its a pity the way yu feel.
yu sound so bitter...u just have to take it easy... loosen up or yu end up being frustrated for llife and constitute a nuisance for sane people life me.

get de facts right, yu re not de most pretty lady dat exist.
everyone has his/her weaknesses just like u. issues on life makes us better, stronger and focused and everyone has some experiences to learn from.

IMHO, u re a coward!
stand up and face yur fear, and conquer it/dem., rather than sitin inside yur house and whining.

abt all men being dogs, lol... i laff cos my lady thinks am de BEST.

good luck

Yvete:

awwww really? Smiles back

sounds nice ...but doesnt really mean "nice".

like it anyways

Yvete:

Wow!! That's messed up.

Seems like its a new relationship, but as time goes on, he may take it down. He should put those pictures in a folder. Like a personal album for the son to see pictures of his parents together if he wants to. Honestly, I think its wrong to keep old pictures on the walls now that you're in his life. The earlier the son gets the memo that his parents are no longer together, the better.
Goodluck!

just like this yur name.....smiles

ferdimako:

Nope.Go to ur Study center.It's pasted there!

bro, please i need course material for CIT 711(computer Fundamental).

can yu or anyone help with it?

nkemmu: To me only village gurls wear dat ring.wats d essence?you can be engage in your mind jare.wats this wearing for?

gbam! i just dnt send dis engagement ring stuff.
its never an assurance dat weddin MUST hold.
action dey say speak louder ...

pato405: please is anyone in Uyo here on the forum to assist with taking an application pack down. I cant risk it being missing in Nipost transit o!

the place is far from Uyo, funny enough, there are not direct vehicle , u either join the staff bus from uyo or yu take a taxi to mkpat-enin/ukam area and then finish up.

check their website, there should be a liaison office somewhere in Uyo.

good luck

miss-sweety86:
OMG! you guys are getting defensive so easily! it's not because I said abortion is a right that you have to attack me like that! I don't know what is the conception of abortion in Nigeria/Africa, but here in Europe it's a right, and women have fought for us to have this right.
and for the people who said that those who get pregnant should have used protection: neither condom nor contraceptive pill are 100% effective. Many girls get pregnant while they're on the pill, sometimes even if they've never fogotten to take it. And condoms can break!!
the more I read what you wrote, the more I think it's very hard to discuss anything with you.... maybe it's cultural perspective....

miss, NAIRALAND are full of hypocrites,
over 70% of single nigerian ladies at one point or the other had had an abor.tion(Medical or surgical) and de last time i checked, guy did de act with them but it marvels me how guys frown at dis and as well comment.

ladies have got some very deep mind, dey can conceal a lot inside and u can only know wat dey want dey want u to know.

@op,
its not a nice act but if yu re made to know abt her past, its cos she respects u.

pls dont leave her

Sapphire86: Is it legal? HELL 2 D FREAKING NO!! Bt I think its d way d girl carries herself. Any modafuvker dat tries dat on me ll wish he was in jail cuz by d tym I'm done, not even his mama wld save his sorry a.s.s

there is always a CAUSE for a CURSE...
Saphire86, would yu cheat on yur husband/guy?

cos we have to talk abt de cause of the beating.

please note, i am not an advocate women being molested physically,

@op,
its not good but its obtainable

it can hurt to meet such a situation after giving in so much to make the relationship work.

the truth is that de guy seem to be scared of the dad....i dont think he can do much abt it.

i subscribe to the praying stuff but de guy may not be stubborn enough to pull it.
the mum had dat dream cos of wat image the Dad painted(just a reflection ).

so tell yur friend to brace up for the obvious challenge , pick her pieces and try moving on cos that guy CANT put up strong resistance.

good luck.

NB:my tots/response are based on the story

i think u should concentrate on gettin a job, dont commit yur all int the relationship...hope for the best and prepare for the worst.
yu are still young and these are one of the experiences yu will add to yur CV. lmao.

so , Lady, remember he has been with yu and try to deal with the situation, more so, tell him to stop goin outside to pick calls as it wil increase yur level of discomfort wrt the ex's issues.

good luck

he should start taking himself out,
be free with people, smile, be ffriendly but shouldnt be desperate.

he could start from being friends with a lot of ladies and then as days go by, he will know which one is better and where to take his shot.

good luck to him

personally i like cerealac cos its smoother and tastes better dan Nutrend but Nutrend but both are cereal based which contains fibre and protien.

as most people said, it all depends on the child. u could try soyabeans and ground crayfish as well, always try to grind to very fine texture for easy passage wen consumed.

good luckk and love to yur baby

whitefairy: wht if u bashed ur car n there is dis mighty dent on it,u will kill ursef abi?

ask am abeg

whitefairy: I will kiss him,hug him n tell him he is d most wonderful gift I eva got,as for d car,it stays dat way,afta all its jst a toy.

as for the bolded above, thanks for that......

i know some people who beg God to give dem only ONE child to come and scatter dia house and possibly turn it upside down.

most people dat coment here dont have kids and very far from maturity into parenthood

just imagine some inexperienced and craz.y guys we ve got here, what is the car is worth 30m, so what?

i went to work and returned 2weeks ago and saw my Landlord kids smashed one of my headlamps, i felt bad initially, called dem and asked and all of them denied the act.......i ddnt touch dem, if i ddnt beat an outsider(my landlords' kids) , how would i touch my own kids.

i guess we need to understand the difference between materialism and value for Life and LOVE.

Idowuogbo:
hmmm.... ok o! for how long? double ur condo o!

lol, Iddy baby.....u give good advice

Idowuogbo: u dey sa?

sa=Saudi Arabia

arrangee is better ENDURED cos u wont wana offend yur parents but yu dont give a hood wat happens otherwise ,

@OP,
no, though my mum believes in me sha

napa:
spend wisely o 250k no too plenty like dat o

e no even plenty at all.
i wish de cash came in January for him cos he will spend it better den

full 13th month salary paid with Nov. Salary
50kg Rice
8 litres of cooking Oil
2 Cartons of Juice
some reasonable cash for chicken.

ChitChatChick88: Attention has more value so long as basic needs are met.

so diplomatique

^^^
I miss my 042 ..enjoy am abeg

@OP,
i will be here at the middle of nowhere working for de people dat pays my bills.

hmmm,
some people smooch naked, kiss first thing in the morning, mess unprotected with a stranger, yet dey wont share tooth brush with some lady/guy dey call dia own.

people can really be funny.
please peeps, get real!!!

@op,
i do it, and i am even goin to do it wen i am out of work in abt a week cos i will stay in her place for a night.

ATMC,
mbok forget de hypocrisy around here joooor.....

Leadn:

why didn't yu use your 40 Mega pixel pureview to take and upload for us??

u took the word from my mouth, i just wonder y Nigerians like to badmouth almost everythin anybody does, sensible person knows that takin a TV shot always not clear enough, de OP tried and we criticize him,
Naija I hail!

AjanleKoko:

Erm . . . the largest private reserve of gold in the world, about 60,350 metric tonnes, is owned by the Roman Catholic church.
Some charity, eh?

could yu help with a source to back the above info up please?

read dis http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gold_reserve

ICT Support

victorian,
it crazy u have xperienced all dat, its really a pity, just be free and believe, as i said earlier, try and clear yur head, open yur mind and look forward to de future

de best is on its way...wishin u de best

i wont say u are frustrated, but u have to realy understand wat yu realy want. what kindda man do u wish for?
were do u meet all dose so-called lazy men u meet?
wat are yur prorities in a relatiionship?

ask yurself all dese, cos i ve met some ladies wishing to have some kinda individual dey tot would be best for dem while de real MEN slip past cos dey chase shadows.

u need some re-orrientation about men, relationships, marriage and being a financially independent lady.

Nigerians are hard working people, real MEN dont find joy in a lady paying his bils, guess de way u present yurself is also a contributory factor.

sit down, think, clear yur head of yur negative tots , re-package yurself and look forward to de best to come.

be humane and humble and not brag around.

wish u well

de babe na badt babe,
if she really did wat u suspect she did, den she probably didnt want a mess of yur first tango. she wants full dose but thats kinda crazy.

dont ask her, just be more vigilannt de next time and enjoy de lady, maybe she likes u alot

Buc: Amen.

my dear Brother,
you are de man, your children wont loose their root cos dey will bear your name....
itss a pity how people loose their love, life, happiness in de name of some inconsequential tribal sh.itz.

yur love and happiness aint annd will never be attached to a particular individual from a place...do u know why u experience dis heartache tryin to get dis gal"? its cos u plung all yur effort into her and i guess u may have committed some blunder into makin her know why u want her and she had to take advantage of dat.

u have to wake up, i guess u re still a very young chap stil in school...u have to undastand how life works.

let me give u an example with myself"
i am IGBO from Enugu, all de while i have been lookin for a partner, i ve not met an igbo lady dat matched my earch criteria, not that dey dont exist but i have ot met, what would i ve done? wait and keep searchin? no man,
i am currently with a YORUBA LADY, she is just one great individual dat each time she crosses my mind, broad smiles come to my face, FUNMI is yoruba, but i am just so so happy with her, i will get married to her as it pleases GOD and be happi cos my hapiness doesnt lie in Igbbo ladies.
my adddvice, dont attach you hapines to a particular individual lest u be frustrated.

@OP"
Yes

Valiantvaliant: 'Except for Marital unfaithfulness'. To every rule there is an exception. How sure are you that that is not the case?

thank u?

ddat guy should ask abt Mr Ibu and his first wife, he was a Radio mechanic, poor and wretched, de wife left and wanting to return wen de guy hammer,

if na him, im go gree?

amyg:
.looks without brains is WASTED!)

noted!, Thanks