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Fraih:
Yes you can use multiple accounts not compulsorily they should be in Naira.
I used #,$,£
The most important is they should equal to or above your school fees remainder and maintenance fee

Quick on though did you merge the multiple statement of account into one combined PDF file or you submitted them separately.

Fraih:
Yes you can use multiple accounts not compulsorily they should be in Naira.
I used #,$,£
The most important is they should equal to or above your school fees remainder and maintenance fee

Thanks

Hello,
Please my POF is about £21,000.
I'm trying to combine two accounts in $ and ₦
#9M+ = £9,000
$17,900 = £13,960.3
Which gives a total of about £22,000
How best is this plan. Was told I should use one account all in Naira, but I also heard one can combine multiple accounts.

Even if you are paid to support APC as a media person. Please have sense and be reasonable. What if this happened to your parents.

Hi house, I would like to incorporate online payment into my business. I would love to find out the best online payment platform to use. Your suggestions would be appreciated.

It's a shame to see people campaigning for this man. We still have a long way to go in Nigeria.

DenreleDave:
I just replied ur mail sir

Gud evening

Sorry bros, I'm interested in a room to or any space in Island . Just asking to plug me in also if you find any agent too. I'm a guy though. Thanks

Funny as hell

Principles on Love and Sex.
First of all sex was made to be had in marriage. The temptation that occurs doing singlehood is meant to build character and discipline, not punishment. Heb 12:11.
A man who hasn't built character and self control before marriage, will find it hard to build it after marriage. I have seen this happen more common of men cheating while their wife is pregnant or after childbirth, because they don't have the needed character or discipline. I've seen women cheat, when other men offer them resources and fulfilment of all sort of imagination and fantasies. Even men too.

Sex is meant to follow this patterns for women.
1) Words has to be spoken and accompanying action followed that shows Love and care. In summary sweet words and you can follow it up with gifts or acts of service. Know your wives love language biko and speak it.
2) Pre - Intimacy the kissing and the smooching and all that stuff. I also need to say this is important . it takes women about an average of 20 minutes to climax doing sex. Men on the other hand 5 minutes. Pre-Intimacy helps both partners. And it shows to a woman that a man is patient and cares for her.
3) Sex. I don't need to say anything about this, and if your partner likes to cuddle. Please do.
4) Pay attention to her fantasies and try to fulfill them within reasonable boundaries.
Patience in all this stage shows you care for your wife has a man. Violate this principles as a man and you start having issues in your sexual life.

Sex for men :
Someone made a joke and said just show up naked.
Men are moved more by what they see rather than hear.
1)Dress and smell well
2)Make a man fill desired
3) Every man has a type and if he married you in one way or another you're already is type, pay attention to these and try not to let yourself go physically. Men are moved by what they see, fortunately and unfortunately.
4)don't just lie like of wood make it interesting
5) Pay attention to his fantasies and try to fulfill them within reasonable boundaries.

And please please avoid pornography, I'd rather you get books on sex. Pornography are acted scripts it's not all complete reality. You might watch one and the woman is hanging from the ceiling , and you want mama Ngozi after 4 children and added weight to hang on the ceiling, if you kill someone's daughter, OYO oh. Or you want a man to perform action for 3 hours none stop without drugs. If he dies of heart attack what would you tell angel Gabriel.

I'll stop here. Hopefully someday I'd answer more of your questions.

Addressing the Tough issues in Marriage.
Normally I try to avoid posting on Nairaland, but I'd love to answer some questions and clear the air on some misconceptions. And also put up a helpful post or topic, there haven't been so many recently on Nairaland.
First of all I'm not a marriage counselor, just someone who's been trained and have studied all forms relationship for years and principles underpinning them.
In my last post I spoke about principles.
It's important for me to say this. I believe there are Three Worlds or heavens as Christains call it.
1) The natural World(Where you Mind, body and soul resides
2)The second world or heaven, this is where the devilish and demonic world operates.
3)The third Heaven where God resides.

All these worlds have their principles governing them. Too long to explain some of them includes Reciprocation, Meditation, Faith e.t.c. Actions taken based on this principles is what gets you your desired results nothing else. Violate them and you can't.

I believe man is spirit, soul and body. This three world spins pretty fast like a ceiling fan. It's in the place of meditation(prayer e.t.c) you can more easily distinguish them more clearly.
I know you're wondering why I'm saying this and what it has to do with marriage and relationship? This three parts are interconnected in relationships and marriage. So now that that is established I'll be answering some difficult questions as regarding Marriage.

It's important I say every relationship is meant to mimick the one between God and Man. And it's in the Bible for men spoken to love their wife as Christ loves the church. The Bible calls the church Christ brides.

So on Submission.
I said it before it is God's given role for a man to draw is wife to submission.
Principles on Obedience and Submission
Obedience and submission consist of two Things
1)To hear , to listen , to come into agreement
2) To take action based on this agreement.
Many people skip the first part and want to jump straight to the second part. First of all submission is meant to be a two way street. The goal of submission in marriage is unanimous decision. Even God doesn't create Robots, he speaks ,man listen , come into agreement (because His Word is perfect you can't find fault in it) and we take a step based on this unanimous decision.
Same thing applies in marriage. The man was made the head, not because he's superior in any sense, but for structure. Same way women where given the role to nurture the family because it comes more easily for them. The roles are meant to be celebrated , not tolerated.
So a man leads by drawing is wife into agreement, a unanimous decision. The idea could be from either the man or woman or even the children, but the responsibility of reaching agreement and a unanimous decision is given to the man. That is what his headship or leadership is all about, not for dominating.
So what happens when an agreement can't be reached or not enough time available because it's important and urgent?
This is where trust is important ?
Anyone with a track record of consistency, reliability , honesty and expertise in that situation, that person's idea and advice should be executed. This is where the issue of trust is now important. If you have no track record of results, honesty, reliability and consistency it becomes a big issue in decision making. Funny thing is this principles is applied in our actions in tiny things(cooking, grocery shopping, caring for the kids) but violated when it comes to the big things like the family finances.

letitrainnow:
Love this. Please are you a marriage counselor? Because you speak volumes in few words.

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No I'm not . I'm just trained and well studied on relationship and marriage. Yes I do help people, but I'm not trained as a marriage counselor it's not how I make a living. Yes sir.

sunnysmile80:
Thank you for this contribution. Please I have a question, and I will be grateful if my question is answered.

From your submission, you said that women need:
1. Resources, eg: (a).money. (b).security.
2. Attention.

Question:
Please can you throw more light on SECURITY?
I want to have a perfect understanding of what it means. Thank you.

Due to limited amount of eggs and what it takes to raise offspring women naturally tend to choose the best mate or husband they can select from. Resources is needed to take care of kids, security talks about needed shelter for the family, consistency, assurance and character in the man. knowing he'llstay and help her raise the kids to maturity. Unfortunately in our time women are becoming more carefree almost as much as the men. Because they can takia of these problems more easily now.

So it's on the front page because it's suicide ? Not trying to be insensitive though. Announcing suicide does more harm than good.

People like you will still complain. When Motorist inflate price unnecessarily or Fuel station decides to sell at black market price. There's profit and there's greed. A true believer will always give a good price, and think win win. Any price of goods that can bring resentment to most customers due to excess profit, you should know , it won't end well. Even in Monopoly Wisdom has to be applied. Ask Dangote.

Huhm. Under the New Covenant sir. God doesn't prescribe killing of the victim. As seen in John 8. The law in the old covenant was made to make people realize their sins. A lot of the Bible heroes did break some of this offence and didn't die. A perfect example was David. The goal of the law was to convict people of their sins. Under the New Covenant there's room for repentance, the consequence of sin may not be avoided sometimes to the body and soul. The spirit of a born again christain is perfect. We have laws that persecute offenders and give them room to repent. We don't go about killing everyone under the New Covenant if they commit sin. I hate rape, killing and any form of stealing or robbery, but in truth like all sin the right punishment and room for repentance has to be given when they're caught. The punishment is up to the law, repentance and reformation is up to them.

Normally i overlook most topic, but let me comment for the sake of someone.
What women need is enveloped in two things :
1) Resources
2) Attention.
The resources as we all know , mostly money and security
The attention on the other hand is not just the attention, but what comes off it , like love and romance, sweet words, great sex, helping at home, respect, care and all.
The two are quite important, many men substitute one for the other, give her resources and some women can manage with little attention, but God epp you when she has little need of your resources or earns more and you can't provide the attention. That's where wahala starts to happen. She can't earn as much or more than you and you still won't give her attention even in little things as helping with the kids or chores at home. Most men's ego can't take it. Even if a woman wants to run wild at this time she can be reasoned with if the right attention is given and there's communication. It's a man's God given role to draw his wife to agreement with him through communication. But what do I know. They just give marriage certificate to any one without training. It is not love that determines a good marriage or any goal in life. Principles determine the outcome of anything. You actions has to be grounded from principles to get a desired outcome like a blissful home. It's not too late to change and align your actions to true principles. Okay bye

Truth is we don't have good options has leaders. And the ones who are better off we decided not to vote them in because they are not PDP or APC. We need a leader who is willing to start a revolution even if it cost him his life. Cause we know those who start a revolution often don't end it. Everyone ia trying to save themselves. Where is Tu-Face oh, or Sowore, or Nnamdi Kanu.

Source biko

Let's give him the award of the best husband.
No be bad thing to cook for your wife oh, but Nigerian culture they tire me, man eat food na taboo to wash him plate wey e use eat , no be small madness be that. Nah to shit remain who go wash yansh for am na him remain for some husbands. Because you dey work no mean say you go useless for house.

Their secret don they comout small small.

Let people come and suggest oh. Me no dey watch film. Nepa no kuku give us light.

We are probably going to see repeated case of death by food poisoning or stabbing of husbands while asleep.. . Most people don't realize abuse and violence is not a one way traffic.

MyChoice1:
I was in your shoe all through last week, considering and reconsidering which phone to buy! I finally made up my mind to buy redmi 8A for 36,500. But on getting to the slot, mehn I had to buy infinix hot 8 3gb/32g.for 39,300.
My reasons:
1. Budget was 30k -40k
2. From my research, redmi 7 has higher processor of snapdragon 665 or so while the hyped redmi 8 that's supposed to be an upgrade was actually downgraded to snapdragon 435 or so. But then the redmi 7 is above budget.
3. I compared through Google between Helio p22 used in infinix and the snapdragon 435 used in redmi 8, the performance was just the same.
4. Infinix hot8 has fingerprint, facial recognition etc, battery 5000mah, 3gb/32gb price is 39300 at slot here in Abuja while the redmi 8A which is within budget (37000) at slot has no fingerprint, it's 2gb/32gb! Other redmi 8 variants are above 44k!
So my dear, I bought infinix hot8 3gb/32gb and the phone is sleek! Battery superb! Please Stay away from the infinix hot8 Lite, it's not 4G supported.
Mind you the Tecno I compared within the same budget range are either deficient in battery (4000mah) or it's 2gb/32gb. Gionee phones in that budget range are not latest Android version, some are still version 7 while infinix hot 8 is version 9 pie.
So I'm satisfied with my choice finally, good to know that it's the same infinix I have been using for 4years now(infinix X551) no issue only the camera broke and the speaker has issue which I can still fix. Try and locate Slot and buy from them at least to be sure you're buying original stuff as I was advised.
#my2cent

Bros planning on buying the Infinix Hot 8 any advice. My Techno phone show me pepper.

Suffering for Nigerian don make some people lose small sense. Wetin remain for some people na animal instinct. You make progress na envy, you no make progress na for people to take advantage . Nobody hold your success or progress, Nigeria no need be like jungle with only one banana and plenty monkey for your eye. Hustle your hustle, love your love, dey your dey. No dey look for gossip and downfall of people. God no dey bless those kind busy body.Peace. One love.

Two women who produce music as in I mean music oh. The rest na entertainment .

Human beings and comparison. Why don't we ask God which one he prefers the most. Same way you'll soon ask between the Holy Spirit and Jesus who do you prefer. Both are important no basis for comparison be grateful for the birth as it marks divinity taking on humanity. First of it's kind. The death is the awakening of son's and daughter's. The two comes together it's a complete package. Leave the comparison alone bikonu. You won't find anything meaningful at the end of it. Merry Christmas to everyone.

Is it only me that is tired of all the rubbish news on Nairaland lately. Please he don do make all of ena get sense. From the rubbish journalist to the OP who push these junks.

I assume he's the first child. It takes a while for some to speak, but in due time, all will be well.