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u see UAE ,na sense they they use for them ,when they put on that their white gown move-in like who no day do bad ,,,,when u check history you will be shock ,na them start slave trade and that blood is still in them ,,,

Sleekfingers:
Are those churches not business centers? Adeboye is a bloody scammer.....make dotun okupe come do him worse.....yeye dey smell

The Chinese are busy building factories.... nigerians are busy building useless churches and mosques up and down......bunch of brainwashed people......
For example on ikorodu road alone there are more than 20 churches there. Not to talk of festac town , there are over 100 churches there. ...In ebute meta west and east there are approximately 100 churches there...... Ikotun, egbe, Isolo, okota, igando , egbeda , ijegun there are over 500 churches in all those areas mentioned.......not to talk of ikeja , it is uncountable.........

Churches in the entire UK is not up to churches in lagos alone. Not to talk of other states in nigeria......yeye people..... ..wey useless religions don damage their brains......

the problem I have is why drop your own father's religion and choose to follow a white mans religion ,till date I have not gotten an answer ,it didn't end there ,they use the name religion take pack our people as slave go foreign land with hard labour join ,

Fasindo:




I may not like what you say but I will defend to death ur right to say it..... Voltaire.


Falana said the absolute truth.
Church is now a business whether Redeem or any other.
And anyone establishing such such center is just building up a business establishment

u see this Nigeria ,if u say the truth those benefiting will see u as devil ,let church operate without anybody paying any tithe or offery let's see how many will stand the test of time and let's all money be deposited in ophange home ,with strict accountability ..let's see how many will operate ,some now construct plant to start gathering ,,,,,,and in these same community there is no single industry,,let me shock you most pastors in winners are been paid salary same with redeem ,,,I like falana his time is up and he has always been an advocate of truth in Africa ,I am very sure if African tradition set up gathering like this every where the way winners do , Nigeria citizens will be the first to call government to ask them to pay tax ,but na lord Jesus Christ ,they should do as they like ,the war of religion is coming very soon in Nigeria ,by the time train line will be marked on church site ,na there u go know say govt and religion believes can't go together,

killmods:
Hmm na serious problems be all these o.. They know absolutely nothing about keeping good relationships even with themselves as friends.. na God go just see person through. And when u try to teach them how to go they say ur controlling or their fav "insecure" And as for lesbians that one normal here. They suck each other and fvck themselves too. Sometimes they pick a boy for their orgy and pay him in the morning or whenever they're done with him. I have some of them as friends here so I know first hand. This world done cast finish

so my friend just keep options as much as u can ,then u filter ,and I can tell u the guy in this op story will definitely release his marriage card in a space of 4 to 5 months ,to know a serious girl B4 it was within 6 months but within 3 to 4 months u will know

#we keep statistics of relationship

Datboredberry:
She could be a million times better than her bridesmaids...

It's not about looks alone... I don't know why men are so fixated on the beauty of a woman...

The bride could be smart, have an amazing personality...etc. The perfect partner..

Men tend to 'see'... I think it's dumb. That's why no matter how great their woman is, they would still cheat on her with someone who can't compare... Simply for a fine face, boobs and ass...

One reason I find it so hard to date...

see men ,we always know we have a queen at home even though there are bees trying to get our attention outside ,try date oo abeg ...life is lonely sometimes

killmods:
Isn't it pure foolishness for u to disobey me and still demand I stand by U Some of u girls don't even know what it takes to build a relationship talk more a future with someone. Shameful

many ladies bro ,where not been trained how to hold a relationship by their mothers ,why did I specified mother because mother's are met to pass culture and norms to children while the father is away hunting, hustling outside ,but guess what our mothers advocate for them to get all the degree,obey only examination questions ,obey only lectures ,by the time they are out ,they leave a lonely life or I forget to add ,they stay glue to Instagram, Facebook and pic mix's ,,,,,,,most can't hold conversation again ,let me shock you man ,u see lesbians it's coming to stay very soon ,don't be angry if ur girl breaks off with you and dates another fellow lady don't be

thebosstrevor1:
That is a red flag.

Signs of un understanding woman

I will keep advocating for guys to date different ladies and understand these ladies ,,simple instructions she can't follow...in the name of accept me for who I am ,the guy already love the lady personality ,just put on skirt for a day to see my father ,she no hear ,,,, marriage no even day her agender before so no need

thebosstrevor1:
See the many false assumptions you have written down.

So you think, the guy didn't explain why?

Infact your last statement is contradictory to the statement you made.

If light dey bend sometimes, if there is strong gravity? Why can't she just bend for a day to a simple rule?

baba it seems you have not met ladies who use this term ,when u correct them ",it is who I am ,or it seems you don't know me ",,,when u met them or date these types of lady ,u will not think twice leaving them to their predicament

Justkatty:
Next time she should tie buba and gele


Never knew father-in-law are of different types thought maybe just the mother inlaw.


But the guy no try, you would have atleast stand by your intending wife to be.
Beside you owe no one any explanation on how you want your woman to be so far she dresses decently.

you kw ,with the type of women we have these days it's difficult to stand with them ,u already know the reason,but I will say it ,when problems comes around the guy ,the lady is off ,no where to be found again,so men always think twice before standing by a lady in issue like this ,simple instructions she can't follow ,,, instead she is like it's who I am ,

Adesamogun:
The boy knows you wear trouser and likes you. But he told you not to wear it cos he knows his father and have warned you already. To follow an instruction just for a day become wahala and you wan marry. Trouser that you will be wearing freely once you are married and they will accept you for it overtime. You need to cast and bind the spirit following you from your village ooo. Cos that spirit really no like you atall

how eve take chop the forbidden fruit ,its the same method ,,,when u meet ladies that make this statement,it's is who I am ,my brother that is a strong minded lady forget all this I am a strong lady ,they can't change trust me

if a woman judge a man how his future is going to be ..

then a woman will have to be judged by her past life ,that's nature ,it's not something made up ...the future of a woman doesn't really matter much to a man ,only her past Life

sheDD:
everything must be abt the lady
What abt the men, don't they deserve to be happy and being petted too.... Why must everything be abt making the lady not look cheap, not look desperate and making the ladies feel special.

How abt the men folk"

welcome to today's modern Ladies ,that feel everything should be about them ..I don't have any issue against that ,but the problem I have with them is many can't hold a meaningful conversation.. and it's just a matter of time before most male figures will notice it , and even the little attention they get will be completely gone ,we are in the era of gay and lesbian ,it might sound weird but that's the era we are

Samuelkirk:
I swear bro I commented the same thing and I didn't see this your comment. This is how men are manipulated into simping and that's why most relationships and marriages don't work nowadays because men are too weak

it's that men are weak ,laws and society have created a fear of grip on men of been timid,,the type of relationship this lady wants of emotional manipulation,I met one her type and trust they will use their hands to initiate a break up and come back putting the blames on you ,I just kept cool observing her dramas ,some of my guys were like don't talk with her again ,I said noo ,I will definitely met her type some where else let me see how that machine on her brains work and how she reasons ,and guess what this is also one of them ,,when these types what to finally break up they look for a justified reasons ,like you get angry easily ,you don't love me again ,you don't care about me ,I am a shy person but you don't know me very well ......since the ages of social media I have said it and I will say it over and over again,if as a man all you do with social media aren't for business purposes ,,,but you use it for fun like the way these Ladies do (camera , editing pic, playing games ) u will very very dum.

Terrier99:
Ask for wisdom first. The way you keep typing foolish thighs online, money would be avoiding you.

take an easy with am abeg

bjprodint1:
Why do u think"another man"is d reason a lady breaks up with her lover?thats called low self esteem

now you are bending the whole Convo in a different angle ..

and why will you use break up as a test ,I thought ladies are supposed to handle the issue of heart /love delicately but it seems I was wrong ,if u can all of a sudden wake up and send out a break up message without any meaningful reason ,then I believe you ladies really deserved to be played and tossed around like a screwdriver

seborrhic:
Anyone expecting it to make rice cheaper maybe chasing a pipe dream with this government.
6 months after production starts the next thing u wud hear is that Nigerians are buying the rice at cheap prices and smuggling it across the border to sell at higher prices;so the goverment has no choice than to raise the price to discourage smuggling.
Another one will be that due to scarcity of foreign exchange the production company has to source for dollars at the black market to buy machinery and other production needs;so prices have to be raised to avoid laying off of staff and settling of bank debts.

then the fg can source for cheaper labour ,that's what UAE ,and other countries do when their citizens refuse to work

bjprodint1:
If dats what it means to u,dats not what it means to me.as a man thinket,so he his

let me tell u what a man thinkth ,when u break up in a relationship and later try to iron it back ,it gives us the ideology of who ever promised you milk and honey didn't work out so u choose to come back to us again,,and most of us wouldn't take u serious again

bjprodint1:
It depends on d character of d other partner.some of us love calling it a quit 2 test if d other partner really loves us(we seek 4 attention).sometimes we call it a quit when we are angry(we dont really mean it),but when ur partner uses sweet words like(my queen,babymalt,sarauniya,temi,my diamond),it resets our brain and we realise dat we cant really live without our joygiver...So begging is not simping,it makes a woman feel special.

u kw what is called emotional manipulation ? that's exactly what you just described

bjprodint1:
It depends on d character of d other partner.some of us love calling it a quit 2 test if d other partner really loves us(we seek 4 attention).sometimes we call it a quit when we are angry(we dont really mean it),but when ur partner uses sweet words like(my queen,babymalt,sarauniya,temi,my diamond),it resets our brain and we realise dat we cant really live without our joygiver...So begging is not simping,it makes a woman feel special.

u kw what is called emotional manipulation ? that's exactly what you just described

sunbreaker:
because Nigeria govt will loose,they should accept sheet? That is why your citizens is maltreating all over the world because you failed to respond to immediate action. They band Nigeria own flight in their country why should we allow them here to reap our economy. Read the content, Nigeria gave them 21 flight per week and in returned they gave 1 per week in their country. So, who run at lost? I think if somebody like you in the govt.today, you cannot perform more that this present govt.with your comments

now you can see that most Nigeria youth will be worst than this govt we all insult

iyapont:
I don't know y nigerians hype ghana...what's beautiful about this place now

you kw what inferiority complex does to some one ,it kill their own self esteem , believing other people are the best ,ask a Ghana man ,he will tell you how expensive it is to leave in Ghana ,

TheManhattan:
Can you imagine what this one is saying??

that's to show you most Nigeria don't know how politics plays ,,,they don't , someone what's to useless your currency and drain your resources from doctor to lawyer to engineer, leaving you with nothing ,like putin said African enrich other countries and go back to Africa to die ,that's to say African is a typical grave yard

drlaykay:
These are economic sanctions. Economic sanctions can even be worse than physical combats. It's the worse form of war.
These countries use it on countries they can bully. The earlier you can retaliate and make them stop the madness, the better for you.
They won't try it with countries controlling the economy of the world as they will be badly hit.
So anyway you can get back at them, it's welcome.

Perfect example is the xenophobic attacks in South Africa. It won't be much if we have South Africans living here in substantial numbers as they have Nigerians there. The thought of retaliation will automatically have them cautioned.

most people really don't know ,the feel Nigeria will be at a losing end ,but it's better Nigeria does it like this ,it's quite obvious UAE are trying to play with the minds the Nigeria govt ,and most African nations thinks they are exempted but it's just a matter of time before this happens to other african countries too

Samakus:
She knows the kind of man she married. Make any woman try am with me na.

No matter the provocation, will never beat a woman until you go physical first. Omo, na for hospital you go sleep. Every violence will be met with even a greater level of violence. Nonsense!!!

bro let me shock you ,this is the type of relationship most females today like trust me ,they will insult the guy ,slap the guy ,even spit on him ,and the guy will still stay cool ...but me say godforbid,,,,

the future is truly female ,do we have abusive FEMALE Noooooooo
do we have abusive male yessss


this is the type my grandma will call the man mumu for not landing the slap back

Klass99:
Na wao! This was demoralizing to read, but there's a lesson to be learnt by those who claim children are a blessing. With all the children he has, see the kind suffer head he is going through in old age for that matter.

It is not about the quantity but quality of children you have and your relationship with them. But, most importantly we need to plan towards our old age and retirement, rather than rely on children. There's no telling how those children will behave towards you or if they'll even be successful enough to help you, in later years.

But why you come delete the guy number nah?

most Nigeria or African don't make plans towards retirement and there is this bad metality of we African we hate unity ,I am very sure this guy had a good wife oversea and he file for divorce and everything will be taken from him ,3 siblings leave over sea , they can't make a joint project to establish a business , instead they leave a competitive life style among who get money pass ,,,I can write on and on about black man living in oversea.... sometimes we are just disgraceful to our own race.....if that uncle of his had helped a family member back then ,by now the story would have been different , Asians are very smart ,one leaves for overseas and he makes money within one year and sends to his younger brothers to come also ,but African they will always tell u ,I kw get money,here no easy o,,,

LesbianBoy:
When we tell you guys that abroad is not what you all are thinking, una go dey talk rubbish dey call am "cruise".......

"Come back make another person go"

"You cannot discourage us we would still go"

OP, there are many people like your cousin and it's better they came back peacefully instead of committing crime

me I don't even advice any one again ,who wan go make e go ,when time reach to come back e go come back ,the UK way most of them they trip day go recently spending over 7million for school fees alone feeding not included, accomodation not included ,just school fees alone ,,,and the unfortunate thing is many will still not work with the certificate ...it's got to a point of my hustle I don't even care about citizenship from another country I just want to have establishment in my country and sleep in my African

MASTERYANKEE:
Girls are not to be trusted I just finished fucking my neighbor’s girlfriend with big ass and Brest. Funny enough the guy just traveled this morning.i don’t care anybody can Bleep my girlfriend too moreover me no first trust any Girl .

guy man don't go around trying to seduce women by giving them attention and come out to rubbish them ,,,,donnt do that

BigSarah:
Smoking ( a dumb activity)

Alcohol

Unequal input & output

smoking is a no for you ?

Mercychen:
Womanizing
Smoking
Lying
Laziness
Verbal and physical abuse

Searching through my things when I'm not around. My ex did this a lot.

I remember the day I was coming from my elder sister's place (after Christmas) because he kept disturbing me to come back to area ( we stay in the same area) on the 31 so we can go for watchnight service together.

I went straight to his place with my travel bag. It was already night. So I went to shower to get ready for the watchnight service. I checked to see if I had locked the door before taking off my clothes, LO and behold the door was already locked from outside while the inside remained unlocked. I tot about it, shrugged and went ahead to boat it.

After bathing, I had to bang on the door before he opened it from outside. When I came out, he was smiling like a cat so I didn't think it to be anything because he plays a lot.

It was when I got to the sitting room and opened my bad that I discovered he was searching my bag while I was in the bathroom. That was why he locked me inside. Though he didn't touch my money but I later discovered he was searching for a condom. He wanted to know if I stopped by at a man's place before coming. Hmm...

Another one was after we broke up. He begged to come and see me. after much refusal, I told him to come.

when he came, I left my phone and went to get him a drink.
After he left, I discovered he tried turning on my phone but the casing of the phone had a protective plastic strip at the side. so all you need do is press on it and the light will come on but he didn't know so he now pulled on the strip and bent it badly so he could access my "on" button.
That was how he distroyed that phone case for me.

I don't know what he wanted to check in my phone after breaking up with him.

That's another red flag I can't overlook.

see pretty lady men don't just start assuming ,u must have given him that imagination , trust me we imagine alot ,and we draw patterns alot ,
you don't pick calls
you don't return missed calls .
you bounce calls
don't call us insecure , because if we don't care we definitely have another girl Incase you Bleep up ,,,
or ur speech communication changes when u are not with us probably u are in public but u talk different like I am now your friend instead of boyfriend we go just conclude you day location ...

when we males say , ladies destroy their relationship by them selfs ,there is a reason we say so

EnemyofGod22:
I'm Planning To Lay Claims To My Baby Girl My Girlfriend Gave To Another Man.

Here is my true life story
My name is Samuel, from Benue state, Idoma language.

Last year November 2020 I met this girl from Akwa Ibom state, we both live in pH, before I woo her, I asked her if she had a boyfriend, she said no. She told me that her boyfriend broke her heart, they are no longer together. I said okay, I love her and I want her to be my girlfriend which she said yes, she loves me too, from that day on we became friend. On 9th of November, I invited her to my house which she came, we had great time together, we had malaton sex that day, each day by day our relationship growing stronger.

Fast forward to December Christmas day, I called her to come to my house, she told me she's going to her elder sisters house to assist her prepare Christmas food, I said okay, then after Christmas on 27 December she came to my house we again had great time together. She stayed in my house for four days before she went back to her house.

One day I visited her in her house, I met her with a guy, they are almost fighting each other. Immediately she saw me she left the guy and met me. I asked her who the guy is? She told me it was that her first boyfriend, She said the guy nearly beat her because of me. She again said the guy is angry with her because of me. I said okay if she love the guy let them continue their relationship, she said no, it is me she loves and she can't continue the reletionship with him. She told me we should go to my house that night which we went to my house, one thing lead to another, we had great sex till day break.

Fast forward to January

On second week of January this year, she came to my house and told me that she missed her period. I took her to pharmacy and did some tests and the result came out she is pregnant. She asked me what is she going to do with the Pregnancy? I told her to keep the Pregnancy, but she said no she's going to abort it, then I told her if she has ever done abortion before she should not try this baby because it will going to back fire on her, she confessed said yes, she has done one abortion before, but what I told her now really entered her and she will not abort it again.

On the 3rd week of January, she came to my house and said I'm not the one responsible for her pregnancy. I was mad at her, I was thinking she was joking, but she said she is serious about it. Then I asked her who is responsible for the pregnancy? She told me that it was that her first boyfriend that is responsible for it. I asked her how is she sure it was that guy that got her pregnant? When on November, December and January we do have sex almost every day? And again I took her to one private hospital and did some normal test, the result came out she was pregnant from first week of January that day as she saw the result she said she is confused about the whole thing.

On first week of February, I was already prepared to take her to her parents for introduction and possibly pay some bride price, only for her to come to my house and insist that the boy responsible for her pregnant. One thing I discovered is that, the boy is financially stable than me, that's why she chose the boy over me and the boy's mother has hospital according to her, while my own parents are in the village.

Despite the fact she claimed I'm not the one responsible for her pregnant she is still coming to my house we do have sex, and bath together and eat together she keep telling me she loves me. I asked her if she truly love me as she said why did she carry my pregnant give another man? She said the woman always has the final said who give her pregnant.

Fast forward On MAY, that is, the pregnancy was 5months, she came to my house midnight I asked her why did she come to my house? She said she had misunderstanding with the guy and the guy is threatening to beat her, she went straight to my bed and lie down, removed all her clothes naked and said let air touch her, I told her what she is doing is not good if she knows truly the pregnant is not mine, why is she coming to my house and lie down naked? I tried as much as possible to send her away but she refused to go and kept telling me she loves me.

She asked me which baby do I like her to born? I told her, baby boy, she again asked me which name do I like to name the baby? I name him (OCHE) OCHE means King in Idoma language, every day we keep calling each other and when I called her, I always called her mama OCHE which she does called me back baba OCHE.

Some time I do send her some money to take care of herself.

To cut the long story short, she gave birth in September, but unfortunately it was a baby girl she born. The day she born, the next day she called me and informed me about the baby, which she even snapped the baby and sent it to me on Whatsapp.

Before I forget, again on last Sunday of July midnight she came to my house, I asked her why did she come to my house with 7 months Pregnancy? She said her boyfriend make her angry and with annoyance she even told him he is not responsible for the Pregnancy, the guy is mad at her. When I was about to sleep, she started making move for sex, I stopped her several times but she refused keep trying until I fell for it, we latter had sex again.

Matured men and women in the house please advise me on what to do, because I'm planning to lay claim of the baby.

Sorry for so many typo,error in the write up.


mod please push this to front page.

guy you be amebo and you are a mumu man ,,,your wisdom is eating for you in mountain everest in Nepal ,get out

Divoc19:
E.g. When I blow hot, he blows cold. Has a way of calming me down to see things/life differently.

when u as a lady is the hot headed individual in the hux ,the hux is always on fire because of your invisible masculinity which nobody even your kids are not going to be cool with ,and u will be so much controlling because you want everything to go at your will not his will