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Thank you all for this thread.

JasonScoolari:
Must you record everything?

Thanks for pointing this out.

"I was dickmatized and I assumed it was love"
In other words "my pussy loved him and I assumed my heart loved him too"


Throwback to this insightful thread: https://www.nairaland.com/4949684/ubunjas-miseducation-woman-2-hearts

People's future wives.
Alpha fvcks | Beta bucks
Stay alert.

Johnchrix:
Redpill advise for an ex who's back on my dm begging me to support her traditional marriage.. Anyone?

I think that she wants to fvck or she remembers that you are a mumu who's dumb enough to give her free cash or she just want to test the water to see if you are still caught up on her and how much.

MeZee:
THEIR MESSAGE IS RAW, TRUTHFUL AND INSPIRATIONAL

WHO GIVES A FVCK ABOUT THEIR HEARTS

THIS IS ONE OF THE BIGGEST PROBLEMS I HAVE WITH CERTAIN FOOLISH MEN, UNA WAN SAVE EVERYONE.

SOME MEN HAVE TO WIFE UP HOES, REDPILL AWARE OR NOT,
SOME MEN HAVE TO COMMIT SUICIDE, REDPILL AWARE OR NOT,
SOME MEN MUST NOT REPRODUCE, REDPILL AWARE OR NOT,
SOME MEN MUST BE MISERABLE, REDPILL AWARE OR NOT,
SOME MEN MUST BE POOR AND AVERAGE, REDPILL AWARE OR NOT

MEN WORK IN A SOCIAL HIERARCHY THAT IS BASED ON MERITOCRACY

NO ONE IS FVCKING SPECIAL
NO ONE IS FVCKING PERFECT

Would you listen to Satan if his message was raw, truthful, and inspirational?

Besides, no; their message is not truthful.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G6L-H6Wafxw

Most women had similar experiences. Alpha fvks, Beta bucks is too real.

Now, who is the guy who will court her and marry her after she has been played with by the fvck boy?

In any case, now we know.

The man is probably proud he got a good sister in Christ.

Women...

Andrew Tate and many popular redpill content creators like StepIsCold, FreshAndFit, FitxFearless are unscrupulously taking advantage of impressionable weak men throughout the world. They claim to have their best interest but they truly don't.

I may write a thread explaining it latter. I think it is truly needed.

In any case, keep you mind alert. And observe these guys well. They are not your friend.

Dabronze:
The sisterhood code 01

These are low-esteem women with huge insecurities. Such women must be avoided at all cost.

JESHAL:
LMFAO
Men are the prize when it comes to long term commitment
Never forget this

Hahahahahah lol

You guys are renowned abroad lol

Heathrow44:
I don't knw how they sleep at night, I swear paternity fraud should be signed into law as a criminal offence and not a civil matter that should be resolved among both parties, if paternity fraud is turned into a criminal offence I swear the backlog of cases in court would choke judges and strain the justice system due to no of cases reported, but one thing I knw is that it may really be like that cos most Nigerian men are ashamed to admit it publicly, most Nigerian men currently are aware that the children they av aren't theirs, the wife may av told them, and they av noticed the signs but shame and being seen as a wicked person, a divorcee and some after looking after all the investments poured on the child over the years all the love given, just swallow it and take the child as theirs, that's the truth, women have perfected paternity fraud and the govt has turned a blind eye cos even the govt are beneficiaries of this scam

@bolded. To me paternity fraud is such an atrocity that I am baffled how common it is in our societies. How can a woman peacefully put another man's child in her husband/partner's home? How horrible can a person be? How callous and cold-blooded can someone get? Then, we have this society that paints women as emotional angels and pure beings who can't hurt a fly, while men are painted as dogs.
Imagine how soulless and dreadful a human can be to commit paternity fraud?
What is worse is that it is covered by other women. Sometimes, it is even recommended by their mother, auntie, friends, etc.
My mother explained extensively the female perspectives of paternity frauds and the operations behind it. The thread is well needed.

From the horse's mouth...

My mother explains to me that so many children in African households today do not biologically belong to their fathers.
Fortunately we have DNA tests today. Nothing prevents you from taking a hair of your children right after birth and go to a hospital far away from your home and make tests incognito. As a matter fact, you do not even need to hide it. You can make it clear that DNA tests will be made. In any case, ALWAYS do DNA.

If she does not worship it like this, she does not deserve a commitment, much less a ring.
This is not funny. This is not sarcastic. I deeply mean what I write here. She can have all the qualities in the world, but if she does not admire, honor, and praise your soul, your mind, your words, your body and your manhood, she is not worth committing to.


(But at the end of the day, it is your life, you do you. If you're OK wifing up women who don't see you in that amazing light, it's on you, and I don't judge you.)

They are savagely finessing men out there. Be cautious.
This is one of the favorite manipulation tactics of married/engaged women

PstDapo:
Hmmmmmm

These memes were taken from this thread here.
https://www.nairaland.com/7519831/fathers-experience-women-strictly-redpillers
There are several lessons to take from it about women and marriage. A recommended read.

Dizzyyish:
Happy New Year fam!

Caveadullam martinez39s sozinn skepticus ubunja heartofcity12 luminouz CAPSLOCKED pansophist JESHAL emmaodet odinson1 kipaji ichidodo and other chairmen keeping this thread alive and healthy.
Please pardon the belated wishes.

Happy New Year Dizzyyish!

Precisely.
This meme is unfortunately accurate. I will probably write an elaborate post on the pervert relationship between repill gurus and their male audience.

1. Because deep down they know that their promiscuity is not the best way of life and that chastity/purity are the characteristics of the most valuable women in the world. Women would do anything to justify their promiscuity.

2. For about the same reason men are usually angry when their chronic brokeness is being talked about.

This forum is a gem.

I do not waste my energy talking about modern women because at the end of the day YOU DECIDE. No woman can force you to marry her, be in a relationship with her, or even deal with her at all.

If you marry a wh0re, that is YOUR CHOICE.
If you marry a single mother, that is YOUR CHOICE.
If you marry a woman who does not heavily sacrifice for you, that is YOUR CHOICE.
If you marry a woman who does not have your best interest at heart, that is YOUR CHOICE.
If you marry a woman who is not a virgin or still attached to her past lovers, that is YOUR CHOICE.
If you marry a woman who does not reflect who you are as a man, that is YOUR CHOICE.
If you marry an unbalanced woman, that is YOUR CHOICE.
If you marry a woman who is not attracted to you, that is YOUR CHOICE.
If you marry a woman who does not respect you at least as much as you respect yourself, that is YOUR CHOICE.
If you marry a woman who can't receive your wisdom and teachings, that is YOUR CHOICE.

At the end of the day, the CHOICE is YOURS. And, pointing the finger at women would not help. That would be giving them power. Take your power back and DECIDE for your life.

Men, think well. Your life is on the line. You do not want to waste it alongside anybody.

Guys, I am going to share now insightful and crushing resources about how women view marriages and how they use it as a power and control tool against men.

1. China White's Lion's Den
https://www.youtube.com/@ThelionDen

This woman is the very best content creator on YouTube when it comes to intersexual dynamics, games women play, and their perspectives. Some of her most striking videos are about marriage. I highly recommend you to check them out. Here are some of them:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2wkO_h-HI18



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rr9wdafmjY0



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ro9hRsnMVaI



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ska1NLi0ep0



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qMEAtrB9rPc



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YnieDtuSt7s



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DNyL-6puVQ4



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SNmXKtQFMio



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dHDmsazEKbw



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LGHPZ1vbYv4


2. Ubunja on this Nairaland.
https://www.nairaland.com/ubunja

Most people already know him here. I do not agree with every thing he says. But he sheds a light on the not-so-well-known side of women (and men as well). He of course touches on marriage too. And his texts are insightful worth reading. Here are some of his most striking posts:

https://www.nairaland.com/5017683/ubunjas-miseducation-under-utilized-gf

https://www.nairaland.com/5520258/ubunjas-miseducation-female-source-code

https://www.nairaland.com/6281651/ubunjas-miseducation-2020-mans-commitment

What husband material means to women. Men, be warned. Do not end up being a woman's toy or plan to settle down.
If a woman is not all down for you and hasn't sacrificed enough, do not even entertain the thought of marriage. That position must be earned. That position must be constantly and hardly fought for. Do not be the nice guy.

Thank you for sharing.
This story should enlighten men about how wicked, manipulative, and callous women can be. Sure, there do exist balanced healthy women, but All women are capable of the worse atrocities. Always keep the women you deal with on check and yes never tolerate BS.

Women can do and become whatever they want, but ultimately it is men who decide whether and how to deal with them. The power is in your hands.

Sure.
But keep in mind...
https://www.nairaland.com/7465815/make-money-women-come

nedekid:
Oga and she still has mouth to talk?
Anyway, truth of the matter is that if all men look at their wife's phones, the number of heart attack and sudden death in the country will be very very high.
I think what men, especially young men just entering marriage should do is to ensure your children are yours. Make it clear from the onset you will do DNA once you have a child. Don't hide mouth and don't let love blind you. This will frighten any woman that will go and bring a child from outside to place on your head. She will rather do a coded abortion. When a child is born also, do a DNA test. Don't assume any woman is a innocent.
See, once you guarantee your kids are yours, that is the ultimate. Any other thing is trivial, if she cheats or does what the op says, and you catch her, your kids are yours, you may forgive if you wish, because all you get from her is now companionship.
Guys that are young still have it better, is it men in their 50, 60, 70 you expect to do DNA and then find out kids are not theirs? Best to just live life and take it in good faith all are yours, than to kill yourself.
OP, if you know how married women cheat now, you will be shocked. Especially newly married ones. Those that had sugar daddies, how they still send nudes, want to still poke, disturb men heavily, infact my paddies have to block them, some still poke them steadily. You will be shocked!
That is why I focused on you having peace of mind by focusing on making sure your kids are yours.
Once novice yesterday said one must marry virgin and all problems are gone. I was just laughing.

Haha you gave me a good laugh

spice123:
My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!

And you also know your wife is fvcking him, right?