tunbosun002:
Who is in love with me ooo? Say it or remain silent forever�

Openbusiness:

✓ ... U too mush

Xmuslim:
So I have known these two contradictory hadith about Allah permanent location.

On says Allah lives on his throne in the seventh heaven

The other says (indirectly that he lives in the lowest heaven (see below)

Where is Allah location?

Xmuslim:
I use to think Qur'an has been preserved word for word when I was a Muslim. The Muslim cleric knows that this is a lie but they never say it in the public.

Check these little indications that invalidate the so called Qur'an preservation

The OP seems to be a confused soul with a poor Intelligent Quotient (IQ) .
Its either you dont understand English or you are begining to portray symptoms of brain hemorrhage (BH).
(no insults intended).

Please learn the differences and meaning of the terms; "verses" and "Qur'an"
"Verses" were not promised to be preserved. The "Qur'an" was promised to be preserved and so it is.

Xmuslim:
Allah could not even preserve the Qur'an as he promised. Where is the greatest

https://www.nairaland.com/5951651/quran-preservation-mere-claim

Xmuslim:


I'm no more a Muslim, but I have answer to your question.

Shaving children hair and killing animal as a sacrifice on behalf of the baby is a popular pegan pre-Islamic practice.

Muhammad/Islam adopted the practice with little modifications

1. Muslim kill the animal on the seventh day after birth
2. Muslim don't stain the head of the baby with the blood of the animal like the pegan use to do.

Summary

It is a culture that Muhammad met in his community and adopted into his religion. But many today's Muslim do not know and they are not ready to modernise their Islam to suit the current century because they are afraid of hell fire. Maybe they think their God is brutal

tintingz:
I often hear muslims saying Allah is the greatest which is "Allahu Akbar" on a daily bases.

Is there any "evidence" and "logic" connecting to Allah being great or the greatest apart from the "claims" in the Qur'an and Hadith? Proof what measure his greatness.

It's only Muslims that's making Allah the greatest, take Muslims away and no knows about Allah being great. Anybody can claim anything is the greatest under faith and beliefs, so what evidence and logic makes Allah the greatest?

Your post is dead on arrival

Has anyone forced you to call Allah the "Greatest" ?
Has anyone stopped you from calling/giving yourself the name/title of an "Atheist" ?
Have you for once been arrested by any police for not calling Allah the greatest ?
It is a free world, if you like, call your father the greatest. Everyone has rights to his/her beliefs.

If curiosity demands you to know why Muslims call him "The Greatest", then become one.
Only naughty pigs use science (physical evidence, logic & theories) to approve religion (believe in unseen).
"Believes" are personal entities and can only be proven by "Self conviction"

Unwise post!

bukatyne:


1. What do you need a male 'bestie' for when you have a boyfriend?
2. Why have you refused to place a premium on yourself that your emotions and body becomes easy entry and exit for your boyfriend?

You are telling your boyfriend that your male friend is more available than him: are they playing same role in your life or why the competition?

You also know your boyfriend doesn't love you or value you. Yet, you will keep going off and on till you are stuck and get married to him.

You will now open a fresh moniker three years later wailing how your husband is scum.

As for your male friend, if he is not good enough for a relationship, stop investing too much emotions in that friendship.

Rozz:
I will not take side,you should have just allowed him read whatever he wants to read in your phone since you know you are not hiding anything,all men have problems of insecurity in relationships,your actions just trigger it the more.what are you even doing with a male bestie when you already have a fiancee

lecturerdabo:
I am surprised most people are harping on "opposite sex besties"!

Is there any law against that?

I've had a female best friend for close to a decade now. we are both married though she was single when we started even till date my wife refers to her as my first daughter.

THE KEY IS TO ALWAYS DEFINE THE BOUNDARIES FROM THE BEGINNING!!!

@Op, If everything you wrote there is the truth, I will posit that your boyfriend should be allowed to go cos there is nothing as bad in a relationship as trust issues! When once to partner cannot trust you, the relationship is ruined!!

Seems he enjoy having you run after him and begging to be accepted. If he can afford to ignore you for months without reason when you are neither married nor living together, imagine what will happen when he starts waking up every morning to see your face! I may be wrong but...

Tiredagain:




Believe me, if he had lived up to the expectation I needed in the relationship, I won't be in the mess of the bestie/friendship brouhaha.. He knows that i am introvert and hardly mingle with people and that been said, I have told him times without number that i wish that he knows so much a lot about me and what i am capable of doing if something rises up about me..

Palema007:
Tiredagain please leave your unstable boyfriend alone, a person that ghost you at will is very unstable and unreliable. He knows you love him so much and he is acting on it. What would become of you if you lose your friendship only for him to go for months without communication. Please I don't know why you still stick in that 'situationship' because what you are into isn't a relationship. Let him go and find a better person you both can connect.

However, when you are in a new relationship with a reliable guy then accord him his respect by reducing your closeness with your bestie. I wish you luck and peace.

Sixfeetbelle:


And you don't female friends?

Tiredagain:

So recently, after making up with my fiance, he wanted to meet up with me after so many months, I obliged, only for him to request for my phone, I gave him voluntarily, as he was going through it, he wanted to open the chat I had with my best friend but I forcefully collected the phone from him. I tried talking him out that there's nothing going on between me and my colleague but he assumed and concluded that something is going on between us . He said that my attitude shows that I value my best friend more than him but i tried proving him wrong because some many times, I needed his attention he wasn't there and my best friend is the only one who knows everything and vice versa.. He told me right through my eyes that it is over.

karo93:



Nigerian leaders have been heavily cursed by Nigerians but their lives are not different from that of the average nigerian; Babangida Abdulsalami Obasanjo buhari are enjoying long life and riches. If they are very religious then they definitely believe God is blessing them and showering them with love. But Abacha is dead and it seems like God punished him

tintingz:


I've read about over 30 religious and you know what they all claim? "I'm the right one and others are wrong"

So yours cannot be right.

tintingz:


Tell me a brief one here.

tintingz:


What if you're wrong?

How can you possibly know you're wrong when you haven't read other mythical books?

What makes you pick only Islam?

tintingz:


I'm asking you why do you believe Muhammad is right when there are similar claims of his myths in other religions and cultures?

Why do believe Muhammad rode on a flying donkey and Harry Potter didn't rode on a flying broom stick? What's your conviction?

tintingz:


What if you're wrong?

How can you possibly know you're wrong when you haven't read other mythical books?

What makes you pick only Islam?

tintingz:


What about reading Harry Potter book? Have you done that to know the truth about his magic?

Have you read all the mythical books? How did you arrive that Muhammad is right?

Do you know how many religions & mystical claims that exist? thousands
There is more to life than seeking whats not lost. I am contented with Islam.

tintingz:


Respecting someone's claim is another thing as long as you keep it fairytale to yourself but saying it's the true is another thing.

You can't go about making true claims of your imaginations and don't expect people to demand for proof? What if the person claim his God command him to kill children?

tintingz:


No, I'm demanding proof from the person that made the claim. He made a claim, he should proof it or keep his fairytale to himself.