₦airaland Forum

Susily:
You don't need to be married to have kids......Elon Musk is has 5 lovely kids but he's still single for OBVIOUS REASONS

how well do u know Elon musk , or it's what the media tells u ,u conclude bro

Emmynator:
Must he marry?

show me a successful man without a marriage ,if u feel his linage as a man should end with him without transfer of generational wealth he can stay single

Emmynator:
Must he marry?

show me a successful man without a marriage ,if u feel his linage as a man should end with him without transfer of generational wealth he can stay single

Emmynator:
I would like a discussion on gut feelings and looking through a partner's phone.
I am one who believe that trust shouldn't be given until its earned.
Do you think its cool to snoop (especially of you have the gut feeling to do so)? Or do you think its shows insecurity?
If you think not, what other vetting method do you think is reliable, or do you just trust till it's broken?

see looking tru your partner phones is a pure waste of time ,let her be the one saying check this check that ,bro let her pick her calls ,see ,u see cheating na who day catch fuvk up ,till u catch her red handed ,also I like it when guys tell their ladies if there is a bridge of trust in our relationship or cheating ,that's the end , relationship everyone has a part to Play,that's y there are some beautiful chicks on fb who people send dm or compliment,but will never reply back except with thank you ..e get why

SOZINN:
Wow, you've got it twisted. His mind set is what will save him when dealing with women. Not the mere fact that he has had tons of sex in the past. I know men who visit brothels regularly to fûck hoes and they still get manipulated by anything in skirt. He's in the right thread. He should live. "should"

I think you need to read some stories like his
who start to regret after marriage,I will say less in his story....

LadyGazelle:
Hey everyone, I'm going to go straight to my story and I'll try to make it brief.

I've been dating this guy for sometime and early in the relationship he told me he had a new female bestie and I said okay. I told him that in most cases one of the besties ends up 'catching feelings' but he said theirs was different.

He's a student and the said girl is in his department, they're always together and all. He actually said that he's the only one she talks to in their department. Most times he's in her house and can stay there till as late as 10pm.

With time I began to complain, like this bestie knew more about my guy than i did. He told her things that he won't tell me, always hanging out with her and all that. They even end their calls with i love you.

When I asked him what we would do on valentines day, he said he was going to see a movie at the cinemas with his bestie


When I called his attention to it, that i felt his bestie was taking my place, that I felt they were getting too close and all that, he got angry. He said that he was disappointed in me, that if others accused him of dating her that he didn't expect it from me.

He said that the girl was like a sister and all that, and that it's agape love they have for each other. That I'm the only one he truly loves and all that. I had to beg and apologize for doubting him. He then said that he was never going to talk to me about her.

He tried to get me to meet her (before the argument) but I'm not really sure that I want to see her.
My question is was I wrong to tell him that I felt they're getting too close and that one of them might start developing feelings for each other?? Is it okay for a guy in a relationship to be that close to another girl? Cos as soon as i started dating him, I had to watch my relationships with other guys.

date who love you life is too short for this emotional drama

richkal:
It's been very difficult for women to manipulate someone like you with sex. I salute you bro.

very easy to manipulate after marriage

RAGGA40:
I'm telling you. I haven't had sex with a woman for 27 years now.

bro y are you hurting yourself,the virginity of a man is not recognized ,trust me ,and I have a high pity for guys like you , because 90% you end up falling for a very smart lady whose sexual fantasy is way higher than you and far smarter than you .

posty56:
that means you are asexual, welcome to my world , I just want smash and move on who get time for chicks? (note:-asexuals can still have s*x, they aren't just attracted to anyone , although I hate the term).

who spends weeks or months asking a lady out , problem with today's generation is they don't go out ,all you do is TikTok all day in your bedroom

Never I repeat never make women your top priority,
never let a lady decide your joy or happiness,,

if you aren't working as a guy ,bro go pick a hustle and become a better version of yourself.,when I say hustle I mean legit hustle , women are expensive to maintain

your ex are definitely going to come back ,bro don't fall for it , it's a trap ,,,she just need a proper justification why she has to leave you most times it's going to be (you are too insecure),you get angry quickly )))((((

bros how can a woman you claim to love misbehave and she expect you to keep short about it and when u try to talk her Tru ,she calls you insecure ,,,,,,

your ex decides to come back ,some guys will say chop her ,eat her cookies ,but some times the cookies can become your prison wall(pregnancy or STD may take place) ....

if she aren't spending on you when I say spend I am talking of less say 10k if she is working ,
she aren't having sex with you ,
and she aren't having special time for you ....

bro leave her let her be ,there is another person involved....

it's festivity period,and you know she is working but she got no gift for you during this Christmas bro move on , women spend money on what they love ,be it animal or human or their best friend not to talk of their boyfriend or fiancee

she might be dishing your calls not because there is another guy involved ,some times she is a coded lesbian,and she is the female lesbian ,guys understand behavioral pattern,it's very very important if a lady starts to misbehave mostly your gf ,some times there is a tom boy involved

ken6488:
Exactly no matter how bad there country is they defend it

Who will respect you if you don't respect your self

abs that is the game ghana have over Nigeria right now , only physically they insult their president,but online they praise the man

blessedmeme:
I wouldn't have joined MMM. ahhh!! that year. hmmmm, it is well o

u still remember,lol
my money went away , Christmas meat con day bitter for my mouth

ugodson:
I won't have rushed into marriage. Well I guess it has taught me a lot.

tell us more if u don't mind , atleast we will learn

Maxwell4404:
Nigeria make UK rule us again

and it is already happening again,see the way we are all troping into UK via acedemics ,it's called brain drainage, Niger put all their best to develop school but the people after graduation leave immediately after graduation to work for foreigners who never sponsor them via school,and I wouldn't be surprised Nigeria govt Increasing school fees very soon

ken6488:
People like you are the reason other countries look down on us

Why will you call your own country shit hole

a white man calls African continent a shite hole ,and a fellow African starts to call his own African countries a shite hole also ,u can see there is something fundamentally wrong with black man,u hardly see American insult their country,even though there are some ghetto in the US,

dasparrow:
I don't see what the problem is. Nigeria should ban UAE passport holders from coming to Nigeria. As for Nigerians spending money in UAE, it is time to spend your money in Nigeria. Arabs don't like Black people anyway so why do you keep going to their countries for? Some of you have such low self esteem, it is shameful. Let UAE go to hell. I don't care about the Arab world. I don't know what is there that I have not already seen in western Europe and North America.

even the black Arabs are so muted in uae ,they hardly come out , except at Night ,only the white ones are the one's showing their head

shevi4mb:
First of all, i don't hold a Nigerian passport, I am a Dubai resident and i can categorically tell you that UAE is greedy on this. You enter a country every day and expect the country to enter yours once a week... if you're not mumu like your fellows, won't you see anything wrong with such bilateral agreement?? And Hatred is when you try everything possible to block the innocent just because they have not accepted your greedy proposal. I am not supporting the Nigerian government because if any government representative or delegate wants to enter UAE today, he or she will do....it's the likes of your species that will be treated like that.
No where in this world that Nigeria is not known, probably for the wrong reason tho...but they still want to associate with the country because of money....so, you the citizens are irrelevant while the government delegates are important for business.
I come in peace

you have said what every reasonable citizens will say ,kudos brother ,now u see y the govt are finding it difficult to leave the nations on the hands of the youth ,many know nothing about politics .... nigeria are the highest numbers of travellers to the uae ,many don't kkwo that yet ,worst come to worst they ask every Nigeria to leave ,home is home and we will leave ,,,,,,,if we allow ourselves to be humiliated by UAE trust me bro , UAE will do the same to every other african nations ,and these other nations look up to Nigeria ,

baralatie:
Because you bring what exactly?

in Africa Nigeria are the highest number of travellers to UAE,you can do research,even Egyptian don't even flood to UAE or Ghana ,and u know what that means , Europe people don't even spend more than 3 months and some leave the moment they are done with their contract of job for UAE and many I mean many European don't come back.
that's y UAE are looking for every means to hold them in UAE, giving free loan cars, making sat Sunday and Friday weekend and other stuffs ,,the country hot like mad ,

shawante:
You left your money with your mom... Guys should we tell him

no need

Pataricatering:
That's why most of you are useless husbands. The future of your wives is never important to you . Women have to be careful so they they don't allow themselves to be destroyed by u people.

you don't love the female gender than I do ,I have a daughter ,and I love her gender to the core ,and I don't hate females for your information,men don't get hooked up to a lady because she got a bright future or because she is going to be a pilot or doctor nooo,we don't become what they become doesn't really matter to us ,you can ask around ,

obinoral1179:
they don't give citizen, their goods are not cheap unlike China but our people will pack their hard earned money to flex there and they will still treat them as shit....

there is literally nothing we benefits from them , nothing only jobs and even the job comes with racism ,go on YouTube and read comment from other foreigners ,u will be shock I swear and those comments don't lie

baralatie:
Now this is somebody that is in the know of how far

the truth is Nigeria govt is dry because of money laundering and embezzlement,so it's difficult,I will be realistic with you ,but they will not still allow a country they are older than to ridicule them ,I am not a fan of buhari o,but he needs to crash down fraud ,money laundering, money embezzlement ,to give the citizens a slight hope ,

obinoral1179:
What's the benefits of Dubia to our Economy?

zero

Brendaniel:
Oga, stop deceiving yourself, Nigeria will beg last last, in Life you can only matched upon if you set yourself as a footmart, Nigeria as a country has set itself as a footmart...

it seems you really don't know the present govt in Niger,they don't give a Bleep ,,,, Nigeria living in UAE have been without working visa and Nigeria govt are not boarded you think they will be borded by this ,,,,

Nigeria govt need to get their wings together and make Nigeria a better place to stay ,if a desert region can take such a move god knows next ,,, Nigeria official if you can and can see this the citizens are not happy