Due to the current, prevailing trend of rape claims (whether real or not) and sometimes unfounded allegations made by some women, which include Rape, Harassment, Blackmail etc. there is now an agreement to be signed before "action" to avoid a case of had I known.
AGREEMENT BEFORE SEX
I, ___________________, the undersigned female partner (herein referred to as the 'Screwee'), am about to enjoy sexual intercourse with _________________ (hereafter referred to as the 'Screwer'), certify the following:
1. THAT I am above the lawful age of consent.
2. THAT I am not under the influence of liquor or any narcotic.
3. THAT the afore mentioned Screwer did not use any force, threats, coercion or promises to influence me.
4. THAT I, the Screwee, am in no fear of him whatsoever.
5. THAT I do not expect or wish to marry him.
6. THAT I do not know if he is married or not and neither do I care.
7. THAT I am neither asleep nor drunk.
8. THAT I am entering this relationship with him; because I love it and want it as much as he does.
9. THAT in the event that I receive full satisfaction, which I expect, I declare in advance the capacity and willingness for further participation at regular intervals.
10. THAT I will not act as a witness against him nor will I file charges against him in the event that, (a) I contract an STD (b) I become pregnant (c) I feel that he is violating any legislation - moral, legal or otherwise.
SIGNED BEFORE JUMPING INTO BED ON THIS ___ DAY OF _____ (MONTH) ________ (YEAR) AT ______ (AM/PM)
_______________________ (Signature of Screwee)
------------------------------------- (Signature of Screwer)
Please feel free to keep this precedent in your archives should the need arise for a future client. ����
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He did not state the terms and conditions in which this settlements were established. Where they sold or leased? Was their a designated alloted hectares to them
Sold his soul, body and conscience way back and here today wailing
How will an educated man go into an agreement that suddenly lost track of it. If there was ever an agreement. They sold their souls for a pot of porridge way-back and here today, he is crying foul.
In a sane world where an enlightened and educated man is in the helms of affairs, such can never happen. At worst, we revoke the lease.
Mile 12 market is dominated by Fulanis and they will be relocated to Ikorodu axis soon, did you hear any fuss about that? This shows you men knew what they were doing way-back.
The efforts of His Excellence, President Mohammadu Buhari (GCFR) in bringing a permanent end to farmers/herders conflict and enhance national security can never be deterred and remains unshaken.
paraltero: Why is it easy for some of us to believe Busola Dakolo?
Unlike the previous ladies, Busola is not an unknown person. And she has a lot to lose if all of this turns out to be false. She staked her entire reputation by coming forward with this story. What person is willing to risk all they are and have built themselves to be for a lie?
Well, let's keep watching. As I've said, it could very well turn out that the preacher is innocent but there is certainly something to look into here
Abegi.
Shola fapson is a celebrity and she accused an Uber driver of rape but eventually what happened? All this "she's has a lot to lose so she can't lie." I hate this nonsense talk. Been a celebrity, what does it has to do with honesty? Make dem go court. All these nonsense talk de irritate person. "You're a celebrity so you must be honest." haba!!!
pressmanng: Nigerian Lady got the attention of many Twitter Users after she said that she would like to Embark on a Journey with a stranger and have all the sex in the world, take pictures and then go back to being strangers.
She added that the trip is going to be 50/50, meaning you pay for your bills and she pay for her own too.
Martinez39: I think one budaatum is yet to grab the following :
1) No one is denying that rape victims feel traumatised. No one is saying that sexual abuse victims shouldn't speak up.
2) No one is saying that accusers are lying instead we are demanding due process and reasoning instead of emotions and drama.
3) Due process demands that we stay neutral and follow where the evidence leads. Due process demands that all accused are presumed innocent until proven guilty. Due process forbids that a man be convicted without concrete evidence.
4) An allegation without evidence should amount to nothing. Gaining the support of the majority doesn't valid one's rape claim a bit. Too many women accusing a particular man isn't evidence that the man is guilty.
5) On no account shall a man's life be disrupted for a rape allegation that isn't backed by evidence. It's wrong for a man to be sacked, expelled from school, lose his source of livelihood or be ostracised by society over a rape claim that has no evidence.
6) The #metoo movement is a failed movement and a laughing stuck to itself. It espouses, by pressurising and going emotional, the idea of believing women blindly. It stifles due process and demands that all accused be deemed guilty until proven innocent. This movement wants men who are accused to be sacked, deprived and ostracised by the society until their names are cleared. Imagine how ludicrous they've become.
7) Emotions, drama and the accusation of a man by thousands of women are not evidence.
I know some will come telling me that the metoo movement is about supporting sexual abuse victims blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah but I know better that actions, not labels, are the best descriptions of any group or individual. It's similar to the case when people defend the men hating feminists by saying "... but feminism is all about gender equality and equal rights for women." Goddamnit, actions, not labels, are the best and authentic descriptions of a group or individual.
If women are not careful and if they keep pushing men to the wall, the patriarchy which they dread so much will come back for good. There is a limit to which you can push men.
Ronaldo picture was removed from fifa 2019 because of mere allegation without no proof. People are asking juventus to terminate Ronaldo contract or he should resign from football because of rape allegation without no evidence. This is disgusting. If that pastor walked in the midst of those people that were protesting, do you know that they would lynch him to death?
budaatum: I'd settle for, 'more people knew'. You should wonder why the women who did know said nothing for so long though. Imagine a young girl or boy unable to tell there parents too and the trauma the silence alone would cause, not to talk of the trauma of being raped itself.
Joromi12: Busola was raped in 1999. As at 2010 or so she was choirmistess in the same church. This story no dey gel again abeg
This is the same question I have been asking myself. Some people still think say make I believe this story without no evidence. I de madt? Even if I no get brain at all, i no go believe this story.
Abeg the story bend. It's illogical. Kilode? Who does that?
maryjames9: Why won't we crucify him. Is he the only Pastor in Nigeria. Why is he so embroiled in one controversy after another? Last time it happened with Ese Walter, he said we should be waiting for a robust response. Till now nothing. There have no smoke without fire jare. Ah ah, no only him Waka come?
Even if you hear his own side of his story, you won't still believe him. I can still remember Shola fapson saga. After the taxify driver shared his side of his story, 95% of people didn't believe him and still crucified him until the video came out. That guy'sife would have been ruined for life if not for the video. Some guys still women are angel and they can't do evil. Social media is not a court. She should sue him with evidence.
Ufedolove: This is a social media case. None of us here was there to witness the rape, so we don't know what is what. As a skeptical person that I am, I don't just buy sh!ts poured on social media these days cos my brain has been toyed with enough. Dear lady, if you were truly raped by Pastor Fatoyinbo, kindly go to court and sue instead of causing controversies on social media.
By the way, why do ladies keep rape allegations until when the rapist becomes famous, influential or rich? Is it just a mere coincidence?
If and when you are raped, report the evil perpetrator immediately; give him no room to devour other souls.
Well, as we have it, the accused remains accused and innocent until proven otherwise.
Nlanders, be wise. Don't judge from social media personalities' words cos it's not in your place to do so. You aren't a jury.
No mind them. This was how Shola fapson started and the guy was crucified on nairaland but the rape allegation eventually turned out to be false. I don't take these social media nonsense call rape allegations serious. The last time I checked social media is not a court.
Thuglife2020: That’s why I don’t ask her to put it on status but DP. But she declined. She chose not to talk for hours before coming back to say “hello my love “ I wouldn’t say anything but had to play along. I wouldn’t let her know I got mad because she might feel it’s because of the help .. I’ve promised to finance her again this semester.. but I’m stopping already without her consent.
I will advice you that you should stop spending on a girl that's not your wife. All this naija girls will always seeing you as mugu because none of them worth penny of your money. Tell her straight that you have found faithful girl that loves you without spending or asking you any money and you are having steadily with her without spending any money on her yet. She will try to manipulate you by crying and says some stupid stuff. Please, don't fall for it. If she offers you s.ex f**k her because you have already pay for the pu.ssy. After she leaves your side, block her number and any connections you get with her.
Stop being a mugu or atm machine to any girl. If you know different kinds of derogatory names she would have been calling you behind your back, you'll feel like committing suicide. If no one in you family or friends need financial help, give begger on the street or go to orphanage home instead of you spending on a girl that's sees your help as her right instead of privilege because she has hole in-between her legs and won't be appreciative about it but in the end, she will call you mugu for helping her out.
pansophist: I unequivocally put it to you that feminism everywhere wants the good stuff and not the responsibility that comes with it. Now mention any country you know of, that feminism is different from what is practised in naija, then I'll agree. I live in the west and have lived in Nigeria. It's all same.
Okay let me give you one example that happened just an hour ago. I'm writing you from a club house now (I'm in my 20's hello), and the bouncer refused to let men without girls inside the club. I could go in since i came with my girlfriend. Single girls got in, but not single men. How is that fair? Now turn the table round, will feminist be quiet if its women treated like this? How about military conscription that is compulsory for Male and not for women?
Feminism is a good movement, in the past not now. Its hypocritical and a mask for misandrist.
You are mouthed
Let's war break out today and see all these feminists chicken out because when the military start the conscription of male into the army, none of the feminists will protest equal participation in the war. They will all keep quiet. In this part of the world, no one is stopping anyone from doing anything. To butress your point, a female will sexually harrass a male but no one will see anything bad it. They will sexually molest a kid and society won't see anything wrong in it. There was a lady that opened a thread on how she sexually molested 7 year old boy and she was even bragging about it but people don't see anything bad. If it was a guy that sexually molested a little girl and open thread for it, we all know what will happen. Few days later, a guy open a thread that she wants to marry an 18 year old girl. If you see how ladies bombard that thread and insult that guy that she's still young. A 18 year old girl that can be legally married for that matter. The same set of ladies avoided a thread where one of them opened a thread on how she molested a 7 year old boy and she's happy about it.
I see feminism as bunch frustrated, hypocrite and selfish people coming together to hate on male.
pansophist: Haha, you got it. Asked anyone that has worked for a female boss before, same stories. Even all house girl brutality are done by their madam. Research was done some time ago, that 80% of women don't even want to work for women. Yes, you heard it right. Even women prefer to be bossed by men, not their own kind, women. You can watch this video below, it discussed about it.
Another thing to think about. I have never met a man in my whole life, that prefer women as a friend, than men. But I have met countless women that prefer male friends than women. It is of no surprise that every religion, tradition and most society is head by a male. Women do not make good leaders, they just cant. To be selfish and solipsistic (as oppose to being self-sacrificial and extend care outside the self) is not an attribute of a leader, rendering most women fit for the position of leadership.
This made me to remember my female cousin that's currently serving in one secondary school. She's always late to school because she's a nursing mother. The previous principal before he was transferred a month ago understands her current condition so he didnt query her for being late. The moment they transferred female principal to her school that's the moment she's started having problem. The girl don chop query tire. She's always complain say na anything wey woman head de hard. The woman don frustrate her life.
In as much that I empathize with the lady, you are missing the whole point of this thread. Of course, there are pocket of cases of genuine need by women, and men usually always help, unless you're being dishonest. The vast relationship and marriages in Nigeria has the men spending to keep it floating, so whayts your point?
Shaming tactics. It is a known fact that women who are financially successful than their men always look down on them and lose attraction, thats if they gave you attention in the first place. Women are hypergamous naturally, your mating strategy is to secure the commitment of a high statu man, and anything below that is treated with scorn. The romance section of nairaland is littered with threads of men jilted by their gf when they lost their means of subsistence. smh
Typical. Victimising yourself to garner pity, you know that it is not black and white as you implied. You are cherrypicking, exaggerating and blowing things out of proportion. I do not know of any man that will not appreciate an educated woman, hell, even uneducated businessmen sponsors their women to university, who in many cases, jilt them afterwards (hypergamy at play), so what's your point? can you point out any well known Nigerian lady that is educated and well mannered that lacks men? don't mention Tonto Dike, please.
Well, let me put it this way. If you think to make their money, staying off fornication, achieving their dreams etc, serves as a shield to look down on men who are not rich enough, or a pass for men to ignore her bad attitudes, then you just prove my point along. It is the lack of self-reflection, introspection, to examine one behaviour, many ladies lack. They believe if they have money, even with an attitude worse than the devil, that men should worship them. Sorry but NO.
You're right, bro.
That's why Uber drivers always have problem with female customers. The moment they pay you that's the moment they will start looking down on you and talk to you anyhow because they think you are their slaves at that moment. Few percentage of women can be a leader in the society because most women don't have the attributes of being a leader. The moment a woman have an edge over you finincially or at place of work, she will always look down on you.
5ublime: Did you just say "instruct" ? That's why he won't get any respect. If you treat your wife with respect, she will respect you in return. There's nothing wrong with dishing his food for himself and his friend.... in fact, with the permission of his wife.
Marriage is a partnership. Your kind has made it a master-slave relationship. The fact that you're even confident enough to bring it up here claiming right is very disturbing.
So, that's the reason that made her to ridicule her husband in front her friends to the extent that her friends see her husband as trash.
You guys just pick one sentence that you can twist to your own taste but you don't see other bad attitudes of the woman.
Nairalanders, I hail una hypocrisy.
Op, don't be surprised if the woman start slapping his husband in public.
5ublime: Did you just say "instruct" ? That's why he won't get any respect. If you treat your wife with respect, she will respect you in return. There's nothing wrong with dishing his food for himself and his friend.... in fact, with the permission of his wife.
Marriage is a partnership. Your kind has made it a master-slave relationship. The fact that you're even confident enough to bring it up here claiming right is very disturbing.
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