₦airaland Forum

dominique:
Always going for fatties and ancestors, how bad do you have to be that no other sets of foreign women want you apart from the rejects? No wonder they're always angry when they see our girls getting hooked to younger finer men. No wonder they poured their anger on the poor lady that posted here that she's dating a Polish guy as if she's the reason why cuter foreign ladies want nothing to do with them

Honestly we need to encourage our sisters to date more outside our race, the pictures of Nigerian ladies i have have seen have been young cute couples. I clicked this thread and said let it not the the usual but na the usual .

These boys keep shouting green card, so i ask is it that marrying younger white woman wont get them that same green card or younger white women will smell their golddigging miles away. Lol.

deuzgreat:
there are alot of minority groups in the North, theyvare not Hausa and they are suffering. The Hausa Fulani are the minority yet they have imposed themselves on the majority of small tribes in the North

who allowed it? Shey they called them their brothers. While i feel for the minority groups, but you cant save a person who doesn't want to be saved.

ornicus:
i thought someone was suing the BBC?

i thought the university was claiming the people were not students and so no harm, no foul?

the BBC only showed the icing on the cake. i do not want to imagine what clips fell onto the cutting room floor.

by the time you get all these jokers in a meeting proper, with possible videos of some of these guys demanding bjs or some such, their eye go clear.

because bbc is not a voyeuristic tabloid type channel

lol ,i thought i was the only one who still remembers this. I guess the ghanians were trying to form saint as usual ,but fowl yansh don already blow.lol

fk002:
I don't care which region you came from but all know is no sane Yoruba would have written what you wrote hence that made me conclude that you came from the erosion ravaged side

let me leave this with you "assumptions are for fools".lol

fk002:
Thats what I said about SE, until I found out that NYSC posted me to IMO I was shocked and scared to the marrow because all I heard about SE was that they are savages and hostile.

I just went there finished my 3 weeks camp and relocated back to Abuja ASAP.

Truth to be told, After I finished my NYSC camp I promised myself never to set foot on SE soil again by God grace and I am fulfilling the promise.

Not because of the people (I made lots of nice friends and we are still talking on phone) but because of the environment

And what has SE got to do with me ? Your innate bigoted self must think i am from there so you cant start your normal jamboree , Lol take your nonsense elsewhere MR man ,i served in jos so there is nothing you want to tell me that i don't know,wait o is it not the same abuja they are collecting bitcoin as ransom ? Lol.

Like i said ,you northerners would rather derail the topic ,so na una know ,if the north likes let it burn ,not my business. Infact i must commend the security agents in the north ,they are doing a great job.

North

I will refrain myself not to cry more than the bereaved. The northerners on this forum will avoid this thread like a plague ,if you talk too much now they will say its blasphemy. Make una kwontinu .One thing is sure nothing will take me and any member of my family to the north,lol

vicardino:
I have many things to say but just being lazy to articulate them. People are beginning to realize that a "society made man" isn't the right template for the desired man but a "kingdom man", I don't mean a believer or a church goer but a kingdom made man.

no man should be the source of your travails, rather he should be by your side while both of your battle the storms pf life together. This got me

whenever you are able to ,you can Say it all.

ednut1:
same everywhere. Even on a facebook have u read comments by pple who are not even faceless

i don't even use facebook anymore that was after unfollowing alot of people.

ednut1:
See that one bashing nairaland . Ndi ala

but did he lie tho? Isn't nairaland a place where the most appalling comments get the more likes? Commenters as far back as 2005 - 2010 have all turned to guest viewing mode cos the forum is now a free for all sociopaths and Sadists to thrive.

Lets not even talk about useless sponsored topics that is pushed to fp.

maximunimpact:
Do you know in the dark ages church fathers crucify unbelievers on torture stakes, sanction wars and committed all manner of crimes against humanity all in the name of Christ?

Today reverse is the case, Muslims use jihad to kill infidels and declare anything against their faith as haram.

My point here is that both Christians and Muslims are all mad.

but you see these Muslims ,they refused to leave their madness behind ,till date they still practice honor killings. If that lady was from a very islamic country be rest assured that her father and brothers will come together to kill her to keep their family honor , its that bad . The book below show just how far these muslims will go in 2019 to keep their dogmatic religion.

Commentor:
Shatap.

I was originally a diamond bank account holder. Yet for months now, all I get are access bank reminders.

Charity my foot.

why not download an access bank app put in your details and lets see

sapele914:
Job men at work, no be only located, but blockaded, diamond bank account, does the bank still exist?

since you know so much maybe you can explain to everyone why my diamond mobile app still works .

I downloaded an access mobile app typed in my details and it didn't work. Una go just dey yarn any how ,dey misyarn the way una brain tell una , na wah o. Even for this kind situation, una go still bring una negativity come here ,na so una dey live una day to day life? Dey drain positivity from everybody wey surround una?

dalongjnr:
Yea,but depending on the culture. Mine,my great grandparents covered their bodies with leaves and later with animal skin(bante) or hemp fiber, then the modern cloths.

we are saying the same thing ,these forms of coverings were on the waist only.

dalongjnr:
The absorption of western culture.
Our mothers never wore something like this but they were way more beautiful.
A celebrity should be a role model but what can my daughter learns from this one! How to become ½ naked?

to be fair ,the western culture actually did the opposite. Below is an image from precolonial era.

dfrost:
Sis, thanks for your mention. I agree with everything you said. But don't you think it wasn't necessary to use the bolded words? You can still pass your message and believe me, I will understand. No need to insult. Back to the matter...

How long will he take care of the welfare of the kids? As per kidnap, I have kidnapped myself since, what is left again for someone to kidnap in Nigeria? Everyone is already a menace to the society, you and I.

The bolded, are you seriously asking me how long a father is supposed to cater for the welfare for his own kids? Lol ,nothing person nor go see for this nairaland.

In sane climes CPS will get involved ,but since na jungle we dey people will applaud it .smh

NwaAmaikpe:




I just hope that those who threw stones at her wore condoms on their hands.

this is the brain of a person with emotional intelligence, and you are nothing but a sadistic sociopath.

I am very sure that the people liking your appalling comments are the same people that were stonning her.

Nigerians sha ,very wicked superstitious people yet very religious ,only few still have empathy

eni4real:
Too mean!!!

i hope you be a first mentor to your daughter so she recognizes bad market men from afar, i hope you raise her well to have self esteem so she doesn't go out looking love in the wrong places and sticking around dead weights all in the name of being a strong woman. Goodluck to you.

eni4real:
which one??

money you nor get, fine you nor fine, tall you nor tall, even ordinary common sense you nor get ,why will i stick with such a lost cause? I forbid it for myself, my village people nor fit push me enter that kind one chance. Let the man go and reason his life first before coming to me.

eni4real:
Really??
Money over happiness , Okay o!!!

"Reason with me, if I no get today, I go get tomorrow"

i edited my comment ,reply to that.

eni4real:
Anyone can suffer from drug addiction...

Some ladies take alcohol like Breweries.. .

Some ladies are addicted to weed and Tramadol

I heard some youth are addicted to soakaway and pit Latrine in the North..

Addiction is a problem that can affect male or female youth depending on their upbringing.. The environment and friendship before marriage..

It is not just a male thing...

The wife persevered because she knew that her husband could get corrected...

Accolades to her...

But if she was not ready to go through that phase with him may be because she is not psychological strong enough, I won't blame her..
But for doing that, she deserves all the accolades!!!

lol ,this is what i call reverse psychology at its best . i have been trying to refrain myself from speaking the obvious since but let me just say ,you see that same woman, she abandoned her three children in Jamaica came to the US to stick with a drug addicted gangster for his money. You need to look up how much he gave her before he went to prison.

On this note ,i will only say, women if you must stick with an irresponsible man make sure its for the money o. Look at Annie idibia, look at chioma,look at other cases of women who stuck with their men after having numerous babies outside, these guys were not poor ,so my dear sisters, make sure if you want to cry because of a man he is making you do it in a Bugatti. Don't stick with a broke ass deadbeat who will use his last money to play visual and be expecting to win 70 million in his dreams


Money you nor get ,sense you nor get join,omo na life of misery be that o. Ladies be warned.

eni4real:
I didn't say Gucci case was mild.. I never said that...

I only said this Nigerian guy exhibit extreme irresponsibility.. Reason: He just left 4 children to his wife unattended to... No financial support, he even deny being their father.. And get angry once their names are mentioned..

That Gucci guy is a husband that was suffering from addiction and gangster problems..
At least his wife had a chance to persevere..

It was not mentioned anywhere that Gucci send his wife and children or does not want to have any relationship with them... He never resented his own children or put them on the street where they can be abused or killed...

May be you like to win argument but C'mon, you can't put this case and yesterday case on the same level.. .

I don't condone irresponsibility at all but Gucci's wife knew that she will pull through and it worked out for her..

She should be termed a strong woman for doing that!!!
Married women should settle this matter abeg

so according to you women should persevere with a drug addicted ex convict cultist that brings women to their matrimonial home. That way they can be termed as strong women.

OK that is all i wanted to hear.

eni4real:
The guy is still poor.. Is he buoyant enough to take care of 4 grown children??
The problem with this Nigerian version is that he does not want any relationship with the mother and the children...
4 children??

He is even denying the children as his own?? Who does that??

This is another level dear..

For a guy to create a post like this, you know that we are dealing with a shocking irresponsibility!!!

Sorry ,did you even read the post that he denied knowing them and chased them away when they came begging? Lol,Its OK,i just hope women wise up sha and stop babying grown men in the hopes they will change cos there are millions of men like this in Nigeria,but you choose to call it "shocking irresponsibility" as if its new to you or do i conclude that you have only lived in high end neighborhoods like banana island all your life hence the reason its is shocking to you. Lol

I asked you to reply me with how this mans case is extreme and Gucci's case is mild ,let me break it down for you ,now would you consider a cultist who has been sent to jail, smokes weed and even adds trams ,openly carries women to meet his wife at home a mildly irresponsible or extremely irresponsible?

eni4real:
Nice punch line
Take it easy on me..

This Nigerian guy is poor, went ahead to have 4 children that he can't take care of in this hard economy. .. Does not want anything concerning the mother and the innocent kids irrespective of any child abuse they all may suffered from strangers..

C'mon, this case is on another level... It is like a poverty and neglect version of yesterday case..

It is an extreme form of irresponsibility... Even if the wife has any iota of faith in him, she will never get a chance.

Did you read the part that this man works? He works for the OP and earns money so please lets leave poverty out of it, there are men out there probably earning less than him yet they take care of their kids .


Now back to my point ,can you tell me how his own case if different from Gucci's own ? Reply me with that please. So we can all learn which one is mild irresponsibility and extreme irresponsibility.

eni4real:
You missed the innocent children part??
What a way to be smart and less hypocritical??

exactly ,what kind of a father does that tho ?

eni4real:
This is an extreme case of irresponsibility... It is 100% different from what we discussed yesterday!!

wait ,so wild Gucci, publicly with other women Gucci, in jail gucci, on drugs gucci are not extreme cases of irresponsibility? Lol OK . I sure will remember to warn my future daughter about men like you so she grows up with high self esteem and never settle of deadbeats looking for who to fix them .

AntiBrutus:
Forget about those useless hypocrites that speak from both side of the mouth.

lol i just want to know what they have to say. Now the guy i quoted is already calling the woman fish brain ,Who knows how many days she must have fasted and prayed for him to change even the deadbeat is a very religious person o. Honestly ,women need to wake up ,stop trying to fix any man, geez what is his mothers duty for christ sake, na wah o. They were glorifying Gucci but this is one of the many cases that women's "he will change, i call change him" has landed them in ruins.

InvertedHammer:
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A lot of women find irresponsible and deadbeat men attractive. Talk to most divorcees. They will tell you that their ex-husbands are useless. Who chose those men? When reality of life sets in, they play victims. I refuse to believe that he became irresponsible after his fourth kid. Yet the wife kept opening her legs for him.
Don't be shocked that one or few of his girlfriends will end up getting pregnant too even though they know that he is a loser. Women are "special" breed.
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this is exactly what AntiBrutus and i said yesterday, who knows if the woman did have a "fix him " mentality like the Gucci story? We need to teach our daughters to value themselves more and not stick around with a man who does not have his sh1t together.

Women have been brainwashed to think they are a man's fixer, oh don't worry just marry him marriage will bring out the man in him , he will become more responsible when he settles down, you as a woman can make him change and so on . lol

He will change ,he will change that is probably how she ended up having 4 children for a dickhead but when a woman walks away from bullsh1t she is termed "not loyal" not mature enough to stick with her man .
If she stays she is regarded as a special breed of fish brain.lol eni4real , ericsmith , Korllami007 what do you guys have to say about this .

dfrost:
Bros, bros, bros... shey you go hear? Mind your business.

this is the problem i have with short sighted people like you in this Nigeria. Ask yourself what are the odds of kids like that making it in life? Those children if not redirected are ticking time bombs to their community. The eldest is already 15 ,soon cultists can see and entice him before you know it he is a hit man .

Destitutes like that are a menace to society, soon they will get tired of begging and start practicing with burglary who knows kidnapping. Be there and be saying mind your business until they grow up and kidnap you.

eni4real:
I like your first paragraph!!!

Just be yourself dear

Toke has nothing on you!!!

take care, enjoy the rest of your day.

BigJoe19:
So if get married, your husband must not make any mistake because you are not ready to tolerate anything, uhmmm....

once is a mistake but repeatedly is a pattern. On my part i am sure i wont make a mistake that will cause him bodily harm or put his mental health at risk,so expect same from his either ,those types of mistakes are not mistakes but pattern toxic behaviors.