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Kongaone:
A friend of mine dated this girl in 2012 for almost a year during his first job with a 100k salary. She was 21 while he was 23 years old then. She was in her final year and was receiving monthly allowance of 20k from her parents. Though she has accommodation in the hostel but she prefers staying with him in his apartment which was very close to her school. My guy was taking care of this girl whose entitlement mentality was so high. They were eating outside almost everyday as she couldn't cook then. He loved her so much and wouldn't mind marrying her thus he was footing all her bills and was sending very little home to his parents and siblings. This lady still complained that he was looking after his family more than he takes care of her needs.

In days when my guy was so broke she would never assist him even as a loan. She was so beautiful and intelligent that she was the dream of most guys on campus. At a point she called the relationship off stating that she wants to go back to her ex and my guy who was so tired of the relationship but never wanted to hurt her accepted in good fate.

As luck may have it he got a new job ssme year with double pay in Lagos. She later came back saying her calling for a quit was just a joke but my guy requested they just take a break and re evaluate the relationship. He left the town and moved to Lagos, they communicated for few months and lost communication. She deactivated her social media contacts and was no where to be found.

Fast forward to 2020, my guy (now 31) is married with twin boys and has properties and investment in Lagos with a salary of about half a million. He's now looking very fresh and handsome (na money be fine bobo). He placed his wife on 60k monthly allowance and opened a shop for her. Some months ago this his ex girlfriend chatted him that she's in Lagos and they met with their love almost rekindling. She now works in Lagos with 60k pay.

Now this lady (now 29) and still single is accusing my guy of not making much efforts to look for her while he was single. Said she regretted her past actions and has completely changed and felt she was the one married to him. She even said she can accept to be his second wife or his baby mama and won't marry any guy who is not like my guy (in terms of character, emotion and ofcourse money).

My guy has come to me for advise, pls if you are him what will you do? Matured minds pls.

That your friend is sick for even seeking advice.

Tell him that his tears will fill a 50litre keg if he doesn't give himself brain

The irony of life.

Don't act based on your pains, think about the consequences of your actions before taking them.

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abobote:
Buhari tried for his people, unlike Jonathan that fear could not allow him to do road to connect Otuoke

Forget fear, an I'll responsible man will always be I'll responsible.

I only clicked to check the name of the culprit.

Because you once gave them the impression that you are their puppet and after they are used to it, you now want to change.

Don't start what you cannot finish.....

Anything to retain his seat

I only came in to check the name

A good number of Nigerians do not have integrity .


All that runs through their heads is how to cheat you as if the proceeds of their fraudulent act is enough to prosper them.

Great work guys.

My enquiries are as follows:

In view of the forex limitations on cards by CBN, how else can one pay for admission application fee on studyinfo.fi? Please share with me the alternative routes.

Also, for a master degree programme, can I send a copy of my transcripts to the university for a provisional admission while the schools send the original hardcopy later?

I am thinking of this options as it might take a longer time for the transcripts to be delivered by the various schools in the face of the industrial instabilities in the government schools.

No one is sure of the future of the nation Nigeria, the best is for the leaders of each region to come together to determine the future of this marriage of inconvenience called Nigeria.

If Buhari and his travellers are still looking at the igbos with civil war eyes, they must be mistaking.

E go chock them!

Everyone is ready for whatever!

Why is Buhari just responding to this after how many weeks, is he just returning from London hospital again?

gidgiddy:
The only way Nigeria can be restructured is if a majority vote of at least two thirds can be achieved at the national assembly

Nobody is talking about restructuring in the North, and just the core North controls nearly 40% of the national assembly

You are right!

But how would the restructuring movement starts even from the North?

gidgiddy:
Forget about restructuring, the North will never agree to it

We actually do not need them to support the restructuring. In deed, if you look at the North, you will realise that the region is the most disadvantaged in Nigeria. The few greedy elites are brainwashing and using religion to defraud the people while the teaming population wallow in poverty.

It will interest you to know that the Northern youths and the indigents are tired of this.

All that is needed is for the peoples eyes to be opened and demand their rights and the few beneficiaries of the fraud will bow.

Let the message go round and a new Nigeria will appear!

Dear Patriots,

The recent dramas in the political space seems to have distracted us from the issues at the front burner.

Based on the current political structure of Nigeria , non of the candidates currently contesting can deliver Nigeria from the hands of the generational demons that have held her hostage.

It doesn't matter who wins, the principalities will continue to hold the nation hostage as they are in all spheres of the Nation.

The only way out is to insist on restructuring even before election so that each region can grow at their own pace without anyone drawing backward.

Take a clue from the insecurity in the Nation and the gruesome killing in Owo where it was alleged that Chopper dropped food items for the attackers. Have you bothered to ask yourself the possibility of that happening successfully without the hand of the power brokers in it?

Also, an alleged attack of a village in Kaduna last sunday shooting from the Chopper is another thing you need to consider its possibilities without the hands of these people. Same way the attackers named Bandits are having a filled day killing people across Benue, Platue, Taraba, Zamfara, Katsina, Sokoto, Kaduna to mention but a few. The people supporting them are still in power and the government can do them nothing!

The best way out is for each region to have its executive, legislative and judicial structures , their police and intelligence forces, generate and distribute power, refine its oil and process its gas etc.

The structure of the current entity called Nigeria can never work ill respective of who is the president. We need to insist on restructuring for Nigeria to move forward.

Happy democracy day!

....and this disaster of a cleric has not been arrested by DSS?

Once upon a country!

They are all wearing the same uniform.

If you know, you know.

You are fighting for custody because you love the kids and he hates them?

Women will tell you they are no longer interested and still deploy a means to get you take care of their needs in the Name of upkeep.

Isn't that a ......?

That your boy friend can use you for money ritual, please run away from him

Her return might be for permanent solution

If you know what that means

Ekweremadu is the Silent landlord of Enugu State, that guy control things in the coal city like Tinubu

What is Anambra budget compared to Akwa ibom, Kaduna, Oyo, Ogun and some other states.

If their budgets were to be meager like that of Anambra state, they would have financed it even twice with only their VATS and IGR.


Please be educated.

lalajnr:
Do you know that there are some Urhobos in Lagos Ondo and Ogun
Urhobo are mainly found in Delta State major Cities in Urhobo lands are Warri Sapele Ughelli Oghara Effurun and other major towns but you can also find some few Urhobos in Bayelsa and Edo in the south south in the west you can find Urhobo lands in Lagos Ondo and Ogun state

Urhobo lands in Lagos are
Parts of Lagos Island
Parts of Badagary
Part of Ikorodun

Urhobo lands in Ogun
Part of Abeokuta
Part of Ijebu
Part of Sango

Urhobo lands in Ondo
Parts of Ondo
Parts of Akure
Part of Illaje

Yoruba people are so tribalistic they used to oppress the minorities in the South West because they are the majorities


Urhobo Wadoo

This is how you people create problem for your people living in another man's land.

The same thing that ...... did that made everyone to turn against them.

If the people whose mist your people lives decides to secure their territories due to this your senseless post you will start shouting tribalism and bla bla bla.


You cannot be living in Okpara inland or igbokodo okpe and be creating issues for peaceful Urhobos living in Lagos and other parts of the country.

I would have preferred Amaechi but somethings credited to him under this evil administration makes me to question his sincerity.

Non for me

When a Nation forget God!

Charity4real:
Exactly my thought. You could have waited for the kids to advance more before getting back to your career. You must have nagged this man to the extreme for him to take such action. Probably you allowed bad advisers to deceive you out of your marriage.

I am in the same situation now; taking care of my children and giving my husband time to stand well here, but I am just taking my cool, even when my friends are working and grabbing there dollars daily, I am not moved because at the appointed time, everything will fall into places.

God bless you real good.

Marriage is not easy for both husband and wife, forfeiting your personal visions, ambition and dreams to serve others is a great sacrifice which will payoff one day only if we can wait for it.

African media, people were asking you on the various ways they could migrate to Brazil but you ignored them.

KingOfAmebo:
"I actually stopped reading when he said "They also didn't have any emergency services and no stretcher or ambulance". Are you kidneying me?

Abeg name one hotel in the world that has an ambulance, even Burj Al Arab - the World's only 7 Star Hotel in Dubai don't have an ambulance. It's either you are confusing Radisson Blue Hotel for Radisson Blue Hospital or you just want to cashout?

A 5 year old kid can lie better than this nigger.

Then he said: They were trying to sneak me out through the back stairway on the back of a porter to avoid a scene..Now this is absolutely laughable, where you expecting them to take you through the guest lobby so that everyone can have a good view of your injured leg? This is a hotel nigger and not a school or factory". - Village People spokesperson.

Will heaven fall if they have those items to take care of emergencies?

It's easy to castigate the OP but wait until it happens to you then you will desire them having a clinic

This country is gradually going....

Hello Gurus in the House, I need your candid advise and guidance on this matter.

I bought over 12,000 Dotdown coin for about 13USDT on 08 Sept. 2021, I was waiting for it to appreciate but it was going down do I left it there believing it would appreciate one day.

It went as low as 5USDT so I felt it would be a loss for me to sell it, so I left it. Binance sent me a message sometimes ago to redeem my mergin coins but I don't see the reason for it. At least it can go as down as 0.00000012, but my units will still remain.

I checked recently and I discovered that all my 12,000 plus coins has been reduced to 0.1295 and when I checked the price, I realised that the price has risen above 10USDT. Mind you, this is not the first time I left marginal coins for a long time , my quantity remains the same but the value was the one fluctuating.

Mind you, I knew about the daily percentage charges but I don't expect my over 12,000 units to be reduced to less than 1 unit in about a week.

I think there is a fraud somewhere.

How do you think I can address this and obtain justice.

Seun Lalasticlala I need your help for this to get to the front page.

vertueptime:
The have complex electronic and electrical systems,
they are not Rugged,
enter one big pothole light don off for dashboard,
they are low profile with expensive low profile tyres that are ​not ment for Nigerian roads,

Need Special mechanics and elctrictians
Cost of parts are outrageous,na big man car,
Fuel consumption.
If it breaks down on the road it will take the grace of God before you can even push it to the shoulder,

I disagree with most your submissions particularly on BMW.

When you talk about the electrical and electronic aspect of the cars, it takes tech expert to handle some of them but as little as an ODB scanner could save you from the problems that a Nigeria mechanic has profiled for you. Also, there are lots of forums where BMW issues and remedies are discussed with do it yourself Option. Youtube is your friend when it comes to German vehicles.

Fuel consumption, German products are not as bad as people portrayed them. In fact, my 2004 E46-N42 engine saves more fuel than most Toyota products. 6k fuel from Lagos to Enugu.

Spare parts? Except the more recent models and buying a new parts, most BMW parts are pocket friendly compared to lots of Japanese products. Though it all depends on where and who you are buying from.

Hardly will you see a German products pack you on the road as most of the parts must have been giving you signs long before they stop working.

Above all, people who speaks bad of German products have never used them at any time.

I am a bimmer again and again.

VanuatuWycombe:
It’s a pity I don’t know the course you are planning to study in Estonia that requires GRE. You may look for other unis that don’t require GRE over there.

Better still, weigh your options between the two countries and go for the one your heart chooses.

Generally, there are lesser Africans in Latvia than in Estonia. But this doesn’t stop you from going there. Numbers of Africans going to study in Eastern European countries are increasing, year-on-year. No thanks to falling quality of education in Africa. Latvia is still a developing country but you can’t compare it to any of the African countries in terms of processes, governance and infrastructure.

As far as I am aware, it is better your family joins you later to avoid the burden of proving additional finances. Since I don’t know your area of specialization, I assume you can get the normal menial jobs for a start for a few years because of language barrier.

Their PR takes a minimum of 8 years to get. Some people get theirs in 10 years, other than through marriage.

All in all, you may find things easier than I have said. Just be optimistic and be open to take opportunities as they come. A good grasp of Latvian language may be your joker to getting good job with any of their local companies faster. But that doesn’t mean you can’t get job at all.

I am considering a master in international business Administration in Teltech.

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