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[quote author=Ricky_Ross]Please I would like to know, does anyone of you know any single Nigerian that received treatment in India and returned alive and is still living till date?

I am concerned that over 8 people I know who traveled to India for breast cancer, liver cancer, stroke, heart surgery, tumor and other disease either died in India of few months after they returned to Nigeria. I don't know anyone that received treatment in India and lived for 12 whole months? Is this a curse or is it that those Indian hospitals are not as advanced as we are made to believe?

I wish Enebeli Elebuwa a quick recovery.[/quote]I know someone livin since 2007

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Koolking: Hey Kitty Kat, Long time no hear. I trust life has been beautiful. Cheers

I am fine dearie. How are you?

Shieldjnr: one of my best thread on NL I MUST CONFESS that i luv it

U just made my day.

The day u stop crying over u ex and move on is the day u will meet THE ONE.

tobechi20: Wu told u michel obama is a perfet wife?

She is perfect for her man. That's why the title is so.
Who is ur xyz to ur tobechi20?

coogar: taking the vow does nothing - human beings are just more immoral these days which is aided by civilisation and human rights!

Agreed. D vow shd do the opposite.

Pls this man is over hyped. He is just a normal guy. Women sabi make man feel....mscheeew

U r welcome dear.

Ihedinobi: Incredible. This pretty much answers everything. From the lady's side, that is.

Can I ask about the bro? Why was he still free five years after? What was he doing meantime?

Bro said he as seacrhin for the ONe o. He Wanted a woman who still had the old values that our mothers had. He wanted a woman who wasn't materialistic and one who could support him to achieve his dreams. He wanted someone with the same vision. He also said he anted a case where he and his wife would run the same company.

He told me a very funyy story. He said he took a lady out one day to one of this eateries. It was someone he felt was ok from the physical perspective. Head turning beauty. So he asked her to take whatever she wanted. This baordered her own food plus take-away made-up of every single item in d eatery.

He paid for it and never picked her calls or ever called her again.

^^^

@OP she is rite. The best approach is have a very positive mindset. Blv u will meet the one. Blv that all thinGs do indeed work out for ur good. Be the bestt u can be. Be clear on the type of person that u r looking for. Blv it without doubt and u will have it.

I am not vexxed o but u cld just call my secretary for my acc details cos this is professional consultation and I bill in USD and EUROS.

1. I didn't want to settle for less. I had other relationships during he period but it didn't work out. I alays tried to mould the men into my ideal man but it didn't work. So I started prayingg to meet my ideal man.

2. I am very ambitious. I have had a great career in the short time and few men can handle a lady towin the part that I do. Infact one of my ex's sister told me that very succesful women never get married. Another toaster said female enterpreneurs do not have happy marriages. So it took time for me to find a man that wld be excited abt the person that I am.


2. One relationship and one weddin was called off cos my mum died of cancer. that's 9ja pips for u shaa. Today I am happy I didn't end up with them.
I think that's basically it.

They care more abt ho much is in his pocket today and how much he is willing to release than how he got it or how much it will last. They blv in eatingg now and if it finishes today another loaded MUGU will come.

Most of our mothers too have helped to sculpture our young ladies into this.

Our generation can change this, if we dare to be different.

I am not sayin u shd dump ur RanGe driver bobo and pick one with no mechanical means of parambulation bit let ur reason for being with him be beyond d material.

“A smart man is smarter and greater when he marries a smart woman” -Funso Adegbola

Recently, my friend said  “I don’t like all girls, these days. They’re all funny. They complain about how boys want women to be like Michelle but then attack the boys for not being like Barack. They’re never content. They’re always fantasizing about their ideal men. Why can’t they build these men up? Why can’t they inspire these men to treat them like Princesses?”

I took in her message merely adding “I don’t take all these things serious. Talk is the cheapest thing in the world. Everyone can talk and everyone will talk”.

Barack and Michelle are the quintessential couple. He’s the most powerful man in the world and is a symbol of the fact that the world is evolving to a level where the idea of a black man running the show on a political level doesn’t seem absurd. He captured our hearts while running for the Presidency in 2008. His campaign was the symbol of cool, as seen with his use of the power of celebrity culture. He sparked an interest in politics that the global recession and George Bush had annihilated.


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As much as I think that its unfair to generalize on the Nigerian girl thingy, we ladies should learn to look beyond the now. That guy in bathroom slippers cld have the potential to be Mr president tomorrow and might need u to unlock his destiny. Ask Dame Patience.

http://www.bellanaija.com/2012/11/12/are-you-the-michelle-to-his-barack/

Ihedinobi: But why'd you wait five whole years? You're a lady. I can hear a healthy self-respect in your words, but I think there must have been other men who tried for you in that time. Why did you wait five years to say yes to him?

You don't quite seeem to undersand the story. He as in my class and aalays admired me from a distance. He never asked me out till after 5years.I said yes immediately. I had seen hat I was looking for why form.

Ihedinobi: Interesting. I actually understand this.

There were five years between school and him, I understand from your story, why, if you'll forgive my asking?

Yes. We lost touch after skul. Reconnected thru NLD.

Ihedinobi: How cool is that! Wow! It really is like something out of a movie. And reminds me a lot about debrief's story.

Can you tell me how exactly your careers fit into the picture? Did it matter that you were both engineers?

We both anted to end up wih an engineer. One who wld understand d whole lingo. Its different strokes for different folks. I wanted a man that wld be part of my life 247. So having the same career meansa lot to talk abt. And we cld easily relate to wat the other was saying. Plannin our lives is easier. Our life is like fun and adventure for us.

Ihedinobi: Really pretty story, I agree Why'd you say yes? What sold you on "ever after" with him?

As much as everyone won't have d same experience this is mine.

The reason that I said yes was cos he ticked all the boxes for me. I had been praying for months for the type of man that I want. I was serious about it and I got all and more.


1. I love handsome men.
2. He knew what he wanted from me and was sure about it from the first time. He didn't have to ask friends or relationshions to help him ascertain if I was the one.
3. He always anticipated my needs. Even to the extent of providing more than I need.
4. He wants me to be the best of everything and he puts his time and resources to make it happen.
5. He is faithful.
6. He can't stay 30mins without checking on me.
7. Explosive attraction.
Some funny reasons

We are both engineers
We are both good artists ( draw and paint well, design clothes and even want to start a fashion house)
We like the same books, movies
We seem to say the same thing at the same time( take words out of each others mouth)

He is a good man.

Ours was very Nollywoodlike,

Met in most unexpected places and recognized each other immediately. We were classmates in Uni and hadn't seen for half a decade. He had matured to be super-handsome(I Was already swooning) .:-D

He said throughout Uni he had a crush on me and couldn't gather the courage to ask me out awww. Well 5yrs later, he is accomplished and confident. I also think realized that he as super attractive. Anyway, the 1st day he saw me again, he asked me to marry as he said he couldn't bear to loose moi. He went to see my family a week later and d rest is history.

Crazy as it would sound, we had the same likes and dis-likes, the same talents, same goals in life, only son-only daughter, same religious blfs, same. Line of business. Our interests were just too similar. There was never anything to argue abt. He is always laffing and cracking jokes. He is the perfect gentleman and spoils me silly. Helps me with my business. He advices me and guides me.we are gossip mates and best friends. What more can I ask for?

Some women grew up in homes, churches and around ppl that told them that sex is sin. Talking from personal experience. For such a woman, even after marriage, its difficult to open up. Its takes a lot mental detoxification and re-indoctrination to make her enjoy sex. This kind of women would never enjoy sex with their bf no matter what u do or say cos they feel its dirty.

Then they also need better understanding to enjoy it in marriage cos pyschological chnage is not always automatic.

Yeah,this is not the period to think abt where u went wrong though. Its also not the period to fall in love aggain so that u don't make d next guy a rebound. Allo urself to feel the pain. Cry as much as you want to. Cry till the tears are dry. Talk to any close friend that will listen. Empty ur mind of all d neggativity abt the relationship. It can take 2weeks to 6months for some ppl. It just depends on how long and serious the releationship was. Never ever try to suppress the feelings. Get it all out.

Also try and accept that its over. You will have more peace if you do this. It would also help you to have a better perspective.


When you are done mourninG, then you take an objective look of the ended releationship. Now ur head is no more clouded with intense emotions and u can think properly. Try to reason, if possible with anyone who as close about what you think caused the relationship to end. Outline ways of improving yourself cos of course u would have had some faults.

Then define the kind of person and kind of relationship you want to have. No need to fixate on a person. If possible, write it down. Be very positive, eg; instead of saying I don't want an unfaithful man, say, I want a very faithful man. Instead of saying I don't want an abuser, say I want a chilvarous man, who wwill respect and treat me like a queen. Read your write-ups everyday. Tell urself that you will meet him soon. Blv it. Soon u will see the exact person walkin into ur life. Pls don't even doubt for a moment that it will happen.


It worked for me. U can always contact me for encouragement and support.

I was scammed in the free text being converted to voice bonus too. I had 32K then. Till now, I no see nothing. Crooks

its well my darling. u will be fine definitely and u will soon meet a wonderful and more agreeable person. its always like that.

Sorry love. U can always cry on my shoulder. Look on the brighter side, " a broken relattionship is the Universe' way of telling u that there's a better and hotter person out there".

jacobscros: how pathetic...just say u want to find out about ur life instead of disguising it as a challenge

Some posts shd be ignored as they reveal the gross narrowmindedness of the beingsbehind the keypads

Acidtalk, now this is and acid test

Make predictions abt my life for d rest of 2012 and if u rite then u r endorsed.

Mods pls why did you delete my post. I said that I want an interview and you deleted my post. Discrimination on NLD. But u allowin ppls toastin themselves to continue

greatgod2012: To me, what is ur definition of poverty, if u can afford some things by urself, then i think u are not poor. Poverty is a thing of d mind, if u think u are poor then u are, and if u think u are not, u are not,
2ndly, what type of poverty are u referring to,i think, even if u dont have enough physical cash now,and u are mentally rich and wealthy(u can frame up constructive ideas), then u shoudnt consider urself poor. A self-acclaimed poor person has written him/herself off. So its up to u.
Meanwhile, dont be lazy and idle, and be expecting somebody to respect u, so wake up and find something doing no matter how small, in order to avoid embarrasing urself.
However, as a woman, when u pass thru some difficulties together with ur lover, it strengthens relationship, if u tend to date or go out with somebody who is already done,financially, then, u are looked at or regarded as gold-digger. GOLD IS TRIED IN FIRE TO ASCERTAIN ITS GENUINETY

Na lie about a woman passin thru difficulty with man and it strenghtening a relationship. There are male vultures too and a lady doesn't need to be old before she meets them. I strted meeting them when I was 22. Men who want to be close to you to get jobs or favour from ur influence. Love can come to a woman whether its in form of a rich guy or a poor guy. I myself erroneuosly decieved myself for years and decided to date a poor guy cos I wanted to build the futre with them. It didn't work. U build and he remembers its time to tatse all the things he didn't taste when he was poor. Pls stop giving our ladies wrong advise. Ladies anyone u see date, just be a good friend to the person. That's what really counts. U have to be such to ur significant other that they would always miss u and look for u.

u sound like a guy i know in d same town, who carried on like u did and is currently HIV positive. so keep it up. i support you.