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dyydxx:
Pastor David Ibiyeomie of Salvation Ministries

So, you mean no innocent people in any jail in the world. How are you reasoning like this?

dyydxx:
If you are framed it's very easy to prove yourself in court. Actually, it's very easy to get an acquittal in court if you are truly innocent because there wont be any solid evidence against you

Who told you these?

AmazonTopaz:
Stop looking for an issue where there is
Let the man do the needful it would not be so hard in Nigeria.
If you have nothing reasonable to add leave my mention.

You should be the one to leave my mention because you can't face the truth. You said, it's complicated for an innocent to be jailed, and I gave you an example. Australia with good system jail an innocent talk more of Nigeria. You don't need to be a rapist before you can be accused of rape.

EOD

dyydxx:
I said in the context of a wife/gf relationship not all these kobo kobo whores Neymar patronize , I mean ladies you have meaningful relationships with before it moves into sex

I don't want to be banned that's why I dont post the link.

dyydxx:
I said in the context of a wife/gf relationship not all these kobo kobo whores Neymar patronize , I mean ladies you have meaningful relationships with before it moves into sex

Really? Give me a moment.

dyydxx:
I dont know the full details of this case, I dont even know why he was jailed there doesnt seem to be any evidence of the so called assault. And the man should have been more vehement in his defense. You need to go offensive. it's why I like Donald Trump

The same story was on the front page on nairaland last year.

dyydxx:
Neymar doesnt have a history of that and he backed up his claims with evidences to prove otherwise. He has sued her now. Let fatoyinbo sue her too, that's what innocent people do.

I brought Neymar into the picture when you said that a girl you have a consensual sex with cannot frame you of rape, which is not true.

AmazonTopaz:
Let the man do the needful to clear his name would not be complicated if he is innocent.
Your question does not concern the issue but yes the judicial system is flawed and there could be a miscarriage of justice.

What of this guy?

dyydxx:

well if it's truly consensual she can't turn around and say that. That's the thing. I ve heard several wives even say they didnt feel like having sex with their husbands but they wanted to satisfy him so let him have his way. So they allowed it, not because they were pleased but still allowed it. Like let him do and go. it's delicate I agree but if a lady allows you in those circumstances is very different from the one that resists you and after you are done the person is scarred and hates you immediately.

Wetin did you say? Neyma own nkor?

AmazonTopaz:
He can sue her to provide evidence and if she does not he is presumed innocent why is it so hard for him to do that.
Is he scared that other victims might come out

There are lot of people that have been jailed for false accusations, which means if they sued for defamation, they would have been jailed for the same offense.

What do you have to say about this?

Humility017:
I tell you...I continued but had to stop when I noticed her facial expression and she telling me I was making her uncomfortable.
she was not too happy that day with me..in my room..her countenance wasn't that good.

only for me to call her later in the evening to apologize for that mix up....she said it was no thing and she had no problem with what I was doing, she never meant what she said..and I asked her countenance..she said that's how she puts her face whenever she is being touched.



we really need to define what is RAPE and make Nigeria women and men understand it broadly

Hmmmm. Make we just be careful. Any girl wey de do any resistance na to leave her alone ooo because I don't read mind. If she like make she go call me an impotent after she don leave my side na she know.

dyydxx:
Definitely I agree with you, although I understand his point. There are some ladies that say leave me, dont touch me and still lead you on and actually want it but put up slight reisistance at the beginning and that's what he's saying. that you persists in those circumstances isn't RAPE but that is very different from the other scenario where the whole body, soul and spirit of the lady in question dont want your adavnces but yet you continue and take advantage of her. There's a difference

But the same girl can accuse you of rape and she will win in Court of law because she said, "leave me and don't touch me" and you go ahead and do it. You're a rapist too. She will tell you in court of law that she told you to leave her alone and you shouldn't touch her but you continue. If they asked you did she say so and you say yes, you are a goner. You see how consensual sex has changed to rape right in front of you.

Humility017:
respecting a woman's NO is the major reason why I have never slept with any lady in my relationships till date...

now I have wish to stay till married even my current girlfriend told me NO I SHOULD STOP when I was romancing her... only to tell me later that she never meant it.

I was just shocked...

My broda, to me, I see it as mental illness. Just imagine what you just said.

dyydxx:
How can he not sue her for defamation if he's truly innocent. In a court case, the onus will be on Busola to prove her statements and then he too can call his witnesses and have his own history bared out. Problem is a defamation case risks bringing out more ladies that will support Busola's case...we already have 5 cases now you can be looking at 30 in a court case. So he's definitely guilty.

LOL. There are lot of people that have been jailed for false accusations, which means if they sued for defamation, they would have been jailed for the same offense.

AmazonTopaz:
Otondo did Neymar not respond with enough evidence and the police took action
By doing that do you not know he cleared his name

I go by your logic.

You didn't make mention of evidence. Let's assume he didn't have evidence and he didn't sue her for defamation. Will you say he's guilty because he didn't do so?

Humility017:
to be honest with you...if we really go with this...most Nigeria men are rapists.

that's how many guys sleep with ladies for the first time....there will tell you that a lady's NO means...No don't stop I like it..

No mind that guy jare. A girl once called my guy okobo (impotent) because the girl said no and the guy stopped. The following morning the girl's friends started making jest of the guy because she told them inside our department that the guy was afraid of taking her cloth off. If no be say we know say our friend get record we would have believed her.

E be like say this thing na mental illness for naija girls. Why you go want something but you go need a little force or sweet talk or need to be begged for it.

AmazonTopaz:
Since the accuser cannot file charges the onus is on the accused to clear his name

Going by your logic, Neyma didn't sue for defamation, therefore is a rapist.

LilMissFavvy:
Their young wives may cheat on them. Some of them die of heart attack during sex, it happens. They should be ashamed that money is what is keeping the young women stuck to them, not love or need of companionship.

LOL. How many Nigeria women marry for love? Very very very few. Most women marry for comfortability. I mean they marry the kind of man that can secure their future and their children's future If you see a rich dude that have been in Canada for years, and he comes to Nigeria and both of you meet by chance. This guy is ready to marry you and takes you with him to Canada. And at that moment, you are already in a relationship with a guy and you love him but he's not ready to marry you because he's broke, you won't think twice before you dumb him.

LilMissFavvy:
Just do a little findings. It's all about enhancement drugs. The women in their lives are after the money, not love. The old men die, off, the young ladies make a fortune and their lives begin.

But they've lived a fulfilled life, which is fvck young p**sy. Whatever their women do after they died is none of their business because they are gone. The main purpose is they Bleep young p**ssy at old age with Grey public hair. .

What a fulfilled life.

E be like say thunder Wan fire all these senators. Dem wan set up committee after overwhelming evidence. The senator that supposed to be dismissed and jailed within 24 hours of that video.

majamajic:
Messi should go and sit down !!

Ronaldo is far better than him

if Ronaldo is with this same team for the past 15 yrs am sure of at least 1 world cup and about 3 Copa ,

Argentina team is always better than any Portuguese team,

They have the best attackers in the world

What of women that masturbate to guys picture? Abi na only men de masturbate?

cococandy:
What if almost every lady is indeed a rape victim.

Is it impossible given the society we live in?

Or you just have a problem with them saying it because it makes y’all have to confront a problem you’d rather ignore

With your analogy, which means your father is a rapist, your husband is a rapist, your brothers are rapists. All the male in your family and extended families are rapist. Your sons will become rapists.

Oya judge yourself.
How do you sound?

cococandy:
Just don’t rape and no one will call you out

But someone called neyma out?

Starboytwo:
All those bet9ja fix people don't talk much,they only come here post their "wahrah something" and follow few people, could they be rich

You're crazily mad

Iyajelili:
Don't run more than your shadow. Why don't you verify what I wrote first before asking this question?

You need to give more explanation on what you mean by first hand information. First hand information comes from both the accused and the accuser. If anything happens btw them whether rape or consensual sex, no one knows because nobody was there.
Busola, the accuser has given her own first hand information and it remains Biodun to give his own first hand information. Any information that does not come from these two people is second hand information. Unless someone plants cctv on their bodies during that time.

Iyajelili:
Those of you saying it is just an allegation and that he(Biodun) might be innocent, please check KWARA MUST CHANGE handle on Facebook and read the write up about Busola/Biodun story.
Oh my lordy lordy!!! You'll see lots of first hand information about the incident

Oh, you meant the people on that page were there when he raped her but they couldn't stop him. Those people are wicked oo

bigmic111:
the policy should be CHILDREN FIRST. after all children are evacuated then all hell can break loose. every man and woman for himself.

God go bless. Unlike children then women and then men will be the last in life threatening situations for survival. No!!!
The same women that men sacrifice their lives for will go into the society and start dragging equality with the remaining men when it comes to political appointments, office job and all kinds of juicy work in the society and start telling the men that they are equal.
It should be children first and then men and women can fight for survival. No one should sacrifice their life for each other since we're equal.

Poseidon000:
Is as much as I dislike feminism, I still find the action of those men crass and a reflection of cowardice.
whether you're the parent of those kids or not. it's stultifying to abandon little kids in such dire situation, when ineluctable burden of necessity calls.



their action is weeping testament of lack of scruple
let's not allow our aversion for feminism loose our sense of humanity, or abdicate our duty as responsible adults-do not misconstrue my assertion-i'm not saying that you shouldn't save yourself-but atleast, unsure the safety of the kids who have a lower chance of survival, then save yourself and leave the feminist to their equality. lol

So, what's stopping the women from sacrificing their own life for the children. You should remember that what a man can do a woman can do better.
When it comes to life threatening situations they will throw out equality through the window and expect men to sacrifice their life for them but they can't do the same. But when it comes enjoyment like sharing of money, working in a place without no stress, they will be shouting equality and they are being victimized. Are they not being self-centered?
They want equality and at the same time want the previlge the society gives them. My brother, they can't have both so they will have to choose between the two, which is equality or privilege.

E be like say this rape allegation go reach everybody with the people that support rape allegations without no proof and the people that don't support rape allegation without no proof.

Now that some women are claiming that they are raped with just DM and also invitation to hotel room without going to the hotel room as rape evidence.

I just pity some male nairalanders that love to DM women.

Ma just sit here de look.