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Dtruthspeaker:
When you die on earth you are not going to "Nothingness" not just yet anyway.

But you are going to live in one of 2 houses OF YOUR CHOOSING to wit- 1) House of Torment and Gnashing of Teeths till your debt is Paid. Or

2) Life of Living Very Well in Joy and Laughter and Security and Sweetness and Pleasantness!

Richnerd69:
After the lifting of the inter state travel ban, it was a coincidence it collided with my current work shift which allows me to stay 1 month in and 1 month away.

It was my 1month away already, so, I decided to go see my Cousins in Lagos to spend some good time and ease myself off stress in PH. The day I arrived at my cousin's, I was introduced to this pretty lady who came over, a good friend of my cousin sister, I won't lie, she was drop dead gorgeous and I wanted her already. I warned my sister , sternly, not to say anything special or too revealing about me to her friend cuz she knows how to hype me to people , also, I don't want some parasitic leech loving me for gains.

Days later I went out to get suya at night, and i discovered she stayed in the next compound close to us and she was just in front of her gate, outside, where I spotted her . I walked closely to where she was and stroke a convo , I was chyking her and making jokes. She seemed down to earth and tolerating , whilst laughing at my dry jokes. When I noticed her sudden disinterest to continue the chatter, I quickly took her number and suggest we chat later. I got home and told my bro and sis that I was interested in the lady, and they said I shouldn't go for it, but I didn't heed.

We moved to WhatsApp and we started talking everyday, she was cool with me and she came over often than she did before . Over phone, one evening , She opened up to me that my sister wouldn't say anything much about me to her, so she asked me what I did for a living cuz I'm always home , and I told her I was laid off from my job and for 2months I've been at home and I came to scout for a job in Lagos. She was calm afterwards and we said our usual good night. Ever since, she stopped replying quick, some times she leaves me on read or she would reply with one word. For a week, I didn't see her. I knew I f* up cuz I had already told her I liked her , tho I knew I would be leaving soon.

So one day , she came to see my sis and I was in my room. I heard her voice, she was asking if I was in, so I reluctantly came out to see her. We had to talk, so I spoke in my dialect so my sis would excuse us. I asked her why she was treating me cold, she said "nothing". I persisted and she said she had a boyfriend and she knows what I want which she can't give in to. I said nothing.

She asked me for my laptop so she could take movies, I couldn't give her cuz I was about to attend a Zoom meeting with my colleagues, but I had some movies on my phone and I told her to take from there. I unlocked my phone and gave it to her.

Once she was in possession of my phone, I think I heard a message notification that popped in , it was my monthly pay that came in , yes we are paid even when we are away from work. I'm certain she checked my inbox and my alert and also from other banks cuz there was no notification icon . Still in the moment, She oscillated her face by gazing at me and my phone in awe. I was oblivious of the motive behind that, I shrugged and asked her what she was doing , she said " nothing". So I continued with my meeting.


Ever since , she became nice again, she would even bring food for me in the morning and sometimes buy stuff like small chops for us to eat and gist together.
Then she started asking me if i had a girl in Lagos, that she likes me and wants us to work something. Knowing fully well she just want some of my cake... I rebuked her for having rejected me before, and I declined her request. I told my cousins and we laughed about it tho. Its really hard to find love when you are well to do. I'd be leaving on Monday, and I won't tell her. We could have worked , cuz I could easily fly her out to see me anyday , but she'd be loyal only to the paper.... This is a trait I see in ladies today, this I dislike so much.

Tabletuner:
Ok but I think a flyover would have been better

Tabletuner:
Was traffic the reason for the reconstruction?

Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.

paulolee:
a big congrats to leeds after being close to promotion numerous times but not lucky, finally bielsa get it right this time..
leeds are a very good team to watch, it would be nice having them in epl because i really love that thier beautiful playing pattern and thier swift kinda play just like city and wolves..
i just wish they adapt fast to the competitive epl and they live up to the little bielsa hype and stake thier claim in the epl..
it wount be nice seeing them struggling in the other bottom half of the table or battling for relegation after thier first appearance in epl afta a long while..
i trust the tactical genius in bielsa bt my fear is that, his sqaud have a small budget size and no or less big players but i jus hope it goes well for him..

donproject:
It is very easy to become slim, but getting fat for skinny people seems impossible.

slimsophiediva:
Smiles
Okay o

slimsophiediva:
And about the modelling
Who is going to sponsor me
We live in a world of a man for himself
It is really hard

slimsophiediva:
Actually I'm being looked down on
And I'm 23, looking 16
I got cheated on because I don't look big
Even if it is to add little flesh

slimsophiediva:
I really need to gain weight
My picture is attached
Please help out with ideas

Rextizzle:
Jeez! 800k? and someone was telling me 500k. seems I have to save more.

adelove1914:
Harry Akande nko?