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ojuu4u:
If some guys come up that they don't woman to rise up more than they do, you will start wailing that this is 20th century, that wife should nt subject to slavery!

God has made you a woman , thr absolute noting you can do to reverse it, you can only make urself happy by taking up ur role as woman, failure to accept reality ,you will leave embitter and perhaps die of heart attack.

exactly,my role as a woman ,lol, I hope you do know what the role of a man is then,to provide and protect. So we are indirectly saying the same thing, let everyone play their roles,if not be ready to deviate from the normal.


For a man to say I shouldn't rise more than him,my dear,that marriage go scatter . Insecure men should go find their cave to live in.

ojuu4u:
Be a breadwinner doesn't mean others are not working, but God gives such person privilege to get more money above others.

But when a man is a bread winner, as its common in society, the woman will claim entitlement mentality, "I own my husband mentality" she will even chase away husband family.

NB. Woman like you usually end up as a single mother.

Go to single mother group on Facebook to see rants!

lol,why not also go to married women group and see rants . Or you think just because a woman is bound by possession contract called marriage makes her life any happier or earn her front seat in heaven? .


Look,I am not your Bible that called a man infidel if he cannot take care of his family, go and ask Jesus

Twelfthman:
The old societal model was:

A young woman would trade her youth and fertility
exclusively to only one man, and he in turn would be the workhorse and take
care of her when she gets past her prime. This was a great incentive for men to
work, become men, and get married. You got a prize, a young beautiful loyal
wife. In theory, as we know life isn't perfect. She does him a favor early on
by being a virgin/exclusive and later he does her a favor by staying and
supporting her instead of leaving her for a younger woman. They both get a prize.

The new societal model is:

Women LovePeddler around and waste their youth and fertility on Chad/Tyrone,
get walled out, get STDs, lose their ability to pair bond, rapidly accelerate
their aging process with excessive alcohol and fast food, and have no loyalty
to any man. What sensible man would pay top dollar for something 30 other men
got for free? The incentive for men is gone. You don't get a prize anymore. You
get a parasite with an entitlement mentality that’s looking to take your resources
and then some. Before you even say “I do” at the altar, she’s already plotting
how to financially rape your ass in family court when she divorces your sorry
ass in a few years. Why do you think she’s smiling as she’s walking down the aisle?
A woman’s main reason for getting married is to get a divorce.

You're expected to pay a premium price for a used up, beaten
up, soulless woman from the bargain basement bins of some store in the hood
with the morals of an alley cat, an in denial, freak of nature, pathologically
delusional, self-esteem deficient, morally bankrupt, bottom dwelling, blood
sucking, inhuman, creature of the night, bitch on wheels, spawned from the seed
of Satan, and a boil on the buttocks of the world.

When she dies, the last living reminder of hell will be gone
from the face of the earth.

She has kids from Chad/Tyrone or both, personal credit card
debt, no assets, school debt for a worthless degree in liberal arts or gender
studies, no cooking skills and no desire to learn any, no fiscal responsibility,
an overly banged vagina, and a pet you’ll be expected to take care of as well.

And you're supposed to be happy about this opportunity to
lick up the scraps from the floor.

The so-called good men she wants and can’t find are out
there. They just don’t want her at the table because she has nothing to bring
except financial and emotional pain. When women say, "Men are only after
one thing". Meaning sex. My question to them is, do you have anything else
to offer. Crickets is all I hear. Which means even they don't believe they have
anything else to offer.

In addition, she also has great expectations you’ll do
everything for her, make her feel better, and provide an unrealistic
unsustainable lifestyle she feels she deserves because she read about it some
feminazi magazine article that hates men.

All this while she cheats behind your back with the “bad
boys” she really wants while you’re at work paying all the bills to feed this
little parasite.

Women don’t “love men”, they love what men can do for them. Where
are all the great art works female artists have created, inspired by their love
of men?

Men are not afraid of commitment or marriage…. Men are
afraid of getting divorce raped in “family court.” It’s just a bad deal and
there’s nothing in it for men except the chance to be financially ruined for
the rest of your life.

If you were thinking of going skydiving and knew that three
out of four parachutes failed, and you had already watched your friends jump,
some successfully, others not so. Would you be willing to take the chance that
you're going to be the exception and get the one parachute out of the four that
is going to work?......... I mean they all look so pretty and smell so good and
feel so soft to the touch and they are offering you the thrill of a lifetime if
you would just let one of them wrap itself around you and make that commitment
to attach yourself to it and jump...... would you still take that chance?

But… but…. Look how pretty the parachutes are, smell their
lovely fragrance, touch and feel how soft they feel, they beckon you to try one
of them on, please try me on and let me wrap myself tightly around you and see
how good I feel to you, I’ll hold on tight and snug to you, I am not like the
others, honest I am different, I’ll work.

Well….. would you do it? Would you take that chance for the thrill of a lifetime?

Yea, that sounds like a good deal if I were a slowpoke, is this the line I stand in to lose half my sh!t?

Good luck with that.

Men are waking up and realizing this system is defective and
toxic. Women's sexual liberation, feminism and the birth control pill, have
ironically dis-empowered women. They are throwaway sexual objects now more than
ever.

"Feminism did NOT free women from the chains they
thought they had. It freed MEN from the chains they had no idea were
there."

~ Arch Stanton ~

I stopped reading when I got to the bolded, obviously you are not in touch with reality and this is not an article meant for Nigerians ,so next time you want to copy, look for something we as Nigerians can relate to ,ok? because this is obviously the rant of a pained western man. Please help me tell Mr Arch Stanton ,that the opposite is obtained with Nigerian women,he should try going Nigerian, he can never go wrong. Also tell him that our Nigerian sisters will never emaculate him because we see oyinbo as a good catch


And one more thing, are we still on this virginity thing? , didn't you see the statistics for rape and child molestation during lockdown alone?

matthewbrian150:
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My Word !!!....How can you type such trash..
I am baffled. Please go through what you typed again.

Sense is relative,a mad man sees sane people as insane and thinks of himself as the sane one ,if you see it as trash ,I cant help you with that ,only you can ask for redemption for your perception.

juliabobly65:
Hello nairalanders, I need your opinions on this matter.

My boyfriend of 3 years who is now my fiancee (we are talking marriage already) is constantly talking to his ex girlfriend (who is now married).

They discuss all manner of things, ranging from how she misses him and wished she had waited for him.

Trouble started when he told her he was planning to settle down (I still wonder why he told her) ever since she's always coming up with pots of lies against me. She claims someone told her so many things about me.

She fabricating lies isn't my major concern because I know once something good is about to happen the devil comes in many ways than one to destroy it.

I've told my man all about my past life and everything in it, recently he accused me of withholding some information of my past. The ex girlfriend had a chat with and told him things I don't even know about.

Nairalanders this lady is married, why is she poke nosing into our affair?? If she loved him that much, why did she marry another man?? Why is my man giving her audience Is he still in love with her I know she's obsessed about me. Her constant chats with him, makes him accuse me of things I've never done in my entire life.

I told him we should suspend the marriage until he's done with his investigation since he doesn't believe me cos he said if he finds out something I did in my past in the future and I didn't tell him it will be a problem.

Admins pls push to front page.

report her to her husband with evidence. Do me I do you. Life go easy.

Nauttyprof:
Her messages are exciting messages for her audience and just so she can trend.

It's easy for her to give head teachings and not Bible based ones.

I don't know when the calling involved teaching out what the God of the Bible says.

lol, these preachers make me laugh, the way they will use hell fire to threaten and bully women into being door mats in their homes eh ,you will be shocked.

I think it's more like a show off ,make dem for talk say na me dey virtuous pass ,na me go first go heaven as obedient wife

What caught my attention is "stop repeating the mistake your mother made" now is pastor trying to tell us women of old made mistakes? .And here I was thinking the bar for marriage was set by the tolerant ,non-voicing, obedient,do whatever I say ,women of old


You see I stopped taking these preachers serious the day a female preacher said " if you are the bread winner ,go out win the bread and bring it for daddy to share" lol Daddy that doesn't have hand to win bread but has hand to share. I was nearly tempted to ask her if she forgot that a man who cannot take care of his family is worse than an infidel, but make e nor be like say I dey rude


These are the same women who will think just because you choose to stand up for yourself and not be used as a bought commodity ,you are not virtuous enough and will go to hell fire .


Notice how the woman gets to give something invaluable,that cannot be quantified, "respect and honour" while all the man needs to do is take his wife and children out .

Playing big brother, tomorrow Mali will chase Nigerians out of their country.

country leaders wey nor know their self na suegbe( in fela's voice). Your house is on fire and you are taking a bucket of water to quench the fire in another man's compound. Mtweeeeeeeeeeeeew.

IMAliyu:
Have you had a personal experience with such?
Because I don't think the people that are nice to you are the same people that turn around to kill you the next moment. Those kinds of people are usually openly aggressive, passively aggressive, or show signs of sociopathy. From my personal experience.

The same way you have apprehensions about the north, similarly I have apprehensions about the south and potentially being killed by someone for the sin and crime of being born into my ethnicity or just being attacked for some other reasons.
So I can understand your concern to an extent, but not unless I interact with the people, I reserve my judgement of them. The actions of the few doesn't represent the majority.

I have lived in plateau state so I know what I am talking about. These so called hausas are likely compared to the rat that blows you yet eat you.


I have witnessed how treacherous and conniving they can be. Southerners will show you if they don't like you ,but you see with hausas ,you will never see it coming until you drop your guard as an outsider and fall for their two faced kindness .

IMAliyu:
Read what I wrote.
I said occasional religious conflicts, referring to the sporadic religious riots that occur.
And the current security problems, referring to BH and bandits which were non existent 2 decades ago.

I reside and grew up in Adamawa and I will unapologetically tell you has one of the best people. Religion wise it has a decent mix of northern Christians and Muslims even intermarriages, the city Jimeta belongs to no one tribe because historical it's been a place for outsiders to conduct business and one of the few northern States that do not have nonsense sharia as their state law.
The only downside is the Yola fulanis can be nepotistic when you don't speak their language.

Occational religious fight that can see everything you have worked for go down the drain for frivolous reasons. What's nice about someone who is kind to you only to dagger you without looking back?

IMAliyu:
Well without the occasional religious conflicts and the current security problems.
The people are usually nice, content and helpful, but if you're a ruthlessly ambitious person I'd say the south is the place to be.

you call boko haram and banditary occational? those situations have been gulping money from the national reserve for years.

Pleateau state which has been ruined thanks to hausas and fulani ( Jos used to be so peaceful) is the Only state I admire around that region,but those blood sucking hausas and fulani turned it into a shadow of itself.


Now let me with no apologies say northerners are nice until it's time to dagger you for the most frivolous reason. Even that best friend who is a northerner will target you first .

There is nothing nice about a person who gives you a handshake and hides a dagger behind with his other hand ready to plung it into you, going for the kill.

uthlaw:
watin bring scam again,I ask you for money!

I didn't mean you ,I am inquiring so I will have heads up on how to go about it.

uthlaw:
where is ur location,did you apply the recent one!

south south ,it's not for me but my sibling, want to help out but don't want to throw my money away to scammers.

uthlaw:
hope you stay in north.....constable no hard na!

I don't stay in the north.

uthlaw:
which rank!

constable

ProudlyNGN:
The amount carries and it depends on your level of connection and what qualification you are going to use so be specific.

position of a constable

ProudlyNGN:
You dey mind this lier

Do you have an idea of how much?

DrFunmisticGlow:
that doesn't exist.

Motherly instincts are stories told to bind women with a guilty conscience

but some women do know when their daughter is pregnant Sha.

Elsueno:
Civil defence, fire service and customs go around 150~200k per slot if you go direct..Anything more na middle man things.


By the way, I don't know anybody woh

police unkor? How much does it go for?

I am more concerned that a woman didn't know her daughter was pregnant even at 5 months . What ever happened to motherly instincts.

A top politician is the serial killer's client . If you know you know.

Nigeria is littered with evil people Sha, everything evil is found in Nigeria ,just name it .


This "pull down mentality" in the heart of the average Nigerian is disturbing. Person nor get money come go carry hire purchase make e take dey follow up for life ,nor know say na e grave e dey dig.smh

ipodstinks:
Lol, editing won't save you . I understand you get your oloshoism from your mother.



Oloshoooooooooooooooooooooooo

Sounds like what a boy birthed by an olosho will say, always projecting their reality to others

ipodstinks:
Asha, carry your smelly pussy outta here. Spit

Again, not everyone is like the women in your family. Especially that your niece that you used to finger.

ipodstinks:
No wonder. Case closed

that your sister ,I mean that one that has been a public toilet ,I mean your immediate younger sister, where did she get her own olosho from, your mother or grand mother

Another day,another rape news emanating from Nigeria. These men just will never stop will they? .


Women are cheap,women are worthless, women are more than men ,yet these depraved animals will go as far as preying on the venerable for sex ,from babies to grandmothers,no lady is safe in Nigeria.



As a woman ,who can one entrust their baby girls to in Nigeria? From teachers to religious leaders,to uncles to even their own fathers,smh.

ipodstinks:
Slut, keep ranting. I have said my own. Better talk your price slut before hunger kills you.


Ashana.

You must think everyone is like your sisters. Have faith in the world,not everyone has to open their legs to earn a living like the women in your family. Just saying.

ipodstinks:
So you know lord and you are this bitter.

You are deceiving yourself. Slut.


Used and dumped olosho.

says the son of a slut ,depraved animal, even in real life people around you are weary of you.Disguting cretin.

ipodstinks:
my mother is Bitter used and dumped olosho. Spit

if you say so

ipodstinks:
Lol, many of you have been waiting for donkey years, you will wait tire.

Answer me, how much is your money. Make sure you watch your pussy, I don't Bleep smelly one.

many of us? It means even those around you suspect you. . May the good Lord expose you , so your disgrace will be complete , shameless animal.

Liposure:
where did it all go wrong

when your brothers started impregnating their own daughters ,that's when it all went wrong .


In a country where mothers cannot even entrust their daughters to their fathers,why will any right thinking woman desire such breed of men ? .

Imagine the other day a guy on this forum was calling a woman careless for leaving her daughter with her father to be molested after a separation, like wtf! .

ipodstinks:
I ain't like your father. But I will Bleep the hell outta you like a dog you are. After, I will pay you what I think you worth and we never cross path again.

I think you are having enough practice with your niece, waiting for your news to hit front page, of another Nigerian man defiling Little girls. Spits.