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Dzzzz:
Blame your mama..

The man is an adult. He could have handled it a lot more maturely than he did. As for the poster, best she seek mental health counseling so she can move on from this egregious betrayal and eventual abandonment by those she once saw as her parents.

Antichristian2:
✓ I never said he killed him. He attempted to.
I don't mean exactly in the same way. But just some much tangible that turning stone to bread! Those Jesus's trials are watery!
Once again, it shouldn't be exactly the same. Trials like that of Joseph, Jacob, Abraham, Moses, etc.
I never talked of approval and I don't see how that's related here! Abraham left his polytheistic family to pursue the true path! Abraham was a strict monotheist not a trinitarian!

A trial suggests sort of evaluation was carried out hence an approval/grading necessary at the end, but this does not seem to be in line with what is in fact written in the book of Israelite Scripture.

Job was already declared righteous by YHWH in chapter 1 of the book before this supposed trial. Jesus Christ of Israel had already been proclaimed righteous before His very baptism took place. So what is the essence of comparing one of Job's many temptations to one of Jesus Christ of Israel's many temptations?

Temptation happens to all men and to varying degrees throughout their lifetime.

Antichristian2:
✓ Everyone sins not that everyone is a sinner!
✓ And i never said sinning is OK anywhere!

Sinning does not make a one a sinner? 🤔

Antichristian2:
Humans are created to sin! After committing sins then we should be quick to repentance! We sin, we repent! We keep working on ourselves!

Are these not your words? If humans are created to sin and unable to escape sinning as a result of this, doesn't it make it then OK to sin?

Antichristian2:
➜I sha know that you are big sinner! And everyone is! But the sin varies! And no man/Jinn is free from sin!

So, your religion tells you that everybody is a sinner, and that makes it all OK, right? So, what is the point of this belief then?

Joeypumpin:
➜ My friend is really dismayed by her mum's attitude. She's always calling to make financial requests. 1 out of every 2 calls is to make demands on my friend. Its not a good thing at all.

What is the purpose behind your telling us this here story? Is this all in order to badmouth your friend's mother or something?

Antichristian2:
✓ Humans are weak and prone to sin! Sins are not all equal. Some are major and others are minor! Killing a human is not the same as killing a hen even if both their necks are broken!
There's no way a human can walk without the head shaking!
We try our best not to sin! And when we do sin we repent ASAP and try never to repeat that sin!

Again, of what real value is the repentance if one is unable to rid oneself of sin? Why torture oneself with these repentance sessions when one could more easily continue in sin as one is only able to? Saying that not all sins are equal also does not matter since for all sins all that is needed is this repentance sessions, which does not seem to be of any real value from description.

1Sharon:
➜would you want your daughter to be "semi-literate" or be educated to the best of her ability? That's the point of this thread

Education does not seem enough as there are millions of educated women out there living as benefit providers to men who don't value them beyond the benefits. Some serious Social and emotional realignment is necessary at this point if women are to rise above the societal damage that has been inflicted on their sense of self and general self-esteem.

Inshame3:
gambling deity

So, you ended up in a hell that belongs to your gambling deity? Sigh!

Inshame3:
Hell fire

There are at least over 4000 different deities out there each with their idea of Heaven and Hell, angels and demons. So which particular deity do you keep referring to?

Inshame3:
if you didn't believe me, you can drink sniper to confirm sir
If what am saying is lying or true

But, I am not Stewpid! 😐

Inshame3:
it is true that he'll is real

Which one?

Inshame3:
God loves me so much, are you praying it should work before. I say I was giving a last chance, read between lines and understand

Which God? God of Sniper that is sponsoring this hallucinatory episode?

Firebox123:
✓ he might later die
But we'll use this post as a remainder

😐😐😐😐😐😐

Inshame3:
Yes, I drank sniper tonight. I saw myself in the midst of demons

You had a hallucinatory episode is what likely happened to you. How come the sniper didn't work?

Inshame3:
✓ I don't want to burn in hell, but is like this demons am seeing are not friendly, I was giving last chance to go back to earth and restitute my way
Guy hell is real and heaven is real
✓ I drank snipper tonight but unfortunately I was given last chance

Whose heaven? The Islamic heaven? The Buddhist heaven? The heaven of your individual pastors? Or which?

You drank sniper tonight but were given a last chance how?

ogascomax:
✓ Small boy. You haven't seen an emergency, you haven't seen trouble. Do you even have money to start with. Some emergency 10 million will not solve it. You think my post was restricted to child birth. It's about life itself.

Common sense practiced by people across the world is to avoid at all costs that they cannot afford to get entangled with. How come when it comes to Nigerians, these little wisdom nuggets -- accepted by even the best around the world --- are regarded with disdain?

Real conversations should begin around this now; otherwise, come 2030, Nigerians will still be nowhere closer to resolving this issue.

sunky97:
✓ In this breathtaking near-death experience, She shares her miraculous journey after being declared clinically dead for 72 hours. What she witnessed in Heaven will leave you speechless — radiant angels, the heavenly gates, a personal life review before God, and a chilling confrontation with darkness.

No such thing happened. All she had was your typical death related experience which is likely the mind playing mental games to ease final anxiety at the point of death. She never left her body in all of that time.

Goodnewsforlife:
✓ u are always talking rubbish. So it is the brain they use to steal that they use to arrange their family?
So a crook who stole government money n used it to sponsor all his kids abroad n establish them is foolish to u right?
So u think those who stole money are stupid not to arrange their family well?

This writeup of yours amounts to gobbledegook!🤔

Again, you are speaking of course about the very same elders who saw Nigeria to where it is today for literally every Nigerian born in Nigeria and outside, right? I just want to be certain we are talking of the same group of people we all like to refer to as elders now whose supposed wisdom has only led Nigeria--- all inhabitants of the 774 LGAS in it --- to where they are today.

The same group whose rotten bit of wisdom helped guide Nigeria from the beginning -- from every compound, village, community, culture, etc.,-- to where it is at this point in time, abi? 🤔

NotOfThisWorld:
✓ His father, your father, and you, all want the best for him. Sometimes it's best to listen to elders or those who have seen or experienced more than us. As the saying goes, "What an elder sees sitting down, a young man cannot see even if he climbs a tree". He's silly if he doesn't want to listen to your warnings. I don't see how he can even proceed if his father, your father and you don't support it, which means none of y'all will be present for any of the events that will come into play (e.g. introduction). If he, nonetheless, wants to proceed, without none of your presence nor blessings, then he should also know that oyo is his case if any problems arise in the marriage because none of you will come to his aid or rescue.

You are speaking of course about the very same elders who saw Nigeria to where it is today for literally every Nigerian born in Nigeria and outside, right? I just want to be certain we are talking of the same group of people whose supposed wisdom has only led Nigeria--- all inhabitants of the 774 LGAS in it --- to where they are today.

malvisguy212:
no one is sinless . If a person become a Christian and repent from his sin. He should not go back to sin. If he sin, he is not a Christian

It is the way you remain blind to even your own bullsheet that astonishes!😩😩😩😩

Assertion A: No one is sinless
Assertion B: A Christian repents from sin.
Assertion C: If A Christian sins, he is not a Christian.

Don't you see that all of your Christian claims are rendered meaningless— literally ideas born of serious delusions— by your initial assertion alone? 🙄🙄🙄

LawWithEbele:
✓ Question for the house: Do you think our laws should recognize long-term cohabitation as marriage, especially where children are involved?

What is the particular difference would it had made in this case had the woman been in fact married to the man?

Goodnewsforlife:
✓ the answer is no. But don't u think only a fool does something repeatedly same way n expect different result?
✓ At least 3 have failed using d first approach, y not try another approach? Y not look elsewhere? What if we try it d 4th time n it brings d same bad result? Don't u think that's pure stupidity?

Absolutely none of the stories you told revealed people doing the same things the exact same way, though. So, don't you think it is rather foolish to assume it was all done the same in an attempt to justify an utterly biased view against a particular tribe?

2. You said it yourself that none of the 3 reports point to a problem that stems from tribal origin. Yet you remain adamant that even with the absence of evidence, you would rather link it all back to the particular tribe. Why? Isn't that what stewpidity is all about?

I honestly think you and your family members should consider the particular details of each of the records to locate the particular problems and mistakes made. It is through the pursuit of understanding that we are best able to prevent a reoccurrence of the same particular issues.

Let me give an example using the first report. It seems, from the claim you made, that the first report's husband did not put down a will before his death, setting his wife and children as the sole inheritors of his will. That problem could easily have been dealt with before his death of the woman and her husband had been one -- in agreement on this --- before his death, but most couples refuse to address this issue until it is too late. The family of the deceased is by law allowed to try to fight for a piece of the action, so they technically did no wrong. A written and signed Will created by the man before hIs death would have resolved the case. So, tell your court cousin and his wife to ensure they write their will and update it regularly, since no one knows when death will come.

Goodnewsforlife:
✓ let me ask u a question
U have 4 attempts, u have used 3 on a particular outcome n it turn out negative. Will u still use your last chance on d same thing that failed u 3 times?

Lets put the tribe issue to the side for a moment, do you give up entirely on pursuing your dreams because of 3 past failures other people in your family supposedly had?

Goodnewsforlife:
✓ I avoid u cos I know u argue blindly but I will reply u politely. I didn't paint d entire tribe as bad but we haven't been lucky doing things with them n there have been precedent so as a wise person I think anyone in my shoes will think twice before supporting what has failed u for 3 consecutive time
✓ What is the assurance that this one will b an exception?

You didn't paint the entire tribe as bad yet you are hear making a case against anyone from that entire tribe because of the actions of a few individuals?

2. What is your assurance that forcing your cousin to marry from a different tribe, even his, will not end worse for him?

Goodnewsforlife:
✓
The first one, a lady married from the tribe but when the husband died she was chased out of the house and they didn't even care to know what would be the fate of the children, it led to court case and the house was divided between the family and the wife. Na ordinary headache later kill the lady which was very unusual, we all knew it's spiritual n highly connected with the power tussle.
✓ The second lady, the mother in law will always frustrate her and always believe there's a lady in the village that can do better. Imagine a mother in-law insisting that their language must b spoken anytime she's around even when she knows the lady is just trying to speak it. The mother in-law will tell her to go a million miles to get ingredients for their native food only for the wife to finish cooking n the woman will always complain that there's always a problem. It got so bad that they later divorced and the man was forced to marry from her village only to divorce the same perfect village girl after few years, now the same man is back now begging her but the lady made it clear she can only come back after d mother in law don die.
The third one happens to be a man, he got married and 2 boys were brought from the woman's village to come and be staying with them, those people were staying with them n no problems but if the husband brother should come and spend few days then all hell will lose n many more that I can't say but the woman frustrated the man that it later led to divorce.

Now to the main issue that brought me here, my cousin (guy) wants to marry from the same tribe again n his father has made it clear he won't support it, same with my father. Now he wants to start forming woke by saying he can do whatever he wants and he believes I will support him.
I broke his heart yesterday when I made it clear I am also not in support of it not because I don't like him or the lady but because of precedent
What do u people feel about it?

1. What did the woman in the first instance do wrong and what does this have to do with her entire tribe?

2. In the second record, are you insinuating thar the acts of one bad mother-in-law is to be used to tarnish an entire tribe? By the way, didn't the woman who married her son realize from before the marriage how the woman was before making the decision to marry her son?

3. This third record seems more of a problem between a husband and his wife. Why are you all determined to paint an entire tribe with their problems?

4. If someone were to find someone wrong in your character, would you be willing to suggest that your entire tribe be equally condemned?

malvisguy212:
✓ if he sin, he is not a Christian

Yet, there exists no such sinless Christian to be found even in our world today? How come?

malvisguy212:
✓ put it this way. Muslims are created to sin.......a Christian don't suppose to sin. Any so called Christian that sin he is not a Christian.

Yet, reality is, much the same as the Muslims and all those who claim no God, the Christians also sin --may be repent-- only to sin again. 🤔🤔

Antichristian2:
✓ Humans are created to sin! After committing sins then we should be quick to repentance!
✓ We sin, we repent! We keep working on ourselves!

Of what value is this repentance they seek if they would return to sin again the next moment?

3. You mean instead, "We sin, we repent, only to sin again,", right?