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Kayberg:
✓ If you believe in the GOD of the Bible, (which unfortunately you hate, despise, and do not believe in) then you would have understood the reason He came to save the world from His judgment to come.

See them... fraudsters! 🥱🥱

I don't hate the God of the bible and His people. The ones I am against are you fraudsters who hide your deceit and wickedness against your fellow man behind the mention of the name of a God who made clear from the beginning that He is God of Israel -- Jacob, the one whom He named -- alone. Na una jealousy drive una go they claim say you were also chosen when there is no mention anywhere in that entire book that non-Israelites.were regarded by him. : 🥱🥱🥱

All religions are scams and an abomination.

Kayberg:
✓ If you believe in the GOD of the Bible, (which unfortunately you hate, despise, and do not believe in) then you would have understood the reason He came to save the world from His judgment to come.

Your so-called belief in him as a non-israelite is meaningless if you do not first have an believing Israelites as go between to reach him through. That is what is constantly portrayed in that book --- the fact that He is God of Israel alone. :🥱🥱🥱

And, another thing made clear in that book is that no man, not even Israelites, can in ole His laws meant only for Israelites to abide by you against non-israelites. The same way a non-Grecian cannot invoke the words of the Greek Gods against non-Grecian is the same way you a non-Israelite cannot invoke the laws of the God of only the Israelites on a non-Israelite. 🥱🥱🥱

This isn't rocket science for those who aren't buried in delusions. 🥱🥱🥱

TimeArena1:
✓ As I walked home, a lot of questions ran through my mind.
How did he turn out this way?
Was he neglected? No. The grandmother loved them deeply and she was very protective. But then again, it occurred to me that love alone cannot raise children.
Grandparents often try their best, but strength, energy, and attention fade with age.
Environment and association are louder teachers.
Looking at the environment I came to understand that even if his mother were alive and he grew up on that street, there is still a possibility this path would find him.

Some streets are persuasive, and not everyone has the willpower to fight the influences around them.
Sometimes, environment raises children more than love does.
And when the environment is hungry, dark, and unguarded, it devours destinies.
I hope help finds this boy, soon.
I am not in a place to help him right now, but I sincerely wish the government would clamp down on the sale of hard drugs that are gradually turning bright children into vagabonds.
Also, let's keep using our individual platforms to push against the use of drugs.

You did not investigate the possible issue of neglect from the parents. -- in this case, the father whom you said left the children with his mother, leaving them with possible feelings of abandonment to navigate on their own-- but jumped to the convenient conclusion that because at one time you felt the grandmother must have loved the children, therefore neglect could not have been part of the problem?

Let me ask you this. Did all of the kids from your past school ,100% of them whose parents -- either father and/or mother -- was not in the picture also turn out a drug addict in that same area? You said you were a teacher so I expect a teacher to have no problems with critical reasoning abilities.

Deandean:
➜Okay, so you have a point that we cannot entirely condemn an act or person on the basis of religious beliefs alone, especially when our religious affiliations do not align. In the same vain, we cannot deny the fundamental laws of nature and the natural world, which subsist regardless of our religion. AND REGARDLESS OF YOUR INDIVIDUAL MENTAL STATE.
For example, pedophilia is a crime all over the world, but their are people who are genuinely and helplessly drawn only to children. There are kleptomiacs, who even in the midst of plenty have a natural tendency to steal. Then there are homosexuals, both natural and mostly by choice who flaunt societal norms with whatever justifications.
➜ Question: should we excuse these natural fallouts to freely express themselves because they have different or no religious beliefs.
Will you allow your son to marry your daughter simply because they have genuine affection for each other.
➜ Truth is, their will always be natural fall-outs, people whose behavior will be at odds to nature and the universe. The world exist today because these fallouts are either seperated, suppressed or eliminated to sustain natural designs. Its like have a factory, some products may come out bad, not necessarily because the design was poor, but mostly due to production factors. A sensible producer will separate, repair or destroy such goods before releasing the production batch. Got it?

1. Pedophilia was not always a crime, but with the world now mostly in agreement that every human being(children included) has bodily autonomy— UN Universal Human Rights—, Pedophilia is now recognized as a crime against children — regardless of whether there are adults who claim to have urges to grape children or not. The point is that any act that violates an individual's rights and freedoms is a crime, and the violator is a criminal by law. Every Human is expected to respect the freedoms and rights of other humans(children included). See how very different this is from your idea on why pedophilia is now recognized as a crime?


2. My son and my daughter, though my wards until they become adults, are not property for me to allow to do whatever the law defines as being of detriment to their mental health and being. Children are still fully human — with all of the full rights and autonomy that even I have to my being — and not slaves/property for me to trade as I choose.

3. Wrong! If you study the law and understand it well, you find there is absolutely no truth to this nonsense you spew here.

Kayberg:
➜You can't even defend what you're trying to defend, neither can you withdraw the dominance of the GOD of the Bible over the whole of His creations when it comes to His commandments and judgment. Remember, He is no respecter of persons.
➜Even though the Canaanites then do not know Him, did He not execute His judgment on them? That's the power of GOD to do anything.

This is really sad... a non-Israelite invoking the words of the God of only the Israelites meant only for His people — the bloodline of Israel— against other non-Israelites. The delusion is profound with this one.

Kayberg:
➜You mentioning the GOD of the Bible shows you are now trying to plug your delusions and misconceptions into the commandments of my GOD, the GOD of the Bible... Because clearly from the commandments of the GOD of the Bible, He said these, condemning homosexuality and bestiality:

Again, are you an Israelite — of the bloodline of Jacob — living in the land of Canaan where the Law of Moses was sanctioned as the one and only National Constitution? Are all homosexuals Israelites — of the bloodline of Jacob — that you would think to invoke those Laws against them?

What you are attempting here amounts to invoking the words of Zeus, God of the Greeks, against non-Greeks. It can never make sense, no matter how hard to try! 🤣🤣🤣

Kayberg:
➜And it is so beautiful and indisputable that my GOD is above every other gods, including your gay god… and is going to judge your god, destroy your god because your god has no place in the eternity of my GOD when the world and everything in it shall be no more. 😎

Storyland! Whatever image you have of your god, you have no right to go around imposing him/her on everyone else, regardless. Your delusion is such that it cannot be logically worked out.

Kayberg:
➜And for you pretending not to know who I meant when I say 'GOD' shows my GOD is never yours.

I didn't pretend. I know for a fact that your God is not the Bible God who said that He is God of Israel — the bloodline of Jacob — alone. I can't abide your particular lie against Him.

Kayberg:
➜It is quite understandable your god is not and can never be my GOD...because there is a very huge difference between my GOD and your god.

I am glad you at least realize how utterly ridiculous it is of you and your ilk to go around invoking your god(s) against others as though they are automagically subjects to your particular delusions because you say so.

Kayberg:
➜I asked, does GOD support/approve of homosexuality? I didn't ask you of 'dieties'.

Your first delusion was pretending your god is my god. There are at least 4000 deities out there, so who the heck are you to assume that I am subject to your god(s)?

Kayberg:
Answer me, before we both delve into the Bible to pick how the Bible supports our views..Are Answer me, before we both delve into the Bible to pick how the Bible supports our views..you trying to say homosexuality is good before GOD?
Answer me, before we both delve into the Bible to pick how the Bible supports our views..

Well, which of the over 4000 known deities out there has been busy killing off homosexuals and homosexuality, aside from men— who have set themselves as gods over their fellow humans— who have set themselves against homosexuals?

2. Bible? There is no record of the Bible God — YHWH, God of Israel— ever destroying or casting a man out of his kingdom for being a homosexual. So, I am not certain why a Nigerian thinks it makes sense for him to invoke the God of Israel against Homosexuals and homosexuality.

TimeArena1:
Not long after, we learned their mother had died while giving birth a few months before. Their father, overwhelmed with caring for them, could not manage, so he brought them to their maternal grandmother, who then enrolled them in the school.
I eventually left that school and never saw those kids again. Over the years, I have bumped into some of my former students, now big boys and girls, but never these two. Today, on my way back from work, I stopped by my tailor’s shop to pick up a dress. I was not in a hurry to get home, so I decided to walk the long distance. When I got to the area where that school once stood, nostalgia hit me. But nothing prepared me for what happened next. Just as I was about to leave the street, I saw a familiar face. The same boy. He is taller now and thinner, but the face was still the same, only different in a way I wish I did not have to see. He looked dirty. His eyes were bloodshot. The stench as he walked past me was suffocating. He did not recognize me; he walked on casually. But, i never forgot the face of my student. His lips were dry and cracked, and he was sipping straight from a sachet of gordon’s dry gin. It broke my heart. His condition looked like substance abuse.

Poor kids! They literally had no chance!

You said their mother died, and their father, instead of grieving with his kids and hanging in with them through the tough time, took to abandoning them with his mother so he could go live his own life alone. Why think of blaming the environment for what happened to the boy? Will you blame their grandmother, too? 🥱🥱

Bunoxspot:
The price of sex It is out of God's pleasure He introduced sex in the human race
The price of sex in its very beginning is that it took God Almighty every thing to bring it in. You may not understand how peculiar this channel of sex in the whole human race, but without it man cannot reproduce his kind for the multiplication of the earth. There is a great purpose in the human race that sex was designed to be the gate way. Sex is good in ramifications. What would have human race be like without it?
We need to understand that sex is a powerful gift. Oh yes, it is powerful. It is a gift designed to bring intimacy between the male husband and the female wife. You need to understand that God never made it for the male man and the male man. No matter how they try to justify their action, it is a crime against God and God's principles. The same sex sex griefs God because it is wasting of seed. Do not be deceived about that.
To read more click on bunoxspot

I am afraid that all of this is nothing but religious gobbledegook! Sex is simply the search for pleasure using one's body. For those who wish to, procreation is a choice in sex.

Bwilliam:
➜Women and accountability are mortal enemies.

Do you even know the meaning of the word Accountability?

A woman who formerly declared that she would never date married men eventually realized, for reasons unknown to us here, that maybe she was best marrying a married one. How does that mean she has not taken accountability? Perhaps she considered, in whatever situation she found herself —maybe after a couple of years at Shiloh — and realized that settling as third wife to a married man isn't such a bad way to go. What has any of that to do with a lack of accountability— assuming you, in fact, understand the meaning of the word.

fcbelle72:
➜Lies.... U can never wish ur self single forever, who will be ur companion in old age? No matter how bad some couple life may be, everyone has a chance to stick to some body and make babies, so in old age Mama will have many grand children to watch over her

Ask that question of your old fathers and grandfathers in the village who lack that very same, companion, even after having so many wives, children and grandchildren. How many grandmamas/grandpapas of today are happy, knowing how very hard the world is, to have a grandchild literally putting their lives on hold, all to take care of them? No, be wicked grandmama/grandpapa dem they call those ones?

Companionship does not come in one form. It comes in many forms, which is why even widows and unmarried women, some widowers in villages are never really found without companionship, regardless. Women tend to surround themselves with family and community throughout most of their lives. This is made even better when such women have financial independence and can provide support in one way —jobs, sponsorships, or scholarships—or the other to those in their community and circles, that is the sort of companionship that has been shown to pay the most dividends over time, as opposed to surrounding oneself with wives and children.

So, yes, being single forever is not a curse either to a man or a woman. It is actually a blessing for those of them that are financially independent, enabling them to venture beyond the close-minded views of companionship to explore broader and more meaningful relationships with their fellow humans.

greatiyk4u:
The true story behind the event that led to the gruesome murder of the 19 years old Uloma.
The girl that Emma Nwangwu killed was not dating him neither was the girl dating the police DPO.
The girl is Nanny to Emma Nwangwu who is taking care of his little kids. Both are from Ibeku Opi in Nsukka local government.
The said girl ran away from home on 23rd of November because of domestic violence, threat to here life and that of her family and alleged sexual harassment that's being meted on her by Emma Nwangwu, this led her to run away from the home and was declared missing thereafter....
She reported to a police man who took her to the DEROY Pharmacy whose owner is Nwangwu close friend to appeal to him on her behalf to stop maltreating and molesting her due to her health condition . The pharmacist pushed for peace talk so that the girl can return home.
But Emma on arrival, angrily tried to beat the girl for running away from home and for her disappearance all these while. Due to his anger issues and a known rascal he couldn't control his anger, in the process, he pushed the girl against the wall where she knackered her head on the wall and died instantly.

Nigerian men are wicked indeed. The girl reported to the police, and the police took her —the victim —back into the hands of her very molester so he could finish what he started. And these are the same people who would lie to women that the men care about them and their situation.

kiddaz:
➜Exactly a topic of discussion elsewhere yesterday. Women do not show love or empathy. Whatever they do is transactional and to their benefit. Even when it seems she's doing it for you as her partner, she's already calculated the benefits for her long or short term.
➜ The world didn't have the word "date down" until women coined it. A woman who is financially bouyant will never date a man who isn't but we men do this all the time. No matter how wealthy we may be we never look down on broke ladies. Matter of fact we groom and upgrade them to how we want them to be. But women can never do that and your submission confirms it again and again.
➜ Men are kind, loving, accommodating, protective, caring etc and even when we don't have, we go out of our way to provide Nd please the women in our lives. Men sacrifice it all for family while women sacrifice it all fpr themselves.
➜ The good news is men have started realising the truth of the game and the scripts are changing

Relationships have always been about benefits for men —transactional. For the longest time, men have considered the gains of being with a particular woman over the other. Most go in expecting to have the woman bring with her the emotional, mental, and physical labor that is necessary to keep a relationship running, even when the man brings nothing but his limited physical presence into her life. So, why make it an issue when women decide to also become more transactional in their dealings with men they are in a relationship with?

2. Even if we are to assume you are right about this— I will never support women going into a relationship that offers them no tangible benefits — why are you against women not wanting to date down? Studies have confirmed that relationships benefit men more than they do women. Why, then, should women choose to forgo their chances at the one benefit that a man could ever offer them —money— in a relationship?

3. They are? And this, according to the women in relationships with these men, or your own private delusion as a man who has never been in an actual romantic relationship with any of those men? I ask because research has shown that the major reason most women remain in their relationships with men is that they lack financial security of their own.

4. That actually plays well in favor of women.

Wealthyonos:
➜Off course that's why a woman will tell you that since she now has money, no need for a man.

Not all women who have money tell men that. (Most of the billionaire women, for instance, out there are in relationships with men who earn less than they do.) However, it is disappointing that for many men, all they bring to the table is their meager earnings—not even enough to pay for a full-time chef and house help, in most cases —and nothing else— basically, all it means to feel like a man is to bring money alone to the table.

essentialone:
➜"I can never ever date a married man", is now a third wife. Confused gender?

She eventually settled, something that most Nigerian women and men eventually do in marriage. So what?

Wealthyonos:
I like it the way you put it that women lose their feminism when they touch money. The way I understand it is that, they begin to feel like they are now men. They can't marry a man like themselves, so they look for a slave they can control.

Feel like men? How do? If a woman is capable of this feeling like men then, of what use is a man then in relationship to such a woman? That is something to explore.

olioxx:
✓ I come in peace really, but this is a question that has bothered on my mind for the longest of time. Give me your thoughtful answer, if you don't want to answer in here, quote or mention me in a old thread.

This here is actually an interesting topic to explore. 🥱🥱

ebubeson:
➜If you ask some people that are single or in toxic and unfulfilling marriages or relationships, they may tell you that there were periods when good people came around with true love, but they abused it or wasted it.
➜ Life does not always wait for people to misbehave to satisfaction and then give them the love they desire when they are done misbehaving. This goes to some ladies and guys who may have used their youthful days to live wild, abandon true and sincere lover: but are now looking for good persons to marry.
➜In this era where we have a lot of unfit people for marriage, if God gives you a good partner, cherish the person, marry the person and treat the person well.

Where are these good people, as study after study shows that the vast majority of women in marriages, including those who thought they married the love of their lives, are unhappy in marriage. Where are all the magically good people/men that these women met? How come they are almost nowhere to be seen, even if we are to assume they are now married to other women?

2. So, if women refuse to settle for less than what they want in life, does this life punish them with a bad partner in marriage? But somehow, we are never able to find out where all the so-called good partners ever disappear to?

3. Your god has also been guilty of not being able to find good partners for your pastors. Many are having to seek divorce after a while, and the rate of unfulfilled marriages in your churches exactly mirrors that outside of your churches. So, again, this fairy tale you keep trying to push, how come no one ever finds me?

Why not allow people, especially women, to freely configure their own lives as they choose, while you learn to mind your own life?

giacomogiovanni:
➜Typical Kobo. I didn't see you chastise the woman that said she'd rather 'chew jeans than ask a man out' as being 'close-minded' or 'unprogressive'.
➜ Your fake sense of moral arbitration is only aimed at men.

Why do you feel the woman has no right to set such a boundary for herself? That is the more important question here.

2. You literally compared an individual's right to set boundaries for her own self with another's literal bodyshaming — a form of bullying —another human being. Are you certain I am the fake one here?

Hezzyluv:
✓ Don't you know that some of these pastor abandoned the right thing to do by putting prayers first?
✓ They barely have time for their kids aside church.

The vast majority of your pastors abandoned the right thing to do, and that explains why almost all of them have at least one child they continuously have to hide from their congregation. Na so? 🥱🥱🥱

2. So, your earlier advice was not for real, since here you admit that even with all of their prayers, the reason why most pastors have at least one child that is the black sheep is that pastors don't really have time for their children. Basically, time spent with the children, not prayers, is what really pays dividends.

Giftedhand47:
➜You go go Shiloh tayad o E go soon clear for your eye

If she decide say she no go ever go shiloh, wetin you go do?

OdogwuAnambra:
➜Graduating with masters isn't a big deal but what we are talking about is Manly characters
➜ You don't give what you don't have. Single women can't raise strong men! That's the fact
➜ Don't mistake education for character or social qualifications of a man! Having gbola doesn't make a man! That's why we see lots of effeminate men looking for women that would take care of them !

1. What are manly characters?

2. There are literally 100s of millions of strong men out there — you probably worship some of them too— who were raised by single mothers. Why do you keep arguing against the literal reality of things?

3. Are bandits, yahooyahoos, agberos, and so on among these effeminate men?

OdogwuAnambra:
➜You raise a boy to be Manly(usually means nothing), Dependable , Say his mind when he can without fear, Provider(be able to provide for herself and whatever family she chooses to have), Defender , Hustler
➜And it is hard for a single mum or divorced woman to raise a boy! And a divorced woman or single mum raise a terrible girl

. Why can't you raise a girl the pretty much the same capabilities?

2. You mean Obama's single mother failed?

Snow2six:
➜Threaten?? You only hitting ur frustration here sinc u can’t do that in d real world
➜ .. u are really confused..try Mek u fix ur real life than coming here to pour ur frustration.Abi sure say nobody go even gv u listening ears or look u twice na Mek u de form woman king here

1. Try to learn the correct application of words at least! Frustrated here because I can't do what in the real world?

2. Why do I get the feeling that you were just dying to be given attention? All these ramblings of yours scream frustration, and I am not here to help you unpack your emotional issues. That is what professional mental health therapists are for. 🥱🥱🥱