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Iceyjayz:
Don't let me e-slap that stupidity out of you, are you any better than them?

Mtchew.

Iceyjayz:
And to think this one just registered on this forum this month, fake thing.

Mtchew

Flamees:
Period no mind the guy
If you no fit payback no borrow
Some of them deserve this

Although am not a loan agent but he Loan app no dey do charity work

Many people borrow because they are hungry and not because they want to do profitable business with it. Lol, person dey Blane money app while him come from family, why him no beg him relatives to borrow am money and see if them love am pass loan apps

I thought blood is thicker than water.

I borrow from loan apps ONLY WHEN I want to run a quick profitable business. Last money I borrowed was to add to what I have to get a bigger freezer and any 1k that I got I make quick transfer to them. I don't wait for the money to be big o. As long as I close for the day, I must pay something.

Second time I borrowed was to buy bag of snails because it was becoming expensive and I got a fair deal from a farmer in another state , I ttok the loan, bought it and any sell I made from the snail I pay back IMMIDIATELY. I DONT give myself any excuse. I sleep and wake up knowing I'm a debtor and the need to clear up my debts. If you're hungry beg for food, there's no shame in that. Ask for help, DON'T TAKE LOAN if you're not working or doing PROFITABLE business.

Babara1994:
If na rape case, you go support them. see her fish brain.

Like your snail brain.

lereinter:
Who told you that?



Use your brain na

Oga stop borrowing if you don't have a business that can enable you pay back. If you borrow, pay the damn money or don't borrow at all.

Many of you can abuse privileges as if your banks won't do worst. Nonsense.

ShadowAMG:
Seems you work for the loan apps? but a thief is someone who steals. A loan is OFFERED & not STOLEN......therefore not a criminal offence by Nigerian law if the debtor cannot afford to repay! Get your facts right!

Don't borrow if you can't pay. I work for no loan app. I just know lots of debtors borrow not to pay back.

Hungry protesters. Look at the other guy's leg, looking like one of my pregnant she goat.

Poverty is a sin.

JovialJune:
Honestly, and some foolish guys are supporting him thinking he has won and shown authority, he has down a seed of discord and resistance in her, she will either shrug his reactions off with a cold heart of steel henceforth, or match his stupidity and foolishness fire for fire.

You shouldn't be surprised. It's normal here with them.

A thief is a debtor that has refused to pay back.

bigpicture001:
You say this trash cuz its not you it haponed to....if it were you, you wouldnt even say this rubbish

Stop quoting trash.

You locked out your wife the entire night and slept in a hotel?!?
That's extreme, if na me na pant I go start to wear go out.

solofresh:
The fishes are now scarce and you should hold on to them when they come closer or else
I don't wanna talk too much

The fishes are not scarce AT ALL. I don't believe this tales from men who still wants to feel important in this biting hardship OR women who thinks being an evening newspaper is a curse when their mates are lying cold in unmarked Graves and mortuaries.

linearity:
You are confusing men with Playboys.....Playboys full town, know the difference so it does not end in tears.

Some ladies didn’t know the difference or were indifferent about it, now they have ended up as side-chicks.

If you end up as side-chick with a Playboy, it means you are very good as a lady, hence the promotion to side-chick, otherwise Playboys are known mostly for hit-n-run....don’t get me wrong, they can be hitting it for weeks, months or even years, but las-las, they will run.

Foolish girls fall for playboys. A girl who thinks she's got too much time to waste with a man is a silly one.

MansoryMX:
As in eh! All they watch is Soundcity, Porn, BBN, MTVbase or Tracetv, Facebook or Instagram. They don’t watch documentaries or travel and food channel to learn important things. They don’t even go to YouTube to learn or acquire skills online. Dumb fuckkkks!

Sincerely, it's sad really. I mean why waste so much on subscription only to watch crap channels? I just silently read how more than 80 percent of commenter not knowing what species of snake is that. One of the most popular snakes one sees around na WA o

MansoryMX:
It’s best you keep quiet abeg. That’s not black mamba

I think many Nigeria youths Do not watch documentaries. Their ignorance to nature and animals is just sad.

Nightaccountant:
It's called the black mamba bro

You guys need to subscribe to DSTV Animal documentaries more often please. THIS IS NOT BLACK MAMBA.

pocohantas:
Just keep them as side-guys. You no need marriage to eat different soups. Na make you no jam the one that will ataga you.

It's true o. Men can't control their jealousy. They react to jealousy even far worse than women, reason why they had to go to evil forest and invoke the oracle magun on their wives.

pocohantas:
The only problem with two husbands, especially two NIGERIAN husbands, is that they have no usefulness.

It is not about money because even Linda Ikeji and Genevieve won’t consider it. Not forgetting that there are a lot of poor polygamous men and most polygamous homes have the man impregnating while the mother fends for the kids and tries to keep them together, since her houseband is always out hunting for newer toto.

So, one is enough stress, why add extra(s)?

A man can marry multiple wives because women are useful just by being women. At least they can birth kids and maybe take care of the home. They will submit to him, take turns to visit his mother in the village and wash her hollandis.

What do you now gain from marrying two NIGERIAN husbands?

- They won’t submit.

- Tell them to help you add small water to the rice that you are already boiling, they will say you are emasculating them.

- To provide sef is now wahala for them.

- You will age very fast and no, it is not nature. Except nature is a Nigerian man. You will age fast because you would constantly be blamed for the actions of two or more men who are supposedly more logical than you.

- They don’t have wombs, you will be the one carrying pregnancies and birthing them.

- Since they are polygamous in nature (according to them o), you will spend your youthful years fighting side-chicks and attending all the revival programs in UAR.

- You will do the caregiving yourself because as usual, they are always too tired and busy to bond with their kids, but they have enough time to bond with side-chicks. Go to bars, you will see them there, laughing like hyenas, drinking Hero and chewing peppered kpomo.

If he wants to finish you kpatakpata, he will go and lodge in a hotel with his daughter’s mate and get killed.

Men won’t do it because of ego, women won’t do it because it is of no use.

Sorry, I will pass.

People differ truly. I will jump at the idea because I love varieties as _4ck.Why should I eat one particular soup for the rest of my life when I can eat varieties albeit legally.

Nna ehn, I will marry like 4 husbands. One from East, west, North and South.

Hmmm...
Monsters you voted.

Rozcol:
Thank you

Pretend as if you're not hurt too. Even when you start talking, DO NOT contribute in any verbal discussion about her relationship with her or anyone else. Once it comes up, keep quiet as it's none of your business.

Rozcol:
Its not exactly the way you painted it,she was in the know all the while he was after me,she never said anything positive about him but secretly started dating him,she's snakelike and why was she hiding it?if she were to be open about it I won't have had any issues with her

Wow! MY Bad.
Since she didn't say anything positive about him then I advice you stay away from her. But, you're not supposed to confront her, I think that's childish. Again, you should have a mind of your own in decision making as not all advice must be taken into consideration.

When a friend tells you a guy is bad, the onus is on you to do a background check to see if truly the person is bad. I have come to understand that sometimes extraordinary folks are painted black and that is the more reason I hardly go with the flow. I'm always interested in people, many people rejected because I would want to unrevel the mystery surrounding them to see what others claim they saw. In several of my findings, I understand it's just human error and envy. It's Normal to throw stones on trees with ripe fruits. And Envy and backbiting has its headquarters in Nigeria.

Don't be too close to her, but let it slide. MOST importantly Do not reveal your paroles to her.

ThEGodFaThEr103:
You're truly selfish. You rejected the guy and he opted for your friend and your friend accepted and now you're having issues with your friend over a guy you rejected his proposals. You cannot eat your cake and have it. Your friend made a wise decision knowingfully well that "man dey scarce for market".

No be say man dey scarce for market. Man no dey scarce AT ALL. Na money dey scarce for man hand. The thing be say she don see her kind of man, and she quick grab am before the food cold.

Yes you're selfish and a very bitter friend. I wouldn't want to keep friends like you either, as you may seize a chance to dish off what you don't want because giving it to me might be of great help to me especially if it makes me more attractive. I know girls like you and I avoid them like plague.

Your kind are purely vile and egocentric and should be avoided at all cost.

The guy wooed you, you rejected him. Then he wooed your friend and she accepted. For me, if I was you(even though that's impossible because this heart of mine gat so much honey), I will be sure to tell her to be careful and be sure he cares for her and if she says she's sure, then I will support her wholeheartedly. I'm sure if tomorrow the dude puts a ring on her you will come here wailing that your friend stole your husband - to-be.

Apologize to her and be good. There are many fishes uncaught still swimming around.

10 years relationship? You get mind.

ibedun:
And you can survive a war with men? It is surely coming. Here in the West the backlash is starting to brew. Check the marital rate and the sheer number of miserable women in society. It’ll scare you!

Marriage is overhyped.
Even in West, men now avoid women like plague and opt for synthetic sex dolls, . Nice to know just to avoid ish, you get to pay for her body and still make her enjoy.

Lick ya wounds man!

FORWARDEVERLY:
Continue Wailing...

Please don't do this. Decline with all your strengths. Marry a man ONLY when the reasons are for real.Not all business are worth venturing into. Be careful.

Please dump her as soon as she gains admission. It's going to save her loads of your insecurities. Ultimately, you sef go rest.

Onetimentertain:
I dey follow your comments for some time now, abeg, wetin you hold against naija men

I hold nothing personal.Fortunately, there are nice men around me. I just don't like the ugly thread of abuses on Nigeria women especially on here. For what?

Hmm...

The challenges of being a man in a modern world is the aftermath of precautionary measures the west and other civilized communities has put in place to reduce the brutal roles men played in women's lives in time past. Women have always been at the receiving end of men's egotistical excesses.

" Na woman she be leave am", may also be a reverse psychological to restrain men who on a normal day would never fight their fellow men standing on the street. I have seen men argue at moto parks, swear and curse each other, flex muscles as to what damage they are likely cause to each other, only for them to settle their disputes, go home and beat up their wives, sisters for issues as little as not putting enough meat on their meals.

Funny thing is many Nigeria men will always defend any brutality that will affect their mothers and sisters from their gender, but will want to exercise same thing to other people's female gender. If the thing dey vex you if them beat your mother like thief, why you come won beat another person pikin like thief. Talk about hypocrisy.
Una just won hustle, _4ck, let the woman born, If she no born push am comot carry another, beat them if them talk pass their mouth like the old days?! Na this modern times has really set a good precedence, and in no distant times I see pro women laws sweeping over the entire black continent. That time to do anyhow because say Una get _preek Don pass. These Era olosho dey slaughter billionaires like chicken...that fear e be like say e don dey comot for this generation of women body. After all Agbaya wey expose him big hairy white blockus for small girl hand gats no complain if she set the 'bush' on fire when the _preek 'spit' for her body.

I'm not here to advocate for women who throw the first punch, it's insane to want to fight that kind of battle, but we all know that men usually, more often throw the first punches. You all want a woman who don't nag, who swallow your _bullshiit just so the avoid those punches, you know you just want to get away with being a bully, messing up and expecting the emotional hurt to be swallowed like it's nothing BUT, you can't take half of what you dish if the roles are changed.

Guess what? That time is long gone.
Now women get to _4ck and cheat even better than you do. And you now get to wail and gnash your teeth all over the media. Now you get to open threads lamenting on how we sleep around and why you're gonna opt for being a baby papa as if you still gats to get away with it. Boy, you go Stull hustle bring money for your children and your baby mama go still squeeze some from the money to look good enough to _4ck another man. And if you tlak too much or won get strong head, at your old age when your bones are frail and your _preek looks like the hopeless remains of an overgrilled hotdog, we may get to decide if your children visits you or not.

You guys should stop crying foul, women have been through hell and still trying to manage their lives amidst societal expectations. From being called olosho even if their hustle legit, to being called old hag, then Evening newspapers even to the good ones who's dedicated their lives to their careers, to all manner of demeaning names, yet e no do Una. Make Una rest abeg.

Next complainant please!