₦airaland Forum

DonBenny77:
It means "one Nigeria" is bull's shit!
Priority will be the northerners as usual

Just shut up

My guy you're not yet governor. Let your democratic term start first. By the way, hope you have the money to pay for the works. Taxation of substandard goods won't raise the IGR of Abia.

If you're into weed, better stick to Madam Mary Jane. Because the moment you wander, na the destruction be that.
Na so dem start with weed enter Loud. From Loud enter Colorado.
From Colorado enter Arizona. From Arizona enter Ice aka Mkpurummiri.
From Ice enter Crack(Banku). From Banku enter molly and other pills.
From pills enter everything else to be like the most high untill you either OD and die or turn fulltime weyrey.
Say No to Drugs

Na the boy promise him mama say him go double the money

Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.

Women can take cheating by their man on their gender and later forgive
But a woman taking cheating on their man with a fellow man, that is daily torture. Don't embrace that LGBT nonsense. Gay sex is disgusting and a chief transmitter of disease. Be happy that you got to know before you get entangled for life. End the marriage plans now. A better man out there.

The level of insecurity in the SouthEast is alarming. Sad Buhari just relaxed and watched these nuisances destroy their region. Tinubu better do something about the cultists, UGM, kidnappers and robbers there.

dfrost:
I'll make a call to someone now and find out who he is.

Confirmed who he is but not going to mention his name here. He's a business man from the Igbo-speaking side of Nigeria, also has affiliation with a group I don't like mentioning (group here does not = tribe; some of us will understand quickly).

My contact also said he is fond of the rubbish and that he needs to cool off behind bars for a little while.

My chairman I greet you. I like as this is happening. Some fools need to understand that there are laws in this country.

The Idiot must go to jail for harassing a woman because she refused her breasts to be touched. Lagos State Domestic and Sexual Violence Agency (DSVA) is fully on the matter.
By the time they deal with him ehn, na night bus he go use relocate back go Anambra.

Now the main question here is who the hell is Bebex? Doesn't he have a fullname? Nigerians will love to know him and patronize his business after his release so please let us know Bebex.

cucumbar:
you don’t know the details of the story, do you? How are you sure he loved her or she loved him ?

Why don't you start with the living family members you know and check to be sure if they really love their spouses?

dboY1123:
This my brother was the second born of the family, he is compassionate, nice and he loved his family not until this lady came in..
The point is, Since my mum warned my brother against this lady, my brother took a step backward from us all, and since then more than 4/5 years, I knew things weren't right. There's no mutualisms, true love between his and our family.

That was part of d reason my brother didn't stand up for his mum. Things already started heating up. My other elder ones don't stay as close to my mum. My and my brother are the closest, and moreover he didn't spend a dime in hospital bills of my mum and imagine that. More like it was intentional.. Not even 5k.

From what my brother did during those times my mum was sick, I detest him..and he knew it. Has the Second born and a man, he should be the front-runner..
Infact, my brother stopped coming to my dad's church completely, and he was d choirmaster. Everything was strange like something came upon him.

Your brother had a life to live and he lived it. In the course of his life he made some mistakes. Now it is sad that he is gone. It is obvious you are directing your anger on your late brother's behaviour on the wife which should not be so. I advise you try and learn from your brother's mistakes and move on. This is clearly not a case of murder or poisoning so do not make it such. Time to move on.

Offpointng:
When we tell Guys dont marry a woman your family ain't confidently in agreement with they'd bring up a real man this and that. Now this is one of the results, The Wife will move on in couple of weeks while the pain stays with the real family for a long time

Guys out there you really need to wake up tbh cuz I can't seem to understand how a woman would easily turn you from the Parent and Siblings you spent virtually most of ur life with

And he visited them a day before he died? The OP should manage his aggressions the right way.

dboY1123:
I lost my brother early last month and I have been unsettled and paranoid. He visited us a day before and he was healthy and hearty only for us to hear of his death the next day which was on Sunday.
He was admitted in the Hospital, on the bases that he was short of blood. He took 4/5 pants of blood and stayed 1/2 weeks before he was discharged and that only made him live for a month or so.
I want to know more about his death, exactly what happened. His wife is someone who didn't relate well with us(in laws) and she distanced my brother from us, while he objectively did as well. This wife didn't visit my mum throughout her stay in the hospital for more than 3 months before my mum passed on a year ago. When I visited the hospital where my brother was rushed to being the same place he was admitted, they told me that he must have been bothered about somethings, and that the drugs he was given parts were hypertensive, that he stopped taking the drugs and all those excuses.
I was informed by the nurses that my brother has been suffering from insomnia, he hardly sleeps in nights and if he does, it's just few hours. All these things, the wife didn't tell us anything.
Now, I want to take the fight to her. I need her to tell me exactly what transpired, how did it happen! She's been in 40days mandatory sit-at-home stuff and I can't wait to sit her ass down and interrogate her.
Should I get her arrested for questioning by the police?
Modified

If you loved your brother so much, why didn't you check up on him? When he was in the hospital, why didn't you follow up on his case and ensure he got the best of medical care. Now you want to use his death to frustrate his wife. You must be crazy.
Your brother made his choice of his wife and how he wants to live his life with her. Now he is gone and the one person he loved the most should be encouraged to move on with life. It would not be better for you if you try to heap more troubles on the poor woman.

Davido may need to surround himself with lesser friends and more business associates.

Ladymillion:
Kudos to our gallant Police force,

The arrest was by Liberian police.

Let them bring him to Nigeria for trial.

Cryomancer:
All what you have said is true and can only happen in a sane economy but will always be a reality that can never happen in Nigeria.

I don't think many of us know the recruitment process for junior officers in the police force alone, if not, you'll understand that police will never be an agent of change to be used in eradicating cultism.

Just for a tip, part of the recruitment process of NPF involves the low-lives and inmates of various prisons in the society that didn't go through proper orientation nor will breaking exercise. Most of the heinous crimes being perpetrated in the society has 70% police involvement.

"A criminal cannot stop a criminal especially when the act is favourable and being backed by the government"

What you have said is obviously on point. That is why I used to tell my friends that Endsars was baseless. If you needed to change police killings and brutality, you start with the recruitment. I once came across a video of policemen in Benin gyrating to Eiye gyrations. So if police can recruit ex-cultists, with many unrepentant unlike the OP who is rational, what is the hope for the war against cultism? Lawlessness is the number one factor that enables cultism to thrive. This whole cultism thing has showed me one thing that to kill and get away with murder in Nigeria is not that difficult.

Dey dere dey bobo yourself

Untill Nigerian Police, DSS, and other law enforcement start battling cultism tooth and nail, these killings will never stop.
Imagine one low life will wake up one morning out of envy, greed or stupid inferiority complex to declare war that will take lives of his fellow men. And during this period instead of police to thwart the killings, they just leave the cults to kill themselves till the war ends. I know sometimes they try but they need to do more. Arrest the leadership of each of the cult groups, investigate any cult-related death and anyone guilty should be made to pay the price for murder. If for every one person that dies police picks at least 10 cultists, people will think twice before partaking in one useless war.

Wagwanbrethren:
You mean the same rattish Russia that can't defeat baby Ukraine in years is what you call a super power 🤣.Be like superpower get another definition!
Tinubu will lord over you and your family and will do link with Ukraine if he wants to. Wail! 🤣

Height of insanity

Wagwanbrethren:
Oya, go and buy from Russia na! 🤣
See as this one open mouth, na you wan decide?

Look at this nobody with abysmal knowledge on international politics? Which nation will favour a country that is about to be crumbled against a World Super Power?

Ukraine is of little benefit to Africa. If you don't want to give us wheat, we will buy from Russia.

I can't wait for that small-breasted slay queen Chidinma to be sentenced to death. On that day I will pop champagne in honor of those who fell by evil women. RIP Ajaga. More Blessings on Hakimi, the best footballer in the world.

Stating your location will help those who might provide answers.

SUFFERInSMILIIN:
If I start posting the pictures which I took immediately nairaland will banned me. And if I can get in trouble with the authorities. I took pictures and videos including some in the hotels but I do not know if the police have raided does area. I know in June and July 2022 then did a lot of rain in Lagos especially around masa masa and Festac Lagos.

You do not know this area are hot spots for gay then you have not paid in some of those areas and the hotel

nairaland won't ban you if you post pictures.
I have lived in Festac when I was in Lagos. I know that area you mentioned is a hotbed for prostitution including underaged prostitutes. But homosexuality? That I am not sure about so we need more proof if you can enlighten more.

Davido simply doesn't know how to connect with music emotionally.

fixitbyjal:
You bam solid fellow

If it is about this, the event won't hold at TBS. Better get that shyt off your head.

Good y'all fools wills be charged for murder.

Let him come back to Nigeria.

I remember watching his plays as a child and having a hell of a laugh

If she is really married, her husband needs to see that comment.

Inasmuch as this thread is a call for justice, it is also important to indicate that all cults are guilty of these senseless killings the OP is attributing to SEC alone. I will continually blame the law enforcement in the country for being useless in fighting cultism. If things go on unabated, I see a big time cult war brewing that even celebrities will be used to count scores.
As much as possible, Say No to Cultism.