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PoliticsRe: Th Igbos: From A Rejected Stone To A Corner Stone. by LadyT(f): 8:48pm On Apr 27, 2009
Must we have Biafra part 46 again?

Come on guys
RomanceRe: Wats Ur View On A Girl Who Always Packs Her Load Out At The Sligthest Quarrel? by LadyT(f): 7:45pm On Apr 26, 2009
I hope you dont hit her or anything nasty like that.

Next time she packs out change the locks!

Let her come and beg.

I hate people who do that because thats the only way they think they can solve arguments. Even when they have kids they will contine packing out like theres no tomorrow.
RomanceRe: He Left Me For Her: Need Your Prayers E Jo. by LadyT(f): 11:35am On Apr 26, 2009
*sigh* I know it hurts so very bad now but I promise you it will get better. You are right Karma is a bitch and trust me he will get his. Hes a selfish heartless person and he lived a lie for 8 years?

My suggestion to you is I hope all joint accounts etc have been closed. If you need to pursue him in the courts for YOUR money do it and wash your hands of him.

Please stop the sex. 8 years is a long time and I know its hard to just let go. Look after your child take a deep breath and know that this pain right here right now will fade.
RomanceRe: Can You Marry A Rape Victim? by LadyT(f): 11:28pm On Apr 25, 2009
I dont understand whats so hard for Jack to understand.

Lots of other guys said no fair play to them but why do you need to go over the top and make rape victims out to be the scum of the earth?
RomanceRe: Can You Marry A Rape Victim? by LadyT(f): 11:11pm On Apr 25, 2009
You are so sad honestly. Pathetic
RomanceRe: Can You Marry A Rape Victim? by LadyT(f): 11:04pm On Apr 25, 2009
Please delete this Topic Seun its clear the Mods such as Debo cannot handle their jobs.
RomanceRe: Can You Marry A Rape Victim? by LadyT(f): 10:53pm On Apr 25, 2009
angry

Im sorry Debo where are your glasseshuh

Did you miss this trash that he posted what he has said is worse than what Jackal said!

Other people said no as well did they get jumped? hissssssss oshi

jack tweed:
Oh Please undecided!

Y'all get a life! Why are you all getting Gung-Ho about my own opinions about rape victims? Was i the one that raped them? Is it a must to feel sympathetic or emotional about rape victims? Do i get a Purple heart or federal award for being emotional and having some form of empathy for them? Whats my own? undecided

They were unlucky and someone banged the sh**t outta them. End of story! They will continue to carry that scar as Rape victims for life till they die? Will omo or detergent wash away the fact that they were raped? All the sympathy and hypocritical sorrowful talk and words of consolation will never equate them with normal human beings afterwards. They belong to their own colony of rape vctims and thats the way i see it. They are dregs of the society and no man in his reasonable sense will feel attracted to a rape victim because his mind will always wander to that faithful day and imagine other men who are with girls that are rape free.

What about the potential diseases they might have accumulated? Most of them ie the rape victims are future killing machines looking out to infect other men with the Disease because they harbour some kind of grudge against men. Who cares. Once raped, forever raped. I dont have to empathize with you lot. I despises rape victims and they shouldnt be touched with a 10 foot pole.

Men who date them, do so at their own risk, emotion and life. I have said it before, if my wife gets raped, its over. No begging, no remorse, nothing whatsoever because i cannot love her anymore and if she is looking for self pity, she can go hug all of you. I'll rather feel happier being with another rape free chick to be a step mom to my kids and wife than harbour the shame and embarrasment of having a rape victim as my date or wife. If also my female child gets raped, well, thats her headache and the problem of her future husband not mine. I came to this world alone and i am dying alone. I only came to fulfill nature's quest to populate the world and continue the cycle of human DNA. Apart from that, its none of my business to worry about a rape victim and her impending calamities.

Most of you dont want to even talk about the silly women that put themselves in this position to be raped but when they are raped you begin to cry fowl! undecided

So bottom line, i cannot marry one in this life or the next and if we were married and she gets raped either through her fault or by accident, she will be shown the door. Thats her wahala not mine. Men dont get raped and in Nigeria its almost unheard of to her a man raping another man, so all you haters wishing that for me should try and be more original next time grin

As for you all that stated that maybe my mum was raped, well thats her wahala if she was raped and it has nothing to do with me. Its her husband you should forward all your inquiries to and if he chose to stay with her after the alledged rape, its his wahala not mine.

Finally, i am not a product of rape. More like a very happy union. You need to see the baby pictures of me with my parents from the moment my mum was pregnant for me till my first birthday. Joy unlimited and pictures say a million words. As for you products of rape, well. . .I cant shout and i hope the stigma would continue to haunt you that you are a products of rape and everyone would know that your mom was raped grin 

Rape Victims are plagues and ought to be seriously avoided!
RomanceRe: Can You Marry A Rape Victim? by LadyT(f): 10:46pm On Apr 25, 2009
debosky:
I don't see why people should should be banned for holding contrary opinions.

The thread has asked a question and he has stated his opinion. He never said he is in support of rape, he is only unsympathetic - which is his rightful prerogative.

I do not find his opinions acceptable to me, but at the same time, censorship or calling people stupid names (as people have done on this thread) never made them change their minds either. I would rather try to convince him to see the other side or ignore him.
Polictical correctness gone wrong.

So I guess pedophiles should be given free speech as well abi?
RomanceRe: Can You Marry A Rape Victim? by LadyT(f): 10:42pm On Apr 25, 2009
I'm really disgusted with Jack Tweed comments but you Debo how can you even talk like this.  Its disgusting if you cant understand something why dont you shut up.

debosky:
Y'all should lay off Jack Tweed. He is entitled to his own (albeit warped and deluded grin) opinions - no one has to pity or love or want to marry rape victims, it is a personal choice.

Besides, why call them 'victims' in the first place? If someone lied to you or slapped you, do you suddenly become a lie victim or a slap victim? You already make them out as objects of pity and I will object to that. They have had an unfortunate incident in their lives, but that should not be a defining event used to describe them forever after the event.
FoodRe: Eat Egusi, Die Early by LadyT(f): 12:25am On Apr 25, 2009
angry

SO 4play this is where you are?

Your wife will hear of this.
FoodRe: Eat Egusi, Die Early by LadyT(f): 12:09am On Apr 25, 2009
cook it using vegetable oil or sunflower. I hate palm oil. Without palmoil egusi is fine
TravelRe: ...:::::::: Truly A Phoenix Rising From The Ashes - Angola ::::::::... by LadyT(f): 12:06am On Apr 25, 2009
Is Abuja not all built up as well?
Foreign AffairsRe: Nigerian Girl Faces Racist Threat For Winning Uk Beauty Contest. by LadyT(f): 11:27pm On Apr 24, 2009
JJYOU:
there are more tribalists in naija than you have racists in britain.

[size=22pt]WINNER BEST POST OF THE WEEK[/size].  many thanks
Thanks hun LOL


@StephenP  I think shes 23 not 13 shes in medical school apparantly.  Can I also point out shes actually mixed race not black.
Foreign AffairsRe: Nigerian Girl Faces Racist Threat For Winning Uk Beauty Contest. by LadyT(f): 11:24pm On Apr 24, 2009
Sagamite:
Kobo and co,

I disagree but will not argue too much because I have not lived in the States.

But I have never had any course for concern careerwise in the UK. NEVER!

Most black people in the UK just resort to claiming racism if things don't go their way here when they are not qualified for a job, they did not prepare well (this one normally happens to entry level african kids that know nothing about interviewing) and if they do not understand the advantage a profile gives you.

My guess is that in the states, there are a wide list of universities that are highly respected so people tend to hirer not using profile too much. But in the UK, their are only a handful of roughly 20 universities that are seen as exclusive, if you attend these Unis and have a good sugar mouth then you wouldn't find it too hard to get the job you want.

Most black kids I see just make severe errors from the start by not attending universities that reflect their abilities or potentials and this is mainly due to their own choice. In the states too, I take it that black people that attend the lowly black colleges don't get to the top?

I have had reasonably fast career because I have the right profile. Racism never crosses my mind when looking for a job, there was one that I was the one selected out of 400 applicants despite telling the interviewers I had absolutely no clue about aspects of the job. And I am not one of those that mimicks some stupid and ridiculous Oyinbo accent. I have also been practising "Proudly Nigerian" well before the attitude became popular in the mid 2000s.

I believe (before Obama was even selected) if any of the 3 major parties of UK had selected a quality black person (like Obama) as their candidate for PM, British people would have voted fot the person massively. The problem there is that black people in the UK rarely even bother to get involved in politics and the ones that do are not really exceptional (imagine, David Lammy is the best ever). And also the UK PM selection is highly old boy network linked, this is not racism, it is just deep profiling. If the numerous African kids that attend the super private schools (like Eton) had stayed and joined politics in the UK, they would have had an equal chance now.
Very well said and written
Foreign AffairsRe: Nigerian Girl Faces Racist Threat For Winning Uk Beauty Contest. by LadyT(f): 11:28am On Apr 24, 2009
OneNaija:
Most Nigerians don't think Before the post on this Thread.Sometime I think they Lack African Mentality Or they have suffer from Poverty before they left to UK. They always Worship American and UK.You need to come Home to get a Respect then you can Able to Think before you Post. Well I wont write much.
Is your visa stuck at the embassy or something?
I suggest 3 days fasting and prayer with periodic screaming of Holy ghost fire!
FamilyRe: Should Her Husband Pound Yam For Her? by LadyT(f): 11:24am On Apr 24, 2009
Buy the wife pounded yam flour if she cant pound.
Foreign AffairsRe: Nigerian Girl Faces Racist Threat For Winning Uk Beauty Contest. by LadyT(f): 11:15am On Apr 24, 2009
You mis-understand me I agree with you. I personally think its worst when a black person is racist to someone else. Should we not know better?

Look on here you have igbo and yoruba battles etc going back and forth. And these guys are the same skin colour!

MrCrackles:
Still not a justifiable reason to keep stoking up the fires of racism! grin cheesy
Foreign AffairsRe: Nigerian Girl Faces Racist Threat For Winning Uk Beauty Contest. by LadyT(f): 11:11am On Apr 24, 2009
MrCrackles:

Absolutely!
I will tell you something, nowadays, black people do it a lot more! cheesy
Because we are conditioned to think everyone is racist but us. Because we have suffered for so long!
Foreign AffairsRe: Nigerian Girl Faces Racist Threat For Winning Uk Beauty Contest. by LadyT(f): 11:04am On Apr 24, 2009
shocked You want to do what to me? Look find someone else to try out your perverted fantasies on. Or better yet get an English teacher. Were omo.

OneNaija:
@ Lazy Tina. I like to dork you,Never mind I don't want to be contacted. You understand
Foreign AffairsRe: Nigerian Girl Faces Racist Threat For Winning Uk Beauty Contest. by LadyT(f): 10:57am On Apr 24, 2009
OneNaija:
@Lazy Tina I think you miss your Period If you want me to help you find it,No problem I am doctor in that. Foolish Coward.You will lost in UK.I don't know if you know the Village where you come from.Well You don't even have vision in your life why am i talking to you. Stupid Naughty Girl
ROTFLMAO grin do you want to spank me?

Sagamite:
huh huh huh

This guy has the right to vote?  angry
LMAO!!! wink
FamilyRe: My Husband Is Killing Me Slowly by LadyT(f): 10:39am On Apr 24, 2009
It was a simple question.  Did you not break your husband TV while drunk?

Im just tired you thinking you're husband treating you badly has something to do with his culture.  Get a grip.
FamilyRe: My Husband Is Killing Me Slowly by LadyT(f): 10:33am On Apr 24, 2009
Leilah:
this amebo should be banned with all her name calling.
Have you smashed any TVs lately in a drunken rage?
Foreign AffairsRe: Nigerian Girl Faces Racist Threat For Winning Uk Beauty Contest. by LadyT(f): 10:30am On Apr 24, 2009
OneNaija I curse the girl you said raped you.  Because you now have brain damage.

idiot
RomanceRe: How Do I Tell Him,please Help Me. by LadyT(f): 8:40am On Apr 24, 2009
NO! Can't you tell him you have a boyfriend?

You need to let him down gently. Its not his fault but yours. Or tell him you just want to be friends (like most naija guys understand that*rolls eyes*)
FamilyRe: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by LadyT(f): 10:25pm On Apr 23, 2009
You have a PHD as you have claimed yet where is your common sense.

I promise you this guy is using you and laughing at you behind your back.  Dont think that by coming here you are able to understand his culture no my love he is a striaght up arsehole.

Dont you have 5kids now?  Where in Gods name are you meant to find money to help him raise his other little runts?

He is only using you for money and papers.

Women like you get on my nerves after he has used you dry you will come crying "why are Nigerian men so evil" 

How many topics do  you need to make before you liten to the same bloody advice we have been giving you for ages?

Hasnt he hit you before?
Cheated on you lots of times?
Smoked weed like a chimmey?
Told you have stupid you are?
Demanded you help him with papers?

Need I go on fucking hell man.
FamilyRe: Husband Has Baby With Other Woman by LadyT(f): 8:57pm On Apr 23, 2009
BRIDGET!!!!!!!!!!

I CANNOT BELIEVE YOU MARRIED THIS DIRT BAG WEED SMOKING EXAM FAILING ARSEHOLE!!!!!!!!!!!


Do you care about your kids at all?

Just dump him for Gods sake!

Whats wrong with you!

Are you this d i c k whipped?
RomanceRe: Naija Women: White Guy Over A Black Guy by LadyT(f): 8:25pm On Apr 23, 2009
Akata means fox. Black american cunning like a fox . . .
PoliticsRe: EFCC Arrests Dangote. Charges NERC Boss, Others. by LadyT(f): 8:07pm On Apr 23, 2009
You just noticed?

4 Play:
In the long term, a share price is the product of the interplay between demand and supply. Except on rare occasions, you cannot ''crash'' share prices if the underlying fundamentals support a bullish price. Nothing Dangote is accused of fits into the exceptions.

Our country is in the grip of morons.
RomanceRe: Naija Women: White Guy Over A Black Guy by LadyT(f): 8:05pm On Apr 23, 2009
Whoever had the best personality.

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