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I left home with proper orientation before I left home for camp. I was not a victim of such... I served gallantly representing my platoon, formal host for the OBS (Orientation Broadcasting Service). Same Anambra state 2010 batch B.

Most Nairalanders only read the topic and comment right away. True or False?

Mr. GEJ, you no get conscience o. Lies!!!

nellyme:
A friend of mine just put to bed a bouncing baby boy. I went visiting and we got to discuss a lot of things. She told me a lot of things...(I'm keeping ma mouth shut)....what got me concerned was that she said she had intercourse with the husband cos he insisted. At first I was shock but I feigned ignorant of that...when I left her I got to do a lot of research and decided to share it here cos I think der might be people in similar situation.
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Here are some questions I considered:
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Is a mother able to have intercourse with her husband while she is still nursing her baby?
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What effect does the mother's milk have on the child if she has intercourse while she is breast feeding?
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How long should she wait after birth before she can have relations with her husband?
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***i also heard somewhere that a woman doesn't dare give milk to her child once she has begun to have sexual relations. If she does it, the child will become sick and even die***
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The answer I was able to deduct from my research was : "Yes, a mother is able to have intercourse with her husband while she still nurses her baby, providing they wait for a few weeks after birth until her organs are back to normal."
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REASONS:
1. It takes from 4 to 6 weeks after birth for a woman's uterus to return to its normal state. There is a red discharge from the uterus after the baby is born which is called the lochia. It lasts about two weeks and tends to flow most when the mother is nursing her baby. Later the lochia becomes a lighter colour and then it finally stops.
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2. The father's sperm cannot enter into the milk and cause the baby to get sick.
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MY ADVICE:
The best way a father should show his love to his child is to love the baby's mother. Mothers Please don't abstain from sex totally during breast feeding because it pushes the impatient husbands to infidelity and fathers do not rush your wives, give them time to heal.
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CLOSING REMARK:
It is even true that mothers who breast-feed their babies are more interested in returning to active intercourse with their husbands as soon as possible after birth. They want to express the love and gratitude which they have in their hearts for the father of their child.
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Cheers!!!
I rest my case
But what do you think

Are you educating us or you want to learn?

denkyw:
'and you to'. * and you too*

Hahahaha.

denkyw:
gbaguan!!, what are this, common English you cannot even spoke

...And you to, what is 'gbaguan'. *gbagaun*

Am I the only one seeing Obanikoro's foot wear ni?

Hehehehe... Orubebe, We can not continue!!!
You are bias!!!
You are tribalistic!!!

You are welcome sha. No ministerial office await you though. .

Don't be discouraged by whatever you're starting with. I started my job career with Strategic Outsourcing Limited(SOL) too until I decided to go do something of my own. The good part of the whole deal with them is that they always check their data base and still call you up when better thing comes up.

Girl or woman?

Hanhan! She did not mention Nairalanders nah. If you are not cool with it, readher tweet and read on.

shaboti:
Dunno why guys are so full of themselves. Am sure girls are not complaining, why complain for them ?

Which useless mod brought this to fp

What's your own gender gan sef??

Another way to reach out to Nairaland chick's abi? #FreeAdvert... continue o.

Abi dem attach ATM for the suit ni??

Na Jonathan go change? If Yes, then what has he been before, BAD? Answer with your conscience biko.

viqueta:
they told my cozin the same thing in Enugu after making him undergo series if rigorous trainings and tests, he complained to my dad who happens to be the one helping him and my dad called deir "oga at the top" who inturn promised to intervene ASAP. But that tin no fair o

#teamISabiSomebody.

I've heard numerous stories about this akudaya but i will share 1 that really shocked me.

A young man who happened to be the only son of his parents died miserably. Though i wasn't told where he died or how he died. He was the heir to the fathers wealth as the only son.

The man was said to have established a business booming with lots of customers in lagos(why always lagos?).... He also got married but not legally to a pretty young lady there and they had kids...

When the young man sensed his time of existence as partial human was coming to an end, he talked to his wife about seeing his parents (i still ask myself, why now?). The wife agreed. They were few distant away from home before the man came up with excuse.... He told his wife he needed to get some items from the market. He gave the wife direction on how she'd be able to locate their main house. The wife with the kids kept going. On reaching the house, the mother of the man saw them and asked if they were looking for some one. The lady described whom they were looking for and coincidentally, she was speaking to the mother in-law.... The lady told her that she's the wife of her son... The old woman, amazed by what she heard couldn't believe it.... She took the lady to the place where the man was buried and told her that he died a long time ago.... The lady was skeptical and decided to call her husband on phone but it wasn't through.... That was how the man disappeared into thin air till today.

The question i still ask myself is - Are the kids half man-half spirit?

Naija film aiye.

maingwaest: My baby's first word was DADDY.

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So your wife call you daddy??

Chai! Those cramming era when you can only read but can't 'finger point' at the words.

Joke or not joke, na only foolish person go believe am. I got bc for salt and warm water and some 'depe' even include psalm 91(oluwa gbogun ti awon to n gbogun timi) www.foolishness.com

hensben: abeg nah who sing "aye" by davido?

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Na Fashola ft. Jonathan

If you're nursing the impression of adding it to ya CV, Nna you better drop it.

I saw it coming sha. I hope he's not sha coming to politics someday.

Funny enough, I can still call you daddy and still wouldn't give you your due respect.

I got this bc from a friend. Heheheh....You sabi Maths abi? Oya carry your biro and calculator and work this out. . .I need an urgent answer to a question that's been bothering my mindIf APGA + CPC + ANPP + ACN = APCand EFCC + ICPC + NPF + GEJ + JEGA = PDP,Find,(a) Using Pythagoras theorem prove that: PDP <APC.(ii) Using Almighty Formula where JEGA isconstant what is the value of PDP?(b) If Tinubu and Buhari remains constant andOkorocha varies, what is the coefficient value ofOkorocha in APC?(c) If PDP is constant, what is the cube root ofrigging coefficient? Where pi= 16 > 19(d) Use the Do or Die theory & explain all the answers above before 2015.NO CHEATING. Your time starts now....

I got this bc from a friend. Heheheh....You sabi Maths abi? Oya carry your biro and calculator and work this out. . .I need an urgent answer to a question that's been bothering my mindIf APGA + CPC + ANPP + ACN = APCand EFCC + ICPC + NPF + GEJ + JEGA = PDP,Find,(a) Using Pythagoras theorem prove that: PDP <APC.(ii) Using Almighty Formula where JEGA isconstant what is the value of PDP?(b) If Tinubu and Buhari remains constant andOkorocha varies, what is the coefficient value ofOkorocha in APC?(c) If PDP is constant, what is the cube root ofrigging coefficient? Where pi= 16 > 19(d) Use the Do or Die theory & explain all theanswers above before 2015.NO CHEATING. Your time starts now....

I am sure this must be after he had received serious scolds from Tinubu... yeye man. He wan to scatter APC market.

I don't know what age has got to do with marriage... but for the later years when then depreciation is now unbearable.

Lol, it's kinda "Africanish" sha. I could still remember Segun Arinze slapping a boy on my street for calling him by his name saying "am I your mate"??

Y'hello Nairalanders. Seriously, it is kind of crazy how people would prefer to be addressed as bro "this" or auntie(sister) "that".... to me it's very embarrassing when I younger person does and still take offence when a "too younger" calls me by my name too. "Almighty Nairalanders" please, let's share how we do feel, please.

JMOI: 1. Yes, but it's contextual. When you are wishing somebody well like, "Hope you are fine", you don't add a question mark. But when it comes in form of a request or a direct question like the example you gave above, a question mark should end it.
2. "Made of" should be used when the thing comprises mainly of that material you are talking about, in such a way that if the process is reversed, you can get that material back. For example, a cup is made of plastic (when reversed you can get plastic back), a chair is made of wood (you can get the wood back is you take the chair apart), etc. "Made from" is used when there are several materials involved and you are referring to one of them, and when you reverse it you can't get that material back. For example, bread is made from flour, if you reverse bread you won't get flour back. "Made with" can be used interchangeably with "made from".

You are not making a complete sense here as you didn't make any reference(s) to the rules of grammar that best explain this. The mentioned problems are prepositions; made of, made from, made with. Made of means; the components the were put together to make that particular thing. Made from means; the source at which the particular item is made and made with means the items made along with the particular item. I wish I can buttress my point ooo. Chai!