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CelebritiesRe: I Was Raped By My Colleague - Actress Lolo (Omotunde Adebowale-David) by Kobojunkie: 9:15pm On Apr 10, 2025
QuinQ:
1) Why didn't you also include w on w rapes. Simple: it's not our discussion
2) This makes you sound really uneducated sir. Try to stop making such statements
3) I can't believe an educated person is actually saying this. So, example, if you lie under oat, etc, where's the force?
You are wrong sir - rape is fundamentally about lack of consent NOT force. If an adult consents that you force sex on them (eg while asleep), it is NOT rape.
Here's a comprehensive definition of rape sir. Keep it in your pocket.
Rape is defined as sexual activity without consent, regardless of whether force is used (bearing in mind that minors, mentally ill, and people under influence cannot give consent)
1. I would have if I had information on that. But since I didn't, I left it out. undecided

2. That you are late to realizing rape for what it truly is has nothing to do with my education. undecided

3. Now you are just dribbling! Again, lack of consent amounts to force. If the Law does not consent, it is considered force; if the individual turned victim(with the consent of the law) also does not give consent, it is also considered an act of force. undecided
CelebritiesRe: I Was Raped By My Colleague - Actress Lolo (Omotunde Adebowale-David) by Kobojunkie: 9:06pm On Apr 10, 2025
Achor1111:
Hmmm Make them no manipulate and accuse you one day
Why are you all having a hard time stating in clear details the evidence a rape victim must present to get your ears on the matter of their supposed violation? undecided

The same way these things—accusations of rape— only happen to less than 0.01% of the populace is the same way I know for a fact that it can never happen to me, by the way. That number there means that the vast majority are already intelligent enough on how not to get themselves into situations that may lead to such accusations. undecided
CelebritiesRe: I Was Raped By My Colleague - Actress Lolo (Omotunde Adebowale-David) by Kobojunkie: 9:01pm On Apr 10, 2025
tnerro1:
➜So if a woman just stands and and says ur father raped her, so you will just say daddy why without asking how it happened and who was there to collaborate the story, you where raised wrong bro. A woman agreed to meet a man in a hotel room only to come back to say he raped her, auntie what do you think was going to happen in a hotel room with a man you barely know , play ludo?
Again, what evidence does she need to provide for you to believe her cry should be given your ears?
PoliticsRe: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by Kobojunkie: 8:56pm On Apr 10, 2025
Prettychild:
➜My dear, if what you said is true then I truly understand your pain. Some of us are in this shoes right now and will be indifferent if our parents died. Some parents damaged their kids emotionally, especially parents of the 80s and 90s. It’s well
. The trend continues even to this day. undecided
PoliticsRe: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by Kobojunkie: 8:53pm On Apr 10, 2025
Saga16:
➜Your papa na mumu. People do not abandon their children due to infidelity. They do so for other reasons.
Yet that very same happens every single day across even your beloved Nigeria. undecided
PoliticsRe: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by Kobojunkie: 8:52pm On Apr 10, 2025
2mch:
➜Don’t mind that mumu. Guilty conscience is forcing him to try to dismiss your experience. Never let anyone belittle your experience which you know is true. It is very valid. May God compensate you where your weakling of a father failed. It is the duty of parents to not fail and abandon their children who did not ask to be brought into the world.
wink
CelebritiesRe: I Was Raped By My Colleague - Actress Lolo (Omotunde Adebowale-David) by Kobojunkie: 8:51pm On Apr 10, 2025
[quote author=QuinQ post=134933125] 1. But that's clearly NOT what we're discussing
2. Yet it is not forced
3. You're talking crap sir, ridiculously twisting words instead of simply admitting u were wrong.
It is called statutory rape because it is defined as rape by statute. Has nothing to do with force
[/quote]1. I felt it needed to be emphasized at the same time since rape against men is not as simple as women against men or something like that which we typically find the pages on here covereded with on a regular basis. undecided

2. Rape is force! undecided

3. Violation of the law or the rights of another is considered a use of force against another. undecided
CelebritiesRe: I Was Raped By My Colleague - Actress Lolo (Omotunde Adebowale-David) by Kobojunkie: 8:47pm On Apr 10, 2025
Neddyogu:
➜A grown woman like you still bothered about what people will say in a matter of this nature? I don't believe this gist abeg. It's not like you were a minor 6years ago. If it's true, report the fellow to police abi ministry of women affairs and let them investigate the matter. No need for this social media courtroom.
Even in your villages, old women are still being raped. yet none of them dare open their mouths, and for good reason, because they risk being ostracized by society to this day. Most of the cases we read of today are cases where said rape was witnessed by third parties(more than one person) and/or the victim of rape was physically assaulted at the same time. undecided
CelebritiesRe: I Was Raped By My Colleague - Actress Lolo (Omotunde Adebowale-David) by Kobojunkie: 8:45pm On Apr 10, 2025
tnerro1:
If you get evidence, speck, but if not, auntie stfu
What evidence does she need to provide for you to believe her cry should be given your ears? undecided
CelebritiesRe: I Was Raped By My Colleague - Actress Lolo (Omotunde Adebowale-David) by Kobojunkie: 8:37pm On Apr 10, 2025
QuinQ:
➜Why do you keep bringing up man on mam??!
➜We're talking a woman violently raping a man!
➜ And by the way, rape doesn't have to be forced - any penetration of a minor or by a minor is rape (even if they initiated it, lied to you about their age, and totally enjoyed it)
Well, rape of men includes rape of men by men, doesn't it? undecided

2. That is also rape.

3. All rape is non-consensual . i.e. forced. The penetration of a minor is done against the law— without consent of the law itself—, hence, forced. undecided
FamilyRe: 16-Year-Old Girl Flogged After She Was Caught Going To Hotel At Night by Kobojunkie: 8:28pm On Apr 10, 2025
LibertyRep:
➜Wow! I'm surprised no one is screaming 'assault' ' ' violating of human rights ' and all those things we say to justify the descent of the society to immorality. Kudos to the family, but they left it too little late.
➜After this exorcism session, she should be counselled and monitored properly. Whoever invited such underage to the hotel should also not go scot-free.
Shouting assault against a person who is by law already considered an adult in a country where assault is commonplace is almost like shouting at a wall... 🙄🙄

2. Lies! She is more likely to end up more resolved or even determined to go down that very same path her parents pretend they are against. Look around in Nigeria to see how most of the boys you all flogged tirelessly at home and in your schools ended up on the same streets your parents claimed the assault was meant to keep them from. undecided
FamilyRe: 16-Year-Old Girl Flogged After She Was Caught Going To Hotel At Night by Kobojunkie: 8:26pm On Apr 10, 2025
Pastoshizzy:
Flog kẹ? Girls like this should have been given sex education at the age of 12 ('bird and bees' as we know it). Flogging her doesn't pacify the parent's negligence, it will only make her more mentally hardened against consequences. The girl child needs more love, attention and counsel against exploiting opposite sex. Flogging doesn't help the girl child as far as rehabilitation is concern. Counsel her, find out her most treasures needs and show the travails of a teenage mother.
You are talking to Nigerians... most never learn from their own or past mistakes. 🙄🙄
PoliticsRe: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by Kobojunkie: 8:23pm On Apr 10, 2025
sojics:
she is insane.
This from the same one who only moments ago admitted to being blind to the plight of others for 50 years? undecided
PoliticsRe: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by Kobojunkie: 8:19pm On Apr 10, 2025
Bimpe29:
➜I sympathize with her over the trauma she's been having due to the horrific circumstances in her past. However, being caring and respectful to one's parents is a religious obligation that must be held unconditionally. She should have been magnanimous to her Dad.
Because your religion allows you to specially elevate your parents to god status above all other humans, thereby giving you the free ticket to consider justified all their sins— even those committed against you— justified? 🙄🙄

Only you can save yourself from that delusion you call religion there. undecided
PoliticsRe: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by Kobojunkie: 8:16pm On Apr 10, 2025
sojics:
➜I'm above 50 years, but this is my first time of seeing/ hearing someone condemning his/her dead parent. publicly,
➜ may God Almighty never give to us this kain dan banzan yaro.
You have probably been turning a deaf ear to the many cries of those whose parents have made their lives miserable before this time. 🙄🙄

2. What God would that be? The one who clearly makes your ears deaf to the cries of many of those around you and your eyes blind to their fate in the hands of their wicked parents? Abeg make we hear word o'jare! 🙄🙄

You people of your parents as gods and not humans are utterly pathetic in the way you reason your lives and the world around you. 🙄🙄
CelebritiesRe: I Was Raped By My Colleague - Actress Lolo (Omotunde Adebowale-David) by Kobojunkie: 7:38pm On Apr 10, 2025
saintkel:
I was also raped by a lady....childhood memories....nyway, it's forgotten
You want Nairaland — not the police or the people in your community where the woman herself may live —to take it serious because? huh
CelebritiesRe: I Was Raped By My Colleague - Actress Lolo (Omotunde Adebowale-David) by Kobojunkie: 7:34pm On Apr 10, 2025
QuinQ:
➜Did you see the "like that" in my statement? Call it what you will but a woman cannot rape a man "LIKE THAT"! By "like that" I mean by force or violently!
Rape is forced penetration. And I am telling you that she can do so. She can get him drunk and force herself on him. She can even have him held down by others and force herself on him. Again, the general population of men out there, particularly in developing countries, is not disciplined when it comes to their ideas regarding sex. So, arousal for them is not a feat as you would assume. undecided

Another angle that is not addressed is that rape against men is also many times carried out by men. A lot of boys and men are raped, not by women but by other boys or men. These go largely unreported by the victims. undecided
CelebritiesRe: I Was Raped By My Colleague - Actress Lolo (Omotunde Adebowale-David) by Kobojunkie: 7:29pm On Apr 10, 2025
goodman5:
Who go fit rape this old woman
The same people wey fit rape babies, children, and even women with disabilities or mental problems. You think women are automagically safe from rape because they are old, then you are not only part of the problem of ignorance but also an enabler since rape thrive because of the general ignorance that persists. undecided
CelebritiesRe: I Was Raped By My Colleague - Actress Lolo (Omotunde Adebowale-David) by Kobojunkie: 7:26pm On Apr 10, 2025
AmiableMosquito:
You are empty. No wonder you chose blogging as a career. Tueh! Male or Female rapists are one and the same. They deserve equal punishments. Go and educate yourself on how boys and men are being raped all over the world. Every victim of rape deserves justice, whether it happened much earlier or very recently.
While male rape is a fact, male and female rapists are not the same, however. Why? since in many cases, male rape is carried out mostly by males. undecided
CelebritiesRe: I Was Raped By My Colleague - Actress Lolo (Omotunde Adebowale-David) by Kobojunkie: 7:21pm On Apr 10, 2025
QuinQ:
➜Woman CANNOT rape man like that!!!!! Prick CANNOT get erect on command and without an erect prick rape is NOT possible!!!
That is not a fact since many men don't have sexual discipline and would go erect even if a crocodile were attempting to take a swipe at their penis. Male rape is a fact same as female rape. As a matter of fact, many of the victims of this sort of rape are raped, not by female but by other men. The prejudice that exists in general against women who cry out rape equally exists against men who do so. undecided
CelebritiesRe: I Was Raped By My Colleague - Actress Lolo (Omotunde Adebowale-David) by Kobojunkie: 7:12pm On Apr 10, 2025
Ivens:
are they not same crime ?
Because they are the same, so women should not shout out against it when it happens to them? huh
CelebritiesRe: I Was Raped By My Colleague - Actress Lolo (Omotunde Adebowale-David) by Kobojunkie: 7:09pm On Apr 10, 2025
BigDickProblems:
➜This woman is no where near attractive for any sane man to do that to her. It could be a story of the boy who cried wolf. Or maybe most men are indeed dogs.
In Africa, children(babies included), women with disabilities — mad women and other mentally challenged individuals —, are among the vulnerable targets of rapists. So, what does attractiveness have to do with this? undecided
CelebritiesRe: I Was Raped By My Colleague - Actress Lolo (Omotunde Adebowale-David) by Kobojunkie: 7:06pm On Apr 10, 2025
Originalsly:
Why not name the rapist? By saying he is an established person in the broadcast sector and not pointing him out ..... all established persons in the sector will unfairly be suspects. Why protect the wolf? Why give him the opportunity to remain under cover and likely rape more women? A maniac on the loose and she's afraid to point him out.
At this point, she is likely not protecting the wolf but protecting herself from public backlash in the case that there was no evidence found. undecided

Also, having all of them suspected may turn out in favor of women who are too trusting. undecided
CelebritiesRe: I Was Raped By My Colleague - Actress Lolo (Omotunde Adebowale-David) by Kobojunkie: 7:03pm On Apr 10, 2025
SalamRushdie:
At her age she is still protecting a rapist ?
Do you know how many old women today were raped, some by close family members, and have had to live most of their lives watching their rapists live free and merry all that while without punishment? Age has nothing to do with it, as the emotional and mental state of the vast majority does not allow them to handle these things. undecided
CelebritiesRe: I Was Raped By My Colleague - Actress Lolo (Omotunde Adebowale-David) by Kobojunkie: 6:57pm On Apr 10, 2025
Dzzzz:
6yrs ago this woman was like a GP tank,Howkwanu?
Because GP tank women cannot experience rape, abi? sad
CelebritiesRe: I Was Raped By My Colleague - Actress Lolo (Omotunde Adebowale-David) by Kobojunkie: 6:54pm On Apr 10, 2025
Kobicove:
Mention his name let us pounce on him! angry
It is not easy to prove rape jhence mentioning his name wityhoiut evidence, 6 years later, will most likely make her a target of those who are opposed to women crying out "rape". undecided
CelebritiesRe: I Was Raped By My Colleague - Actress Lolo (Omotunde Adebowale-David) by Kobojunkie: 6:53pm On Apr 10, 2025
TruthsFM:
The rapist should be arrested oooo
Indeed! I know it must have taken her a lot of courage to admit to it at this point but I hope that this helps in the fight against rape as a whole. undecided
FamilyRe: Many Women Walking Out Of Their Marriages In Recent Times. by Kobojunkie: 6:29pm On Apr 10, 2025
Mysteriousworld:
➜People like you will destroy good marriages.
➜A man should love his wife, and the wife should submit to her husband. Simple as ABC... CETFINI....
The obvious problem from this very discourse has been your idea of good. undecided

2. A man who does not regard his wife in the same light as he regards himself does not love his wife but is rather in the relationship solely for his own benefit. Such a man is not a good man and such a marriage cannot be construed as a good marriage but rather a mere contract . It can only be regarded as a good marriage when both partners in the marriage benefit equally from the union/contract. undecided
FamilyRe: I’m No Longer Part Of The Family,kemi Olunloyo Disowns Family After Father Death by Kobojunkie: 3:08pm On Apr 10, 2025
dododawa1:
➜Controversial media personality, Kemi Olunloyo, has renounced her family name and distanced herself from the family of her late father, former Oyo State Governor, Dr Victor Omololu Olunloyo.
The former governor, a renowned Mathematician and politician, died on Sunday, April 6, at the age of 89.
In a series of posts and videos shared on her Facebook and TikTok pages, Olunloyo declared that she no longer considers herself part of the Olunloyo family and would not be accepting condolences over her father’s death.
“I am uploading video statements on my father’s death on TikTok. I am not part of the Olunloyo family anymore and told you that in 2024 that I will never return to Nigeria even if my parents died,” she said.
She added, “I am not accepting anybody’s condolences because I am not condoling with anybody.”
While she said she had forgiven her father, she described him as “two different people,” alleging that he presented a different image to the public than he did at home.
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Olunloyo also alleged that the former governor was involved in occult practices until later in life when he became born again.
She added, “My father was into ‘juju’ heavily. My father was into occult practices and I called my father out on his 80th birthday. After I called him out, he went to Pastor E.A. Adeboye that he wanted to become born-again, and he did.
I don't understand! It almost seems the dude was betting on everything there is. sad sad sad
FamilyRe: I’m No Longer Part Of The Family,kemi Olunloyo Disowns Family After Father Death by Kobojunkie: 3:05pm On Apr 10, 2025
I hope she finds the peace that she desires after all the dust settles. undecided
PoliticsRe: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by Kobojunkie: 2:26pm On Apr 10, 2025
RealityKings1:
➜It's not about embracing evil but forgiving people who have done us wrong. That's forgiveness.
she won't get to see the man anymore
Exactly! So, you can't tell from any of this whether she has forgiven him or not. And no, the individual does not need to be present in this galaxy for you to forgive the deeds committed against you, this is because when one offers forgiveness, one does not necessarily do it for the sake of the other but for the sake of oneself. It's the same as mourning. The dead don't know if they are mourned or not, so mourning is not for the dead. People mourn as a way to unburden themselves of whatever guilt/regrets they may have because of the dead. undecided
PoliticsRe: Kemi Olunloyo: 'I’m Not Mourning My Father — He Ruined Our Lives' by Kobojunkie: 1:50pm On Apr 10, 2025
RealityKings1:
Sometimes it's good to forgive and move on. Its part of living
. That she refuses to mourn him does not mean she has not forgiven him. If you think forgiveness means hiding the truth or embracing evil, you are dead wrong. undecided

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