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meimoks:
I think poster is friend A

I think the poster is friend B because he knows everything. Friend just suspects.

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EMEzzy:
oya add ya own

I no get my own o! I be village girl.

[quote author=EMEzzy poste

princejenks:
done

OK. Thanks for the alert.

JohnPortar:
Can't remember asking ur opinion

You posted for people to read... You know we are free to give opinions, you don't need to ask us.

Enegod:

Make he catch you using his expression. He's one *crazy* guy. I remember his comment about "chickens chasing them in Lagos"

ArslordBaba:
A female colleague in office just asked me this question and I was speechless, every woman wants to be loved and sticked with but is unfortunate that 70 percent married men prefer rocking it down with girlfriend and womanfriend outside than a matrimonial wife. How should I answer this.

Tell her you belong to the remaining 30% so you don't know

Enegod:
I'm a lover not fighter

Where is Mr Cork?

JohnPortar:
So after I posted that stuff about miss jenny, some of those girls that insulted me sent me PMS

Like seriously! Begging me to love them instead of miss jenny and its really depressing

I for like show screenshots but its against NL rules

Yeye dey smell

Op, I lack words for your post...?

@ princejenks could you divide the write up into 3 or 4 paragraphs? It will make reading easier.
I haven' t read it because it's too congested.

The girl wants to benefit more from the relationship. You know her better...it could be about money, material things, or marriage.

Op, sue them for forced unsolicited services

menix:
Oga its not jst Mtn oo..
Airtel ve joined them buh I think dat of MTN is quite annoying.

U can sue them for [b]Line stalking [/b]or battery degredation.

Am not a lawyer buh I clean d law court..

As long as you work in within the law courts compound, you are as good as a lawyer

RoyalRoy:
You got banned mistakenly by the anti spam bot.

You have been unbanned.

Sorry for any inconvenience.

Thanks.
Now it's working

Seun:
Pls Mail Supermods next time. The antispambot thought "kodozion" was a spam word. Up to 4 people were banned but have all been unbanned.

Thanks. Next time I will do that.

Am still banned... what do i do?

Yesterday I posted some comments on the topic "Need advice" in family section.

All the comments I made are still on the first page of that thread, except one where I quoted another person. It read, "It could be true. Op, tell us when she's finishing school so that readers can give you more advice."

I just want to know why I was banned. Below are my comments and the link to that thread.

https://www.nairaland.com/2168487/need-advice#31109223

CC Seun
RoyalRoy
Tgirl4real

EMEzzy:
idk im speaking from when i was growing up,are u surprised?

Yep. Am a little surprised, but no problem

EMEzzy:
11.The hawkers that run faster than usain bolt
12.The famous 'it was white' conductor singlet
13.A lady and conductor abusing each other(it happens all the time)
14.Children unclad and with substances in their nose playing football
15.People stepping on each other while walking

You mean there are unclad kids in Lagos?

EMEzzy:
11.The hawkers that run faster than usain bolt
12.The famous 'it was white' conductor singlet
13.A lady and conductor abusing each other(it happens all the time)
14.Children unclad and with substances in their nose playing football
15.People stepping on each other while walking

You mean there are unclad kids in Lagos?

emusmith:
I am one of the gods

which of the gods u be?

1, 8, 9, 10...that's who I am naturally, I don't do it for guys only; it applies to both genders.

NO!!!!!

Melahou:
it would have been a different case if he was around...i feel the lady wants to take advantage of the
guy`s absent to extort him. its obvious she`s not prudent and besides she has bad blood with his mum

That could be true.

@ kodozion, when is she completing her studies?
Answer this question, it will help readers give you more advice.

thorpido:
When you keep siring babies instead of doing the proper thing by asking for a lady's hand in marriage and doing the formal ceremony,it breeds a lot of problems.
Can you come down to Nigeria,visit the girl's parents and fix a date for wedding?Try and talk to your mother too and find out why she is not on good terms with the lady.

I agree with you 100%

Melahou:
if you continue with such spending you`ll get nowhere...
its better you let her go since you are not arund

Letting her go means he will have 2 kids with different mothers, and will soon find another baby mama.
Remember, she is a student so how to do expect her to meet her expenses when it's the op that contributed to her predicament? Op has to take responsibility.

It looks like the main problem between you and her is money. If it were not for money, she would not have said what she said.

When is she completing school?
If it's soon, continue supporting her (not only the child). Once she's through, encourage her to look for a job. That will help her meet her financial needs and you guys will be ok. To me she's a nice lady. She even went to apologise to your mum (for God knows what).

Raising a child is not easy. It's not only about the money. When the kid is sick, she has to worry. She also has to worry about the kid when she goes to school. Probably she doesn't sleep at night because the baby cries or is awake. On top of that, you don't know the kind of stress she's passing through at her parents house...In your own words, the father asked about you... If you put yourself in her shoes, you will know that she has tried.

Before this incident, were you planning to marry her?

Op, you need a wife. This business of getting ladies pregnant and leaving them is not good.

Enegod:
Did the poor OP's woman beat the shit out of his poor little asss?

johnjon:
Wow finally.

Tag:
LadyX

Thanks!
Lemme read it

*modified*
Op, your statistics of 90% are too exaggerated. Abeg modify that!

Revolva:
You don't need to know and I will like to beat u also

Na fight we go do

shumuel:
... Continued

I eventually decided to avenge myself, she doesn't deserve all these happiness, i laboured for it, it could had been me, no it should had been me, she is a bad friend and i would make it known to her but how would i get Segun back, i seriously need a plan, i must work out something, this marriage must not hold without me being the Bride, yes thats what am going to do, i must come out with a great plan by tomorrow, she can't just have Segun like that.

I closed the stupid mail and relaxed, i have to come up with an idea, i can't just lose Segun to Mosunmola like that without a fight, he is mine, i saw him first didn't i, i mean he asked me out and not her.

I paniced because i felt have lost a good man forever.
I felt so weak and disturbed, i can't have a headache now, i need to think a way out, i must get Segun to Love me again.

Another mail came in, its was Mosun she is pleading for a reply and telling me she won't stop not until i accept to be her Chiefbridesmaid.

'' you made a promise remember, we vowed to eachother, please we are sisters and i wont relent, not untill you make me happy, please forgive and forget. Waiting impatiently for you reply.
Your loving sister,
'Mosunmola''
the second mail read.
Can't she just leave me alone, what a selfish friend i have all she
cares about is herself and no one else.

When i was about deleting her mails and idea strucks in.

Yes... that is what i will do, wonderful!

To be Continued...

Abeg come and continue....it's getting *juicier*. Loving it

Very good points.
Well researched & presented.