byvan: Get your priorities right.you are the one that has been with these women and you should be the one to know which is good enough to take home..Beauty is fleeting,for the beauty you see today,you might see no more,character abides.If she was that great,she wouldn't be your ex,unless you are not looking at the bigger picture.Is marriage in the agenda??before I comment further.

niceone,
OP,
weigh the both of them, check-and-balance,
my Dear forget about what people says, "he that wears a shoe knows where it pinches most"., so u sit yourself down and make up yur mind on whom u wanna be with.

looks like yu like the beauty and activities u get from your ex...but rememember, yur happiness should be paramount

NB: please if u know yu wont be with the new one and has not sliced, please no touch the babe....just free her

why did the relationship break up?
is she someone you can marry if u re ready right now>?

as Iyabde said, calll her on the phone, or meet with her, DONT inform her you re coming, take her to a laboratory and conduct a pregnancy test....also ascertain how old.

you would be able to know the way forward

imho, i think she wanna job u....

goood luck

sisi and lynpetra,
please get de gist well- this guy and the said lady have been friend for a long time......platonic friends(nothin atached)
an opoortunity came and the guy tot to help.
he helped
de gal got de job
now the lady stopped keeping in touch(mind u, she has been a great friend before the job)
as well , the guy never wanted to take advantage.all along.
so please sisi and lyn, is Op wrong by askin their relationship as "just friends" continue as it were before the job came?
no one is talkin abt reward here.cash or kind
i hate dis mentality of s.ex and men.......does it mean men are the ones that enjoys dis act?
i ve had ladies beg for s.ex
i ve also seen dem enjoy it more than i do, so wtf....

i ve housed some ladies in ma house for months, i sleep on the carpet and dey sleep on the bed, i cook and they eat(dey never cook coz dey re ajebo)
even wen i stayed with one of them alone in sane room for a whole straight month....i never made advances.
dey graduated, left......not even a "thank u"
people can be ungratefull and it shoukd stop us from helping people.

op,
yu ve heard wat people said earlier...move on and keep helpin

sultaan:

So what kind of ford does your friend own?

Your problem might be caused by lack of knowledge, if you know a little more about cars, then you will understand most of the problem is caused by owners and mechanics; fewer problems cause by bad roads from the complaints I have seen on this forum.

I have seen a lot of people post problems with their Murano, Camry,Accord and Highlander but not one on a Ford Edge.

It could be argued that there fewer Edges on Nigerian roads, but the stat indicates the Edges sells a lot more than Murano, and Highlander

actually its more like nechanics and lack if parts. the gearbox and engine of that car was changed within 10months of purchase.....as well the AC was havin issues the last time we went to work.

Ikenna351: Conversation between two Nairalanders in Car Talk



*Chxxx: Siena, help me o! My car engine is giving me nightmares o! This car will not kill me o!

*Siena: Yes, the car will not kill you in Jesus name. What car is it?

*Chxxx: Its Camry.

*Siena: What's the engine size of your Toyota Camry?

*Chxxx: 4 plugs.

*Siena: By the way, what's the model year of the Car? And please, be more specific.

*Chxxx: Orobo.

*Siena:






Ikenna.

i am forced to laugh out really loud at dis. chei ,people no go kee person for here.

@topic,
a colleague of mine told me 2days ago that Toyota is the strongest and best car in the world.
i smh and smiled, den showed him www.google.com to search for any query

i have a colleague that uses a Ford.....i bet he cursed the day he bought that vehicle......

chimkaire: Amen. And may the next pope not give us a reason to regret being Catholics.

i just smiled at your name.....i just got a name for my unborn.
thanks and ka Chukwu gi na-adi ire oge nile na ndu gi, amen

K.chingz:
Your chic is on 2go? lmfao, buy her a BB joor.

bu her a BB and she will.end up.dumping u.

@op,
if she cant listen to u, then u have to ignore her and move on.its a pity 2go can be addictive and flirting online crazy

omiobo:

Chei!Na lie,e no fine reach idowuogbo

make she.catch.yur mouth dere

a Rare gift........God sent.........my drama queen!

there are some issues with some network. we use Vodacom and as a result if some fraudulent activities pepertrated tru its network, certain request are redirected using a safer gateway.
its gonna be sorted out soon cos they know about this

funny enough thats de extension number for the security in my work place.

ita not a bad idea though.....at least easily memorized and if it can be made uniforn so wen in distress,yur call hits the nearest police station, would be nice.

porka:

Refer to the bold.

Why can't we make comment without this particular refrain, "it is only in Nigeria... blah blah"?

Billions of dollars was spent in rebuilding New Orleans after Hurricane Katrina and yet they had a power-cut during SuperBowl.

It has more than been acknowledged even by the planners of our NIPP that gas, a major component of the project, was not factored in the planning.

Now that they are getting around the problem what is the offense in that?

Would you rather the plant is turned to a tourist attraction because mistakes were made?

Mistakes are made all over the world "it is not only in Nigeria" sir, the important thing is to admit it and redress appropriately not sitting down and doing nothing.

oga,
i want my naija to be as much better,
as regards the superBowl,anything could happen,btw hope yu know what a circuit beaker does in an electrical circuit?
my point is- why was these issues not factored in,does it mean dey dont know the turbines would be powered with gas from the outset or does it mean dey dont know they need water ?
c'mon bro these are just soke professional incompetence or rather would i say its "carelessness".
please whats youtube documentaries on some National geographic megastructures and yu see how constructions are done, time limits are met even with nature's effect .
i still say that its only in Nigeria as far as i know that a 2-year contract lasts for5years and the contractors is walking around shaking his bom bom.
our project management and discipline approach could be better.

y are they talkin about challenges now?does it mean there was no TSS(technical site survey ) doneprior to commencement of that project.its only in nigeria this kinda sh*t would happen.
next. they will ask for more money,more time,more everythin and government wont do anythin. Nigerian government should really learn project and finNce mNagement from the developed world.
i bet this project wont come on stream til 2015.
they never checked for water
they never knew thet neeeded gas for the tubines.
they never knew other issues would come up and cover their track, they are here spewing bul5sit about 50 % completion.

nice one, i can do stuff like this, i ve even did a background check severally on dates .

i would do same to anyone i care about but i may have to inform the person and make sure he is cool with a check.

people getting smarter.

lynpetra: Well in my own case,my dad had to pay for the damages because I quickly picked a stone in my anger and aimed it straight at the back glass of the arzeholes car.

hmm,
babe u hash ooo .
God help your man if u never change.

anger can make u do some crazy thing. please watch it

I remember someday when I ws in my ss1, on my way to school , a car splashed concentrated red mud(nsukka soil) water on my magnificent white on white school uniform.
what pained me most is the strength my mum invested in washing and ironing that cloth.
I went back , changed and headed back to school.

no basis of comparison.

patie, is just good

taharq and co,please check the profile of that lady well.christiane Amanpour is a model of a journalist,chief international correspondent for CNN for years and at some point de highest paid Tv presenter in the world. she has a very amiable CV.and has interviewed more head of states and notable world names more than u can imagine, so relAx`she won't be fired.

@topic
power improved at some point but it is very bad right now. I stay in.uyo and since I came back to this town some 2weeks ago, my generator has been doin a hard job. in de past 2 weeks I very.not had power up to 20 hours combined.
people around uyo can attest to dis.

Jonathan is trying but it seemed that bartg nnaji left with de power improvement magic.
I wish it could get better.

some times some truth is left unsaid but u have to sit her down and iron out issues.
btw....u think u still love her?
it all lies in your hand.address it nicely but don't do sympathy relationship.good luck

DIVA58: For me i was supposed to hang out wit my b.f bt he annoyed me today so until he ask for forgiveness am nt going anywhere wit him

The guy man get sense, better make up or you go roast on that day.
@op,

Will be at work, nothing much.

Siena: Nigerian mechanics must be making a killing, "servicing nozzles". What's the average charge? I think I need to relocate, and change jobs!

Oga Siena,
the charge is dependent on the location, the workshop(if its in mechanic village or established kinda guy with "name"

there is dis guy in Enugu that i use at some point for Mercedes 190, he charges abt 3500-4000 naira(about 15GBP)

then i once used a guy in Uyo where i base now in 2011 ans i paid him 5,000 naira(about 20GBP)

considering the fact that we have a habit of driving dry tank, dere is always a tendency that the injectot get clogged with dirts.

Point of note: after servicng the 'injector nozzle', and fitted back in the vehicle, they watch the fuel flow as someone pointed out and they could even use heavy spanner to hit on the top of the throttle body if there is any of the injectors that aint injectin fuel well enough.

funny enough, wen they hit it on it, fuel go begin comot well .

for the fact that he has not proposed shows some sense of maturity and sincerity(i could be wrong)

but OP, open yur mind and act as if yu have nothin to offer. make sure yu pay attention to every detail but dont be quick to makin any conclusion.

if its wat i wish he would be, he wouldnt talk abt citizenship with u in dis first visit,
he wouldnt propose
he wouldnt rush to know abt certain materialistic/financial capabilities and how its gonna benefit him.

As i wish yu de best., be smart!

no faking, no forming.

be free and try to adjust well if u re sleepin over.

try and adapt to the environment and dont express yur displeasure out rightly if u are not very comfortable physically.

hope u have a good communication medium with yur man. eg signs and stuff.

good luck

Idowuogbo:
adjust gini? how do u know d begging itself no dey provoke d babe?

Idy babe,

been a while ooooo...hapi new year.

its possible de bolded actually happens. but come to think of it, OP wat exactly do u love in this lady? plain love or some benefit?

eyenCalabar:

I know that's a lie but I'll still advice you.

broda, it may not be a lie, i ve been in such a relationship that i begged even weh she was wrong just to make her happy.

@OP,
yu just have to be de man, sitting her down and talkin to her wont make any difference.
u have to teach her some good lessons by actions, ...yes! actions, when she needs those explanation and begging, ignore her , and walk away if yu cant stand her presence or if yur heart no fit .

if she acts like dis now, i dont wanna imagine wat will happen wen u are finally married,
Imagin if anythin happen and she becomes de 'breadwinner', guy u don finish.

so wise up, man up and act up.

wishin yu de best

i dont believe a guy would fall for dis condition.

y dd she ask u build a house in her name?
y cant u guy mary and have things together?

build a house and she will NEVER marry u

in short, de babe is on a mission- to finish u.

good luck and happy being single cos as soon as yu finish buildin de house for her, she leaves u

freecocoa: So una no fit detect joke again abi?

i get smoke-detector, sorry i mean JOKE DETECTOR for sale.


Nne nne, ke kwanu?
Omalicha Afo Ofu

I get dis on grade 1, i say "please" and "thank you", i say it to everyone dat does somethin,
Recharge card vendor
subordinates at work
younger ones
older ones
bosses

etc

it helps changes situations,

Sijo01:


There's nothing like ATM Machine, fella.

ok....let her try and foot her bills

Sapphire86: Sorry I use iphone5!!!

can i have yur needle den?