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Family / Re: . by Kingarthur21: 10:12pm On May 06, 2020 |
mcdokwe:what a coincidence... A lady will only do what the mother of your child is doing if you parted with her in bad terms(you didn't marry her). Nothing hurts a lady like that,they will feel you have messed up their lives by putting them in a place where few men will consider committing to them,a place of ridicule and judgement,while you move on with your life freely and will never face ridicule like them. They begin to resent you for it. I always advice guys who impregnate girls to tell her to keep the baby IF and only IF: 1)They will marry them 2)If the girl will be emotional stable to move on with her life with no grudges if you don't marry her. There is no need to have both the mother of your child and your child(who will be fed bad information about you) to hate you . I have gotten three women pregnant, two were just flings and the other was /is the love of my life. I told the first one when she gave me the news that I am very happy to become a dad(I really was,I love babies a lot). I will take full responsibility after a DNA test confirm its mine,but I will not marry her and our relationship of just going on dates, sex etc will not change . I will not going to become more committed. After much thinking,she opted for abortion because she was scared no one else will marry her as a SM. I was hurt,but I insisting she kept it would have been selfish for me. Another mistake happened years later. Her family called me to pay dowry,I refused. Marrying a lady I don't love will be torture to her. I opted for full financial responsibility, infact the kid will come reside in the states with me but they refused. Her grandma travelled to the city with some local herbs she was taking till the baby was flushed out. The last one,I already had the intentions of proposing before she took in. We have no regrets till date. Needless to say,having a child with a woman emotionally invested in you but you will not marry will likely end up in tears because if you buy the world for her,take full financial responsibility for both her and the child,she will still resent you for not putting the ring. |
Romance / Re: Some Women Need To Think. by Kingarthur21: 7:22am On May 06, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:the energy this males invest in females here eh...you had to create a thread because of the ranting of a single and not smart lady I didn't even find the thread worthy of my comment when I saw the moniker talk more of countering it |
Family / Re: Hated For Having Above Average Self Esteem. Do Men Hate Women With Self-Esteem? by Kingarthur21: 3:58pm On May 04, 2020 |
ibkayee:funny enough guys are attracted to ladies with self esteem (not narcissistic or loqacious ladies ,there is a difference) Men love ladies that say NO to some of their demands. I ask you to come over and it is past 9pm and you tell me "No!I don't go out late" Or a lady that picks up her things to walk away when we cheat. Or a lady that tell us before seeing her pants we should put a ring on it.or a lady that refuses to be a side chick or booty call. Or a lady that insists we reduce contact with our exes. These scenarios comes from a place of healthy self esteem. Self esteem is loving yourself and knowing your worth and what you deserve. It reflect on how you treat others,you can only give out what you have. When you see yourself in the positive light you will see others that way,when you believe you deserve the best you will believe others deserve it to. The thing is anybody can start acting arrogantly, running their mouths and acting anyhow all in the name of self esteem ,which is not. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Hated For Having Above Average Self Esteem. Do Men Hate Women With Self-Esteem? by Kingarthur21: 3:45pm On May 04, 2020 |
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Romance / Re: What Should I Do, Guys I Need You Help by Kingarthur21: 3:36pm On May 04, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:you see here naija girls reason? After they will be opening wailing threads appealing to us to treat women right |
Politics / Re: FFK: Bill And Melinda Gates Are Satanic, Demonic by Kingarthur21: 12:10am On May 04, 2020 |
Any sane person that takes reno omokri and FFK SERIOUS is depraved |
Health / Re: Does The COVID-19 Crisis Pose More Danger For Asthma Sufferers In Nigeria? by Kingarthur21: 1:39pm On May 03, 2020 |
sunnyeinstein:Yea... Salbutamol doesn't always work when administered at the critical stage. When I start wheezing or feeling mild tightness of chest, I take it but when it has reached the stage of me gasping for breath no ventolin inhaler,nebulizer or tablets works for me. Aminophyline intravenous injections works well at such stage or hydrocortisone injection. Seretide is for managing it and reducing the frequency, its not what you use to treat it when it comes but daily taking to reduce its occurrence... Before I develop symptoms one or twice a week but now I can go three to four months without asthmatic symptoms because of it. It is made up of Fluticasone/salmeterol. You inhale it. 1 Like
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Romance / Re: The Fine Art Of Being A Baboon by Kingarthur21: 10:34am On May 03, 2020 |
pansophist:WTF...the street urchins on nairaland are who you call feminists? Aside pocco who is not even a feminist but believe in fairness, and few others. How many NL ladies have money?? |
Family / Re: . by Kingarthur21: 9:56am On May 03, 2020 |
As in eh,It is very early that is why those pitiful men have not flooded this thread with blame,shaming etc all in the name of advice |
Romance / Re: The Fine Art Of Being A Baboon by Kingarthur21: 9:34am On May 03, 2020 |
IhateThemMods:actually feminism was needed at some point,else ladies will not be educated,men will get away with rape,they will not even have access to the internet... A revolution was needed. But not this type as we know that is not focused on elevating the girl child but making comparisons with men and dragging over petty things instead of big issues. How many feminists have campaigned for the release of Leah shiruba or chibok girls? Last year in Nigeria,I was at an eatery. I asked the waitress if she was in the university (I am fond of asking girls if they are in school). She said she scored 243 in Jamb,got admission in Abia State university but the father refused to pay the acceptance fee. His reasons?he can't pay that jumbo sum for a girl since she will end up in a man's home as a house wife so she had to source for funds by working. How many feminists will take this up?their own is just to argue online about packing of their husband plates. Modern feminism is a joke |
Romance / Re: The Fine Art Of Being A Baboon by Kingarthur21: 12:45am On May 03, 2020 |
pansophist:the earlier this ladies realise that they are shooting themselves on the foot with the man hating feminism peddled now(I am not referring to genuine elevation of the girl child which I support) the better. Here is a statement of regret from a former modern feminist: Feminism freed men, not women. Now men are spared the nuisance of a wife and family to support. After childbirth, if his wife's waist doesn't return to 20 inches, the husband can go out and get a more petite woman. It's far more difficult for the wife, now tied down with a baby, to find a new man. My blind date that Friday waved goodbye as he drove off in his RV. I walked home and paid the sitter with laundry quarters. Feminism made women disposable. So today a lot of females are around 40 and single with a couple of kids to raise on their own. Child-support payments might pay for a few pairs of shoes, but in general, feminism gave men all the financial and personal advantages over women. What's worse, we asked for it. Many women decided: you don't need a family structure to raise your children. We packed them off to day-care centers where they could get their nurturing from professionals. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Kingarthur21: 11:27pm On May 02, 2020 |
yungz:exactly...I am not supporting the father but after hustling to send your daughter for masters in the most prestigious private university in Nigeria and securing a great job for her will you allow her bring a factory supervisor with HND? I like being realistic. Most guys will advice girls to choose men they will not want for their own daughter . Imagine as a father,after all your sweat and sacrifices to train and mould a girl into success she brings a pauper like shibaraba home as a fiance,will you agree?? While I believe love and her choice should come first,the father's effort and plight should be understood 7 Likes |
Health / Re: Does The COVID-19 Crisis Pose More Danger For Asthma Sufferers In Nigeria? by Kingarthur21: 9:16pm On May 02, 2020 |
sunnyeinstein:I can't be caught unawares..being using seretide diskus daily. 1 Like |
Events / Re: 15-Year-Old Boy Marries 22-Year-Old Lady In Abia State (Photos) by Kingarthur21: 4:20pm On May 02, 2020 |
Gracealone:magnoliaa,budaatum,what do you have to say about this child groom? Should the law takes its course or only if its a child bride the law should intervene?? |
Romance / Re: How Do You Deal With A Girl With "Mood Swing" by Kingarthur21: 12:55pm On May 02, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:If its a man with the mood swing it is called toxic masculinity 1 Like |
Romance / Re: The Fine Art Of Being A Baboon by Kingarthur21: 12:44pm On May 02, 2020 |
pansophist:To be honest I don't understand magnoliaa goal shifting. When patriarchy is defined it is defined in terms of toxic masculinity and not chivalry. Patriarchy is only portrayed as oppressive to women. They have a biased definition of patriarchy. Captain-save-a-hoe never pays ,to women men are oppressors. 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: Nigerian Women Are Too Obsessed With Love And Relationships. by Kingarthur21: 10:05am On May 02, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:since I remember being alive I have never seen men discuss women issues as much as this sorry bunch on Nl. Women!women! Women! |
Romance / Re: The Fine Art Of Being A Baboon by Kingarthur21: 7:34am On May 02, 2020 |
Magnoliaa:why are you bent on discrediting men claim of matriarchy?why don't feminists focus on laying out their case against patriarchy, fighting for liberation and leaving men to lay out whatever case they have against matriarchy? You feminists making feminism gynocentric, for the women alone,your fight and focus for women,you didn't include men plight,we should sort ourselves and form our own rights movement (I get this when I try to tell feminists that men and women also suffer and they should see things from both sides but the snap back that we should start our own movements). Now guys are laying their plights you are subtly silencing then with the 1)you can't compare men plight with ladies plight,they are lesser. 2)are men plight not caused by men? 3)all men suffer is to boost their ego,they go through it because it is attached to their worth. So if we are to go by this logic,all women suffer ranging from enduring domestic violence at home,submissiveness and infidelity she does so because it is attached to her worth ie ability to keep a marriage,thus she shouldn't call it oppression, we should what she does to keep her home ,it is for herself? So if men independently chose to start their movement perhaps what we call menininism, feminists will leave their lane to tell us we have no claim? You want to hold the victim card to the end. Men's right movement isn't popular yet they face this opposition when stating their plight?wow I Wonder how they will shoved aside when advocating for themselves. Pansophist men have a long way to go. I guess by matriarchy he refers to a gynocentric society Edited On the sex being what men take,you are changing your mouth,I have seen a post in the past where you said if men and women have sex none used each other,they both enjoyed themselves. Anyway,men enjoy themselves because they work for it,we sweat,we thrust why she lays down. If she wants pleasure she should get to work the way we do 1 Like |
Romance / Re: FAQ on Redpill by Kingarthur21: 1:08am On May 02, 2020 |
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Romance / Re: FAQ on Redpill by Kingarthur21: 12:17am On May 02, 2020 |
Descorts:lol..are you new on this forum?the wretch you are quoting is a frustrating troll that is obsessed with redpillers...dont ever feed a troll attention. Check their account balance,how many of this women here have ever had a million naira in their account?they will be broke shaming men on this forum whereas the are not worth a million naira 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: FAQ on Redpill by Kingarthur21: 12:15am On May 02, 2020 |
GreatResearcher1:guy,the way you carry redpill matter for your head eh? Na your type woman go still konk for head collect money.. Abeg take am easy,no die on top redpill or woman matter 5 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: The Fine Art Of Being A Baboon by Kingarthur21: 11:51pm On May 01, 2020 |
Magnoliaa:i couldnt go through the stress of quoting individually ,i hope you can link my comments to the posts they were directed at. you still didn't get my point on the abortion and child support. YOU SAID a man must cater for a baby because he was involved in the sex,why is a man choice not considered when making the decision about the baby? Why must his pocket be involved but his say on whether to keep the pregnancy or not ,not be considered? They both made the baby,both should be included in the decision to keep or terminate the pregnancy. Lol..google is your friend,do browse about misandry and matriarchy. In other words clamour for equality and a revolution is tied down to how prominent an issue is and whether its systematic or not? Your pet analogy is so flawed,using it to juxtapose my point was a wrong idea. Why not use this example, Mr A and Mrs B are at a pet shop . it is expected they purchase a pet for entering the pet shop. The lady holds the pet and insists they take it home but the man for reasons isn't ready to have a pet tells her to drop it off but she refuses and purchases it. The man is later forced to be caring for the pet when he kicked against her purchasing it because they both entered the shop (signifying sex). Needles to say the issue of abortion and child raising should be mutually agreed it,its not only when child support is needed a man must be involved the couple owns the foetus right from conception not just her. You can't exclude his rights and decision throughout gestation and childbirth but only regard his involvement in the sex when child support is needed. So you are blaming men for women woes and blaiming patriarchy for men woes? Feminists dont ever wanna agree that women also oppress men to some extents they turn the blame on patriarchy.. When a man abuses or subjugates women he is an oppressor, but when women do so well "it is patriarchy that caused it" . when laws disfavor men you use "is it not men that made the laws " as excuse. In that case should oppression of women by their fellow women be overlooked since its females that put it in place? Take for instance mother in law and daughter in law feuds ,where MIL subjects their DIL to vigorous labour and abuses and threats should be ignored since its their fellow women that perpetrate it? Needless to say,there is a need for revolution and eradication of patriarchy, the question boils down to how? How should feminism be carried out that there us equality and not a gynocentric world emerges ?else we have men groups popping up claiming victims and then starting up their movement till the world become a man versus woman world! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: The Fine Art Of Being A Baboon by Kingarthur21: 8:14pm On May 01, 2020 |
Magnoliaa:you ended up trying to make excuse for the plight of men by finding reasons for them or using the blame card of 'its their gender that caused it".So because bokoharam is mainly populated by men its innocent men fault that they are killed? You are excusing matriarchy... If a terrorist group is incepted comprising of mostly women will it not be men that will go to war to fight? Would the world say women are suffering from what was perpetrated by their own gender? So why should we be blamed when privileges are secluded to men alone if its men that establish the course? For example,a male starts university,he gives admission to males mostly (80% and above) ,will feminists not cry foul whether or not it is a man that established the university? What a man does for women is for himself?really? Men that put their lives on a pedestal for women?men that run into burning houses to bring out their wives? Men in the titanic-type of scenario? You were one of the women I respected on this forum but I couldn't believe you could make such a comment. All men do is for themselves? You all should listen to what martinez39s and ubunja says about captain-save-a-hoe because women will never appreciate. So now you are admitting there is a difference in strength because you want to make a case for women. When strength is used as a basis to seclude women from some privileges you feminists disagree that men and women are women are equal in strength but when strength is used as a basis to favor women you will accept there is a difference in strength. I saw a post of liberal chick you shared whereby she said a man should not hit a woman back but he should walk away if she hits him. You all use women as weaker vessels as alibi always. so why is patriarchy p portrayed as a system that oppresses only women? The theme of this post of yours is:when patriarchy hurts men,well its the men that put in place patriarchy so they should deal with it,when partriarchy hurts women the world must fight for the woman. Why do men have higher sentences than women for the same crime? (I am betting you will say "is it not men making the rules" So you are using " frequency of occurrence " and "reasons" to score points? You think men don't have reasons for not wanting pregnancies such as finances,emotions and career? People insult dead beat dads as irresponsible but women that abort are excused on the basis that they have their reasons. There is no difference between a dead beat dad and a woman that aborts,both abscond from the responsibility of sex. If a woman should be given the right to chose to accept responsibility of sex or not(abortion), then men should also be given the right to choose to accept the responsibility or not. If men should be forced to pay child support women should be forced to keep their babies.vice versa feminism has done alot for women,at least ladies can go to school,vote,etc..I commend the movement for it. Its a pro-woman movement,I accept,it will never see things from a man perspective and look for men. Its goal is to save women alone from patriarchal system and ignore the man. I accept. Men should seek out for themselves,that is why we have the redpill. My problem with feminists is that when tables are turned they use the line"the effects on men are mild" as an excuse to ignore men plight. They start using dynamics of power and strength to place women as the real victims. What is wrong is wrong, whether men can swallow it or not. The issue of making misogyny an offence came up,the men's right movement pushed for making misandry as well a crime. Feminists were angry and claimed that misandry has little effect on men. Yes matriarchy is a response to patriarchy. Is it a justified response or egalitarianism should be the response? Its like switching from one subjugation to another. "Females are superior to males " ideology used to compensate females is not better than patriarchy. I hope when men reacts to Matriarchy with blunt force,they will be allowed to do so. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: I’m Experiencing Amniotic Fluid by Kingarthur21: 6:56pm On May 01, 2020 |
Casalindal:no one will take you serious here now whether you are saying the truth or not. That's the problem with clout chasing. If you didnt have a history of attention seeking many people would have flooded this thread with advice and it will be pushed to front-page.. Wish you recovery though-if this is true |
Romance / Re: The Fine Art Of Being A Baboon by Kingarthur21: 2:36pm On May 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:so who are those buying mifepristone?who are those doing D&C? As for the case of rape, they are being threatened to keep silent, let's not forget the stigma, and of course the fact that the police aids and abetts rape as far as the rapist can pay them off. This is not a first world country. The sentence for rapists is not heavy either.I am not too current with Nigeria law. I stand to be corrected,the senators passed a bill for life imprisonment for rape. If they are actually silenced as your think who are those utilising the power of social media to share their rape experience? Who are those being arrested that makes news on social media? Police don't excuse rape they excuse crime once bribed. Its not only rape! Generally when you can bribe the police FOR ANY crime they can let you go not just rape. How about male rape, and sexual molestation of men? Who listens to us? I can't recall how many times I was abused as a kid. Or is it my female lesson teacher that sucked my penis?or ladies that have groped my organs that I dare not say a word about it else I would be written off as a joke you have no proof for the bolded. If you said the progress is slow ,I will have agreed but making it feel as though the law and society claps hands for men will be dishonest. Such changes don't happen over night. Nigerian law is not to support women but Nigerians(men and women inclusive). There is a ministry of women affairs, there are women rights activists ,what else do you people want? Should men and women attain 100% equality you will want more special treatment. Who are the people chopping off men penis or pouring acid on men for dumping them? Who are the ones pouring hot water on men just for suspecting cheating? okay ,your truth. I also believe this bunch of women of today are a disappointment and a feminine mockery of our mothers 6 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: The Fine Art Of Being A Baboon by Kingarthur21: 2:18pm On May 01, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:you were hated not just because of your truth but because of your man-hating and shaming which you have stopped. Men set their standards and how they want to live,if the women are dumb enough to accept it then it's not men putting women down but women dancing to the tune of men. I agree Africa endorsed depravity of men but will you deny things are changing?divorce rates are higher now,women are the ones with the power,pinch a lady and human rights activists will move with banners and the men persecuted. The society is making up for women. All you have to do is make a post with supporting pictures online and wait for the world to come to your rescue. I saw a post of a lady stripped for stealing,the people who stripped her have being arrested while for decades men have been lynched and burned to death for stealing yet the perpetrators go scot free. You talked of endorsing polygamy,with the rate of paternity fraud now you are yet to realise that women are now the main cheats in marriage/dating. Were you not the one that gave excuse for a lady that slept with her gym instructor? If tables were turned you will call it male depravity. The society has done more to speak for women that they have become gynocentric and no man speaks for males. What else do you want from the society? The entire nation supported bukola dakola (without concrete evidence of the rape),they are many social media handles and pages that are pro-woman,even men now speak up for women and call their fellow men pigs. So how is the society enabling subjugation of women? More awareness is created for paedophilia and rape. Was a senator not taken to court after slapping a lady? Are NGOs and celebrities not helping the girl child?how about the little girl called success that is now enjoying scholarship? Was Yerima not opposed when he married a 13 year old girl years back? So who are those that are encouraging men to misbehave? You should know when the battle is won and advice your fellow girls make wise use of the power they now have. You say the society will call a lot of women arrogant for real? Are you not following current trends? Who are the CEOs we have now? Go to Instagram and see ladies advertising their makeup and clothing brands. How about Jaaruma,the leading sex therapist in Nigeria making her own name despite having a husband? Except they are ghosts you are referring to but i don't know any male that put ladies down for being successful more than their partners,perhaps it existed in our fathers time but not now... If successful ladies hide their wealth and attribute it to their husbands its probably out if fear that YOU(FUNMI) will call them pick mesha for not marrying a man more wealthy than them . Did society tell the liar amatarasha to lie about having a husband or him taking her to Siberia? To ladies,being successful is having a man higher than them in finances, that caters for them,anything short of that is being pickmesha so the ones who aren't lucky that jam wealthy men have to lie to prevent people from calling them pickmesha. Redpillers speak their truth the way you speak yours. They have a healthy self-esteem and want the best for themselves ,if you don't know there are redpills for ladies as well on reddits.The idea of them wanting the best and seeking for men interest is what you call narcissistic and oppose but when you encourage ladies to seek out themselves and set high standards you see nothing wrong with it. The summary of my epistle is that the narrative is changed, women are getting powerful by the day,anyone lady that still gets burnt didn't play her cards well or is not wise 5 Likes 1 Share |
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