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TravelRe: Fuel Tanker Loses Control In Oyo, Rams Into Cab, Crushes 5 To Death by lakefist(m): 11:33am On Aug 10, 2021
poiZon:
Whether u have vehicles that r less than 10yrs, if u don't do the necessary maintenance on that vehicle, there must be problem.
Will a brakepad last for 10yrs even if that vehicle goes on a dailytrip to far distance?
What frsc need to do is check maintenance activities of all these articulated vehicles...
Nigerians r poor in maintenance culture, we love managing things till it collapses.
Frsc under BUHARI only collect Bribe. If u like carry 100 years old rickety car, if u settle Frsc dey will let u go.
TravelRe: Fuel Tanker Loses Control In Oyo, Rams Into Cab, Crushes 5 To Death by lakefist(m): 11:31am On Aug 10, 2021
ValCon888:
It is no longer surprising the rate at which articulated vehicles fail brake and lose control at the cost of human lives.

These are needless deaths that can be prevented with the right policy/regulations. Most of these trucks on our roads have outlived their lifespan, with many of them manufactured during World War 2.

The FRSC alongside other relevant agencies need to come up with a framework to phase out these "death traps on wheels" by ensuring only trucks with a maximum of 10yrs can ply our roads. The drivers also need proper training, background checks, and tracking to ensure more accountability and safer driving .

Until this is done, tragic accidents like this will continue ad infinitum.
It was a gory sight.
PoliticsRe: Sculpture Of Aisha Yesufu By Emmanuel Omoregie, UNIBEN Final Year Student by lakefist(m): 10:02pm On Aug 09, 2021
grin
Technology MarketRe: Maxi 43inch Tv For Sale by lakefist(m): 12:10am On Aug 09, 2021
urvillagepeoplee:
Tv that will be delivered to the buyer tomorrow, continue fooling your miserable self,idiot wasted sperm.
LOL... No let frustrated nairalanders kill your joy. That is how they do, yet they won't buy anything. Serious buyer will call or text you for the product. Just make sure you sell something good to get good review next time you want to sell something.
Christianity EtcRe: "Chei Why I Marry Dis Girl" Funny Church Banner Spotted In Port-Harcourt by lakefist(m): 8:38am On Aug 07, 2021
Leun:
Oga calm down, I enjoy your post but check the banner again its a youth program for a youth church m

Emphasis would be on would be newly weds experiencing difficulties in marriage.

I don't see where they wrote money
That is how they use their writeup to attract wahala for themselves. He just spew trash in d name of bad mouthing pastors and the Church.
NYSCRe: Bodies Of 5 Corpers Who Died In Accident Flown To Akwa Ibom For Burial (Photos) by lakefist(m): 8:49am On Aug 05, 2021
Aidejay:
May their souls rest in peace. May we not die untimely on this journey of life as we approach our destinations.




#fixNigerianRoads
#ScrapNYSC
Amen
HealthRe: Any Sure Way To Conceive A Male Child??? by lakefist(m): 9:06pm On Aug 04, 2021
greatefa1011:
Seek God's face in prayer and meet your partner during morning hours precisely 4-5 to 6am for sex. It's a clue that worked for me.
Thank me later.
Same here. I have 3 strong boys already. I noticed this time is wen we both enjoy sex more ( my wife especially). It is just natural and simple. With God it is going to be possible.
PoliticsRe: Where Does Buhari's Doctors Get All The Body Parts by lakefist(m): 2:29am On Aug 04, 2021
His time to pass when it is time. Make Una leave d man alone.
PoliticsRe: Video: Governor Sanwo-olu Meets Tinubu In London by lakefist(m): 2:19am On Aug 04, 2021
All rumours cancelled
Car TalkRe: Brake Switch. Small But Mighty!! A Must Read For Car Enthusiasts! by lakefist(m): 5:09pm On Aug 02, 2021
Make this post enter front page to save many people from buying new gear in their car.

Thanks bro
Technology MarketRe: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by lakefist(m): 3:38pm On Aug 01, 2021
How reliable are KEMAGE GENERATOR? I intend to get the 10kva for house hold.
Technology MarketRe: Mtn Pocket Mfi Plus Airpods 2 Clone for Sale.. Sold!!! by lakefist(m):
Ojusegunola:
Na 12k I buy am on July 3rd from mtn office,maybe mine is inferior.
It is possible because yours is not unlocked.

The unlocked one is around 18k. I bought mine 18k and it can accept any network.
Technology MarketRe: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by lakefist(m): 5:19pm On Jul 31, 2021
tmtech:
Thanks for your response..

You mean no means of getting the gen to work again?

I no wan buy new gen for now ...

The mech is saying once the armature is replaced or recoiled, the gen will start working fine again..
Na only for light , TV and system I need the gen for , light is steady here so other appliances are not on gen.
It will work. Just make sure you give sum1 that can recoil with guarantee or you can buy tokunbo Coil
Foreign AffairsRe: Republican Lawmakers March To Senate Floor To Protest Pelosi’s Mask Mandate by lakefist(m): 8:29am On Jul 30, 2021
RedEnergy:
So what's the point of being vaccinated if you still need to wear a mask to avoid the Coronavirus? Then it means the vaccines are useless
Very useless vaccine.
Technology MarketRe: Watch Live TV online 24/7 Without Paying For Data Using Pipul TV by lakefist(m): 11:57pm On Jul 29, 2021
PiperPP:
Pipul TV is a next-generation, Nigerian-based national information, entertainment and education television and media communications network established to provide premium, high-quality media content. The initiative is primarily to provide rich broadcast media content that is hitherto usually expensive and available only to the affluent, now to everyone regardless of social status, income levels, creed or standing. This service spearheads a new era of home media, combining the best of television, social, and digital life. It is an IPTV service that has eliminated the data access cost and poor connectivity bottleneck to subscribers in sub-Saharan Africa.

With Pipul TV you do not need a separate data plan to stream as Pipul TV comes with a dedicated SIM card that is already preactivated to access all Pipul TV content. Simply pay your monthly, weekly or daily subscription fee ONLY and stream 24/7 without hassles.

The Data Free SIM CARDS are now available at all Agent outlets Nationwide

Pipul TV Subscription Package:
35oo/month
125o/week
25o/day

Check signature for download link
I am interested! Do you have outlet in Ibadan?
Technology MarketRe: Mtn Pocket Mfi Plus Airpods 2 Clone for Sale.. Sold!!! by lakefist(m):
Ojusegunola:
13,500 for wifi,when new is 12k.na wa o.
Where u wan see ZTE new one for 12000 naira? You wan still am!
PoliticsRe: Retired NEPA Official Asks IBEDC To Disconnect House, Laments High Bill by lakefist(m): 11:45pm On Jul 29, 2021
maximanuel:
Wow really? Please how do I get ithuh
Check jiji there are many sellers there or PM let me give you the number of the seller that sold mine to me.
FamilyRe: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by lakefist(m): 12:25pm On Jul 29, 2021
ubola:
A very impatient man you are. This is a confirmation. My wife of 12years today was worst. I never raised a finger nor voice. You don't go arguing with emotional beings cuz they'll beat you to it. You are toxic to come to public forum to tell us how she committed abortion and have a weak womb, cos she told you about it. I'll still advice that you get matured be getting the next wife, else it won't get better.
Same here. I had a rough marriage within 2 years of my marriage. Now she is my best friend.

If the OP know that marriage is a union of two imperfect people, he would know that divorce is not an option.
FamilyRe: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by lakefist(m): 12:22pm On Jul 29, 2021
Pecoleee345:
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6653469/another-marriage-crash

So over last weekend.... I called family meeting my mum, elder brother and I went to my wife parents house... her family members were present.

They wanted to resolve things between us but no one gave a Bleep about me....they asked her to speak and she said alot of things both truth and lies.

I was lambasted from both sides and I let them finished properly before dropping the bomb......I looked into her eyes straight up and told her am divorcing you.

They were all stunned.... they were now interested in my side of the story.

I decided not to say anything.....am not the type that bad mouth people to score points or look good (my ex-wife is very good at that)....I just told her family to demand the truth from her.

My advice to young men.

1. Make sure u know the background of the lady u wanna get involved with....the way of life etc.

The mistake I made was not evaluating her background...... We came from completely different backgrounds....eg where she comes from people talking crazy and shouting at one another isn't a big deal but me it was a Taboo infact in my parents' house u can't talk with high tones for normal discussions.

2. See forget love and looks...... Make sure you know the main reason she wants to marry you.

I know she loves me but she had another motive which is am meant to give her everything she wants in Life.... She had that mind set of her responsibilities is totally dependent on me.

She told me she can only spare or borrow me money towards doing anything in the house but it is my duty to provide anything she wants even the riddicules ones.

3. For your peace of mind stay away from most ladies raised by single mothers because most her poison to hate men right from teens by their mother.

They are mostly insecure....they believe all men cheat and can never trust.
Comes with mad jealousy

They mostly have anger issue.... they will tell you I don't take shit... trying to show they are strong and can't take what their mother took despite you not doing any shit.....they want to have say in everything just to show you are equal.

They are always quick to be on the defensive
Just to mention a few

I once told my wife am not like your father when I couldn't take the policing, sneaking and threat anymore.

See as a man no one gives a shit about you..... people are sympathetic towards the female and expect you to take whatever she throws at you but you need your peace of mind.
The society has made it possible for women to get away with lot of things.

If you found a woman you want to marry please put love aside and get to really know her background well......cohabit with her for 6month......lastly even if you don't have money, please borrow and go for comprehensive medical check up with her.... (check your sperm count and the state of her womb) please.
I will advise u talk things through with her family. You are the head and must assert your authority no matter what.

The truth is if u divorce her, the next woman in-line wouod still exhibit another annoying character entirely.

In as much as we men are not perfect, same goes to women.

If truly you love her and she love you, you won't get divorce.

Since both family are present and aware u guys could talk things through. To be candid with you she will change.
PoliticsRe: Retired NEPA Official Asks IBEDC To Disconnect House, Laments High Bill by lakefist(m): 2:30pm On Jul 27, 2021
SKhanmi:
Great, Kindly tell me more about the solar freezer, cost, efficiency? Like for example, We have a deep chest freezer that can hold its temp for up to 9days after a full day on electricity. Would 24hours of sunlight be able to achieve the same? Thanks.
Yes. The solar freezer is the best thing I bought this year. My wife never stop praying for me grin


Even if there is no enough solar to power it, the follow come adapter will work directly with the smallest generator ( I better pass my neighbor)

It doesn't consume power at all compare to conventional Freezers.
AutosRe: Missing Toyota Corolla In Abuja. Pls Help!! by lakefist(m): 12:33am On Jul 27, 2021
Duru9:
When they thief my guy car For gwagwalada they head towards kogi
Police de track them de follow up
Them get accident for road come enter one mechanic

Police see say the car park for a spot over night

Them go very early morning arrest the mechanic mechanic carry them to who brought car for him the boys no dey house they arrest him papa
Nice one.
AutosRe: Missing Toyota Corolla In Abuja. Pls Help!! by lakefist(m): 12:15am On Jul 27, 2021
Duru9:
Him make mistake bro

If them snatch your car, no off am,. Just de fellow up with police any state them enter police go signal that state them go follow up

Once you off am
They go look for am and cut am
I don learn another thing today.
HealthRe: Any Sure Way To Conceive A Male Child??? by lakefist(m): 9:03pm On Jul 26, 2021
AntiWailer:
Bros I was deliberate about wife and mother. read my analogy again.
It is the same thing. Male children now take care of both families. Things have changed, I won't lie to you. Gone are those days. Men are now taking responsibilities. Just put it like this, men now have sense!
HealthRe: Any Sure Way To Conceive A Male Child??? by lakefist(m): 9:00pm On Jul 26, 2021
Daarreenn:
oga it's a lie. My mom has 8 children 5 females and 3 males, if she calls everybody and tell them she's sick or need money I will be the first (or the only one) to get there, same with the family close to my family house. It is only the guy who takes care of the mom. All these it's the female that will take care of you is just false. Your female child that might be camping with a guy 700km away while you believe she is at school in the city mtchww.
Only a useless guy will carry his wife's family and forget his parents.
Some women too slave for the husband's family hoping to be loved while abandoning their own parents
God bless you. I just told him the same thing. Female children of today don't care any longer.
HealthRe: Any Sure Way To Conceive A Male Child??? by lakefist(m): 8:59pm On Jul 26, 2021
AntiWailer:
Bros Are You Married ? I am not talking about girl friend. When you marry and your desire to make her proud and shine will make u neglect some things at home.

Do you do for your parents more than your wife ?

Most ladies will rather spend their fortune on their parents than any husband.

It is nature that made it so , it is not out of male not being reasonable.
I am married with 3 kids.

To even shock you i take care of my Mother more than my Sisters.
HealthRe: Any Sure Way To Conceive A Male Child??? by lakefist(m): 8:28pm On Jul 26, 2021
flawlesskayc:
Hi all.

Has anyone worked towards or tried conceiving a particular gender and it worked??
Kindly drop tips, advise e.t.c.

Ps - Please Don’t come here preaching how every child is a child!.
WE ALL KNOW THAT!.

Thank you.

I’m a mom of 2 beautiful girls & would love to have a son next.
First, it is God that determine gender, but he gave us sense of observation to know how things can turn out.

What I observe as a proud father of 3 strong boys is that sex at early hours of morning worka magic.

Sex from 4am - 6am works for me.

Infact i am always confident to tell my wife we are having a boy grin


I think that time of sex is usually the best because d body is relaxed and sex is more enjoyable during dat Time. Could be reason why I get boys alot.

I told a friend of mine he also recently got a boy.

If u ever read dis response, try it. God bless our families.
HealthRe: Any Sure Way To Conceive A Male Child??? by lakefist(m): 8:23pm On Jul 26, 2021
AntiWailer:
There is.. This is the surest scientific way.

It would be done via IVF and can be done in a Nigeria Fertility Clinic but after the first stage which is fertilisation, they will fly the embryo out of the country to separate the male and the female embryos. (No hospital in Nigeria have this equipment as at today.)

Any Nigerian hospital wey claim they can identify it na Fraud. They will not identify anything and transfer water inside u ( You are aware that IVF na 50/50 right ?) You will never know if they identified anything successfully !

After identification, They will transfer only the male embryo to your womb. Una go paaaayyy oooooo

I hope pepper rest and una get money for the Male Child to come and inherit ? He will be spending part of it right now. Also, it is rude to be poor and still be selecting for God.


..... forget all the other rubbish people are typing. if you try am, you go born 20 girls & nothing go happen.

Also educate una illiterate husbands that they are the one carrying X / Y chromosomes and having a boy is majorly dependent on him and not you


Food For Thought !!,
People prefer male but na the girl go take care of una when u are down with stroke during Old Age,

When the boy's wife find u people irritating, the girls will take care of u.

When you leave her plenty siblings and die prematurely, she will prostitute (Look for a man to support him) to take care of her siblings.

When her husband comes home, una go bill him more than her brother.

You want boy, you want boy. when the guy break through, his wife and the wife's family go enjoy plenty before dem remember u. (Confirm from people who don marry not all these boys wey no get bearing of their lives yet.)

It is good to desire whatever u want but this girl and boy offspring thing is not properly thought through.

As a guy, God knows my preference is to have just girls and enjoy my old age with them. When they marry, their husbands will become my Sons.
Your food for thought is not true.

Na for old people. Now are days male child care mor for their family more than female ones.

We can discuss over fome if u don't agree.
PoliticsRe: Retired NEPA Official Asks IBEDC To Disconnect House, Laments High Bill by lakefist(m): 12:17pm On Jul 26, 2021
SKhanmi:
But depending on the customer needs can be quite expensive or incapable? Been studying it for a while & I think its better for those with small energy needs like households with little or no energy expenditure(no always running big fridge/deep freezers,dishwashers,washing machine etc) & Huge companies with the capital. Coupled with many subpar products around( I can't actually point to someone using a solar setup for years without changing something). Seems there's a good reason why electricity is not going anywhere soon.
Changing is not compulsory but advisable.

I use Solar freezer and other energy saving stuffs and it has been awesome.
PoliticsRe: Retired NEPA Official Asks IBEDC To Disconnect House, Laments High Bill by lakefist(m): 8:47am On Jul 26, 2021
Ashibelieve:
For more than 1 month ive not used PHCN because they give me bill of over 40k/monthly for 1 flat and boys quater to share. Now our pending bill as reached over 700k within 1year because we pay only 11k monthly out of it.

They gave us prepared in June and want to move the 700k to it so we stopped using PHCN and ive been using my gen ever since.

Looking for a solar solution now.

Peace is what i need above every other thing
Solar is the best. But remember to change your conventional AC electronics to energy saving ones.

There is inverter ac, Dc/Ac fans, even solar IRon don dey sef.
AutosRe: SOLD SOLD!!... Distress Sale: Buy My Clean Camry by lakefist(m): 12:47pm On Jul 25, 2021
Aaaaarghmed:
its like you dont know how to read,go back to school.where did I condemn the product in my post.how does the price for a second hand Camry be distress sales.he for kuku put 4m as distress sales.seems the OP is not conversant with the price for a second hand camry,it is not even a sports edition.
E still no concern you. Why not post urs and tag it 1million naira?

If u don't like the price Waka pass!
CrimeRe: Man Who Took Pregnant 12-Year-Old Girlfriend To Hospital Charged With Rape by lakefist(m): 11:41am On Jul 23, 2021
FutureIsFemale:
By the way, this girl acted under self-defense.
Eya! See as she described it as if she was present when it happened! Dead man man speak!
FamilyRe: Married Men In The House Please Advice Me by lakefist(m): 8:14am On Jul 22, 2021
Golden147:
Good afternoon everyone..
Please I'm kindly in need of advice... ignore my typing ERROR..
There's this girl I love and I want to settle down with her. She's still in school while I'm still in school too. She's 22 while I'm 24 nd also in final YR and we both love each other..my mum has supported me to marry her.
I proposed to her and she said yes...I plan going her house next month next to start official martial rites but I'm afraid.
Here is my reasons

She's the only girl and the last daughter in a family of 5boys. Ever since we started dating, she's in 100l then, all her school burdens are on me..I take care of her and mine own...with this people around who knows about our RELATIONSHIP ask me to marry her to avoid story that touches the heart..which he has accepted , her mum nd dad have accepted it too.
My major concern about this girl is that those his brothers are not willing to do anything, istead the came asking me for small small money when I'm back, knowing fully I'm just dating thier sis....most times the my girl always feel ashamed of her brothers nd keep cursing them. The can't even call her on phone unless she calls them...nd the will keep asking why she didn't call them all this while knowing fully thier sister is in school nd not working.

I have thought about this over and over again, how do I marry from a family that can't even assist in anything...I know marriage is not always Rosy, what if something happens tomorrow nd I needed thier financial support..the can't render to me.
I discussed with my mum nd she told me I'm marrying thier sister who is well trained nd not the brother..that I can decide not to give them money again... But I'm very sad over this.
It's only the father and mum that acknowledge I hay been trying to see their sister through school expenses, including food and wears.
I discussed with my woman, she started crying, saying she knows her brothers are such a disgrace, telling me how she may commite sucide if I didn't marry her... She cried that she can't visits her house again... that her only hope will be to start prostitution which she can't see herself do that nd that's why she is going to commite sucide if I eventually leave her, all her social media handle is full with my picture, including her profile pictures.

Please what advice do you have for me.... should I let go of this girl, I don't mind letting go all I have already spent...I just want to make sure I won't regret the marriage tomorrow...I have already discussed with my mom nd we plan on going her house officially by August ending..but I'm still very worried.

Matured advice please
You're not to young to marry as long as ur mentally and financial fit.

The brothers are just capitalizing on your weakness. What is the weakness, you can't say NO when you don't have or when their excesses is too much.

If you can't adjust, please break the relationship. It is not now but future.

Imagine you have not marry their sister, what if you marry her then it is your house dey will be staying feeding on your hard earned money.

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