₦airaland Forum

QuinQ:
➜Now you get it. Kobojunkie refuses to get it till tomorrow! There were ten lost tribes and two not-lost tribes. There were Levites in both groups. Here's the map below - as you can see, no Levi. By the way, "lost" doesn't mean they disappeared from the face of the earth. "Lost" means they disappeared as a distinct people - they disappeared from history.
Example, as you can see from the map, Simeon is surrounded by the tribe of Judah. While not lost in the sense of being exiled by the Assyrians in 721 BCE like the other 9 tribes, Simeon became effectively lost due to its absorption into Judah, unlike Benjamin.

Simply show where in Scripture YHWH of Israel or Jesus Christ of Israel, the ones who made a Covenant with Israel, instructed that the Levites not be counted among the tribes of Israel as His people. Resist the urge to post these mental farts of yours my way as I have no use for them.

saintkel:
oga if u love someone so dearly....sometimes u can't tell them dis kind of thing....cos u know, u will lose them....I think d man loves d wife, telling her about d past may hurt d union

Love that hides the truth is not love at all. It's manipulation & deceit disguised as love.

The man can insist but a just court may hold him married. So, Section 166 is not nullified because he insisted.

A Just court! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

ufotunang:
➜But the man is ok now..no more mad Maybe because the man is broke that is why she wants to leave him

Regardless, a history of mental health isn't something to hide really.

irumole1975:
➜ Hmm. If a man find out his woman can not give birth due to some health issues, however the health issues can be taken care of with his money if he’s willing..can he leave the said woman and find another woman?

Marriage has never been a do-or-die issue for anyone, including men. No guns to the man's head; he is legally allowed to get a divorce whenever he chooses.

3kay945:
Is this real ? So the man walked around nakeed for 2yrs.

Nothing for him to be ashamed of, however it is also not something to hide from a potential spouse. There are so many children out there born with mental conditions that could have been avoided if parents were at least aware before having children, or treated them well before having kids. Worse, there are many stuck in marriages with mentally ill individuals, conditions that were hidden before the marriage from them.

abbey621:
➜So the number of abortions or infections a lady had in the past should be disclosed? Just want to make sure we're on the same page because I agree with your statement they SHOULD ALL be disclosed!

Use your head! Can such information impact your future health or the health of your children? If so, then yes!

MikeofKd:
Serious confusion lol
Your ancestors had plenty wives and ur here getting confused over 1 , ya funny

Their obsession --- inability to let go and move on --- is part reason why they chose to have so many women.

Brimstone77:
..✓ I will,and I have to bro. I believe she have moved on too.
Just about a week or 2 of our break up she joined one tik tok trending song "if you're done with your ex,move to the next"
I see my self so fuulish for still thinking about her.
But the heart is just so stupid and weak.

Dude, your obsession is showing. I suggest you unfollow her everywhere if you really wish to move on. You can follow her again after you have sufficiently dealt with you.

Christistruth02:
✓ There Was a Gov of the NW who was once in that Situation when he was Young
The people of his hometown will confirm that to you

Did he at least get treatment before his people made him governor? Nevermind! 😅😅

abbey621:
✓ A person's dirty past is that person's private business(point 3) yet she wants to abandon him for one of those dirty past(point 2), isn't that contradictory? Like you said there's no law against it but what could he have done to avoid such issue?
✓ If it was private like you said then he did not need to disclose but if point 3 is flawed then she has every right to be upset......CATCH 22

Nonsense! 🙄🙄🙄

For the umpteenth time, your Mental Health history and your medical record ARE NOT your dirty past nor are they anything to be ashamed of.

2. Your medical and mental health history may be private to you as an individual but they should not remain that way when you become married or intend to procreate.

thesicilian:
➜Lol. Guy u be odoyo o You can never recognize sarcasm even if it wears a red hat carrying a placard with I AM SARCASM boldly written on it.

This matter happens to be that serious to me!

thesicilian:
➜No be my fault chief Na so that gender dey tell us also

Stop deceiving yourself! Did that gender invent mental illness and medical problems? 🙄🙄🙄

alizma:
➜She can leave, someone, probably better than her will marry him. Sometimes some people just think they are above certain challenges.
➜ What will be her reason for quitting especially if the guy is ok and caring?

It isn't that they think but that they are. Not everyone can handle a situation like this, and rightly so. There are people who, after learning of their mental illness, and the potential of it debilitating their lives, chose not to even burden anyone else in that they decided it was best not to get married or have kids at all. That is how serious it can be.

2. Mental illness is not something to be trifled with. You and I know this for a fact since we have at least seen families devastated by it.

abbey621:
➜Looks like points 2 and 3 are contradictory! If a dirty past is private business, why be upset or abandon the guy for doing what point 3 says? Could it be that it is not private business after all and couples should be open about their past especially if it has serious life and health implications?

You aren't making any sense! What does point 3 say that you should be upset with? I am having a hard time following what you have here.

muyico:
➜Just check d medical records Notinz dey dere. Nice m*d man still dey street, u can't knw, except he display once

. How many of them get treatment for their mental problem so that you would even find a medical history to check?

givedemwotowoto:
➜It’s a scary thing to find out though. Their parents back in the day would’ve known this based on their research before marriage, but these days they say love… The question there is, was it due to drug usage (controllable) or something unknown that could be feom DNA (wahala dey)? Because then it makes you start thinking about your children

. Mental health problems are not always due to a drug issue. Even when it is, it is still not something one can easily consider a done and dusted past, as there is the possibility of relapse or passing it on to one's kids.

thesicilian:
Don't judge me by my past

Your mental health and/or medical history is not just your past, but the potential future of your children. Don't ignore it!

Gunayo:
➜l guess you fall into this category of species.

I prefer being a commonsense-er is what.

Brimstone77:
.. She pierced her nose and put a ring on it.. That's a major turn off to me.

Then you have absolutely no reason whatsoever to look back or miss her. So, do your due diligence to move on and never consider her again.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EbNAbb6HGF8?si=S3Pt4eD6cuzflibD

Gunayo:
➜So to you she is a saint abi?
➜ Can you be so sure that she didnt hide so things too from her husband?
➜ Many women messed themselves up when they her very young. Some even aborted several times which later affected their conception when they settled down.
➜ Did they tell their husband their dirty past?

What has this sainthood to do with marriage, an agreement between two human beings?

2. She may have hidden something herself, but she is choosing to abandon the man for what he has instead hidden. There is no law against that.

3. Nonsense! A person's dirty past is that person's private business. And your delusions regarding the way they chose to live their lives before marriage are yours, a personal delusion.

4. The topic issue here is a serious issue that could potentially impact the kids in the marriage. Stop trying to derail with what are private delusions.

Brimstone77:
...➜So about a month ago I broke up with my girlfriend, but since then I have been struggling to move on. I still think about her,every thing around me keep reminding me of her,though I don't want her back anymore but still I can't let go off her,the memories of her keep flashing in my head. I don't want to go into any relationship any time soon,but I'm having this feeling that I can never find any other girl like her(she's good though). Help how can I just forget about her and move on please!

This(and other related videos from the same channel) is designed for you.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D3BxKUCQuzA?si=UTebJZtP4W7Ig5X4
Also, consider the following....

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NBjyMqBJafU?si=AYM-FLt7wFe0E9dR

potent5:
Section 166 of the Evidence Act says it can be presumed to be marriage.

It states that when a question arises in court about whether a man or woman is a spouse under Islamic or Customary law, the court will presume a valid marriage if evidence of cohabitation as husband and wife is provided, unless the contrary is proven meaning that if the man insists they are not married, then the presumption will likely be dropped.

In Nigeria, cohabitation, as someone already indicated, amounts to an extended hookup. So, women need to be aware of this as there is nothing for them to gain in the end from the relationship, except if kicking the can down the road is their thing.

AllBlack:
➜If you forgive a snake one more time then you deserve to die by the venom of that very snake. No matter how many times a snake sheds its skin, it will always be a snake. Keep being emotional and thinking of forgiveness, that is how weak people get eaten.

So, OP should continue to sacrifice his own emotional health and well-being for the sake of these people whom you describe as venomous snakes?

Dronedude:
Didn't she love him?

Does this love pay the medical and psychiatric bills, or provide comfort when you know you cursed your own child with illness by your desires? If the man loved her, why did he hide his mental health past from her?

Dronedude:
➜Is he rich now?
➜Isn't him normal now?
➜ Is mental illness hereditary? The questions that came up after seeing this post.

1. Even if he is, maybe her fear is of having kids by him.

2. That would be up to his doctors to decide, but without treatment, the issue may recur.

3. In some cases, yes, that is why people need to be aware and take precautions. Not that they should avoid others, as mental illness could happen to anyone, but knowing is better than not knowing at all.

otipoju:
➜Who are the them? So an inaccurate description of a person automatically means that he does not exist?
➜Is that how you reason logically?

Inaccurate description or an outright lie?

Logically, I discard all lies since they can never amount to truth. The math is simple ➜ No matter how many lies you have, it can never equate to the Truth