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DragonFire433:
There are still good men in Nigeria.

The man does not have to be Rich but he should possess a good heart.

The fact that there are demons everywhere does not mean holy angels are no more existing.

The fact that there are bad wives in Nigeria does not also mean that good women are not in Nigeria.

There is a difference, one is a national anthem and the other is not, and there is a reason for that , the Nigerian society prepares the female child on how to be a wife , compared to men who found out how to be husbands on their own journey.

Hence the reason why you have more women having to put up with marriage than men .

Juliearth:
What is your definition of support?
Support doesn't have to be monetary and even if it is, what is wrong with that?


If you think a woman's support emasculates you, then you need to have a mental overhaul.

this kind of men will never allow their wives progress more than them. Infact it's hard to find a Nigerian man without this mentality tho.

DragonFire433:
Again I can see that you came to your conclusion from a general discussion.

Do not generalize.

Are you saying that there are no go man out there. ?

Abeg leave matter for Mathias.

There are men that would die for their wife. I challenge you to do your research on this.

Haven’t you heard of Nigerian men that donate their kidneys just to save their wife. If you have not heard, I know at least two of such people

Once again do not generalize

If that is so,who then are the husbands of these women who keep chanting the national anthem of " I am staying for the kids " even wives of rich men o.

Rapsodee:
Forget that one....A large percentage of women have no where to go and only use children as excuse to stay, how many percentage of Nigerian women do you think are independent of their husbands?

I read a thread on Nairaland about an husband beating his wife everyday, yet the wife refused to leave the marriage. Such wife will claim she is taking those beatings because of children when in reality, her life is totally nothing without that man.

And do you also know the percentage of women who pay the bills of the house hold yet cover it up just to massage the ego of their husbands .


Some Nigerian women would rather die as Mrs ,and it's nauseous. They have been so brain washed by religion and culture .smh

DragonFire433:
You Dey mind that one ?

Her comments alone, reveals her upbringing and where she is coming from.

On the contrary, I am a realist,I have seen both worlds and I think Nigerian women still have a long way to go.A country where there is still a case of female inheritance in court.

Nigerian women are continuously castigated on this forum daily ,but the truth is what Nigerian women tolerate here these negros will never dare try it outside Nigeria especially in first world countries.


One preacher said one time, " if you are the bread winner,go out and bring the bread for daddy to share" this is just one of the ways religion has been used to hold Nigerian women in bondage. Let's not even talk about misogynistic cultural beliefs of some tribes.It's time to change the status quo for the next generation of females.

Rapsodee:
I totally disagree with this! The same culture and religion making women remain in marriage also put men as the one responsible for a lot of things if not all in marriage, so you can't claim there is no use for Nigerian men except the busy body husbands.

So have you heard of the national anthem " I am staying because of the children"? If push comes to shove, alot of women can actually take care of their children alone.

Infact , Nigeria has no alimony and child support laws , Nigerian woman basically take care of their kids alone after failed marriage.Evrlen in many homes , women fund the bills while those that don't share it with their husbands. So what's the responsibility you are talking about?

DragonFire433:
Capital NO: She has never said that. Never

The fact that your female Ancestors have been singing that useless chorus for generation does not mean that every other woman is singing that song too.

You and your female generation should sing and dance your reggae alone.

And if the men that your female generation have been coming across or giving birth to “are or were not all that” does not mean it is the same everywhere.

Do not generalize.

Have a heart to heart conversation with your mother and you will see that either for cultural , religious reasons your mother had to put up in that marriage.


The door to leave a marriage is now wider the reason why women are bold enough to leave and be independent. Nigeria is a patriarch and misogynistic society. It's normal for women to have to succumb.



I was talking to a group of women ,and an elderly woman made a remark " all men na the same ,na manage we dey manage am" . I felt it in my core , Nigerian women put up with marriage as a norm.


I love my wife because she is ambitious and takes care of herself ,said no Nigerian man ever!

louiziana:
I'll just assume you were raised by a single mum who thinks exactly like this...

Nah, why not go and ask Nigerian women. Lol, you dolts just want to deflect front he truth. It is like a national anthem among married Nigerian women ,oh I am staying for the kids.

Go and have a heart to heart conversation with your mother and you will see that what I speak is facts .

DragonFire433:
So what exactly are you saying. ?

Are you saying your grandfather, father, uncle, brothers, husband, sons and male ancestors “are or were not all that” ?

The answer lies with your grandmothers and female ancestors who only stayed in marriage "FOR THE SAKE OF THE CHILDREN". I know you have at one time heard your mother say that phrase too

YoungLionken:
The lady is somehow sick upstairs.

The embarrassment was uncalled for. There were days, weeks, months, before that day.

The gender war is something else lately.

Everybody with I-know-it-all attitude.

In addition. Dear men, never you marry a woman, from a broken home...

Have you seen a hypocritical marriage ? Toxic on the inside ,sweet on the outside. Children from such homes are more damaged than those from so called broken homes.


They have a toxic perception of marriage through their parents toxicity and worse of it all is that it is not noticeable until you live with such people, because just like their parents they are good at camouflaging.

Toxic marriages are just as worse as broken homes cos it impacts terribly on kids .

fyneboi79:
Funny enough most Nigerian men have realized how useless most Nigerian women are. Equation balanced. Let's all take it outside.

Ask your mother,your grandmother even your female ancestors , they will tell you they stayed in their marriage because of their children. Apart from children ,there has never been use for Nigerian men ,go figure.


I challenge you to go take a survey yourself. It has never been because Nigerian men are all that, culture and religion is what has made the Nigerian woman put up with Nigerian men.

Ghostmode2two:
Those refineries are owned by Nigerians, I can bet with my left nyash

if we dig deep ,you won't be far from the truth.

TheRedpillguy:
Ok Bye

adios negro.

TheRedpillguy:
Again unrelated. But if trashing Nigeria makes you feel good about yourself. Please go ahead.

You are just a fat ugly hoe, that nobody wants. Who cares abt what you say? Hehehe not me. Its reward enough that you are bitter, hate the fact that you are from Nigeria, hate that you are black. Hate that you are a wall hitting woman, hate everything. Damn! Am proud Nigerian. You hear me so? The bitch is mad. Stay mad heheh stay mad.

It is related, a people who go about causing nuisance , why will I want such a life for my offspring? You see why I said I would rather be a baby mama to a white man than to a Nigerian man, God forbid I do that to my offspring .it will be wicked of me to give my own flesh and blood the DNA of a cursed man from Nigeria. I decided to break the curse for my next generation.

And, be proud for as long as you can ,china is coming with chains . Your apartheid will be worse than South Africa's ,fourth world negro

Amatarasha:
Someone shud tell Dem that the owner of this earth is a woman, We women are here until aliens called men came along to create their youthlings here n there ,
As 4 u imposter titugirl ..shame on u

Cc ubunja listen goddess x..x ...xX is coming n all men will be wiped out , women will take back dia Mass with d hidden creatures

I don't think they know that just yet. They seem to underestimate what women can do.


I just want my sisters to wake up and know their strength , enough of the religious and cultural bondage.

TheRedpillguy:
It stings don't it? Lmao.
You most hate yourself, good!

lol, I think you should ask ghanaians and south africans . Soon they will start chasing you people from Benin republic disgusting animals.

nedekid:
Soldier lifespan de short now a days ba?

Exactly.

Monsters walk in broad daylight in Nigeria. A land flowing with blood ,it is worse than the jungle out there in Nigeria.

Soldier

CHoccolaTE:
Lol

Don't mind the criminal good for nothing whiners

I just hope the next generation of Nigerian women know that they deserve better. I don't even know how to date a Nigerian man sef, their psuedo intelligence irritates me, their ego is unusually high compared to men from other countries and race on top of that they are the most dishonest people you can ever meet in your life time.

CHoccolaTE:
@bolded is a bloody epidemic in Nigeria
Along with Male scammers and Male ritual killers and Male armed robbers and Male car snatchers and Male rapists and Male serial killers

Just imagine the multitude of problems these goats cause on earth yet they are the ones endlessly whining and complaining about others.

with the way these creatures spit vile here one would have thought they were all that .


I would rather be a baby mama to a white man than to ever be married to a Nigerian man. Nigerian men are such pieces of shit I tell you. Very corrupt,vile ,wicked and misogynistic dolts.Disgusting things to ever walk the face of the earth.spits.lets not forget that Nigerian men are the only ones in west africa willing to marry their ancestors just for papers .


Honestly, it's rather ironic that Nigerian men will blame women for their woes ,soon they will accuse women of being the cause of corona virus ,they are dumb like that

TheRedpillguy:
Say what you will, I probably have similar view on north Korea.

I work so hard, all day on the internet and off the internet to make sure men avoid women like you for their mental wellbeing. You taking your self out makes my job alot easier. Its like the trash taking its self out. Its beautiful. I don't care about what you. Just stay TF away from Men. Thank you.

Accept my condolence for your future white sperm donor baby. He/she is not Here and he/she life is already doom. Poor baby.

lol, you should worry more about your brothers raping their daughters ,I am sure you finger your niece too ,so who wants such creatures of depraved animals.


I will definitely stay away from Nigerian men ,that's for sure,you know the ones who think it's normal to rape even their own daughters. I am sure too know by now that you are referring to a more superior human( white ) than you as being doomed ,lol .

You being a Nigerian in Nigeria alone makes you cursed and doomed atleast the so called poor baby will not be cursed as you are . Now go worry about how to buy fuel in your generator that's if you have one . Imagine this fourth world inhabitant talking about doom ,how hilarious

Rawhumper:
Abeg remove teenage Girls from your list, on a serious note, it us we The Guys Can tell u how These Girls behave because they Are open and Free with us than their aunties or mothers even.

It is babies that i know such a man deserves instant Death, and i personally like seriously will make Sure i inflict pains on him.

Teenage Girls are experts, most of them that cry rape is just a cover up.

You wont understand, women's intrigues, what am i saying sef? Are You not a woman?

Dont ne rash to condemn.









quote author=Ladycewhy post=93717082] the bolded ,does that include the babies and teenagers .

I see and you are someone's son, who raised you? .

Someone's future father, with the rate of senseless people like you littering Nigeria,I fear for the future.

TheRedpillguy:
Well good luck with that.

Am cool long as u you not making a man miserable. Knock your self out.

lol, for a group of men who rape their own daughters in that country ,you Nigerian men are not all that, spits. It's actually men who have to be tolerated and put up with as far as Nigeria is concerned.


I am sure the useless tradition and religion is the reason why many women still put up with creatures from that country.Nigerian women dey try sha.

Rawhumper:
Where is jenniferakpamu?
I think she Can tell us More about this .

As for me, i dont support rape, i dont rape...my record of 600 Girls none was by Force and am proud to say it because its not easy.

If it is, there wont be need for rape here and there.

But The truth is our Girls should be prayed for, there Are some Nice chics out there but majority carries The vote they Say.











quote author=Ladycewhy post=93716684] is this the answer to why Nigeria is now filled with rapsists?

the bolded ,does that include the babies and teenagers .

Rawhumper:
How about why Girls dont see sex as something serious.

I met a beautiful Girl in my Street, she told me her aunt sent her to be cleaning one fine guy House from time to time, well i toasted her she agreed but my prob is she tells me she has neva slept with that Single handsome guy.

Am handsome too, so am not intimidated,she tells me she loves me but its just The lies that women Tell.
She trying to bleep two Guys staying in Same compound without blinking.

Am happy to be a Service guy, Girls are worse than The Guys These days.
Apart from raping and killing some Guys do, which i Strongly condemnGirls carry flag so stop This pretenses and feminism.










quote author=Ladycewhy post=93714785]Dear Nigerians and non Nigerians welcome to another misogynistic thread. .

Op I am waiting for your thread on why girls and even babies are being raped in Nigeria.

is this the answer to why Nigeria is now filled with rapsists?

CHoccolaTE:
They are really trying,
Problem causing backward sex obsessed societal rejects.
Tueh,
Tufiakwa for the useless pieces of shit.
I knew before I opened the thread that the frustrated rats would have successfully derailed it with their eternal whining and I wasnt wrong

Just look at the mess, 11 pages of complaining and whinging, their excuse is that women would not contribute to the thread so they decided to help us contribute so that the thread will not waste

But they will not post in politics or education topics so that those threads won't waste.

Goats.

the bolded

Dear Nigerians and non Nigerians welcome to another misogynistic thread. .

Op I am waiting for your thread on why girls and even babies are being raped in Nigeria.

TheRedpillguy:
Seen misogynistic and I quickly thank God what you are looking for is money. I support you 100% leave men alone. Am sure there one guy right now on earth that is happy cus u are not in his life.

on the contrary, there is one guy out there who would have been blessed being with me. I will have a white sperm donor when I am ready to have kids. The baby and the money what else can a woman ask for .


You penis people make yourselves too important in that Nigeria. Nigerian women dey try sha, putting up with such creatures is not an easy task.

The only thing I need is money, not a man. . How people put up with men beats me, especially in a misogynistic society like Nigeria.

Weezyclan:
Real o. $18,400 now

Lord come down and see the humans you have put on earth are acting dumb . I just want to sit with one of the contributors and find their thought process.

Weezyclan:
OK she's consoling Erica. Btw Nigerians are still donating for erica gofundme, over $14,000 now

is this real or a joke. People are actually donating?