Properties › Re: Kindly Help Me Critique This four Bedroom Bungalow Plan by lakefist(m): 7:56pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
tivta: I disagree with you on number 1. Visitors toilet is very ok, for instance a stranger has no reason to enter the main house to use the main toilet. I agree with number 2 and 3, there should be a corridor connecting the rooms. I also hope the roof won't be these common roofing nowadays that waste wood and make it difficult to mount solar panels. What is a visitor coming to do in your house if he or she can't use the toilet inside? I wouldn't welcome anyone into my home if they can't use my toilet. It is one of the reasons I dislike having visitors toilet in my house. I know most houses in my area, that never for once use theor visitors toilet. The toilet is just there wasting away! |
Politics › Re: Oyo: PDPVanguard Withdraws Support For Seyi Makinde, APC Welcomes Them by lakefist(m): 2:42pm On Feb 01, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Oyo: PDPVanguard Withdraws Support For Seyi Makinde, APC Welcomes Them by lakefist(m): 8:22pm On Jan 31, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Oyo: PDPVanguard Withdraws Support For Seyi Makinde, APC Welcomes Them by lakefist(m): 8:22pm On Jan 31, 2023 |
Sammy07: APC - Presidential
Pdp - governorship.
If I'm Oyo state residence, this is how I'll vote It is exactly how things will play out. Seyi is winning second term. Vanguard threats holds no water. No be dem go vote. |
Politics › Re: Petrol May Hit N800/litre On Subsidy Removal – Marketers by lakefist(m): 11:55am On Jan 23, 2023 |
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Family › Re: My Ex Fiancee Is Pregnant For Me by lakefist(m): 4:58pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Alesa3341: Hello Guys, please I need a sincere and matured advise on what to do. This will be long, please bare with me.
I'm 27, am a businessman, I have this girl I really love so much and intend to marry her this year December, but one thing about her is her bad character. She challenge me, talk back at me, shout at me, get angry with me for days, refuse to cook when she is angry, disrespect my family, most especially my mum, always trying to paint herself good and paint me bad in presence of people, these are just little of the things she has done to me.
When she lost her job, and had nowhere to go, I had to bring her to my house, and provide everything for her, food, I change her hair twice a month, subscribe unlimited for her, I just provided everything a woman need to be happy for her. Last year November, she told me she haven't seen her mum for 5years and wanted to travel to see her, I spent close to 200k to take her to and fro, including other things she needed. She insisted on collecting the bride price list for me when coming back, I spoke to her mum and they gave her to give me. I was planning to finalize all on the weeding this year.
Last year DECEMBER, I took her to my family to introduce her, but this was the biggest mistake of my life. She was completely disrespectful to my mum, talks to me anyhow in presence of anyone, even to the extent of refusing to cook for me anytime she is angry, I go to kitchen and prepare food myself.
I love this girl so much but I still thought of continuing, with all this attitudes, I advise her everyday, I also took her to my pastor who advise her too most of the times, but she never changes.
Fast forward to 2days ago, we had issues because she told me to join her in washing and I refused because I was working on a client project, she got angry, washed the clothes and when it was evening she brought the clothes inside, folded her own in the wardrobe and just threw mine into the wardrobe without folding or arranging them. I was angry about this, but I kept mute. The next day, she sent me "sorry" on WhatsApp, I told her to come to me physically and apologize but she told me she can never do that, and why was she even apologizing, that she did nothing wrong, we exchanged words and she left my house.
Today, she called me and told me she is pregnant, and that I should send her money to remove it. I was like "just like that"? We didn't discuss about it, how will you just tell me you want to terminate my pregnancy, I told her to go to hospital and confirm it and also get the test report, she did this and sent to me, it was true she is pregnant, but she insisted on removing it, I persuaded her and she still refused, claiming she can't be a single mother. I told her I will take responsibility, but she insisted on removing it, I told her to go home and think about it, and she told me she can't leave there without removing it. After so much persuading I decided to give her the money, and told her if she removed it, that it's on her, that I didn't consent to this.
I asked her why we can't keep it, and she said because my family is bad, we support evil, if the sky is blue, we say it's red, that my mother is a bad woman, and she doesn't want to come there. She said so many bad things about my family, I was shocked! I asked her, how are they bad, she said "how can my mother be telling her to wash my clothes" I was just confused, After all I have done for you, is it bad if you wash your husband to be clothes, I left her!
Later she told me the doctor referred her to another hospital, I still tried to persuade her and she said her decision is final. She asked me to give her money to go to the hospital she was referred to, I refused! I insisted that we keep the baby, she told me "I'm a nobody, that she will call now and she will get money to go" I angrily blocked her. Later, she called my other line and told me, she went to the other hospital and the doctor told her, the cost to remove the pregnancy is 125k, she told me and I insisted on keeping the baby.
Please guys help.me, I don't want to terminate my first child, the girl is too disrespectful and rude, I don't want to continue with such woman, but she is carrying my baby, what do I do? And if she later agree to keep it, how do I go about it?
You all are just saying "don't marry her" what about the baby? Should I agree to abort it and give her the money?
MODIFIED Ode!!! God is trying to save you from future mess and you're insisting on keeping the Rubbish. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Yoweri Museveni: Life Cannot Stop Because We Banned Facebook by lakefist(m): 2:23pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, any Christian that participates in the celebration of Xmas will end up in Hell. The bible commands we Christians to celebrate the death of our lord Jesus (Luke 22:19b; 1 Corinthians 11:23-26) and not his birth. Any Christian celebrating what is contrary to the bible commandment will end up in eternal pain. Do not celebrate Xmas to avoid regrettable consequences. Jesus was mentioned in the Holy Quran but you'll never find any of our Muslim brothers and sister celebrating his birth  P.A to God ori n ta yin! |
Sports › Re: Jeremiah Johnson: '12-Year-Old' Football Player's Look Shocks Social Media Users by lakefist(m): 7:10pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
Possible |
Jokes Etc › Re: Victim Of My Wife's Taser by lakefist(m): 6:03pm On Dec 15, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Simon Ekpa: Biafra Will Exit Nigeria Peacefully Or By War by lakefist(m): 12:38pm On Dec 13, 2022 |
GBTYO: Sounds fair to me.
The Igbos must have their own nation to the admiration and awe of others.
Biafra has always and will always be Plan B .
Their eyes have always been to dominate the polity under the Zikist arrangement, hence why we have a Peter Obi (their revamped Zik) who is no different than the revamped Uthman don Fodio (Buhari).
The mod that deleted my subsequent posts know that you can not ever succeed above your betters. . |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Prisoner Swap: The Moment Bout, Griner Crossed Paths At a UAE airport tarmac by lakefist(m): 7:55am On Dec 09, 2022 |
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Education › Re: University Admission: UK To Crack Down On Nigerians by lakefist(m): 4:40pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Starzo: Stay in Nigeria and contribute to your own countries 'growth' Please stay for us. |
Education › Re: University Admission: UK To Crack Down On Nigerians by lakefist(m): 3:22pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
God1000: Are they schooling in UK for free? God bless you. As if they are not contributing to their Country's growth. |
Crime › Re: Armed Herdsmen Shoot Travellers, Kidnap 1 On Lagos-Ibadan Expressway(Pics,Video) by lakefist(m): 3:19pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
[quote author=AfricanColumbus post=118694642][/quote]Happened 2 years ago |
Business › Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by lakefist(m): 8:43am On Nov 23, 2022 |
ychris: Na Loko u dey insult like this so, interesting. Why are you so rude and mean btw? Since you wont be patient and allow the person to handle the withdrawal with expertize, u could have done it yourself. It Looks like there is a problem everywhere you go.  Smile! It is easier to tell, if sum1 has home training in public space like this. |
Politics › Re: Akin Alabi Commissions ₦100 Million Modern Football Pitch by lakefist(m): 9:25pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
mormoney85: the stadium is so beautiful so expensive that cameras cant capture it for we to justify the amount criminals  |
Politics › Re: Akin Alabi Commissions ₦100 Million Modern Football Pitch by lakefist(m): 9:22pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Kingsmeal: Where is the N100m stadium please? Abi my eyes dey pain me  |
Business › Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by lakefist(m): 11:29am On Nov 16, 2022 |
ychris: I tire oh.
Who doesn't know Samuel.
Dem won con force him to pay for funds that hasn't drop, what if the funds later go back to the PayPal account, will the customer refund his naira?
To me, Na to wait till he's able to sort the funds. No rush at all It is just patience they lack! PayPal hold funds for 6 months and there is nothing anyone can do. Just to wait for funds to get withdrawn in less Dan 2 months is now an issue. Samuel can not scam anyone. He has built the name for years to just destroy it ontop $375. |
Business › Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by lakefist(m): 11:21am On Nov 16, 2022 |
josephsm823: Boss, it's just so unfortunate. My name's everywhere. I not fit bear the shame. 'Shame' for doing your job? Let them call your name out, ur good legacy would always speak. You have helped alot of people do successful withdrawals, don't let 375 usd and call out cause discomfort. Once their funds is available, pay dem. |
Business › Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by lakefist(m): 12:30pm On Nov 15, 2022 |
josephsm823: You obviously do not know what's happening. Did I said I am not going to pay him? I did withdrawal from his limited euro PayPal account, and I had to convert the money and if you know how this thing work, I had to withdraw the money again from the primary account which the funds hasn't dropped to the account. This transaction shouldn't exceeded one business day but for one reason or another the funds did not dropped within the stipulated time frame. The issue with me here is that this thing is happening when I don't have cash at hand. Today makes the fifth business days and I don't want to keep posting him, reason why I told him to give me between now and month end to sort the payment. Am working tirelessly on paying his money, no be say I withdraw and eat his money. I even told him we can meet if he stays in Lagos so I can give him something as collateral if he's doubtful. Even if I wan scam, shey na 347 USD? It's not possible. I can't dent my reputation that I've built for years because of this. Before God and man who made me, mechanic just came to my house this morning to pick my Corolla car for sale because of this money. I explained to him how I'm pained. This kind thing never happened, Even with large transactions. Sell your car because sum1 call u out ontop $375? You are not a scammer and can never scam anyone. Calling you out should not make you do what you’re not supposed to do. Na today u Dey do withdrawal for people? |
Family › Re: Would You Still WANT To Be Married To Your Spouse In Your Next Life? by lakefist(m): 11:27am On Nov 14, 2022 |
Yesssssssssssssssssssssss Yesssssssssssssssssssssss Yesssssssssssssssssssssss |
Romance › Re: Groom Cancels Wedding, Demands For Refund After Discovering Bride Has 2 Kids by lakefist(m): 11:03am On Nov 14, 2022 |
AntiBMC: Sharrap der... childish reasoning. If na only fvck...dem fvck ur mama...abandon am. By now, u 4 be aborted nd forgotten project or even born throway. U probably don't have sisters too. Think b4 yu open mouth. I love this response. |
Technology Market › Re: Samsung Galaxy Phones by lakefist(m): 8:42pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
AIREGIN360:
Samsung Galaxy Z Fold 3 5G
12gb ram, 256gb rom
Phantom Black
500k
Samsung Galaxy Z Flip4 8gb ram 256gb rom Bora Purple Processing Unlock (New Phone Only) 550k
Samsung Galaxy S21 Plus 5G Phantom Violet (New Phone Only) 290k
Samsung Galaxy S21 5G 8gb ram, 128gb rom Graphite Color 250k
Samsung Galaxy S20 Plus 5G 12gb ram, 128gb rom Cloud Blue (4pcs)3pcs 225k
Samsung Galaxy S20 5G 12gb ram, 128gb rom Cloud Pink (3pcs) 205k
Samsung Galaxy S21 Fe 5G 6gb ram, 128gb rom Graphite color (New Phone Only) 230k
Samsung Galaxy S20 Fe 5G 6gb ram, 128gb rom Navy Blue color 175k
Samsung Galaxy Note 10 Plus 12gb ram, 256gb rom White Color 205k
Samsung Galaxy Note 10 Plus 12gb ram, 256gb rom Aura Glow 205k
Samsung Galaxy Note 10 Plus 12gb ram, 256gb rom Black color 205k
Samsung Galaxy Note 10 8gb ram, 256gb rom White Color 160k
Samsung Galaxy Note 10 8gb ram, 256gb rom Aura Glow 160k
Samsung Buds Pro Open Box Black Color 55k
Samsung Buds Live Open Box Red Color 45k
Phones are all in mint condition and are Snapdragon variant Single sim No Swaps, outright purchase only Single sim Location is Lagos Price is Firm Note 10 plus available? |
Politics › Re: ANAMBRA Man Names Newborn After Tinubu by lakefist(m): 12:45pm On Oct 07, 2022 |
Spiritscience: Wonders shall never end. An ANAMBRA based Bola Ahmed Tinubu supporter has on Thursday, October 6, named his new born, Tinubu. Announcing this on his Facebook page, Osita Eze stated that his son was born on the same day Bola Ahmed Tinubu, who had been declared dead came back to Nigeria from London.
His page read thus; “Somtoo Tinubu Bertrand just arrived. Same day our Jagaban returned from London. What a coincidence! Ngwa si ba nu m congratulations.” God bless the baby. |
Politics › Re: ANAMBRA Man Names Newborn After Tinubu by lakefist(m): 12:44pm On Oct 07, 2022 |
Iwedunloye: So he is supposed to name him your Useless name…The man name the child after a successful man, not a worthless man like you Exactly. I don’t even know how another man naming his child becomes the Mumu’’s headache |
Politics › Re: ANAMBRA Man Names Newborn After Tinubu by lakefist(m): 12:43pm On Oct 07, 2022 |
Anigreat:

Things people do out of sheer foolishness.
Of everyone to named your child after, it's chicago drug Lord, a thief, incoherent dullarrd, a pathological liar. Why will you do this to your son? what on earth will make a father this senseless. It's so sad , sad indeed.
Shey when this child start to misbehave tomorrow, or talk start talking incoherently and foolishly, you'll wonder why?
I laughed. His child, his problem and his headache. |
Nairaland General › Re: Snakes In My Compound by lakefist(m): 10:46pm On Jul 25, 2022 |
Zico777: Which area is that in Abuja? By the way I sell snake Repellant o! U sell and u know put anything for signature |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Stepped On A Fetish Thing While Going To 5am Mosque (PICTURE) by lakefist(m): 12:47am On Jul 17, 2022 |
dryakson: I mistakely stepped on a fetish thing with ₦10, 12 peppers, colanut and a mini clay pot while on my way to the mosque at about 5:15am. The listed items were carefully arranged on the ₦10 note before stepping on it. What could that be? NOTE: It's in the north, and a Muslim dominated place. So, I threw the cola and the mini clay pot away and burt the ₦10. Am I in trouble?  You will not experience hardship in your life, amen. Take your mind off it, pray and reject it God probably use u to cancel the spell on the intended person. |
Family › Re: With ₦400 your wife can prepare soup that would last two days — Pastor says by lakefist(m): 10:50pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
austinceasar: It can, assuming you have gas, palm oil, salt & maggi already @ home
for a single man...(vegetable soup should last a day) For couples....(one evening)
Pepper/tomato/onions = 100# Shawa-fish (according to ur coat) =200# Vegetable = 50# Locust bean or crayfish = 50#
I stay in Zaria for now, I don't know about the remaining north tho. only sensible comment so far. People are quick to judge the man if God but he is right. Women are good managers. If they know that is what is available, they will manage it. The man just cited an example. He meant give woman what you have and she will make good use of it. |
Family › Re: Dad Sends His Wife Hilarious Photos Everytime She Asks If The Kids Are Okay by lakefist(m): 1:10pm On Jun 16, 2022 |
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Technology Market › Re: Iphone 11 Pro Max 64 Gb For Sale 290K [SOLD] by lakefist(op): 7:39am On Jun 10, 2022 |
SOLD |
Technology Market › Re: Iphone 11 Pro Max 64 Gb For Sale 290K [SOLD] by lakefist(op): 7:20pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
Still Available |