP THINGS.

CAPSLOCKED:


YOU WENT ON TO TALK ABOUT MEN INSTEAD OF JUST ME. LOL. I GET YOUR POINT. THIS WAR OF GENDER SEEMS TO BE MOST INTENSE ON THIS FORUM. YOU'LL NOT FIND HALF OF WHAT WE HAVE HERE ON ANOTHER PLACE ON EARTH. WHERE DOES THIS LEAD US? NOWHERE.
IT JUST CLOUDS REASONING AND JUDGEMENTS AND ENABLES PEOPLE SUPPORT THEIR OWN FOLK INSTEAD OF ADDRESSING EVERY ISSUE WITHOUT BIAS. IT'S THE SAME THING WITH TRIBALISM.
THE TOXICITY ON HERE IS EXTREME.

CAPSLOCKED:
MAYBE HE RAN FROM POVERTY, AND ALSO FROM HIS POISONOUS WIFE? AND BEING THE BAD WOMAN SHE CUT OFF COMMUNICATION FROM HIM AND PREVENTED HIM FROM REACHING HIS KIDS.
A LOT OF THINGS MUST HAVE HAPPENED.
ALL THIS JUDGEMENT AND NAME CALLING IS JUST TO SCORE POINTS IN THE USUAL GENDER WARS, BUT YOU'LL JUMP TO DEATH WHEN YOU KEEP JUMPING INTO CONCLUSIONS LIKE A BLOODY SEXIST FOOL

Saintmary:

Tell him to stay away from mother and daughter, and take pleasure in whatever took his attention all these years.
let everyone deal with the consequences of his and her actions.

Smartsly11:

Yes I know the man bleeped up,but please let's leave that aside for now...let's help reunite the two of them together..I'll be happy if anyone here on nairaland can be of help..thanks!

Saintmary:
Why is he now looking back?
Can he imagine the names Nairaland boys would have called the mother and daughter?
Evening newspaper, after one, bastard etc
After they have both carried their cross and survived, he's now trying to use them to feel like a Daddy?