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Congratulation my IBEKU brother, we always excel in what we do!

Hmmmmmmmm what did I just read ?

Igbo Amaka

Mole's everywhere

After spending hours, morning, afternoon and nights on your girlfriend, don't say you are looking for a virgin wife to marry, e get why

CANDYDADDY:
i don't pity the next girl that will have this in her

Nairaland men and diseases eh? After they will say Nigerian girls are useless

Klass99:
You know a man is gay and you still want him to sleep with you, not taking into consideration the potential risks of being infected with HIV or some other STD .

Dem use marriage swear for us in Africa? She obviously values this marriage more than she values her life and well being. Seriously, who did this to us in Africa?

Very foolish woman

Congratulations baby girl!

OBI. . . OBI NWA NNE M

Awwwwww so nice

Chasito:
Vboot brand new one (tear rubber)

you are wicked o

Princewell2012:
Call her attention and open up all the secret, and see her reaction. If she apologized from the button of her heart forgive her, and if you have truly forgiven her. Let everything slides and don't bring up the issue again. There is no marriage without temptation.
If she is truly yours ,her behavior will increase positively and she will love you more.

But if there is still no change even in her behavior you style to bring her back to Nigeria and don't returned with her again.
That's my humble advice. And you too should be prayerful and don't allow this marriage to ruin your life.

God bless your marriage.

she will restrategize and be more discreet

GEEBITE:
Maintain your calm for the rest of your studies. Ensure you return back to NIGERIA immediately after your studies and show no interest in post study work visa. When you get back to Nigeria you can apply from here without her. Her stay in UK after study is consequent upon you for now. Dont let her know any of your plans concernig staying after completion of studies. She can find a legal loophole to stay if you become aggressive and confrontational. Also do not get her pregnant.

Hmmmm it's better to walk away now that kids are not involved, you may raise another man's child if you are not careful

Dshocker:
You can imagine, just within a space of 1yr she came, she is exhibiting such traits.

From on set she doesn't love you and has been with you all for your money.

Broooo pet her, bring her back to naija, seize her papers and burn it.

very terrible and horrible traits, I doubt if she ever loved him in the first place

justwise:
Are you joking with this post?

I am shocked at her behaviour, no child yet and all these is unfolding?

This is so wrong

We can now have temporary relief

Mindlog:
What do you want to be told?

pray and fast against temptation

IyaebeTheGreat:
What is the greatest gift a man can give to his wife?

Entitlement mentality

Sex has now become hobby of lazy Nigerian men who can't provide for their family, Tueh!

Stop gender based violence , they wont hear . . . . . RIP to the young lady

Congrats to him and his cohorts

bewla:
I won't give you to night

#LWKMD#

gaby:
Sickening.

Just reading your submission and I kept feeling my inner man being spoken to. Your kid sister's dream needs and deserves to be kept alive.

Whatever life has thrown at her was never her bargain and shouldn't be used as an excuse to kill her lofty dreams.

To this effect, I am volunteering to take charge of that kid's educational needs so long as you are able to provide every necessary and confirm able details down to the physicals.

God bless...

May God bless you and your entire generations for this kind gesture!

This broke my heart, can your mum give out her own 18 year old daughter to a divorcee with 3 kids?

What they would have done since, that crook needs to be fished out of his Finnish hiding place

Acidosis:
The caller is one of those senseless Nairaland ur.chins. I like Ndi's response. Such a smart lady

this is one smart and articulate lady. Keep it up Ndi Kato. . . Team #OBIDATTI#

Awwww so nice. I love dogs but hubby hates the sight of dogs, used to have 2 as a single babe .

dre11:
•Gov Abiodun engages CBN over cash crunch



https://www.sunnewsonline.com/customers-woes-deepen-as-touts-invade-atms-worsen-scarcity/

This cash crunch may linger more than we envisaged

destiny4luv:
Good day Nairalanders.l; let me go straight to the point. I work off-shore so most of the times I am not always around, some times I can be at work for three months and be given one or two weeks time- off that's just the nature of my job.

But they is something troubling me seriously, when I give my wife instructions regarding anything at all she will first of all ask my Mom before she carries out the instruction I give her, that's if my Mom is in support of the instruction. Recently I gave her an instruction regarding a particular matter while I was on time-off, only for my wife to call me fee weeks later that she has carried out the instruction when the time I told her to carry out that instruction is not yet. I was so mad at her I asked her why can't she wait till the time I told her to do it; she said my Mom came over to the house and told her to do it so she did it. At that point I cut the call.

Later that day my Mom called me and was asking why I cut the call on my wife and refused to pick her call even why she was calling back, I told her she was the course, and she said how, and I told her why will I give my wife instruction and u will come to counter that instruction without the both of u letting me know not after the did has been done. My Mom was angry that can't she have say in my home, I told her to an extent not to the point of countering my instructions. She was very angry we both had some argument on the phone before I told her am late for work I want to cut and she hang up, she knows I was seriously angry with her. Since that day she hasn't called me and I haven't called her too.

My wife called me and apologized that it won't happen again. I forgive her and we both made amend. Now my Mom is not talking to me and my wife at the moment. Please what I did was it wrong or did I over reacted?

I love and respect my Mom likewise my wife, but I won't want her to control my home for me. Should I call her and apologize to her or just let her be till her mind comes down?

Better build your home with your wife before your mum turns you into a SIMPLE MAN, how can she be having a say over ur hime? I blame your immature wife that can't stick to your instructions

HumbleTrader:
How about you speak to your partner instead of random strangers online.

u dey mind him? Rushing to Nairaland Supreme court like we were there when he rendered the alleged help to the girl

Jennyclay:
If you support her with application fee nko? Mtcheeww.

Men should learn to help and not expect anything in return. Nawa oo!

If the lady decides not to marry you after spending on her, it's her choice and not a sin against God.

Biko, don't spoil her show oo!

savage!