₦airaland Forum

Candidlady:


do you have money ?
do you have a sleek ride?
do you have a house?
are you


if you got none please stay single and let the poor lady be please.. no go suffer another man daughter

my friend wiseone28 is still suffering cos she chose to marry a HUSTLER

we want made men not HUSTLERS

Savage response!

For me it means GTFOH!

Crystalom5:
This is another series of the "stop blaming other people" (SBOP) series.

For a long time, there has been this acceptable narrative among women that all men are scum often commonly compressed as "menascum"

This is merely a blame game, a way to think that you're perfect but every other person is imperfect.

But the truth is as a woman, the man you have been with, are with and will be with is your own decision.

You choose the man.

It's like going to the market. You see various smartphones in the store. You saw itel, tecno, iPhone, Samsung xiaomi and so on.

It's your money to buy whichever phone you feel like to buy. The seller will never force you to pick a particular phone you don't like.

The dating pool is large commodity market. Men come to you through various ways. Some through your dm, others through your streets and some through friends.

Some of these men are players. Some are irresponsible. Some are good and some are scum.

No one is perfect, but everyone got reputation.

As a lady, it falls on you to make your choice.

Making your choice to go with a reckless guy is your decision. If it backfires, then you should most likely be ready for the consequences.

Stop labeling all men as bad. There are many out there who will love you and take care of you if you can change your taste.

Same thing is obtainable in ladies too, those that keep shouting Nigerian girls are useless be guided

hotwax:
I attended a church crossover service yesterday. Low and behold, the population of woman to men was like 80% to 20%.

I was forced to ask my friend - why do we have many women...And whenever the pastor say any prayer about marriage or finding their own husband in 2023, these women answer "amen" passionaltely.

My friend said its because Women are more than men in world population. But i didnt agree with him.

When you walk on the street or you are in place of work, you see men dominating everywhere.

When you enter church or night club, you see more women than men.

You see 1 female chatting with 20 men on facebook and whatsapp. So, men must be more than women,

Are women really more than men?

and they will be looking for God fearing and church going girl

Wow, great. . . . I love her honesty for admitting she went under the knife in Turkey, her colleagues will claim drink lots of water and exercise, ndi ala

Pharmsavi:
The person below me is living in abject delusion
P..ssy knows no faithfulness when it sees a black mamba ready for action...When oga is away there's 90% tendency d p..ssy left behind will be drilled before he is back,probably frm a lesbian or a man,we see it happening all the time...
i fear who no fear that gender

is that what your mother and sisters do?

Same here for the past 3 days , Seun pls do something asap

Quite unfortunate and was never intentional, may her soul rest in peace

JackDaAlienz:
I don't want to spend on her and later she won't let me bang. I want to go straight to the point

why not go to a brothel and book ur regular hoes? Seems it looks like transactional sex?

Poppie na ancient and modern runs man, the way you all rate babes with waist beads as hoes cum olosho

Wishing you all success!

Once I saw Zimbabwe I wasn't surprised

Pat081:
NEW YEAR STRATEGIES TO AVOID UNNECESSARY PRESSURE IN 2023

1. Put your kids in schools you can afford
because expensive
schools don't
guarantee good
results. Just ensure
they attend a good
affordable school

2. Rent apartments you
can pay for
conveniently. Don’t live
in a house you struggle
to pay yearly.

3. Let’s plan our lives and
live within our means.
Save more and spend
less.

4. Some women buy food
for their children every
morning before going
to school or even for
the whole family, do
you know it’s cheaper
to cook at home?

5. Some people don’t
earn much, but have
DSTV at home, go for
GOTV and upgrade
when your income
upgrades. It’s still the
same CNN anyway!

6. Eat healthy meals and
protect your family
from mosquitoes to
avoid going to the
hospital always.

7. Take advantage of
food and fruits in
season, its cheaper
and you can be
creative to create
amazing meals.

8.Don’t copy your
neighbor’s lifestyle,
she earns well and her
husband is a ‘big
man’

9. Don’t follow trends,
wear clean well-
ironed clothes and
keep your hair neat.
You would still look
good.

10. Keep your circle
small, keep only
friends that have
senses!

11. Above all things, have
the fear of God, have
integrity, don’t be lazy
and be prayerful.

12. Planning is the key, if
you fail to plan, you
plan to FAIL.

13. Don't do more than
your budget this
Time, there is no
award given to best
family that wore an
expensive cloth for
the year

14.Don't be in
competition with
anyone...
The purpose of shoes
and clothes are to
make us smart and
good.


Thanks for reading and have a wonderful and blessed year ahead.
Happy 2023

please next time kindly add copied ,inugo?

Love myself no matter what!

Greattestman:
My mother has been threatening to commit suicide if I won't leave the house for her and her husband to be (my step-father to be). She gave me ultimatum of some days so I decided to call my uncle in the US and told him what was happening, he advised me to leave and get another house and he promised to pay my rent.

Two days ago he sent me 300, 000 Naira and I paid my rent 50, 000. I packed in today but my mother doesn't know my house and I'm planning to cut my mother off my life.

I seriously miss my father.

sorry dear, is your Dad late? Don't cut her off completely ,keep a tab on her just in case love dey shack am

Waiting for robust response from slowmirr and Booggieman

Pretty woman!

Happy New year to them!

megatran:
This is a good one. I live in the heart of Uyo three years. Where I reside has steady light since we are on a prepaid network. I use broadband internet as there are companies that render wifi to home services here.
I will say life here is more affordable than Lagos and since you say you work online, you would not have to mind that good office jobs are scarce here.
I am planning on relocating from here abroad though. My major draw back is selling off all my many properties. If you choose Uyo and do not have properties, I wouldn't mind doing a rent and property transfer.
By the way, I am inspired by your post. I am in my early thirties and I sometimes get depressed about where I am at right now. Somehow, knowing that someone older than me is optimistic about life in general gives hope.

Awwwww God bless you

olasaad:
That's how most of you end up with a second wife

and even end up dead at times

Naijalarry:
The female soldier was said to have travelled home for the Christmas celebration.

very heart breaking, may she be found alive !

Painful though I did a refill

Kajaard:
These types of weird news can only happen in weird countries like Uganda, Zimbabwe, Kenya and Zambia

lol, weird news always coming from them!

SodiumValproate:
Why will a man marry another man?

and the so called man produced too beautiful kids? Can we see a pic of your wife, GF or sisters in Nene Leaks voice?

Going back to your vomit is the worst that can ever happen to any woman, let your yes be your yes and your no firmly said , . . . . Most Nigerian men na from Obi_Akpor and not willing to forgive being publicly rejected

What a painful and wicked way to die, she must have confessed under duress to avoid being lynched yet they lynched her , may her soul rest in peace

I can never eat Dog nomwtter what, I love dogs ve it ekuke or foreign breed. . . . I look forward to eating well roasted and spiced python

Chai, women learn how not to go back to your vomit no matter what, let your no be your no and yes be yes . . . . . I bet he won't take her back

Seems the man is from Obi_akpor local Government, Tueeeeh

OboOlora:
For most guys, na hook up girls, baba Ijebu kiosk and those satchet ogogoro dem go miss pass

lwkmd!

Looks very venomous