₦airaland Forum

malvisguy212:
✓ put it this way. Muslims are created to sin.......a Christian don't suppose to sin. Any so called Christian that sin he is not a Christian.

Yet, reality is, much the same as the Muslims and all those who claim no God, the Christians also sin --may be repent-- only to sin again. 🤔🤔

Antichristian2:
✓ Humans are created to sin! After committing sins then we should be quick to repentance!
✓ We sin, we repent! We keep working on ourselves!

Of what value is this repentance they seek if they would return to sin again the next moment?

3. You mean instead, "We sin, we repent, only to sin again,", right?

Antichristian2:
✓ Of course Abraham had to go kill his son!
✓ Why can't Jesus be tested with his family instead of petty turn stone to bread?
✓ That Jesus's temptation is watery and petty!
Jesus had everything setup for him unlike Job, ✓ Abraham, Moses, Joseph, Jonah, etc who where tried with life threatening situations!

Forget it.

Abraham NEVER killed his son;let's not fudge stories please.

2. Why should He have been tested exactly the same way as, say Moses or Solomon or David was?

3. The same should also be said of the numerous other righteous men who were not tested exactly as Job was, right? I mean since you are one to approve the test and not YHWH Himself, the one who did the approving, abi?

4. By the way, Abraham was approved Righteous not when he made the decision kill Isaac but rather long before that -- when he left his father's religion to obey God instead. (Abraham's approval came long before even Ishmael was born to him.) Moses had been approved righteous by YHWH probably before he approached the burning bush. Jesus Christ had been approved righteous probably before or around the time of His baptism, before was eventually tested by the devil in the wilderness, not afterwards. If you had spent time reading the book, you would have seen where YHWH emphasized that He does not answer the prayers of the unrighteous meaning He only answers after He has first approved one righteous.

Antichristian2:
✓ I think both were righteous men! Why can't they be compared?
✓ Moses was compared to Jesus!. Elijah with John!
When hasn't People being compared in the Bible?

Abraham , Isaac, Jacob, Moses, David and even Solomon were also righteous men but I don't see you comparing Job to any one of them in this.

3. Moses was not compared to Jesus Christ on grounds of them both being righteous but on different grounds.. they each brought YHWH's Law to the people of Israel. Elijah was compared to John in order to draw focus to the connection that existed between the two men -- they were one and the same beings. Clearly, the book does something entirely different from what you assert, it seems.

olamilarks:
➜you've not met all Nigerians, try not to generalise.
➜Could you share your Nigerian dream, ...?

The same way you do not need to meet all Americans to realize the American dream, you also do not need to meet all Nigerians to realize what the Nigerian dream and the general belief and character of most Nigerians are.

2. I don't have a Nigerian dream.

olamilarks:
My Nigerian dream is to live a life of integrity, service, and self-reliance in a Nigeria where honesty is rewarded, hard work pays off, and every citizen has a fair shot at a decent life. I strive to build a secure and peaceful home for my family, invest wisely in our future, and contribute meaningfully to nation building. Through gradual progress and unwavering values, I dream of owning my home, growing financially independent, and playing a role in building a stronger, more accountable Nigeria.

Most Nigerians are best at saying everything they do not mean since their actions almost always tell an entirely different story altogether. You only need to look at all of their religious/traditional leaders, your politicians, celebrated individuals, etc., in the country for a picture of what most Nigerians are all about.

IblivinProgress:
I no go quote scripture to prove you wrong or prove me right!
It is not my bible. I was done with the conversation ✌️

You can't quote that which doesn't exist.

IblivinProgress:
✓ Kobo guy,i am talking about the Christian context which refers to the bible(scripture)as the word of God that we know was hand written by men. I was asking if the same bible says we should not trust any man are should we trust the books of the bible written by man.
My premise is from the bible that says the scripture which is the bible is the word of God.
Mind you i was talking in Christianity context.
Or was your comment a rhetoric?🤔

Your premise is not taken from the book because nowhere in the compendium of books is it stated that your Bible( or the selected books contained) is in fact the Word of God. Also, the religion of Christianity which serves as the source of your claims is not mentioned as being a part of that contained in any of the books.

IblivinProgress:
➜I am asking this question to see if my doubt can be cleared beyond every reasonable doubt.
The bible (word of God) was written by men which is a fact.
The bible (word of God) says "trust no man"
The bible (word of God) says"every word of God is true"
If every word of God (Bible) is true that means we are to trust no man,i.e if a man said God said he should write something or do something he should not be trusted.
➜Now the question is should the books of the bible be trusted since we can't dispute the fact that men wrote it with their hands whether they say they were inspired by God or not we were not there with them to confirm.

First and foremost, where in the Compendium of books referred to as your bible do you have the claim that those books all make up the word of this God you speak of?

2. The problem here does not concern the books but the source of your premise, which does not seem to be the book or anything presented in it. A better question would be, "Should the source of your premises be trusted?"

Azazyel:
When you see this kinda statement just know the guy is handling her body well. She is missing his cock

That isn't close to me what it means.

Morbeta11:
is it a hit or miss?

You'd have to sufficiently test it to know if it is either a hit or a miss. But overall,the idea seems reasonable.

To all online In-laws, the woman has apologized for her unruly behaviour and accepted the girl as her daughter.

Our women need to be calming down, its not every situation you bring to the social media...funny gender

There must be a reason why the husband hide it from her but who are we to judge as we do not know the whole story

She was scammed into marriage by the man and even after finding out, she backed down to accept the scam with her full chest. If this had been a scam perpetrated by a Nigerian man by a Nigerian woman, that man would rather die than accept such a woman back and for good reason since he is fully aware that the society he comes from would be behind him in that situation. But for a Nigerian woman, she understands that she would be berated and looked down on by those around her for daring to stand confidently against such fraud.

armyofone:
✓ I know, right! Just imagine!

Very very terrible upbringing and even more terrible culture of backing the worst of human behavior.

Chilipepper:
....

I pity the children. 😩😩😩😩

Merry100:
Most Nigerian men don’t want wives. They want unpaid maids they can control, sleep with, and call ‘virtuous.

But women keep offering themselves up to those men as exactly that. So do you blame such men for the desires or the women for continuing volunteering to live their lives as free maids to such men?

Beremx:
✓ Mama dey do hook-up for daughter. The woman must be shameless. All for money and to travel abroad.
✓ Waiting for her to come back and regret. Foolish woman

1. Mama found her child a husband to provide her better benefits than the one the daughter had lined up. Why is that a terrible thing for you to imagine?

2. Regret because you already concluded the one in Nigeria would give her a better life than the man abroad, abi? Let's stop playing these ridiculous mind games on our women folks abeg.

Antichristian2:
Job's Trials:
Job's story is one of unparalleled suffering. Satan, with God's permission, unleashes a series of devastating events upon Job: the loss of his possessions, his children, and finally, his health. These trials are not presented as a consequence of Job's sin, but rather as a test of his faith. Throughout, Job wrestles with his suffering, questioning God's justice and the meaning of his pain. Yet, he ultimately maintains his integrity, refusing to curse God despite his immense loss.
How do we compare Jesus's temtation by Satan?
To turn stone into bread!
To throw himself from the Temple top!
To bow down and worship him!
How about Satan killing Mary, Joseph and all Jesus's family for the start? These temptation and trials no fair o!

What exactly is the reason behind wanting to compare the experiences of both individuals? Are any of the experiences of any two men in all of the books of Israelite Scripture the same?

Stolen:
✓ IF I FOUND OUT MY WIFE HAD A CHILD BEFORE I MET HER, WHICH TENDS TO HAPPEN THESE DAYS ALOT BECUASE OF BREAK DOWN IN MORAL VALUE GENERALLY.
IT WOULD BE A TEST OF LOVE, IF U DONT LOVE HER, THAT IS AN EXCUSE TO LEAVE.
IF YOU DO, AFTER A LITTLE COMPLAIN EVERYBODY ADJUST AND GET BACK TO NORMAL.
Y DO SOME HUMANS WANT TO DIE OVER EVRYTHING, I WILL NEVER KNOW, IT IS NOT LIKE SHE GOT PREGNANT AND TRIED TO PASS IT OFF AS YOURS, WHILST U WERE STILL TOGETHER WHICH IS A DIFFERENT THING ENTIRELY. THAT MEANS CHEATING AND BETRAYAL.

Keep telling these ridiculous lies wherever you go pretending you are someone removed from the decay of moral values then. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Stolen:
✓ WOMEN ARE TOO EMOTIONAL, AFTER MAKING BABIES WITH HIM, U DIVORCE HIM BECAUSE HE MADE ONE EARLIER AND DID NOT TELL YOU.
THE ONE YOU ARE GONG TO REMARRY WILL BE A VIRGIN ABI OR WIL THEY ALSO HAVE KIDS?
MAKE IT MAKE SENSE THOUGH....

This comment alohg with many others on here is all the proof one needs in order to realize that many Nigerians are raised to become depraved beings.

dapadawee:
✓ Common sense should tell us that the girl has no fault in all this and she should not be bullied or threatened at all. The issue is between the animal man and the insensitive wife and should stay there alone. How can she say she doesn't know the girl was his daughter.
It was the man that hurt her not the girl. The best thing she should do is to divorce or pack out of the house except she married because of money. Because what else could blind her eyes for all this while

So, your assumption is that by divorcing him-- which I agree would be a best fit option after that ---, it is she and not him that loses everything? 🫤

Jamiejames:
✓ Thank y’all for your responses, I truly appreciate it and believe me I have also filtered through the responses.
This is never about me but more about my daughters peace and mental health. I know we will find a way to navigate through this. I came here because I am a private person and needed to get this off my chest. One is for sure, I will protect her with everything in me. Again, I appreciate your responses.

Make sure your wife is on the same page as you. When pushed up against a wall, some resort to self sabotaging behavior without even realizing it. Do not force her but at least make sure she is aware that that man is nothing but a deadbeat and does not deserve to be rewarded merely for being a sperm donor in that case. She does not owe him anything and it is best she keep him as far away from that child as is possible unless that child explicitly demands otherwise.

pongwa:
must you follow the crowd? Everybody has the tendency to err, it's in our nature. That's the way I choose to view it. If it happens to me, I'll consider a number of factors before I jump into conclusions. If I deprive my wife of good sex and she gets it outside or vice versa. Then it's my fault she erred

Storyland!🙄🙄🙄

zero8zero:
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Stop making an issue of non-issues abeg! She is free to marry the one she wants to. 🙄🙄

TouchNfollow:
➜She has made a second video saying the police told the man to leave the house for a while......the whole thing is beginning to look like a skit.

That woman should simply begin the process to end the marriage after taking it this far. She would only be setting herself up for all sorts of bullsheet if she didn't.

dapadawee:
➜That is your interpretation of the whole matter. It is not necessarily the truth. Am not justifying the man's animal behavior, but that woman will loss everything if she keep behaving like that. The next thing Is solution not ranting

. She will lose everything, how? Is that the same way a husband who discovers that his wife's brother is her son loses everything?

I take it you reject her declared solution, which is that the girl should leave the house, meaning the man should too, abi?

gechiye12:
That's why you must have money as a man. If anyone try Recording Me over such trivial matter she will never be able to use her hand again and if it was my wife she might not be able to use that mouth to talk in three years again

So, her own violence is not allowed but yours is? Why bother marrying at all? 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Bringbackmandat:
I will not attack the boy. I will face my wife but I will not record it on camera.

Storyland! 🙄🙄🙄

MONEY247:
➜I am a Christian.....If you stay close to me..or discuss with me I can start seeing one or two.... Sometimes we can be distance location and as God leads....I see....

Go seek professional Psychiatric treatment abeg and quick creating threads over and over for the same issue. You are not a prophet but a troubled mind. There are so many people out there in your shoes; many have obtained treatment and have moved past this problem long ago.

yewit37486:
➜That's your viewpoint. I did not agree with you on anything. I am done engaging your aimless no head no tail arguments.

You did when you agreed that the screaming or absence of it would not change the eventual dissolution of the marriage.

yewit37486:
➜And where did I state there is a law against screaming in these situations?

Well, we do agree that it matters not that she added her screaming to it all then.