₦airaland Forum

Kundagarten:
I envy their courage.

I really envy them in my phone while eating pop corn

thorpido:
Baby mama era.
It's the children who have to deal with an absentee parent I feel for.

I tell u
me way come from polygamous hux, I kw d heat way day, ,,then one person go say na baby mama day rain now,,,born 1 pikin for me, u are free to go, na make I hustle make d pikin get better life not looking for another victim lady to baby mama again

thorpido:
Baby mama era.
It's the children who have to deal with an absentee parent I feel for.

I tell u
me way come from polygamous hux, I kw d heat way day, ,,then one person go say na baby mama day rain now,,,born 1 pikin for me, u are free to go, na make I hustle make d pikin get better life not looking for another victim lady to baby mama again

my was chasing a girl on bike, like ramsy noan and ine edo, and last last I kw even date her, very pathetic,,,,i even regret chasing girls in school, I for just face my book, hisss, ,,na after graduation I take kw say u can't even marry a university girl while both of u are still in same level

my father will always say, if u marry wife way turn problematic mostly when she don born for u, just arrange your bag travel go another state or country, make sure u don't communicate with her, na she go day beg up and down,Na those kin women full house of God, na them pray pass make God change ur mind

tstx:
No Nigerian in a leadership position can be trusted

it's just better let d white man rule us, and the

emerged01:
There are still alot of Nigerians that can be trusted. It is wrong to say no Nigerian can be trusted. If we don't keep trying to trust people how then can we move forward.

bro trust at ur own peril,
an average nigeria is selfish, greedy, self-centered, lacks conscience, what am I saying Bros no b 9ja u day or u day overseas

I really pity those that will end up in police van or black Maria van,
my best advice is relocate to another country, Nigeria is a lost issue for me,
my grandfather had hope in nigeria dat was y he stayed back in 9ja
my father had hope dat was y he stayed back in 9ja,

me I reject dat lost hope, I will make a move out of dis zoo

some guys are very foolish o
how will ur ex get married and u still maintain communication with her or him,

na so some people day use hand destroy their marriage by their self,even my coursemate dat are married I intentionally cut communication with them I wouldn't want to be d master mind of a broken family

Samyj247:
what stops u from contacting him. must he be the one to contact u first...girls sef. Keep waiting till u get old

I tire o
if he know contact u, then contact him, Atleast u can put your mind finally to rest if he no gree,

girls and pride,

OmoAlata1:
Please just bc one woman stripped you of your dignity doesn't mean you should use her to judge all women. Examine where you went wrong with the woman that fcked you over and use your findings to turn your life around so you will not meet such woman ever again. But don't use your incident to judge all women.

na so una day talk, see as u day throwaway grammar,

carter009:
My dear, I have seen were this type of issue happened, they guy trained they babe in they university after she graduated , they babe told his boyfriend that she can't marry him, that she doesn't love him again,, OP don't ever try it, I know what am saying.

thank u bro, I love that
make op open cat fish business for her make she sit down for hux, since na business most ladies wan do, if she has d interest of still getting educated make she take d move then the OP can assist
,,my brother u know how many boys don swear for some girls becus of waste of money for education way day invest for their head
girls are terrible people oo

OmoAlata1:
Do you know how difficult it is to be a mother and a student at the same time? You could at least suggest he marries her first then sends her to school. Try to go back to school while you are a very involved father and tell me if you manage to finish the program.

I wouldn't be surprised this comment is coming from a lady,
that is how our elder brother used to think that after training 90% of most ladies in school they will marry and live happily after, but this same ladies after seeing another man or guy who is more fun or more this and that than our elder brothers in campus they dump my brother's close to graduating period, MISSION ACCOMPLISHED right, ,,,,,,


we refuse to make such mistake, if she truely loves u op make she use Belle go the school, if she decides to leave the marriage after graduation, no problem Atleast she win and u too win, u get pikin she get her education to impress the world dat doesn't give a fucck about her, probably when she is 40years she will definitely have a rethink of how she missed her opportunity for a proper life

djon78:
Now you are understanding the whole drift.
Shared beliefs and values are very critical to a less complicated marriage.
Imagine going to marry someone your beliefs and values are divergent to each other.
That's suicide. And that's where background comes in.

One of the major reasons why today's marriages are laden with crisis is as a result of marrying someone you never meant to be in relationship talk less marriage.

yeah dats really true

Jacinthe:
Yes.

Being kind and lovely is character. But good character doesn't equal compatibility. I want both.

and u shall have it in Jesus name,
relationship is a complicated stuff, having similar believe makes it less problematic sha, to b on a safer side

Jacinthe:
Wasn't interested enough to ask you how you know or dont know, to start with.

So yes, where were we?
.........

If a man who doesnt go to church asks me on a date, I will ask him something back: "If a fish and a bird fell in love, where would they live?". If he can't give me a good answer, I wont start what I cant finish. The thing is, I go to church. I dont want a man who doesnt go to church to promise me that I can continue when we get married, only for him to change and start giving me problems tomorrow. I have seen similar cases of this. Or for him to say tomorrow, that my children cannot go to church. And at the end of the day, I want to be going to church with my spouse. He should go and look for a woman who doesnt go to church too.

If he can provide for me excellently well, but doesnt believe in God due to some circumstances he has faced, I would empathize with him. But say yes to him because of pity or excellent provision, no. I cannot truly connect with a man who doesnt believe in God. I'm sorry.

So, that's that.

so because the man doesn't go to church it's a NO for relationship with him,
na wa o

A man dat is lovely and kind is from d heart irrespective of being a church goer or nt,

petux:
I had to bring this here maybe I could get some helpful advice here as I am really clueless about what to do about her.

My younger sister is too dull. She is not smart and brilliant at all. She doesn't love studying at all. She is doing so poor in school due to her lackadaisical attitude towards studying. I have tried to talk her and advice her into studying, but she will just looking through it as if she doesn't know what she is reading and all.

During the time she was doing WAEC and NECO, you won't even know she was writting exam. My mum bought textbooks for her but she will end up misplacing them since she won't read them. What she enjoy doing most is just to eat,sleep and all these children story books. She is now fat like Bleep.

I always try to make her study or sometime even force her but there is little I can do for her as I can't put all the book in her head and I am not even always around because I'm in school.

I helped her check her waec result yesterday, and what I saw made me sad. She failed 6 subjects and passed only 3 subjects which she even had only C5 and C6.

I don't know what do to about her because I am tired. I don't want her to gain admission into the university with this kind of spirit because it's not going to help her at all. What can I do for her? How can I help her become more serious and become a better girl. She is 17.

Useful Advices will be highly appreciated.
Mods, please do the needful.

Thanks

let her take waec again
don't send her to d university,
instead I will advise u to send her to the poly e.g auchi poly, u fail there u will repeat, they catch u with expo na expel,

Hisxellency:
She is the type that has written jamb for like 7 years. Allow her, let her dance anything 'danceble'
Congrats to her anyway!

u write jamb 7 times shame no go let u dance on graduation day,

Thatdopekelly:
Dem be saying sign out done and dusted, should we Corpers tell 'em the truth?

tell them o

TarOrfeek:
On behalf of all the people currently facing Nigerian hardship squarely.

"She don't know what it is"
"She don't know that it is the start of this thing"

with time they will know university life easy pass after graduation

Digital101:
Sex Sex Sex Sex that is all about Bbnaija

sex sex sex sex sex sex. that's what day have give to us to watch dats y we are always quite when the government are signing foolish contracts with foreigners

I still ask myself what is this show all about, advanced blue film,

Lorenzena:
I saw the banner this morning on my way to market but didn't take my time to read it well.

this pastor is always fond of creating funny poster in Benin city

Alphamarketer:
The comments i see above me sha...people's heart have really been hardened due to naija situation

No sympathy or concern for why he took his life.

Some are even suggesting other options he should have taken

God help us. RIP to the dead,even if he doesnt rest in peace

I also noticed some comments and that shows how many nigerias lack sympathy to humanity, dats y we are quick to celebrate frude and illegal activities

after buying baby pampas
after paying school fees from KG to ss3
after paying school fees from 100level to Final year, and dues and miscellaneous oo

na Nysc person con go end e destiny,
and this boy must even e jubilating dat he is doing the service in a big organization, while some people they vex say na village secondary school they go teach.


my people sometimes we just need to appreciate how far we have gone in life and don't forget to plan ur life outside 9ja while thanking God

and someone here will still be asking what type of business can I do in nigeria,
my people u better run for ur lifr, if na Kenya or Uganda or s.africa u fit go start ur next generation just go o

this country is not safe

frozen70:
Where did you get that from ❓

Is love not respect ❓

Pls women don't joke with any man that loves them, in fact they go estream to keep such men

that is only wen their expiring date is getting close

virgoquin:
90% of the guys insulting her now, if she open that same breast for them to suck the way they will rush it ehn.

For me that boobs still looks firm tho,don't know why they are calling it flat

babe Abeg check again, ,,though they are already cusing an erecting but not looking firm again

drmikeadams:
and the worst is he has no friend,family or adviser to complain to

take ur brother for a walk,
by the way how did she get d hb,,,it seems people don't care to know dat part,

some persons asked the OP to mind her business, and when d brother becomes a liability to her after marriage it is this same people that will throw insult on her for not helping the brother, and some idiot will start quoting bible verses for her to be the brothers keeper,

dear op pls if your brother is not finicialy boyant pls tell him to rest concerning this girl issue to manage a spouse health is not easy o,

there was dis sickle cell girl I met in campus, I just had to end d lve before climb the girl head, becus I never ready drain my pocket for health challenges way I no plan climb
and ur brother should not forget the health sector in 9ja is very very poor, 4get all dis online doctor saying there are treatment o

drmikeadams:
still be talking to him,,once men fall in love,they refuse to think wit thier brain but dicks,,eventually they will regret d decision and will be ashamed to admit they made a mistake

adult will always claim day knw best wen it comes to lve
,
my relative who also is regretting was once warned about d lady he got married to last year becus just looking at d lady u will just kw d lady pass am but what do u expect like u said men sometimes think with their dick,
now /presently d guy can hardly eat or feed d girl after marriage, all comes with regret,