₦airaland Forum

radautoworks:
Yeah, I knew I shouldn't have started making pizza. The kids have declared Sundays "Pizza Sunday" and Grandpa really liked the shrimp pizza🙆🏾‍♀️
All fresh ingredients and the basil was grown on our balcony by middle daughter😊

Did you make your own cheese too?

Blitzking:
UK empowers women to end their marriages...for UK the longevity of ur marriage na ur wife hand..d day she tire e Don finish

That's pretty much the same thing in Nigeria. Your beloved endurance marriages in Nigeria are powered by women tolerating bullsheet and unmentionables every single day.

ayoncox:
shey eyes dey pain you ni, something that you even posted here as snapshots. calm down and read

You say wetin? You no fit read abi wetin you dey talk again

LordIsaac:
It's the men that monopolize community dustbins that must be blamed.

Blamed for what? Taking the women you lot don't want? I read somewhere today that we may soon hear wedding bells a' ringing for Nicholas Pepe and Teanna Trump. Why not let each man take the woman he desires, while you can have those of them wey gree una? Why all the bad belle?

ATTAHDYE:
➜Very serious mental health challenge. You cannot change to what you're not. Even lower animals can't do it.

Again, none of this is true. A distress that impacts the psychological is not a mental challenge. 🥱🥱🥱

Also, have you existed in the mind of animals for you to be able to tell that they do not experience such distress? 🥱🥱

piagetskinner:
Can you rape your wife? Once married, does rape exist between husband and wife. I want to be educated.

Do not, I repeat, do not ever leave Nigeria because you will definitely end up in jail only months afterwards. Ask those who left that country before you toting this mentality.

ayoncox:
➜So did I say everyone that has depression develop dysphoric ideas. You yourself think am na, you didn't read my comment carefully Oya go back and read it carefully

. No information lists gender dysphoria as a side effect of depression. Stop with the misinformation!

Nonsense! There are over 4000 known deities, so what makes you think your god is the ultimate power over all the rest? 🥱🥱🥱🥱

ManknowThyself:
➜It takes clarity to understand my messages, don’t have energy for ambiguity.
2. The Rev from Jos alone is an obvious example. Don’t have energy for the rest.
➜ This is my opinion, keep your opinion to yourself, brother. I will never answer you again.

1. Clarity is something that eludes you.

2. WOW... a man who watched as hundreds around him were killed off and then decided to take it on himself to report his problems, not to your gods but to the people of America, who finally heard him and decided they would do something about it? People are still dying in those zones to this day since the Americans are yet to arrive, but you have already declared that hundreds of lives have been saved. 🥱🥱

You religious folks are terribly dubious. Your gods were not able to save those who had to be lost, and those still dying, but you are already claiming victory, for your gods were nothing has really been done. Very wicked people!

3. Again, I am not your brother, nor am I related to you, abeg!

Bunoxspot:
God does support homosexuality. God created them male and female. Not male and male or female and female

Which of the over 4000 known deities out there is this god you refer to?

ayoncox:
➜ I personally don't believe in the causes they listed, all I know is that it's often caused by depression and loss of identity in addition to perverted wokeness.
➜ The funny part is that the man will transition into being a woman and after that will realise it's not worth it then want to transition into being a man again.

Wrong! I was depressed for over 30 years, and not once did I have dyphoric ideas. Stop with the misinformation, abeg!

2. Nonsense! What you said rarely ever happens. 🥱🥱🥱

The percentage of transgender regret is ≤3%, often temporary. Most people who detransition do so because of external pressures, not regret. Retransition is common once those pressures are removed.

ayoncox:
it's called gender dysphoria

. So, this individual is attempting to get treatment through his actions. Right?

ManknowThyself:
➜She was naive to trust innocently cos of the level of her good heart, that guy wished to manipulate that but divine grace purged his conscience.
➜ My brother have seen people with different level of Grace. Because of one person God save hundreds, do you know what to be chosen by God. Many are called but few a chosen , never you underestimate the divine grace of the chosen ones.
➜ Don’t even know her in person, stop the projection cos you are talking from the abundance of your heart.
➜ Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. This is my opinion and I respect your view of life.

1. We don't know why he felt like letting her go; it could be that he already has his basket full with other women he is currently dealing with, and simply wishes to keep her waiting for the next time he has the opportunity to mess with her. 🥱🥱

2. I am not your brother. Also, this god of yours seems to act at random. Named that one person wey your god used to save hundreds of lives in Nigeria, abeg. I want to hear this one. I don't underestimate the facts of life and reality at all. 🥱🥱

3. You didn't know her in person but were quick to declare her a good person. So, where does your own lie come from? 🥱🥱🥱

4. So, when I say that all humans lie, it is the abundance of my mouth speaking and not the fact of life as we met it, abi? 🥱🥱🥱

TOPCRUISE:
This is absolutely crazy. You mean in the UK your wife must give you consent to ejeculate in her after she spreads her leg for you. And if you dare ejaculate you will be seen as a rapist.
This is the maddest news I have heard.

Better leave that rape culture you are used to in Nigeria, where your traditions and religions let you lot slide when you commit those evils against your wives.

ManknowThyself:
➜My brother don’t mistake grace are different in people, cos of one person safety God can close any door.
2. From her chat with the guy, I knew she’s a good person but not perfect. I respect your view but this is my Opinion.

Grace So when people are unalived by the men they go after, e mean say dem no get this grace and this god no care for their safety, right?

2. Her chat with the guy only reveals that she was playing the "I am naive" card with the guy. How you jumped to the conclusion that she is definitely some good person leads me to wonder if you are looking to take advantage of her or playing around with us.

ManknowThyself:
➜That’s what will call divine protection!!!! The connection cord was unplugged by God.
➜You have a good heart, please guide it with passion cos empathy’s are always manipulated by low vibrational frequency carriers. You when your husband they your area , you they find husband for sokoto. Look within don’t be in haste sis.

Which kain divine protection? She just happened to be lucky. Go ask all those people wey full una churches wey dey married to these lying husbands/wives? Why una divine protection no dey ever reach them?

2. She has a good heart because she posted about a guy admitting to having lied to her. 😂😂😂😂

faceland:
These men are in marriage with women that HATE them.

Do the men themselves love the women they are in marriages with?

SmartPolician:
Out of every 1 marriage that failed, 9 worked. Unfortunately, people prefer to talk the one that failed and its negative outcomes than the 9 that worked and their positive outcomes.

9 worked yet the rate of spousal abandonment/divorce rate in Nigeria is at least 50% — in the South and also in the North? Una no like reality at all in that country. 🥱🥱🥱

Nelllson:
One day you will unknowingly pose for the picture that will be used for your funeral Obituary.

Drop yours in the comments.

That only applies to those who will have funeral obituaries posted for them. 🥱🥱🥱

ayoncox:
Obviously he has mental health issues

What mental health issue? 🥱🥱

aswani:
✓ Not financial security, both financial independence and emotional maturity.

Men who intend to be head or leaders over women need to be at least financially secure to do so; while women ought to be at least financially independent before and in marriage. 🤔

Financial security is a state of being financially stable and protected, characterized by having enough income to meet one's basic needs, manage unexpected expenses, and achieve personal financial goals. It provides peace of mind and the freedom to make life choices without being burdened by money worries, allowing you to confidently handle both regular and emergency expenses.

Chilipepper:
JAPA: Pastor and wife end their 11 years marriage after three kids and three year in the UK

Pastor and wife no get name?

aswani:
✓Na small pikin dem bi, they want to turn their wives to their parents, it is a shame that the little boy expressed himself publicly.
I agree with you. Chai, Nairaland, una see una life. See as me and kobojunkie dey gree with wesef .
Anyway, in my opinion, the gap between women and men in marraige needs to be wider, say 10 years, as clearly men are becoming less prepared. Maybe men below 35 should be banned from marraige.
The posts on this thread better be tongue in cheek or it would be a scary world we are in.

That makes it so much worse for the women now that we know that terrible pregnancies, miscarriages and stillbirths in women are more linked to the man's age than the woman. Women are better off with men who are younger than them in age, abeg.

A better option would be for the young men to freeze their sperms before age 30, and then proceed to procreate using those sperms only after they have attained the necessary level to financial security that would put them at advantage in having and raising said family.

D00msDay:
✓ Even to ur own family? Not just family but ur own mother? If my mom can carry me for nine months, care for me, wash my poos, carry me all day on her back and still stay awake at night because of my cries, if she could have done all that for me tell me why I wouldn't take care of her too wen she becomes old?

Na so una dey like talk....all talk and little to no action. Go village now you go see so many abandoned parents for there with no one taking care of them. Their sons only send money to people who they in turn expect to magically care for them in the way described.

Kayberg:
✓ Another ju*nk of lies. 🤣
Let me burst your bubble of deception and lies again using the Bible:
Oya, come and dispute this again. 😎
You that claim to follow the GOD of the Bible, yet you have utterly failed to produce only one, just only one verse from the Bible to support your claims!
You keep repeating the same words, I keep giving you different undisputable evidences from the Bible. Which of us now follows the GOD of the Bible? 😁
You know I have your time.

Religion is a biaatch...a literal abomination against the intelligence of human beings! How could a sane individual read any of that and the come away believing it mentions him, a Nigerian? Tufiakwa!!! 😩😩😩😩

Quest7777:
Not easy taking care of such aged people, if you are not a professional Care Giver.
If you no get better patience, you may do something you never intended doing.

Even some professional care giver have been accused of some of the same in saner climes., talk less of a place like Nigeria were no one really knows who was murdered and who was not when it comes to elder deaths.🥱🥱🥱

EvangelistChuks:
This is one of the consequences of choosing to go contrary to God's commands;be fruitful and multiply.

Nonsense! This story highlights the potential consequence of burdening children with ones care in old age.

Wananonly:
Bro! Hope he wouldn't mind the same thing done to him by his children when they become tired of him.

If you are hoping your children will take care of you in your old age, be careful this does not end up being your own fate. 🥱🥱

aswani:
✓ Okay I am not sure if you meant to reply to me as you missed my point entirely if you did.
Two quick things, doing domestic chores is not an exclusive preserve of any gender neither is it to please anyone.
Secondly, marraige is not about anyone being a king, it is about the strengthening of a family with all parts pulling towards a common goal.
✓ If the woman earns more than the man and puts a higher proportion than the man towards family expenses, you really think the male can still be walking around claiming King.
✓ You are a generation or two late, marriage dynamics have changed albeit not necessarily for the better.

1. To the African poor man, you will not make sense since chores are woman only duties and his place as "Head" over the woman he is married to is his right in life. You cannot take that from him. 🥱🥱🥱

2. These boys are literally telling you that is what they want. They want the woman to bring her money without them needing to give up any of the traditional benefits they were entitled to.

3. Women who find themselves entangled in the traditional configuration of marriages benefit nothing from making financial contributions to family purses. Even in the case of divorce, they still gain nothing. So, it is better such women use their money to help themselves take care of their duties in the marriage and for their upkeep(financial abuse is also likely unavoidable in such marriages).

aswani:
✓ If your woman earns more than you, I suggest you do a lot more around the house to make up for it.
Anything less and you as a man are asking for trouble.
The ones that don't earn as much as their husbands have little regard for them, talk less of you.

Common sense evades most Nigerian men as you can see they rather use ogboju access the woman money instead.🥱🥱

People wey wan claim "Head" over the woman and "Leader" of the family also want to claim say marriage na partnership. No be wayo dem dey call that? 🥱🥱