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biz2get:
Technically you cannot comprehend what she wrote.

Just stop writing and quoting.. And think!

To the topic.

Just know there's an Action Before the Reaction.
I would advise you try to know what is wrong with your wife (understand her better)

In esense if you take your wife out she can unwind what is really bothering her to you.

And you don't have to be rich to take your wife out.

A small beer parlour sef can do the trick.

To whom sense is given sense is expected.

Mstick:
You didn't even read my reply. If you can't afford to take your wife to a bar for drinks then you shouldn't have a mistress simple!




No need going back and forth. After all you can tell your wife I have 1k only and she would understand.


You mean the marriage where the wife is just in it for the kids sake and the man is busy chasing everything that moves meanwhile when it comes to taking his wife on a date he remembers he has bills to pay?

Ask any married woman around if she would love to spend a moment with her husband away from the kids and hear her reply.

Wealth doesn't determine if a marriage will last same as poverty. I know people that left their marriage because their husbands couldn't provide. It's even more this days. All am trying to say which YOU'RE NOT GETTING IS SIMPLE! SPEND TIME WITH YOUR WIFE! OR WILL THAT ALSO COST YOU MONEY? OR WILL THE GOVERNMENT NOT ALLOW YOU TO?

Mstick:
Really so taking your wife on a date means you've to be rich? Choi!


So take YOUR WIFE even to a bar once a month means you've to be rich but you've money to take a girlfriend out, hire a hotel and pay her bills? Then if he doesn't have money to spend on a once a month outing with his wife then why does he need a girlfriend?



Denying husband sex? What about men that deny their wives sex? Are they allowed to cheat?

Mstick:
Before you and you types misquote me lemme make you understand something perfectly. I never said you must take your wife out before sex. OK? I know it's Hard to grasp why you're not used to but romance plays a part in sex.

Mstick:
If you want to be logical then don't put words into my mouth. Am only responsible for what I write and not what you understand.

FreeSpirited:
You can feel good about yourself....We know why your angry about this brutal post......It been long you been taken on dates and holiday..and bla bla bla...you also want more money spray on your stale ass before u open ur legs for your hubby...I just pity what's he's going through.

At least your case is easy to solve....But unfortunately, people like you won't still tell her hubby why she's hurting but thinks denying a man sex will solve the problem. That's the big mistake....

Mstick:
If after reading my post and this is the conclusion that you can come up with then I can't help you. Sorry.

Mstick:
In the US I see couples with kids having date night. Some times they go on holiday alone and leave their kids with trusted family members.


But in Africa a man will sit comfortably his wife will wake up clean, cook, feed the kids, make him breakfast,wash before she will finish washing it's noon another round of cooking. Before she would bathe she still needs to feed the kids again meanwhile oga is sitting comfortably watching TV. You make dinner, serve him and feed the kids again, bathe them and make sure they are in bed and after doing all this, then you want to rest before alarm clock rings then he would start touching you. When you refuse then the next thing he wants to cheat. Ah ah oga please cheat!


Are you the first? Come on! Nigerian women are going through a lot jor.

victorian:
Don't mind them! They don't know what life is all about!

They think it's moi moi and crayfish.

For God sake! This is even his fiancee! A lady he has been fucvking, telling all manner of sweet things to. Whereas they are just empty words!
Because of 100k!
I say Love Na scam!
That's the pure truth, true love out there is like 2percent!

Most men value money than their loved ones and supposedly fiance or wives. Just too bad!

Even though I love money, I know people make mistakes and no one is a genius. I don't borrow bf money. Na dash I Dey dash! That's my motto. How much more a man I want to marry!

Money is meant to be spent, especially for that lady u claim u want to marry.

This money we are not taking it to heaven or hell. It's meant to be used on earth! Haba!

CaptainMitch:
2 of my close friends who recently visited Nigeria after relocating abroad have been telling me of how nice foreign ladies are and their lack of entitlement mentally. How can I befriend foreign ladies online

franchasng:
In Nigeria, 90% or more of ladies don't want to have sex unless they are forced, cajoled, lured into it using money, gifts, favors, fake promises of heaven and earth, promise of employment, promotion and even promise of marriage, and this is why no Nigerian woman can win any case of rape in any Nigerian court headed by a male Judge because they understand this situation that Nigerian women only have sex by force or by deceit, don't quote me, I am inside Church Choir practice

Ishilove:
For those saying the man should get a girlfriend, are women allowed the same option if their husbands are not meeting up?

Ilekokonit:
She doesn't love you any more. Get a mistress to avoid losing your respect by begging your wife flat mate for sex. One of the many things women don't understand is that they should respect any man that still "repeatedly" has sex with them after they've had 2 or more kids.

biz2get:
No Worry.

I know your type.

YOU GO SOON GET SENSE.

CONTINUE TYPING/TWISTING OUT OF CONTEXT.

biz2get:
No Worry.

I know your type.

YOU GO SOON GET SENSE.

CONTINUE TYPING/TWISTING OUT OF CONTEXT.

lefulefu:
hehe she go wait for the expensive trip and the expensive car till thy kingdom come. only ladies who stood for their men deserve to be spoiled .

princfred:
Somewhere along the line they started mistaking the respect men willing give, out of chivalry and good social sense, to be an unconditional entitlement. Without bringing them to light every now and then, they will live in delusion without true understanding of men.

princfred:
Somewhere along the line they started mistaking the respect men willing give, out of chivalry and good social sense, to be an unconditional entitlement. Without bringing them to light every now and then, they will live in delusion without true understanding of men.

Ryan03:
I have no issue with that, you just Dont demand for things like that, its Nobodys right, you earn it. Hence some men should stop demanding for respect like its their right, they have to earn it and to earn it, you have to give it.

bdchange:
Beauty can never be enough because there will always be someone more beautiful than you. Some ladies can go overboard because of their beauty but later realized that men can only like your fine face for show off not when it comes to marriage.

lefulefu:
ifaa hear ..wen blues don finish and reggea don start u will see all those babes wey dey claim strenght pass men dey abandon their post .reminds me of one incident wey one black long snake enter one of my neighbour room then the guy call my attention.i carry stick enter d guy room and together we begin search for d snake. i tell one other babe for d lodge make she pls help us watch d corridor if d snake come out and i give her stick wey she go use but na so d babe fling away d stick dey run and scream .dis na babe wey dey always claim her right with guys oo .in short na she run and scream pass the other babes ...for ordinary snake oo .na me and d other guy come take am upon ourselves to kill d snake cos no other guy dey for compound.

lefulefu:
u are very correct..the feminist na another group. U know i dey try imagine during dat chaos for titanic wen d officials come dey announce dat women and children first on the the lifeboats weda d feminists for struggle join d other women and kids... Or if rose was a feminist she for allow jack put her on top dat wood while im allow imsef freeze to death on d icey water?.

kitaatita:
Handcuff doesn't mean you've been arrested. It's to restrain you when they perceive that you may be violent or try to escape.

kitaatita:
He has not been arrested. He was invited by the Police to the Headquarters. Out of courtesy, he will visit the office of the IGP; before the IPO, most likely DIG Ops will sit down with him for proper interview. He may be required to make statement under caution and placed under arrest, if there is need.

Godsage:
Ronaldo effect
The guy too suffer for ororo hand.. Make e play with am small

Mayor08:
Why dont you want to accept it still an allegation... How will you feel when someone accuses you of rape and we all don't care to hear your story and pronounce you guilty.. Be careful cause it will go round.
When fulani herdsmen started in middle belt, we all weren't concerned till it got down south.. Reason before you speak

Humility017:
hmmm...I have told my lady not to try that with me...
I can't start forcing you and will never do.
if you don't want it.... simply tell me to stop and I will stop.
but don't tell me No and expect me to continue...
I was not trained that way...I take people words seriously.