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EndRape2:
Dating alot of ladies is never the solution because it will mess your mind, and most men dating different girls can never have a good marriage research has proven this most ended up divorce withing 5years

If you like date 1 million women , the experience can never be de same with the one you finally settle with. No two women are the same .














author=larryking540 post=108290291] na here your problem take start ,you stayed without it for 9years most women can't stay without it for 6 months ,,,you na rev father ,even father day hide knack ,baba if u dateed alot you would have understand nature of female I swear ,

says who ,I wouldn't be surprised this coming from a lady ,,,will you as a lady date and marry an unexperienced guy ,let's be real here which most of you term boring or not interesting

SmellySperm:
What else can most girls offer if not s€x

some girls they bring financial stability o,,no reason am oo

Divoc19:
He is a direct opposite of me...this made me more matured.

like?

NovesaTillie:
I don't have anyone to do romantic things for me but when I do, I'll know he's the one the day we go home together as man and wife.
Even if a man cleans your pop or settles your debt, if he's not gonna stay then he's not gonna stay and would stroll away when he finds another person.

see your metality,,,if a man wants to stay he will stay if he wants going to stay he will not ,what part of you will u give to make him stay ,

Agboconsult1:
But will the daughter know her father?

I hope so and I pray she doesn't advocate to the child that men are wicked because the father left her ,,,we breed bad environment indirectly unknownly

Missmossy:
Not true she is human you know
she couldn’t conceive when married hence her going for surrogacy.

u know there are some actions you take in life that involves bending nature ,it's best you keep it to yourself self ,why people are getting pissed is her indirect advocate of destruction of marriage ,been I don't want marriage wahala ,,,you did surrogacy Keep it to yourself

pepperdemzombie:
You and your mama no know your papa abi? How can a sane person go online to tell people she used a random sperm donor to form her daughter without shame? Nothing wrong with surrogacy, a husband/boyfriend/lover is to be the donor. Who asked her before she talked?
Happy moherhood indeed Household wen dey boast of peace, na their bastard never grow. Later the confused one will be kneeling down about and crying in secret like Tonto begging fvck mates to stand as father.
Breeding bastards and naming them after their fathers, rubbish!

that's the question I want to ask next ,what surname is the child going to bear ,,,the ugly truth is not every lady is fit for marriage ,many of our parents never taught our girls what marriage is all about na how ur father do this and that is the discussion be mother and daughter but your father helped me with these years back is never talked about ,I just pity the female gender ,that's all

greypencils:
Baba na SU. His wife is probably the first or second person he has had sex with.

last last na ashawso all of us go marry ,if u didn't marry your woman a virgin ,so it's better men get experienced how these ladies reasons...ladies tend to have more sexual partners than males in their life time ,,so when they get hold of the naive males ,it's us brutality ,they know how to play the emotional games very well very very well... baba just day hustle forgetting emotional experience

Labadi69:
I said how many people abroad have USD3m dollars? Do you think they pluck money from trees abroad? Most people abroad will never have up to a half a million dollars as life savings at retirement. Let’s be using our brains abeg.

Must of those properties in Ikoyi are bought by politicians, criminal money launderers (from home and abroad) and yahoo yahoo boys!

most people don't know how much an average person earn in us or over sea,,when they quickly convert the money to naira they feel like big boys because e don enter millions,,,but literally they are not even found among the top 100 earners overseas

Silva79:
Y'all don't build trees when u build this houses.

most Nigeria builder or plan designer don't know the beautification of trees and flowers in houses or it surrounding ,,, because they feel it's dirty around the house that's y most of their exterior paint get dirty easily,,,even the small small builder's that make plans of 3bedroom bungalow just draw plans with outbeautification,next thing they go spend hell buying giant gate

Nigeria govt need to work on their laws toward fraud ,it's the reason why the increase is high ,put a death sentence ,let's curb the high rate down

ngoziwrites:
Well, sadly... That's not how I see it. It's just society is funny. I mentioned that I paid part of the hotel bills. I also mentioned my plans to surprise him with gifts and I didn't only mention that he is earning. I talked about myself too but unfortunately no one saw that.

The guys here just picked the part that suit them.

okay ,aside the financial stuff u listed ,but truth be told sweet follow actions than words , people suggesting you ask me ,I wouldn't suggest such , because he will definitely tell u want you want to hear ,he aren't ready ,how old is he?

ngoziwrites:
... I mentioned those things he has just to let u all know he is financially ready. So that part is out. I have never asked him for ordinary 1k and I don't intend. I make my own money. I only want someone with sense.

but he doesn't look ready to settle for real with all the things you wrote about him and how he answers you questions ,he isn't ready

ngoziwrites:
... I mentioned those things he has just to let u all know he is financially ready. So that part is out. I have never asked him for ordinary 1k and I don't intend. I make my own money. I only want someone with sense.

but you kept on emphasising on the financial part , sweet that's a red flag for anyone trust me ,,, believe me ...I will come back at you again let me red your story over and over again

50pseamer:
I am actually not that weak because of sex, I stayed without sex for almost nine years before I married her, I had more sexually attractive options before I choose her,I guess she was the most chatty with me then.

na here your problem take start ,you stayed without it for 9years most women can't stay without it for 6 months ,,,you na rev father ,even father day hide knack ,baba if u dateed alot you would have understand nature of female I swear ,

50pseamer:
I would like to share my current situation on this platform , and I will very much appreciate your mature advice on the issue.

I have been having issues with my wife after our first born, we married about 3 years ago, our first born is now about 2 years old, we have been having series of issues In the marriage, my wife argues with me a lot on flimsy issues at times, we do not have constant sex, although I started helping more in the house,I cook and and I do the laundry , and asked her to give me my share of the work, when she complained about work load,I am the only one really working now, and paying 98 percent of the bills.

I told my wife that I will like us to be eating together on the same plate to improve closeness, she refused, she sees arguement as normal discussion, sometimes we have sex once or twice in a month, I have told her I will like us all to attend the same church and pray together, but she still attends her Nigerian church online , where they are always seeing vision , and I do not like her attending that church.she also attends online services of my church with me, but I would like us to be attending one church even if it is not my church.
I asked her recently that we need to be praying together for our marriage even if it is 10 minutes every day, after weeks of no response from her,I approached her yesterday and scolded her about it, she cried and I comforted her, I later asked her at night to come for the prayer,and she said she is not coming.
We live abroad and my mum wants to pay us a visit,
She told me the kitchen is her's and my mum should not enter the kitchen, and I told her that it will be difficult, we can pre cook all our food, But she might need to make tea and I will like her to be able to do that by her self , but my wife refused.
In her church she is attending they already branded. My mother a witch. Even if my mother is a witch, we only need to pray against it, should we humiliate her when she visits us? I cannot make my wife my mother, she does not show me much love and does not show that she cares, neither does she respect me. My mum shows me love that I can feel.

Now we are living like neighbours in the same house.
Do you think she is interested in the marriage or has another plan?

boss man ,,most advice you will get here are from married and unmarried people it's okay atleast filter the important ones ,,,see baba ,the issue of eating in one plate is something u Should he don in the stage of dating ,not after marriage ,.... solution is eat with one plate with your kids leave a memory behind boss man ,if most women desire to course a separation between father and kids and you been over sea ,,,eat with the kids ,,,let your mother still come around so the kids can get familiar with their grandmother ,,,

my father one's told me never share duty with a lady instead assist her ,man you bleeped up saying she should tell u what to do ,,,boss from your write up I can detect you never dated much chasing different ladies ,(womanizer) na there u take mess up ,,,,I tell guys cheat o,, change girls to understand how a lady thinks because these fellows are not humans I call them creatures ... channel all your strength to your hustle bro and your kids go to the gym and keep fit and let's see if some changes will not pop out ,if no changes file for a divorce since she is too timid to quickly do so.

Yadid:
Red flags are all over the place, but it looks like you are so into him you are willing to overlook them. You need to take things slow here

exactly alot of red flags,the mistake the op will do is getting pregnant for him ,that settles it all welcome to baby mamas world without a ring on the middle finger

dear op ,I kw say marriage day shark you ,it's a good thing atleast u desire to be married ,yes life no easy for one person to roll on ,it requires 2person ,,,but truth be told ,that bigger never ready for marriage ,,,,date with a purpose ,say after me ,date with a purpose ,6 months is half a year ,has he made interest to hello your family ,if not hmmmmmmm,,,,,,u just day build marriage for your heart ,,,dear op ,,,we sleep for hotel no be say e go marry you oo,,and pls op can you stop emphasising on what this young man got ,,,it says alot about you ,you want a rich dude but I can smell run away lady from you when calamity falls on that guy.....

SeriouslySense:
I think we have to grow on the inside first, its really necessary that an individual is brought up, to be mentally matured, so relationships can be handled with wisdom.

When one knows herself, she would understand, what kind of man, is good for her, same goes for men.

u see that part y said ,a woman need to kw the type of man that is good for her ,the world has made female believe that it's better to marry a rich man u don't love than a man who u love but earns less money ,,,
why do you think there is a high skyrocket of divorce since the past 5 years ,,,

AMI3:
Why do women act like demons or like heart break affect them only?
If a woman breaks a man heart it is normal but if a man dump a woman the woman will go extra mile. Shame on most women.
They have lost their pride.
No man or woman worth dieing for. We are full of disappointment.

I cannot trust myself left alone trusting some else.

Whatever I spend for a woman does not mean anything to me I can not hand over my precious heart to any f**king idiot in the name of love

exactly ,when woman break man heart ,the community sees it as nothing but if na man break her heart ,she go run day break egg for river ,,,me I no send you ,as far say u don break one guy heart before no need for drama

Dreamhighnow:
Omoo i pity the guy

the lady who ran away after promising a man marriage immediately she graduates but didn't full fill her promise ,the man no day curse the woman but he moves on ,na woman own day different ,are we just hypocrite or we just day byass

Ginomel:
Something has never happened to you that you looked at yourself and felt so helpless even when the situation was not your fault.

Till then, you might not understand how they felt.

my guy or miss ,we are in baby generation ,so social media will give solution

Ginomel:
Something has never happened to you that you looked at yourself and felt so helpless even when the situation was not your fault.

Till then, you might not understand how they felt.

my guy or miss ,we are in baby generation ,so social media we give solution

Solofresh2:
And that is the reason why I said earlier on that these women are not straight forward.They are like snakes.
So as a man you need to use your head very well when dealing with a woman because no matter how beautiful or innocent she might look, She will manipulate you to the core if you are not wise enough

man these ladies are ready to milk out a man last money just to satisfy their temporary pleasure,and the funny thing is most people don't even use their degree go study again ,, even over sea

Sigggy:
My brothers have done it again...

which your brothers?

why do females take to social media to cry,I can't even cry looking at the mirror not to talkof my mobile phone

covid 19 has finished we day 20 already

Solofresh2:
Sending a lady to school so that you can marry her is foolishness bro.
If you want to help someone,help with no strings attached
Like I said earlier I can never send a lady to School so that I can marry her.
I don't help females for free because I know I will be sexually attached to them.
If a lady wants anything from me,she must work for it

bro we lack transperacy in our society let me be frank with u ,it's not the mattero f been smart ,,let me shock you ,even after wedding a ladyshe can still leave you even after birthing kids for you ,we mostly in Africa don't have truth in our lips ,,why let a man spend money on you when you both know u have agreed to get married after you graduate abi the guy no fit go school....
why go on a date with a man when u know he will find you sexually attractive and sex will come next ,,we in Africa lack transperacy even to our various homes

if Nigeria put a friendly persauction to this drugs addicted and manufacturing companies Nigeria govt should know they are sitting on a time bomb ,death sentence should be carried out immediately ... before they turn Nigeria to Pablo Escobar second home ,now it's funny but with time it will not be funny oooo

this is why most men mostly nigeria guys stopped helping ladies and guess what the ladies now do ,many are in street life and few are working legitimately,,, nigeria female's brought this upon themselves ,at my work place when I see the way they work like jakky,,I just feel pity for them but most times I don't at all

Solofresh2:
One thing we should know in life is that, there is a reward for everything we do in this life.

Helping someone (either male or female) to achieve their desire should be something done from the heart without expecting a profit or gain in the future.

It is better you don't help at all than helping and expecting to gain from the person you helped, even without their consent.

I don't for once approve sending a lady to school so you can marry her later.What is the job of her parents if i may ask?
Even if she is an orphan,I still don't support it because women are like snakes.They are not straight forward.She might end up bleeping a guy there without your consent.

I would rather help a male like me than help a female because I know I might sexually be attracted to her.So what is the point of helping her in the first place.

I can't send a lady to school.The highest I can do for you as a lady is feed you and it can't be all the time.
Even if you are my wife,I can't still send you to school because I know women are fragile in nature.She can get there now and start bleeping one good for nothing dude and she will keep it a secret.I can open a business for you as my wife because you are now part of my life but school is a no no for me.

bro or miss ,no man who is eligible for marriage sends a lady to school for free ,there is already a mutual agreement already put in place ,most of these ladies know that already ,why prolong the issue ,then why can't the lady also ask ,the way ladies go to river with egg to swear for a guy because of marriage way no work ,are you aware a guy can also walk to a river and swear for her like that ,,,..date with purpose

Akerele44:
Yes I can.. that is if i av enough money and nothing like her being my future wife.. only doing it for God sake

nothing goes for nothing bro ,there is no free money in free town ,even the death of Jesus Christ was not for free ,,,one day you will ask for the pay ,

FiverrTutor:
Exactly. I totally agree

ladies wouldn't comment on threads like this because they know some how some where one guy day under their armpit ,,so they definitely feel guilty talking on threads like this ...make every guy wise up ,,