A dirty guy is not a spec, I pity ladies that marry them. As a guy, you should know how to do house chores and cook because it is not a specific gender duty
Versitee: I have been feeling like my husband has been cheating on me with our neighbors daughter. She is just about 23 years.
Yesterday which was Sunday, I went to our neighbors house around 6pm to ask if I could use their oven.
Their compound is not fenced so I just walked in straight to their backyard if I would see the man's wife.
I overheard this girl making a call. Apparently she was the only one at home and she wasn't expecting anyone.
She was asking the man over the fone who was sexualy better between his wife and her.
My attention was arrested immediately. I stopped to hear more of the conversation. When I had enough, I made my presence known. She quickly hung up and tried to put up an innocent face.
I also pretended like I heard nothing, I asked to use the oven and left . Getting back home, I was worried if that was my husband that girl was talking to, so I decided to find out.
I got my husbands fone later that night and went through the call log. The time that girl was making that call was few minutes past 6. I checked my husbands fone and there was a number he called around that time.
The number was not saved on the fone so I decided to call that number on my own fone and my true caller identified the number as "Vicky hookup".
Guess what, the girls name is Victoria.
I was surprised because I have the girls number saved on my fone. But I guess the number I have is for her family and friends. The one my husband has is for clients.
I opened his WhatsApp and found no chat with the girl, so I decided to check his telegram. ( Normally I don't like telegram so I never open it on either my fone or husband's)
My husbands telegram was locked. I was surprised cos that is the only app locked on his fone.
To cut the long story short, I found a way to open the app, and I saw his chat with that girl.
It pains me to say that my husband has been having sex with that girl without protection.
I want to go for HIV test tomorrow. Please how do I confront my husband about this.
Also I am scared I might be infected with an sti.
My advice for you is to focus on your life, if you have a child, let that child be your main priority. If you put men matter for head too much, na the child go feel the consequences (God forbid). Let him know that you know what he is doing, Yes CONFRONT HIM but not violently. Men are naturally promiscuous, if you know this, you will have peace of mind. There was a time I told my guy to be moving with CD, I can't allow someone to put me in trouble. You can tell him that, also be praying for him. Go for the test and if he doesn't stop, let him use CD before touching you. STI is real Your mental health is important, if he doesn't change, follow your heart. I no dey put mouth for couples matter.
dkidd: Example if me and u are arguing and u even ur my girl do u know u can run to anywhere and claim rape. Maybe devil want come punish me we had consensual sex I'm done for.
2. People (men) are always ready to give u favours and u really don't have to do much to get that. Just fine small and be accommodating. Na u go tire for simps waiting to please u daily. From internet and cable subs to lunch and dinner etc
3. By general societal standarts men have to be the ones to initiate contact if there is interest and must accept rejection graciously so most women get to pick and chose, and most men don’t. All u have to do is just sit pretty and expect the world 🌎
4. Public Confrontations: Women are more often seen as the defendant in male vs. female confrontations. Men are usually seen as the aggressor. So a woman can yell at you but the second you raise your voice as a man, someone will come in and ease you off of the woman. She’s always right, until everything is cleared up.
5. Sexual Harassment: Cases of sexual harassment against men are taken far less seriously than it is for women. It is also socially acceptable for women to feel men’s arms and chests, but if we so much as brush a boob then that’s a lawsuit and defamation... Even here some stupid simps will make fun out of any guy who cries out being assaulted by a girl and say he's a liar.
6. Female Privilege: Males are always seen as a potential threat whereas women are not. For men, just walking down the street we make people tense. The police stop us for just looking good or driving neat cars but u don't hear of police stopping a lady and asking her to open her phones or being suspect for fraud or any of those vices even though they (women) still play the games. That said, women have more freedom to roam without getting shot or harassed by the police. Unlike us we might go out and never return back home because of one trigger loving police.
I can go on and on but ponder upon those.
That's little compared to what men are benefiting in the society. Thank God for education, women are knowing how to speak up to say what they want.
dkidd: Okay but the western culture does support women over men. In fact it suppresses the man. So allow us enjoy our privileges in Africa in peace and besides even our society here is also biased towards women. There are things so many things a woman can do and get away with for free and a man can't dare it. Make we still breath small. Let men breathe
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dkidd: But u know I'm only doing what u ladies do on here when ever a guy complains like this op. And btw I don't cheat or support cheating I only want u people to know how it feels to be blamed all the time and u can't even take it a little
The society supports whatever actions a man do whether positive or negative. It's not the same with women that's why women are starting to talk down on men's actions. I am sure if she should report him to his parents, they will advise her to endure it or even tell her that he is capable of marrying another wife. African culture doesn't favour women, men thinks they can do anything they like
dkidd: Lol.. I like how y'all are feeling it. U think ur the only ones that can type anyhow. If it was a man who is complaining u would not be typing all of this. Ur first words would have been he's too insecure or not doing something right but here y'all are mentioning me for giving u a dose of ur agbo... A married man might be chatting a hookup girl for many other reasons apart from sex. U can't conclude until u have caught him doing exactly just that which u claim. Otherwise na assumption u dey
Shut up and listen to yourself. Oh, maybe she has a contract or business deal for him abi. If he has any other business aside szx, he would have involved his wife. I pity women that marry men like you tho
dkidd: How do u know they're having sex? So because he chats someone named Vicky hookup and ur neighbors name is Victoria now means she's the same person U are just an insecure woman. Try to be more tolerant and trust ur husband more. If u still believe they're both knacking each other then get concrete evidence instead of jumping into conclusions because of ur insecurities
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Men will always defend their sins, if it's a man that narrated that his wife is cheating, the world would have ended. Why should a married man be chatting with a hookup girl if not for szx?
Solofresh2: Brother it's not even about mummy's boy.Woman don show my uncle shege for this life no be small
I pity the lady if she date you with this mentality of yours. Send me her contact let me advice her to stop all the flirting because it doesn't worth it. Because one lady broke your uncle's heart, doesn't mean all ladies are the same.
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Romance › Re: Something I Noticed About Some Guys by labake1(f): 1:36pm On Sep 13, 2023
Na dirty man needs woman, isn't it?
U are just an insecure woman. Try to be more tolerant and trust ur husband more. If u still believe they're both knacking each other then get concrete evidence instead of jumping into conclusions because of ur insecurities