₦airaland Forum

OlayemiAshraf:
Her husband deserve 100 lashes of kokobo

. You suppose to know that the husband can not be a reliable type.

Starzo:
I don't make conclusions based on emotions or sentiments. I'm more of a logical thinker.

Continue with ur tantrum throwing like a hormonal teenage girl

Idiot. Wasted generation

Starzo:
na lie... there's more to this story
police no fit just arrest you then give u 20yrs imprisonment if something nor really play for background

. You're very stupid with your statement. If she is your sister can you make that statement? Why we are enemies of ourselves for God sake? I will advice you to go and speak against her in the court of law.

prodev9993:
This is just pathetic.

The definition of Nigeria is problem.

Biyonce:
Congratulations, can i be your special assistant.

Mo sexy pa

. Inbox me and I will connect you.

AsomughaChuks02:
650,000 barrels per day is no child's play. If Dangote manages to run it at 50% capacity, he tried because the way the fuel price is climbing so high without commensurate increase in wages, Nigerians may soon resort to firewood for cooking and solar powered vehicles.

. Dangote too will sell it at exorbitant price. Look at Dangote cement and many more. Dangote too is a enemy of this country if you know you know.

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

. It's after you got married you can now see your beloved mom mistake? I repeat no woman on Earth can say that rubbish concerning my mom to me. But if it's her own mom that is living with you she won't see her mistake? One thing I know is that 97% of Nigeria's women don't pray to have mother inlaw. Your wife is now dictective who knows who is fetish isn't? I wish you the best.

bloggerblogger2:
YOU MAY AGREE OR DISAGREE.

A 100K monthly salary earner in Nigeria is better than a 400K monthly salary earner in the United States.

The luxury lifestyles some of us live here with 100K, cannot sustain us a day over there. We can’t try such in US and save a dim.

Some of our annual rent here is weekly/ monthly rent over there. Can you pay over 100K naira monthly house rent with 400K monthly salary here in Nigeria? You can’t do that, but you don’t have a choice over there. You pay or kicked out of the house.

Some of our people over there are becoming wiser now. They don’t mind sleeping on the streets, work for at least 5-10yrs, move back to Nigeria with their savings. You cannot survive with 100M living comfortably a year over there. Tax go finish you up. But you can live large with 100M for 5yrs or more here in Nigeria depends on your lifestyles tho.

You don’t pay unnecessary tax here. But in foreign countries you pay almost everything.
In naija you can own 10 cars..not in the United States because you pay for packing space for each car. You get the point now?

Some of our people in diaspora, once they earn $10K in a month or so, depends on the job, they’d send $9K down to their Nigeria account and keep $1K for their upkeep. Some would buy lands and build houses for rent or some other businesses.
If you don’t do that, you’d work all your life and come back with nothing. Those of you on this method are wise. But becareful of the people you send your money to here. Trust no one! Get a trustworthy lawyer involved.

U can make unnecessary noise or play loud music here. You can’t try such over there and not find yourself in police cell.

So you see….We are privileged here. We only need to get bad political leaders off the way. By getting involved in politics, national, state, LGA and community affairs. That’s how American youth you admire, do.

They don’t just fold hands, wailing and waiting for a miracle. They debate, disagree, challenge, involved and create. You get the point now?

. If you are earning 100k monthly in Nigeria can you buy a used Toyota Camry 1998 model if you work for 35 yrs? Talkless of building a two bedroom apartment. Rubbish comparison.

ENGINEERG:
In develop nations, their citizen give information to security outfits, because policing is everyone business.
And for those ladies, we can't blame them all the time, some is first time of meeting the guy, and is there anyone who won't wish her daughter to marry a poor guy, Also most of these guys have business too as cover up..so that is the situation..

. You said in a developed countries isn't? Do you wanna give info to security agency in Nigeria and later arrested you as their gang member? Or to later tell those yahoo guys that you're the one that gave them info about them? It seems you don't know our security agency in this country, when money exchange now you're gone.

OgundeleTeju:
He is a man after God’s heart

. Say who? Yeye dey smell. Oh I forgot that you're the P.A to God on holiness matter.

ENGINEERG:
Its high time Nigerians expose yahoo boys..
Before we all think they only affect foreigners, but the reality is that, they are affecting us the more now, because most of them are yahoo plus, who are ritualists.. So now, our daughters, and women are not safe again, cos they use women mostly for rituals
We are getting lots of women running mad, after alighting from vehicles too. Also so many wombs have been used, And so many ladies won't give birth again..
so Nigerians, if you see any yahoo boys expose them and report them to Efcc ASAP, cos our ladies are not safe o

. I don't need to expose any yahoo guys, Efcc should do their job they got paid for The only solution to this yahoo guys ritual thing is for us to educate and train our ladies in a proper way but majorities of these ladies are bastard because they know the kind of job those guys are doing but they don't bother because of money involved.

Bola146:
OMG Check very well before you get married to a police especially the beast among of them

. 95% Nigeria police are already cursed. How can a lady brought up from a reliable home get married to police officer? I don't care how senior officer is the police I can't allow my enemies to have anything doing with naija police.

RedSquid:
Yes it can

You will be fine. You can get such apartments in many parts of Lagos and 100k monthly will sustain it nice nice. It will even sustain a room self contain apartment. The annual rent for that always ranges between 150 and 220k depending in area, agency fees inclusive. After first year, the annual rent is around 120/150k. Your monthly salary can cover this and you'll be enjoying a good life at it.

. And he/ she will never have a saving. 50 thousands naira monthly salary in Ogun State or Oyo state is better than 120 thousands monthly salary in Lagos.

Mocok7:
Was Princess Diana black?

. No. But she was killed because she was dating Dodi Egyptian Prince.

oluwaseyi0:
I blame people who arrest Wakili, you kill people like that extra judicially

. Don't mind OPC they too want to behave like law abiding citizens. I don't pity those OPC that where locked up.

thorpido:
Well it's a royal family so they have their own interests to protect too.Marrying into such a family will come with a price.

. That was the reason they killed Princess Diana.

OlayemiAshraf:
Another racism tsunami coming

. I'm not surprised. British people are very racist but they do it in a coded way.

Jeon:
when money is involved.

we still have some ladies that go for handsome even though you are broke.

. And they will be fucking rich ugly guys as a part-time lover.

Monogamy:
From senior wailer Farooq

So If Biden decided to interact with Nigerians, which channel is he going to use if not through presidency..

It is not everything they wail about

. Through Akinwunmi Adesina or Ngozi okonjo Iweala.

RoyalUc:
So, who will compensate all the farmers whose farm produce had been destroyed across the country?

. God. Because where using different constitution in Nigeria. The original one is being used by northerners while as ammended 1999 constitution is being used by Southerners. Southerners governors, political leaders and traditional ruler are the most educated illiterate in the whole wide world.

jayjaycee0:
Werey Oba awon ole.

You kept 2million dollars in cash in your palace. Yet your subjects are suffering from irrecoverable poverty.

Even common palliative that belongs to them, you no gree share.

Excuse me sir, Eni ku re ...

. Honestly you made me laughed till I called my wife the name of my side chick. D paragraph that made me laughed is where so you Excuse me sir, Eni ku re, you even abused him with respect. You deserve chill bottles of Goldberg beer from Odunlade Adekola.

[quote author=CSTRR post=99576976]Leave him for who?

Who is the poor guy that want to marry a lady that has been in a committed relationship for 8 good years.?

Many marriages don't even last that long.[/quote. Lol. May God bless you. That lady has wasted her precious time on that guy. I can bet with you that guy had tired of her pussy. Had it been it was a relationship without sex that is still ok but I trust my naija guys they will never wasted their time on any girls without entering the hole. That lady should quit the relationship.

abigail11:
I have been dating this guy for 8 years now. My relationship with him started since my university school days.

Ever since we graduated and started working, I have been expecting him to propose to me, which he didn't.

When I confronted him, he said he needs a tangible source of income first before he will marry me.

His current salary is 60k, yet he doesn't want us to go into marriage now.

I personal told him that we can manage what we have and plan our life together since I'm also working. But he said no, his reason is that he doesn't want us to suffer.

My problem is this:
1. Time is not on my side
2. He want to make millions before he can marry me, what if it takes more years to do that?
3. I'm ready and he is not ready.
Please I need advise. I don't know what to do.

. For good eight years? I hope he married you later if not the person that will marry you in future I pity am. And he had been making love with you for that right years? I swear if I didn't marry you your future husband cannot meet good thing there anymore. My candid advice is to leave that guy, he can not marry you I swear, he will just be posting you.If guys really love a lady it's the guy that will be begging that please marry me na if money no dey today money go come tommorow because he will do anything just to convince you. The guy in question is tired of your pussy I swear the truth is bitter. Majorities of relationship that is more than two years na cry dey end am. You have used your body to play betnaija.

tommie1:
I have an issue bugging me and I need some serious advise because I have been very indecisive so far.

There is a lady I'm seeing. She came to my place a few weeks ago and we had sex, first with condoms and later without condoms.

However, I gave her some money to get postinor when she left for her place the next morning.

That morning, I asked if she got the drug when she called to say she had arrived home and she said "yes".

I called her again that evening to ask if she had taken it and she said "yes".

A few weeks later, she called to say she is pregnant.

As I later found out, at least according to what she said, she took the drug the next day after arriving at her home and not on that day she told me she took it. She gave some flimsy excuse as to why she did it but it does not matter anymore at this point.

At this moment, we are considering removing the baby.

While I have been very indecisive, she has agreed to go with whatever decision I take and has spoken to a doctor who will do it this Friday.

However, I am unsure as of this moment if I want to go on with this because even though I am done with uni, I do not think I have gotten to that point where I can shoulder more responsibilities.

I am self employed and somewhat financially okay but not in a way that I can take care of three people, particularly a baby. I was okay as of 2019 until COVID came and turned my life upside down last year.

And believe me, I was really glad I was not married as of last year because I went through hell. Serious hell. The lockdown finished me.

I am slowly recovering (very slowly) and still trying to figure my way out through life and rebuilding what I lost but I am afraid that having the burden of a woman and baby at this point may derail me.

And I really do not know who to turn to when I am unable to provide for the both of them.

What do you guys think? Do I go on with this or just let the baby be?

. Do not kill your future. Do you maybe that is a child that will be your strong pillar. Do you know that killing that innocent babe is a sin? My question is the lady in question can she stay with you for better for worse?

Oshigun:
We hope so. You Northerners should keep this up for at least a year.

. We Southerners are begging you don't end it please. You're not doing us favour it's we Southerners that are doing you favour. You produce perishable goods and you're doing yanga to your customers they are playing with sorrow and death. Bleep all northerners. Terrorist people.

Bola146:
See someone's father and husband, awon oniranu

. Imagine they were swearing in their mate as a governor and they were stealing. Shame on them. Yoruba people will say "Egbe won nkole awon nji isho" Meaning their mate are building a house and they were stealing nail.

Nackzy:
Business men, there's no difference between this guys, arm robbers, Politicians, Yahoo Boys,

. Where are touch not my annointed and do my prophet no harm? Nigerians are the most guilible people have ever seen when it comes to religion. It's here in Nigeria you will see a tour as a pastor controlling PHD holder like a kindergarten children. Have said it no pastors on planet Earth can manipulate me and my nuclear family. I m a Pastor to my family. 99% if Nigeria pastors and Daddy GO's are fake minister of God. Jesus is Lord.

willybaby:
the narration you gave might totally be true Na Naija we d.. but sir you forget if he doesn't take the job thoes few months he atleast got something he would have spent it doing nothing with absolutely no single naira added to his account

. You're right but what gives him the assurance that he will be paid if he do the job?

willybaby:
wicked humans every where, 4 months is quite long and 50% is definitely huge.
Op please do well to beg him for reductions but alas wetin man go do, take d job o since you no mk mention of anoda job

. What if the organization sack him after three months? And the man will look for another employee and sign another four months agreement of 50% from his salary? Mind you this maybe a plan stuff between the man and the company. I don't trust anyone nowadays, they maybe 419 people. They may be sacking people every three months or four months and they will be collecting 50% from new worker every four months. My advice he should forget that job if he doesn't want to labour in vain because they sack him before four months.

Baawaa:
You shall suffer too,

. Don't mind them. Do they eat best? They are poor to the extent that they eat without meat. Stupid and backward region.

thebosstrevor1:
Reno is just an hypocrite.

When his former boss was there, he should have made this comparison.

Kidnapping and bomblast was the order of the day when Reno boss was the president

. And that was the reason we did not re elected his boss GEJ. But this stupid and daft president Buhari is the worst thing I will never wish my enemies. Empty skull president.

markkuss:
Calvary greetings to you all.

I was in a serious challenge recently and was push to visit a white garment church. After the prophecy, I was told to get bucket, grace perfume, 3 blue candles, 4 white candles, and some other stuffs so they can prepare them. I then bath with it. That's its going to rid away any bad luck..everything was bout 4k. The cash is not the problem..but my question is this. If I fast and pray myself without doing all this, does it mean I can get positive results..

Please all the matured christains, come and help me o..

. In the first instance when you know that you won't do it or you will bring it to this forum why did you go there? And secondly all these people you're asking this question majorities of them go to white garmentchurch to pray or seek spritual assistance but on Sunday their the one you will see in the Pentecostal church. Your faith shall heal you.