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DECENCY3:
Why is it that no state in the North has joined the #endsars.

Something is wrong somewhere

sars was created to terrorise the South and it's youths since they could not send bandits and hisbah here.sars doesn't operate in the north.

Hazel eyed fine boy , HBD

sbaks:
She's very right

A tailor within that age range was arrested by sars because he had dreadlocks on his head. After searching him they found nothing incriminating on him but do you know what they asked him?

Sars officer :let me see your palm
Shows him palm
Sars officer: this your palm is too soft ,you must be a yahoo boy.

And thats how they threw him inside the van and told him to cooperate or they will take him to state CID.

Na who e never reach e turn dey misyarn online.

Alexaonfleek:
Wetin consign igbo women with hisbah police
When those fulani girls are tired,they will either change religion or relocate to the south.

No o let them stay in their region o, that's how they relocated and turned plateau state to a shadow of itself.

Hollusilva28:
In Wande coal voice Iskaba Hisbah iskelebete. Dem never see anything. I always thank God every morning whenever I woke up, I can't imagine myself sharing ideas, place with these people called northerners, and to top it, their Leaders are cashing out big time and their arewa youths keep on balling. Lol


That's me down there smiling at the fools called the Hisbah

Nice dimple!

Since they could not bring hisbah to the south,they brought sars. There is no difference between sars in the South and hisbah police in the North.

Just go and answer the petition since you know how to be loud mouthed.

karnap:
and what will happen if the husband accepted that something like that happens,will you come and delete this

lol, Let's just see how it goes,the accuser better bring her substantial evidence to court then.

Beverlyjean:
I agree with you..u know African mentality...if u quarrel with someone and something happens to that person, they will claim its u that killed that person

There is no natural death in this part of the world, na person must kill am if they can't find someone to blame village people will get the blame

DeRay98:
That's you know them, the tortoise finally crept out of its shell.
The "Toxic masculinity" terminology is very sweet in their tongue and it's their favourite song of 3rd wave oversabi feminists especially the frustrated and brainwashed ones.

lol, stop ranting, your outbursts tilts more towards frustration. . If you are suffering cry to the public as well make we help you,don't go and man up and die o

blaise26abj:
@bolded, it’s possible as long as the prosecutor can prove his/her case .

The moral is sha that atimes our actions can cause the pain and suffering of others . That’s why we should sometimes think about the effects of our actions on others. It could mean the difference between life and death .

If foul play cannot be determined in her cause of death ,then the case is dead on arrival. A road accident, considering the rate of accidents in the country i doubt any foul play will be found in her accident but what will be hilarious is if the accuser says the accident was caused by witchcraft.

Beverlyjean:
How did she kill him??

Modified...just saw this story on linda

The true gist I heard is that kome told the deceased husband all about her friends past life and hubby cudnt take it...he insulted the girl as most men will do ...it really affected her and that the husband in his words said thanks to ur friend kome that told me all about ur past life , if not for her, I wudnt hv known... the next day she had the accident that eventually lead to her death yesterday...wimen, try to live a decent life so that ur oast will not come bk to hunt u...the truth about men is thst the moment they find out that u chopped many dicks, they automatically loose respect and love for u...most of u will not accept this talk but its the bitter truth... especially a man that is on cash... men can't compromise that , its in their DNA....u can insult however u wish...but its a standing rule that no one can change

Gist from who? Let me guess the accuser? The deceased has not been active on social media since may ,kome says they have not spoken since may, now the deceased died recently. Are you telling me if I have a fall out with someone in may and the person dies in an accident in October ,na me kill am? Likely with witchcraft or juju? .


Lets assume the gist is true, that accuser should be ready ,cos if kome's husband denies such altercation ever happening between him and his wife,that loud mouth accuser will eat her words.

od501:
Probably she has one, it makes no sense that she it this blunt without having something substantial.

for the sake of the wellbeing of that accuser she better have something substantial,cos e nor go funny if this gets to court.

richie240:
When they are sued and asked to provide evidence now, u'll be hearing "freedom of speech", "its my opinion", "its because I'm'Swahili'....they hate us'.

Las-las they'll apologize after tarnishing someone's image.

Exactly, cases of murder rides on evidence, the deceased died in an accident, I am guessing the accuser is insinuating that kome used witchcraft to cause the accident .
I am very interested in seeing how the accuser will prove this in court.

blaise26abj:
I’ve seen women go through a mental breakdown because of betrayal by their men and/or supposed friends. Some even attempt suicide . If truly the accused slept with the husband , then she might have led Indirectly to the deceased death . Might be unprovable in court but she wouldn’t be clean

my point exactly, Sentiments have no place in a court of law, if kome decides to push and drag the accuser to court,the accuser will eat her words.


Even if you accuse kome of sleeping with the husband ,you will still need evidence ,if the husband denies unkor? This is a serious accusation,she better have solid evidence , calling kome out on social media might turn out to just be the greatest mistake of her life.


The deceased in question died in an accident, except you have evidence that someone tempered with the car that led to the accident, witch craft is not regarded as evidence. Even if the deceased and kome had a falling out,that is not evidence to prove kome caused her accident, even if the accuser saw kome fly as a bird hovering round the deceased before she embarked of the journey.


So if I have a falling out with someone and person dies in an accident few months later ,na me kill am?

od501:
Well...someone cannot just wake up in the morning and start accusing people. She must have a reason for that.

Well she should be ready to present evidence when it gets to a court room.

I don't think the accuser knows how serious this could get ,if this gets to a court of law,that accuser must provide evidence. Murder is not something you just accuse people of without evidence even if you see her fly ontop of the deceased window,no court will accept witch craft as evidence.

DeRay98:
Is it always the women who are victims?
This is an old ignorant narative of women victimhood when in actual fact lots of these cases women are the villains but quick to run to the public to cry fowl and gain cheap sympathy from fellow shallowminded lots like them.
Are narcissists only men? Wait until your own brother or uncle becomes a victim of narcissist wife and you'll see the true pains that most men bear in silence while their villainous wives cry out for cheap public sympathy.

So who's fault is it that men don't cry to the public? Should women now die in silence because another gender want to "man up " when similar things happen to them? If y'all want to die in your toxic masculinity, go right ahead repress your emotions and pains all you want so you don't have your "MAN" card revoked.

Last time I checked no one is holding men from crying to the public as well,if you men decide It's not manly to do such ,then,I can't help you with that . Even to see a therapist is considered not manly in your world,so swerve.

Yampotatocarrot:
@Ladycewhy, this is officially from her. So, it isn't because of any form of abuse from her husband, whether emotional or mental.

Good to know, still doesn't invalidate my comment tho Just doesn't apply to this particular case.

Yampotatocarrot:
Well, we both agree on a lot of things, so let's not jump into conclusion on this particular issue.

Thanks

I don't need to jump into conclusions, doctors work with symptoms ,so also therapist can diagnose from behavioral patterns. Cases with no physical scars and outbursts such as this has one explanation to it.


I just hope cha cha recovers from this for the sake of her beautiful children.

Kingrefreshed:
Men suffer too. Especially most of Us who hate divorce.

Una only hear the ladies side of the story and everyone is jumping from one mountain to the other.

Nobody cares to know what the man had to say...if he's even alive.


Spit!!!!

The same men will be the ones to tell men in such situations to "man up" , men who don't " man up" are termed simps and not man enough,so blame your fellow men,spits at you too.

Besides such cases in a patriarch society like Nigeria is very negligible.Ever heard of the phrase " I am staying because of my children" this is a national anthem among married women in Nigeria.

Yampotatocarrot:
I've met more narcissistic women than men... I think it goes both ways

narcissism has no gender. But then you will agree with me that in a mysogistic society and very religious society like Nigeria, covert narcissistic men tend to get away with it more and narcissistic women are generally labelled "as having bad up bringing".
In my life time I have met narcissistic men who hide behind tradition and religion to get away with lots of things.


But then again,you will agree with me that this particular case is likely one of those marriages. She went from a beautiful lady to a pale looking lady ,lost weight and chopped off her hair now an unexpected outburts.

Emotional and physcological abuse is just as deadly as physical abuse the worse part is there are no physical scars . You will be sad but people will not believe the person you have told them is capable of such or will downplay your feelings as far as he is not physically abusing you.


Narcissist are good with such form of abuse ,they will gaslight you till you either breakdown at their feet or loose your mind all together while the entire world sees you outside as the perfect family.

Many women are trapped in such marriages , suffering inside the four walls of their so called marital homes while posing for happy pictures for society.

ume1000:
if animals could be tamed what gives you the impression that demons can not be tamed
and restructured

You are a living evidence of women demonic tendencies with your demonic utterances in this forum

I guess you would probably murder your husband (the simp you hope to marry) when your over hyped stinking borehole no longer enchants him

lol, Lil whatever wanted to tame a demon ,now look how that turned out for him .You can go and console him all you want, but the fact remains that the fight is not for the swift and mighty. A man with might and no sense like the lil beast will always find themselves back to the bottom of the ladder.

Happy taming of another human as if God left you in charge of earth, weh done, unfortunately lil beast got more he bargained for , so much for the alphasearus species of men .He should wear his alpha male badge and go look for a boxing career

ume1000:
my father treated my mom well he seem to believe women to be innocent and gentle souls

If only he knew that beneath those smile and heavy makeups lies untold horrors

If only every man understand that these supposed innocents and gentle souls could never be entrusted with the lives of the weak and vulnerables

O if they knew these innocents soul see them as a means to an end

O if Lil frosh knew that beneath that sweet smiles lies a prostitute and a destroyer

THE WORD WOULD HAVE BEEN A BETTER PLACE

Imagine what would have happened to Joseph in prison had God not help him

But there is still hope

For as long as individuals like I who see women for what they truly exist are I SAY THERE IS HOPE

now I know your problem stems from personal experience, your mother was a demon so you walk around thinking all women are like that ,which means I was right ,one way or the other you are a damaged soul.



For lil whatever his name is, your whining won't change the fact that assualt is a criminal offence. And here I thought men were supposed to be the more logical ones . Keep your sentiments to yourself,there is no room for sentiments in the real world. Davido did what any logical business man will do, and I am sure if this case is charged to court ,the the judge will do what any logical judge should do and sentence the fool accordingly.


The lil beast sabotaged himself and has no one else but himself to blame. I am sure he will do better in his boxing career as music didn't make him blow

blesoh:
Yes, including his mother and grandmother and all the women in his family

now I see where he got the mentality from, men in his family have been beasts

ume1000:
What happened to the woman whom poured hot water on her maid, husband earlier this year

What about the demon who severed his spouse genitals


My dear women are demons And deserves to be treated as such

i wonder how your father treats your mother then?,just curious ,or is your mother exempted from "women"?. I am guessing the bolded statement is what you grew up to see ,poor damaged soul. Assualt in your family was treated as a family matter, I am sure your mother went to bed with black eye every day hence you must think it's normal to behave like an animal.


You need to speak with a therapist asap.

kingy1:
That guy must have been motivated by nairaland alphanosuaruses . This is the result.

Now thats a new one , nairaland alphanosaurus species of men . I guess being a brute and a beast is how they show their traits as aplhanosuaruses .

See them jumping on the thread like rabid dogs, gladly condoning violence. If the yeye lil whatever his name is was in saner climes ,he will be looking at a long time in jail with community service.

Mekas2016:
In as much as the guy you are responding to is wrong into thinking You must live within your means to avoid debts, I stil want to point out a fact that a man that cant raise 90k in nine months have no business getting a woman pregnant!.
Even the bible says he who wants to build a house should count the cost.

Most young men rush into marriages due to peer and societal pressure and end up complicating their lives!

Even the rich too go through financial burdens too but Marriage is a serious business that needs good planning.

The actually bill was about 300k I think,if you read carefully ,it said 95k balance ,which means they had paid some amount before. Cs bill ranges from 200k and above.


In as much as I can understand your point on family planning, we can't rule out unforseen circumstances that can actually out you in a tight corner. I used to have that thought too of why people with no enough resources choose to even give birth at all ,but then even a middle class in Nigeria can still be put in unfortunate financial distress,i am just glad mother and child are now free.

ibedun:
Rubbish, Naija men are getting away with it big time if you arrange yourself well!

you sound ignorant. All this half intelligent boys sef.spits

Zzor:
lmao,when you hit the nail on the head,they aggressively come for you.It is well

Soon another one dying because of sex will hit front page,let them keep being aggressive to their graves.

airminem:
YOU WENT FOR THE PREEK

if you practice necrophilia ,I don't. .